Poll of the Day > Tinder is useless when you're not into white men

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Jen0125
10/15/20 5:33:36 PM
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It's like 85% mediocre white men

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SpeedDemon20
10/15/20 5:37:09 PM
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Hinge has ethnicity filters. Though some people (very few) lie about it.

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Jen0125
10/15/20 5:37:45 PM
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Maybe I'll look there. I'm not trying to meet with anyone I'm just looking at men.

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Greenfox111
10/15/20 5:38:00 PM
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oh whatever dude so sorry my skin color is too mediocre for you

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JigsawTDC
10/15/20 5:39:30 PM
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Tinder sucks as a dude, at least for me. I haven't figured out the right combo of bio and pictures to get a lot of matches. I know I'm not ugly, but I'm also not like a model or anything. Oh well. I'm fine living and dying alone.
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Jen0125
10/15/20 5:41:40 PM
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JigsawTDC posted...
Oh well. I'm fine living and dying alone.

Same

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adjl
10/15/20 5:43:41 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
I'm just looking at men.

https://www.google.ca/imghp

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Jen0125
10/15/20 5:50:37 PM
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SpeedDemon20 posted...
Hinge has ethnicity filters. Though some people (very few) lie about it.

Hinge only let me like 3 people before it prompted me to pay

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blu
10/15/20 5:50:54 PM
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JigsawTDC posted...
Tinder sucks as a dude, at least for me. I haven't figured out the right combo of bio and pictures to get a lot of matches. I know I'm not ugly, but I'm also not like a model or anything. Oh well. I'm fine living and dying alone.


It really depends on your location. Like using the same profile I do good some places and can match with some hot chicks and in some places I barely get any matches and the ones I do match with are snorlaxes.

Really though asking people out in person also works, just dont put pressure on anyone.

Dating is a numbers game once youve cleaned up your life. Youll find someone compatible. If youre really worried go to grad school, great way to meet people.
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SpeedDemon20
10/15/20 6:02:17 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Hinge only let me like 3 people before it prompted me to pay
Oh yeah, there's a 10 like limit per day. It shouldn't be an issue for you though. Just chill while the likes roll in. I think it tells you who likes you (can't confirm; never received a like).

My friend got 200+ likes after her first day of having the app. She got overwhelmed with it and gave up shortly after lol.

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JigsawTDC
10/15/20 6:03:58 PM
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blu posted...
It really depends on your location. Like using the same profile I do good some places and can match with some hot chicks and in some places I barely get any matches and the ones I do match with are snorlaxes.

Really though asking people out in person also works, just dont put pressure on anyone.

Dating is a numbers game once youve cleaned up your life. Youll find someone compatible. If youre really worried go to grad school, great way to meet people.

Oh yeah, I've dated before. I've had a few girlfriends. Almost all of them evolved from friendships or started with me asking them out. I just am not good with Tinder when I'm single (which has been the last couple years). And I just moved to Las Vegas, so I was trying to use it just to meet friends, not even date, but Las Vegas is full of attractive yet shallow people. The one person I matched with that seemed cool (she had a motorcycle!) unmatched me after I asked a few questions.

I plan on going to grad school at some point (for creative writing or screenwriting) but I've got a few other things to do first. I'm sure once I finally depart for the JET program I'll meet people.

Regardless, all of that aside, I've grown very comfortable with the idea of being and dying alone. I tend to function better on my own and relationships strain my emotions. I'm on the autism spectrum, so building and maintaining personal relationships can be a drain sometimes.
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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:04:49 PM
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JigsawTDC posted...
t. I'm sure once I finally depart for the JET program I'll meet people.

Nice, I'm gonna try for the EPIK program on SK after I'm done with grad school. I just signed up for a TEFL program today.

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Mead
10/15/20 6:05:21 PM
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well if I decide I want a white man I know where Im looking

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DrPrimemaster
10/15/20 6:07:49 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Hinge only let me like 3 people before it prompted me to pay

Why do you need to like people if you're just looking?

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:08:20 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
Why do you need to like people if you're just looking?

I like interacting

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JigsawTDC
10/15/20 6:08:43 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Nice, I'm gonna try for the EPIK program on SK after I'm done with grad school. I just signed up for a TEFL program today.

That's cool! I think I told you already, but one of the people I did my TEFL program with is currently doing EPIK. He left a lucrative programming career to pursue it and has been enjoying it a lot. He was lucky enough to depart a few months ago despite all the COVID stuff. For JET I didn't think there was any chance of departing this year and they gave us the option to defer to next year, so I did. A week later Japan announced they were easing travel restrictions and everyone who didn't defer just got their placements. Meanwhile I've got nearly a year to wait now lol
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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:08:47 PM
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I'm gps spoofing tinder to Seoul and there's lots of hot guys.

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:09:30 PM
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JigsawTDC posted...
That's cool! I think I told you already, but one of the people I did my TEFL program with is currently doing EPIK. He left a lucrative programming career to pursue it and has been enjoying it a lot. He was lucky enough to depart a few months ago despite all the COVID stuff. For JET I didn't think there was any chance of departing this year and they gave us the option to defer to next year, so I did. A week later Japan announced they were easing travel restrictions and everyone who didn't defer just got their placements. Meanwhile I've got nearly a year to wait now lol

Was your interview process difficult? I'm nervous for like the actual interview if they've accepted my application.

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DrPrimemaster
10/15/20 6:11:32 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
I like interacting

So leading guys on with no intention of meeting with them? Maybe it's good that your likes are limited.

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SpeedDemon20
10/15/20 6:11:50 PM
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If you want, you can X through everyone on Hinge. When you empty your discovery pool, it lets you redo the pool again. If you really don't want someone, you can remove them by hitting the three dots (...) at the top. Then when you redo the pool, they will not show up.

I also recommend setting your filters really strict. There used to be more filters, but Tinder bought Hinge and moved them to premium lol.

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:13:12 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
So leading guys on with no intention of meeting with them? Maybe it's good that your likes are limited.

Is liking a picture leading someone on?

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JigsawTDC
10/15/20 6:14:37 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Was your interview process difficult? I'm nervous for like the actual interview if they've accepted my application.

My interview was not too difficult. Granted, I have a bit of experience teaching abroad, so they had a lot of questions about that and I knew how to answer them. I'm not sure how similar the EPIK interview will be, but just be confident and answer honestly. Your TEFL program should adequately prepare you for the interview. I knew during my JET interview that I would get offered a position the moment they asked me who my favorite Japanese author was and I said "Yukio Mishima." They got really excited and seemed almost surprised I knew who he was (he's not an obscure author within Japanese literature by any means).
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DrPrimemaster
10/15/20 6:15:44 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Is liking a picture leading someone on?

Most people consider telling someone you're interested in them leading them on.

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:16:26 PM
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Wow they asked you that? I hope they don't ask me anything like that. Maybe I should read a Korean book just in case lol

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:16:47 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
Most people consider telling someone you're interested in them leading them on.

I think the fragile male psyche will be okay.

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SpeedDemon20
10/15/20 6:16:52 PM
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It's really not that big a deal. Most conversations die after a week.


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JigsawTDC
10/15/20 6:21:47 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Wow they asked you that? I hope they don't ask me anything like that. Maybe I should read a Korean book just in case lol

I'm not sure if EPIK is similar, but JET does not have a list of set questions they ask. They read your statement of purpose/entrance essay and the interview is structured around asking you questions regarding it. I mentioned my teaching service and that I like a lot of Japanese media (they don't like to hear about J-pop and anime, so I mainly focused on literature and film). Regardless, being more familiar with the culture and country you want to teach in can never hurt. If you find any good South Korean books, lmk, because I'm pretty limited myself there!
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DrPrimemaster
10/15/20 6:21:52 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
I think the fragile male psyche will be okay.

Straight to insults, cool.

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Blightzkrieg
10/15/20 6:29:03 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
It's like 85% mediocre white men
You sure you not still on PotD m8

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:31:48 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
Straight to insults, cool.

Are you okay?

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EvilMegas
10/15/20 6:42:00 PM
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You live in Arizona right?

That's yer problem

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Greenfox111
10/15/20 6:44:25 PM
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If you realize that we are so fragile, then how can you be so sure that we will be ok :(

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:45:26 PM
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EvilMegas posted...
You live in Arizona right?

That's yer problem

There should be plenty of hot brown men. I'm right by Mexico!

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DrPrimemaster
10/15/20 6:47:27 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Are you okay?

Do you want an answer or is that another insult?

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Mead
10/15/20 6:48:38 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
There should be plenty of hot brown men. I'm right by Mexico!

you could start doing all your grocery shopping at Food City and hope for a meet cute

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Jen0125
10/15/20 6:49:55 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
Do you want an answer or is that another insult?

This topic just seems to have triggered you. No luck on dating apps?

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PK_Spam
10/15/20 6:52:38 PM
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here, its 15% druggies and 30% guys in shitty drag makeup lol

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Jen0125
10/15/20 7:01:35 PM
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This guy just matched with me. Okay

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Mead
10/15/20 7:03:20 PM
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Man

glad they clarify that part lol

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Ogurisama
10/15/20 7:07:05 PM
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Mead
10/15/20 7:07:33 PM
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Ogurisama posted...
What is a man?

a miserable pile of abs

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blu
10/15/20 7:08:56 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Is liking a picture leading someone on?

Absolutely not. Its only leading them on if you ask for a date you dont plan on going on. You should feel no pressure to meet up with someone youre talking to and get along with.
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zebatov
10/15/20 7:10:48 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Maybe I'll look there. I'm not trying to meet with anyone I'm just looking at men.

I use Google to look at women.

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Ogurisama
10/15/20 7:12:11 PM
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Jen0125
10/15/20 7:15:39 PM
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blu posted...
Absolutely not. Its only leading them on if you ask for a date you dont plan on going on. You should feel no pressure to meet up with someone youre talking to and get along with.

My bio isn't even appealing so anyone who matches with me deserves whatever convo they are gonna get

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Ogurisama
10/15/20 7:21:36 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
My bio isn't even appealing so anyone who matches with me deserves whatever convo they are gonna get
Im going to drop mine into Arizona just to match you!
Lol jk

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LinkPizza
10/15/20 7:40:15 PM
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Mead posted...
you could start doing all your grocery shopping at Food City and hope for a meet cute

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Zeus_LLC
10/15/20 7:41:53 PM
#48:


Tinder is useless when you're not into white men

idk, kinda sounds racist!

JigsawTDC posted...
dying alone.

Sounds too lonely for me. I think I'd want to die in a crowd, preferably from something cool happening like a falling comet or some crazy Final Destination event


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FrndNhbrHdCEman
10/15/20 7:53:14 PM
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Jen0125 posted...


This guy just matched with me. Okay
Damn Jen.

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Jen0125
10/15/20 7:59:59 PM
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
Damn Jen.


For some reason muscular dudes like average looking chicks.

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