When I have a dream or vision of something I want to accomplish, my family was the best at shitting on my dreams but if I ended up being successful, they would be all over me saying they supported me from day 1
They talk bad about me if my clothes arent fresh and new and if I dont have all the latest stuff (sneakers, iPhones, car, etc.)
Comparing me all the time to my successful cousins
Utang na loob, which is a Filipino thing where you have to give back some of what you earn to your parents because they raised me and its time for me to pay them back for it