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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:00:34 AM
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A 22 year-old got with me for 2 months to make her boyfriend jealous. It worked and they are back together. Should I be upset about this or consider it a life victory?

I'm much older than 22.

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Irony
12/29/20 9:01:40 AM
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Did you fuck her?

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:01:59 AM
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Irony posted...
Did you fuck her?
Multiple times.

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The_Creep_2020
12/29/20 9:02:03 AM
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Well, if you knew she was in a relationship, Id suggest you should reconsider your values and perhaps consider yourself a fairly mediocre scrap of plasm.

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:04:33 AM
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The_Creep_2020 posted...
Well, if you knew she was in a relationship, Id suggest you should reconsider your values and perhaps consider yourself a fairly mediocre scrap of plasm.
She claimed that he was an ex. Didn't realize she was trying to make him jealous until near the end. My values remain unsullied.

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Irony
12/29/20 9:05:44 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
Multiple times.
Nice

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monkmith
12/29/20 9:06:44 AM
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did she pay you?

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The_Creep_2020
12/29/20 9:09:20 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
She claimed that he was an ex. Didn't realize she was trying to make him jealous until near the end. My values remain unsullied.
Ah, gotcha. Then shes pretty darn crappy. Your values are intact.

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:11:30 AM
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The_Creep_2020 posted...
Ah, gotcha. Then shes pretty darn crappy. Your values are intact.
I should have noted that in the OP, @The_Creep_2020 . I agree that it was crappy of her. I'm both upset and proud. That's why I asked the question.

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The_Creep_2020
12/29/20 9:13:12 AM
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Personally, I would feel a little bit of both. Deceptive bullshit and mind games are just not cricket. At the same time, itd definitely buff your buttons if she thought you would be worthy of jealousy.

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:14:43 AM
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Indeed, that's how I feel. This was a new experience for me.

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kingdrake2
12/29/20 9:17:04 AM
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at least TC got something out of it. if he didn't get sex he got shorted on the deal.
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The_Creep_2020
12/29/20 9:18:13 AM
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kingdrake2 posted...
at least TC got something out of it. if he didn't get sex he got shorted on the deal.
Weird commodification, but ok

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gunplagirl
12/29/20 9:18:25 AM
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Steal her back to dunk on him

Then dump her after running out on the bill

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:20:52 AM
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Conflict posted...
If you're not upset about this you're essentially a doormat
I'm both upset and proud. One could say that I'm @Conflict ed...

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Shablagoo
12/29/20 9:21:40 AM
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Both.

Silver Bearings posted...
I'm both upset and proud.



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CyricZ
12/29/20 9:21:44 AM
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I was used to fill an emotional hole for a woman who was not getting that support from her boyfriend/fiance.

Took me five years to finally decide it wasn't healthy for either of us.

I was upset.

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:21:59 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Steal her back to dunk on him

Then dump her after running out on the bill
Interesting. Always a possibility. Haha.

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Silver Bearings
12/29/20 9:25:11 AM
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CyricZ posted...
I was used to fill an emotional hole for a woman who was not getting that support from her boyfriend/fiance.

Took me five years to finally decide it wasn't healthy for either of us.

I was upset.
The proverbial "emotional tampon". That does suck, but you made the right decision.

Yeah, I was straight up with her that I wasn't interested in being friends. So she knew once she went back that she'd never hear from me again. She'll have to find someone else to complain about him next time they split.

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CyricZ
12/29/20 9:30:20 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
The proverbial "emotional tampon".
It's not like it was entirely one-sided. We did support each other. The difference for me is that I was just lonely.

I just realized that if things kept on as they were, I'd never make progress in my own relationship goals.

Or to put it another way, always be suspicious of someone who says they're your friend but wants you all to themselves.

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DK9292
12/29/20 9:31:33 AM
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You should have sex with her boyfriend. That'll show her.

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The_Creep_2020
12/29/20 9:34:52 AM
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CyricZ posted...


Or to put it another way, always be suspicious of someone who says they're your friend but wants you all to themselves.

This is very true. Also applies equally to people who say they love you, but dont want you to spend any time with your friends.

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Anteaterking
12/29/20 9:47:45 AM
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I guess as to the "proud" part it depends on whether you were chosen because you were more likely to cause jealousy or if any guy would do and you just seemed easy to fool.

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FrankJaegr
12/29/20 9:48:55 AM
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Why not just tell her boyfriend and go out with him instead

That way she'll feel jealous :D
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