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CarmeIo_Anthony
01/16/21 4:58:32 PM
#51:


Tc keep making this topic but won't show us any pics of themselves

This is all an act

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:05:57 PM
#52:


I can give a body pic I guess lol

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CarmeIo_Anthony
01/16/21 5:06:50 PM
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Harpie
01/16/21 5:07:09 PM
#54:


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I will try in person more. I just get so nervous and society tells men not to approach in person or else it's sexual harassment

Plus I have a bad stutter especially when first starting talking. I am trying to see a speech therapist but many women have told me they are unattracted to it

I don't know how to not stutter though :(
Nah thats reddit getting to your head. Seriously. Real life isnt like that. I promise you that you will not be called out for sexual harassment/assault unless you actually commit sexual harassment/assault.

As for the stutter, its only a hindrance if you believe it to be. I know that sounds stupid but its true lmao. Practice talking to women, even if you stutter. If you are insecure about it, she will pick up on it and it becomes a turn off. With practice, you will gain confidence (even with your stutter) and itll turn from a hindrance into a cute quirk. Your own attitude and self confidence has much more of an impact than you think.

Let me give you an example. Maybe I introduce you to Tiny Chad? Ive made a few topics about this guy in the past

Tiny Chad is a man who is literally 54. Which is as much of a physical hindrance/insecurity that I can think of for a man.
HOWEVER
This guy had confidence, and lots of it. He walked around like he was a 62 sex god. He was charming, funny and loved to flirt. While yes, sometimes women would reject him for his height, more often than not he would succeed

His confidence used to be in the gutter. He hated himself and his height, and he told me that hed literally get laughed at by women for his height. Then he started going to the gym, which increased his self confidence enough to start actively flirting. Over time, he evolved from a manlet into a literal chad. He turned his insecurity into a cute quirk. He even had the audacity to GHOST me, then slide into my dms years later wanting to hook up, and I STILL wanted him

Be like Tiny Chad, TC

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RedJackson
01/16/21 5:09:21 PM
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Harpie
01/16/21 5:19:04 PM
#56:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
See I was rejected again because of my age
Im 21 and I have strict age requirements. Older men for me, personally, are a turn off. I want to be around the same age as my partner.

Lets spin See I was rejected again into something less.. pitiful. Dont let me have power over your self image. Move on and try again.
I am one rejection closer to the next woman that will say yes. Everyone has an invisible number of attempts before they succeed

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:24:49 PM
#57:


I was thinking about getting jaw surgery to get a sharper jawline

I think my face is just too feminine for most women

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Harpie
01/16/21 5:26:35 PM
#58:


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I was thinking about getting jaw surgery to get a sharper jawline

I think my face is just too feminine for most women
Youre missing the point of literally everything Im telling you

Dont waste the money on jaw surgery, it wont help

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:28:51 PM
#59:


Harpie posted...
Nah thats reddit getting to your head. Seriously. Real life isnt like that. I promise you that you will not be called out for sexual harassment/assault unless you actually commit sexual harassment/assault.

As for the stutter, its only a hindrance if you believe it to be. I know that sounds stupid but its true lmao. Practice talking to women, even if you stutter. If you are insecure about it, she will pick up on it and it becomes a turn off. With practice, you will gain confidence (even with your stutter) and itll turn from a hindrance into a cute quirk. Your own attitude and self confidence has much more of an impact than you think.

Let me give you an example. Maybe I introduce you to Tiny Chad? Ive made a few topics about this guy in the past

Tiny Chad is a man who is literally 54. Which is as much of a physical hindrance/insecurity that I can think of for a man.
HOWEVER
This guy had confidence, and lots of it. He walked around like he was a 62 sex god. He was charming, funny and loved to flirt. While yes, sometimes women would reject him for his height, more often than not he would succeed

His confidence used to be in the gutter. He hated himself and his height, and he told me that hed literally get laughed at by women for his height. Then he started going to the gym, which increased his self confidence enough to start actively flirting. Over time, he evolved from a manlet into a literal chad. He turned his insecurity into a cute quirk. He even had the audacity to GHOST me, then slide into my dms years later wanting to hook up, and I STILL wanted him

Be like Tiny Chad, TC
I tried that it didn't work, tried it for years

I made friends with many girls and talked to them in person as friends, sometimes for months, with same hobby

They all pick up on the stutter and don't like it and think I'm arrogant when I pretend to be a chad

I've had girls mock stutters of other people while they are talking to me

It's a big deal to women and acting like a Greek God just turns women off

No matter what I do turns women off

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:30:22 PM
#61:


Harpie posted...
Im 21 and I have strict age requirements. Older men for me, personally, are a turn off. I want to be around the same age as my partner.

Lets spin See I was rejected again into something less.. pitiful. Dont let me have power over your self image. Move on and try again.
I am one rejection closer to the next woman that will say yes. Everyone has an invisible number of attempts before they succeed
Easy to say but step in my shoes and get rejected by every girl you've ever asked out and then ask whether it's not easy

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:31:12 PM
#62:


CalypsoDoom posted...
Not being a victim is a good first step to improving your personality, TC.
I tried that for years, doesn't work either. At least when I play the victim I don't get chainsaw execution rejections

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:33:22 PM
#63:


I find the victim comment weird. Like I try my best in life. I have lots of money, good job on the way, work out a lot, do a lot of good volunteer work

It's strange it would even be phrased as victim. I'm the one who was rejected by every women I can't even get sympathy lmao

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:35:17 PM
#64:


Everyone in this topic has given me advice I've already tried and still get rejected

I think it's just my face isn't attractive to women, why is why I get so few matches

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Harpie
01/16/21 5:35:27 PM
#65:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
I tried that it didn't work, tried it for years

I made friends with many girls and talked to them in person as friends, sometimes for months, with same hobby

They all pick up on the stutter and don't like it and think I'm arrogant when I pretend to be a chad

I've had girls mock stutters of other people while they are talking to me

It's a big deal to women and acting like a Greek God just turns women off

No matter what I do turns women off
Well, pretending to be someone youre not is a turn off yes. Thats why you need to practice at flirting. The biggest issue here is your confidence not your stutter. You cant grow confidence overnight, its something you need to actively work at.

Tiny Chad turned into a chad because thats who he was. He wasnt putting up a front. He grew into himself, which took years. There isnt a fast an easy way to gain confidence. As for them mocking stutters, honestly, youll have to learn to roll with it. If Tiny Chad can still sit up straight and charm the next woman after being directly insulted about his height, so can you.

Be kind to yourself.

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:39:16 PM
#66:


It also sucks because if I were a girl I would have gotten so many yeses and gone on such nice dates and lived such a nice life

But because I'm a guy and ugly I get rejected by everyone no matter what I do, no matter the advice

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Harpie
01/16/21 5:40:25 PM
#67:


Well I cant help you if youre convinced theres nothing you can do to help yourself.

Good luck TC

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JBaLLEN66
01/16/21 5:41:46 PM
#68:


Op online is always going to be bull ****, you just have to have tough skin and not get invested in any women regardless of what she says or does for you. I don't care if this girl gave you a million dollars and the best sex you ever had, this girl could still ghost your ass the next day. So what if you don't sweep some picky girl off her feet like Prince Charles, next her ass.

I'm against approaching random women in person(you don't know if these women are married, you don't know if their jacked bfs are temporarily at the other end of the isle...just just no lol. online is the only thing you have until the right moment happens tbh.

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thronedfire2
01/16/21 5:42:46 PM
#69:


is this a new tadamoto

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yutterh
01/16/21 5:43:18 PM
#70:


Aren't you the person that called out that one chick on tinder and sent her a fucked up message?

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RedJackson
01/16/21 5:44:11 PM
#71:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
It also sucks because if I were a girl I would have gotten so many yeses and gone on such nice dates and lived such a nice life

But because I'm a guy and ugly I get rejected by everyone no matter what I do, no matter the advice

Theres 100+ years of companies trying to market a product so people can buy it

Maybe yer just offering to the wrong crowd cause if I met a girl with a stutter I think thatd be the cutest fucking thing in the world

Dont let people devalue the qualities you possess man, every diamond needs polishing before it shines bright - it doesnt come out of the earth looking brilliant


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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:44:30 PM
#72:


I just wish I were taller

Women seem to Automatically gravitate toward tall men and treat them better and give them chances

I just want to have nice picnics and watch sunsets and get rejected like a dog

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Harpie
01/16/21 5:45:11 PM
#73:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
I just wish I were taller

Women seem to Automatically gravitate toward tall men and treat them better and give them chances

I just want to have nice picnics and watch sunsets and get rejected like a dog
I literally JUST told you about tiny chad

smh

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JBaLLEN66
01/16/21 5:46:35 PM
#74:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
I just wish I were taller

Women seem to Automatically gravitate toward tall men and treat them better and give them chances

I just want to have nice picnics and watch sunsets and get rejected like a dog

being taller won't help lol

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Harpie
01/16/21 5:47:36 PM
#75:


JBaLLEN66 posted...
being taller won't help lol
At this point I think hes trolling

first it was that he was too old, then it was his stutter, then it was his jaw, and now its his height

lmao

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Unknown760
01/16/21 5:48:16 PM
#76:


Maybe stop going after the hot/model looking girls.

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:51:05 PM
#77:


It just sucks so bad I would have been the best boyfriend but never even get a chance

I am extremely romantic and love sunsets poetry picnics and helping people

Then I see the women who rejected me and they aren't happy, they are divorced single struggling and it's like

Why does this happen? What sort of pissing contest do women think I haven't won? Like wtf

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:53:03 PM
#78:


The victim thing is not attractive though I agree. Just hard to not feel like a victim when an entire demographic has singled you out for your whole life. Maybe if a girl just gave the chance of being a good boyfriend, I wouldn't feel like a victim

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JBaLLEN66
01/16/21 5:53:17 PM
#79:


Harpie posted...
At this point I think hes trolling

first it was that he was too old, then it was his stutter, then it was his jaw, and now its his height

lmao

smh

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:57:18 PM
#80:


Having insecurities is trolling now

Like, height, jaw, charm, these are the things girls go for

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 5:59:04 PM
#82:


It's not that I don't have those things but that I don't have any of them so when I do your advice to be the little Chad it never works

I still don't know how to fix any of this

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RedJackson
01/16/21 5:59:09 PM
#83:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
Having insecurities is trolling now

Like, height, jaw, charm, these are the things girls go for

Do you wanna date me sometime? :3

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:02:19 PM
#84:


@Harpie

With jaw height etc etc it's not that I'm self conscious about it but that women only reject me and if I changed some of those variables things would be different because society tells women to only say yes to certain men

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:04:54 PM
#85:


Guess I'll just continue to get rejected all the time but have some little Chad confidence

Feels more pathetic tbh

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Simp
01/16/21 6:06:17 PM
#86:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
I can give a body pic I guess lol
do it

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Harpie
01/16/21 6:12:21 PM
#87:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
@Harpie

With jaw height etc etc it's not that I'm self conscious about it but that women only reject me and if I changed some of those variables things would be different because society tells women to only say yes to certain men
Not true. At least not to the extent that you think it is.

Why are you caught up in these variables? Its useless. Its useless because those variables wont change. Be realistic, you wont get jawline surgery, you wont magically grow taller, and your stutter isnt going anywhere anytime soon. It sucks but it is what it is, and you HAVE to learn to deal with the cards that youre dealt in life.

What you CAN change is your level of self confidence. You hate yourself and its clear as day. Please, work on yourself. Become the best version of yourself that you can be. You can change your level of confidence through practice and time and honestly therapy would help too.

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Ryangrad
01/16/21 6:18:54 PM
#88:


All the stupid, poor, short, fat, ugly guys with small dicks that are with someone right now certainly shows how fucking wrong you are about needing to be tall, square-jawed, etc kind of guy.

If you aren't trolling, the mindset you need to fix is yours. You need to stop projecting and start the project-ing of training your brain. The moment you blame others for your failures you've shot yourself in the foot. The problem isn't physical, it's mental. Almost always is. In your case it definitely is.


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Master Kazuya
01/16/21 6:19:28 PM
#89:


  1. Sometimes if you ask out too early, the problem is you should've asked her out later. Talk to her a little more, let the conversation unfold a little, connect with her, find an actual reason you wanna go out with her (other than the obvious) and there might be a more 'natural' time to ask her out.
  2. Sometimes if you ask out too late, the problem is you should've asked her out earlier. Instead of trying to find the 'perfect' moment, just throw it in and see what happens. Remember that girls like feeling wanted, so you may need to start showing her you want her a little more. You have to lead the interaction so don't spend precious rapport time just dilly dallying when it'd be much better to do on an actual date.


Try using those 2 pieces and play around with it and see what happens. I wish I had groundbreaking advice but this is something that kinda helps me.

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:22:48 PM
#90:


I'm reading other websites and some guys just seem to get rejected by everyone no matter what they do

Its just not fair. I just want someone to provide for and support and help make happy

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assassingriskel
01/16/21 6:23:50 PM
#92:


One antecedol story from someone who has no clue what they are talking about does not disprove years of statistics
Harpie posted...
Well, pretending to be someone youre not is a turn off yes. Thats why you need to practice at flirting. The biggest issue here is your confidence not your stutter. You cant grow confidence overnight, its something you need to actively work at.

Tiny Chad turned into a chad because thats who he was. He wasnt putting up a front. He grew into himself, which took years. There isnt a fast an easy way to gain confidence. As for them mocking stutters, honestly, youll have to learn to roll with it. If Tiny Chad can still sit up straight and charm the next woman after being directly insulted about his height, so can you.

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:24:37 PM
#93:


The worst part though is sometimes I stay friends with the girl who rejected me and she ends up dating the worst men and either being a single mom or just living a terrible life working all the time and not having fun

Could have lived a luxury lifestyle with me but I still get rejected

Even money doesn't help lol

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:25:58 PM
#94:


But is it better to have lots of money and just keep to yourself if you can?

It just sucks to fap all the time but never have sex or find anyone in your entire life who wants to have sex with you or even coffee with yoy

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RedJackson
01/16/21 6:27:03 PM
#95:


Damn ( T_T)

TC straight up rejected my advances, the reject-ee became the reject-er :(

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JBaLLEN66
01/16/21 6:27:22 PM
#96:


it's over for you OP

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Scarecrow17
01/16/21 6:34:06 PM
#97:


OP, post pics.

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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:38:30 PM
#98:


Is there a TV or movie character that has been rejected by women his whole life who spent so much time trying to just get anything?

Like a 40 year old virgin baywatch edition?

Really though I think this gets at societys double standards with men and how women have such high standards they just date bad boys until they wanna settle down

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apocalyptic_4
01/16/21 6:39:49 PM
#99:


Mitch_Haniger posted...
I will try in person more. I just get so nervous and society tells men not to approach in person or else it's sexual harassment

Plus I have a bad stutter especially when first starting talking. I am trying to see a speech therapist but many women have told me they are unattracted to it

I don't know how to not stutter though :(

I dont say this as to encourage or try it but how do you do after a few drinks?


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Harpie
01/16/21 6:40:45 PM
#100:


this incel attitude sucks tc, its 10x more gross and unattractive than any of your physical shortcomings

Im out, Ive given you all the info you need. Its up to you to take it or leave it. Good luck


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Mitch_Haniger
01/16/21 6:43:01 PM
#101:


I'll just keep trying with everyones advice and hope for the best

I think I'm better off just getting a sex change and dating men. I could get 1k likes on Instagram for showing my shoulders and have 100s of matches in minutes on tinder

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