Poll of the Day > Is this normal behavior?

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https://imgur.com/gallery/rqyn6Mx
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Yeah that seems normal for a little girl.

Please dont take pics of your kid sleeping and post them on the internet.

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Define normal.

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Mead posted...

Yeah that seems normal for a little girl.

Please dont take pics of your kid sleeping and post them on the internet.

Lol, only you would make something out of an innocent pic like this. Why are you such a creeper, man?
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What do you feel is abnormal about it

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Jen0125 posted...

What do you feel is abnormal about it

Well, we haven't been able to take her or the baby out for walks at the park or anything like that since the pandemic. Only time she gets out of the house is when we go grocery shopping, but even then, one of us stays in the car with them while the other does the shopping.

So I guess we're kind of worried she's exhibiting symptoms of being that weird kid that only makes friends with her dolls and stuff.
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I have four younger sisters. Literally all of them did this at some point. I'm sure I did it at some point too with some action figures or some shit.

lihlih posted...

Well, we haven't been able to take her or the baby out for walks at the park or anything like that since the pandemic. Only time she gets out of the house is when we go grocery shopping, but even then, one of us stays in the car with them while the other does the shopping.

So I guess we're kind of worried she's exhibiting symptoms of being that weird kid that only makes friends with her dolls and stuff.

Because she is sleeping with her dolls?
That's quite a leap imo

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Yep. Seems pretty normal...
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It's wild to me that people need to jump through hoops to adopt and take parenting courses, etc but any fertile person can have kids and they don't even know it's normal for young girls to sleep with dolls in their beds.

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Jen0125 posted...

It's wild to me that people need to jump through hoops to adopt and take parenting courses, etc but any fertile person can have kids and they don't even know it's normal for young girls to sleep with dolls in their beds.

This is a totally different situation though. She's been socially isolated from everyone except her immediate family, and on very rare occasions, limited other members of the family(none of them being kids).
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It's not different. She's practically a toddler. She's sleeping with dolls. I don't see how anyone could think that is strange behavior.

Maybe you and your girlfriend should take parenting classes.

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Jen0125 posted...

It's not different. She's practically a toddler. She's sleeping with dolls. I don't see how anyone could think that is strange behavior.

Maybe you and your girlfriend should take parenting classes.

Actually, I've spoken to a bunch of parents, and all of them have told me that they've never seen a toddler cover their dolls up with the blanket, just sleeping with them on the bed. So maybe you should be taking the parenting class if you want to talk shit to someone about something you don't know shit about.
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lihlih posted...

Actually, I've spoken to a bunch of parents, and all of them have told me that they've never seen a toddler cover their dolls up with the blanket, just sleeping with them on the bed. So maybe you should be taking the parenting class if you want to talk shit to someone about something you don't know shit about.

This didn't happen. Maybe your whole crew needs parenting classes.

And I did take a parenting and childhood education course. Anything else?

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lihlih posted...

Lol, only you would make something out of an innocent pic like this. Why are you such a creeper, man?

Well, I feel that way too. I think it's weird that people post pics of their kids on the internet, seems irresponsible to me.

as for the actual behaviour, that seems completely normal to me. you talking weird shit on a message board when you're a parent seems like the stupid move. cheers.

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lihlih posted...

This is a totally different situation though. She's been socially isolated from everyone except her immediate family, and on very rare occasions, limited other members of the family(none of them being kids).

Sure, the social isolation is cause for concern and perhaps that will manifest itself in other ways, but sleeping with dolls is not weird behavior lmao. You don't need to be a parent to know that.

lihlih posted...

Lol, only you would make something out of an innocent pic like this. Why are you such a creeper, man?

I didnt make something out of it. I asked you to please not do it, after genuinely responding to your question. And if only I would see it as unsettling then how come someone said the same thing on your Imgur post with multiple people agreeing?

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Obviously this is normal, yes. I agree with Jen that you should take parenting classes.

Jen0125 posted...

This didn't happen. Maybe your whole crew needs parenting classes.

And I did take a parenting and childhood education course. Anything else?

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Mead posted...

I didnt make something out of it. I asked you to please not do it, after genuinely responding to your question. And if only I would see it as unsettling then how come someone said the same thing on your Imgur post with multiple people agreeing?

Because Imgur is filled with kids who only like animals. They're not creepers like you, though.
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lihlih posted...

Actually, I've spoken to a bunch of parents, and all of them have told me that they've never seen a toddler cover their dolls up with the blanket, just sleeping with them on the bed. So maybe you should be taking the parenting class if you want to talk s*** to someone about something you don't know s*** about.

I think you're overreacting. Hell, my girlfriend and I both do the same thing sometimes to our plushies. lol. I don't see the connection between this and social behaviors.

You'll probably want to close this topic when you get the chance, TC.

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Ah yes the creepy behavior of politely asking someone not to upload pictures of their young child asleep.

licks lips like Hannibal Lecter

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Sarcasthma posted...

You'll probably want to close this topic when you get the chance, TC.

What, because of some creepyass creeper and some girl who talks shit about something she obviously has no idea about?
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Literally everything TC has ever posted about his child makes me think that he is about as good at being a dad as he was at being a husband. Hope Im wrong.

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lihlih posted...

Actually, I've spoken to a bunch of parents, and all of them have told me that they've never seen a toddler cover their dolls up with the blanket, just sleeping with them on the bed. So maybe you should be taking the parenting class if you want to talk shit to someone about something you don't know shit about.

Really. That seems odd and hard to believe. I've seen many girls who do that. Most, in fact...
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No, because you're just going to keep getting shit on otherwise.

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lihlih posted...

What, because of some creepyass creeper and some girl who talks shit about something she obviously has no idea about?

Whereas I think Jen could have been a little bit nicer about it (lol), everyone in this topic is agreeing with the fact that we don't think it's abnormal behavior.

Why even make a topic like this if youre gonna flip out so easily when you dont get the responses you were looking for

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lihlih posted...

https://media2.giphy.com/media/1AIeYgwnqeBUxh6juu/giphy.gif

Because Imgur is filled with kids who only like animals. They're not creepers like you, though.

Well unlike most people, I take child rearing really seriously and took a course to learn more about it prior to deciding not to have children. It's a bit late for you to not have kids, but you can still learn how to be an effective parent. Good luck to your children.

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GunslingerGunsl posted...

Whereas I think Jen could have been a little bit nicer about it (lol), everyone in this topic is agreeing with the fact that we don't think it's abnormal behavior.

I could have but I don't like TC as a person and feel no need to be cordial to him.


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GunslingerGunsl posted...

Whereas I think Jen could have been a little bit nicer about it (lol), everyone in this topic is agreeing with the fact that we don't think it's abnormal behavior.

Looking at each posts she literally just suggested a parenting course, which is a normal thing to suggest and for parents to attend, and TC blew his top

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lihlih posted...

What, because of some creepyass creeper and some girl who talks shit about something she obviously has no idea about?

It seems like you don't know, either. Since you're asking about it. And like GunslingerGunsl said, everyone seems to be in agreement that it's a pretty normal thing to do...
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lihlih is really shitting the bed here

bruh stop calling Mead a creeper when it looks like 90% of people agree with him. take a tip daddy-o

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Mead posted...

Looking at each posts she literally just suggested a parenting course, which is a normal thing to suggest and for parents to attend, and TC blew his top

Idk why parents ask questions about parenting. When they don't get the answer they want to hear they flip their shit and default to what a great parent they are. Ok.

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Jen0125 posted...

I could have but I don't like TC as a person and feel no need to be cordial to him.

I figured that might be it. I don't know much about the inter-poster history here.

GunslingerGunsl posted...

I figured that might be it. I don't know much about the inter-poster history here.

Just so you get a good idea about what kind of person TC is: his post history includes bragging about cheating on his prior SO with his current SO repeatedly and now they rapidly had two children together that they apparently don't know how to raise.

I don't vibe with people who are unashamed to cheat on an SO.

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Maybe your daughter feels she has a stronger emotional relationship to her dollies than to her Dad :))))))

lmfao!!!

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Jen0125 posted...

I don't vibe with people who are unashamed to cheat on an SO.

Not only unashamed, but bragging... That's really bad...
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Except look who's agreeing with her here. TDC who constantly lies about a wife, fiancee, etc... and some dude that thinks it's ok for her to do that because his girlfriend and he does it as adults.

Not very reliable people to listen to. Not to mention, Jan really shows that she doesn't know what she's talking about in anything she talks about(other than politics).

Mead posted...

Literally everything TC has ever posted about his child makes me think that he is about as good at being a dad as he was at being a husband. Hope Im wrong.

Lol, why do you keep bringing up that contract marriage I had? OMG, he was shitty to his fake wife, what a horrible person!
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At least TC's sig game is on-point. :p

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ooo smear campaign time!

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I've learned more about parenting from professionals than you have.

The fact you find it "weird" for a toddler girl to tuck in her dolls is beyond bizarre and ignorant. Little girls always have dolls and pretend to be mommy. Mommy tucks in her babies. It's not weird and it's also not fucking rocket science.

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lihlih posted...

Except look who's agreeing with her here. TDC who constantly lies about a wife, fiancee, etc... and some dude that thinks it's ok for her to do that because his girlfriend and he does it as adults.

Well, technically, everyone on this board who has posted in this topic agree. If you thought everyone here was an unreliable source, then why ask here at all? Looks like you were hoping everyone would agree with you that it's not normal. And you're now mad that no one agreed. And if you know better than them, why would you need to ask at all?
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I'm glad I don't post about my personal life here. All you can smear me in is peanut butter.

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Jen0125 posted...

Idk why parents ask questions about parenting. When they don't get the answer they want to hear they flip their shit and default to what a great parent they are. Ok.

They don't actually want parenting tips. They just want to hear their own thoughts repeated back to them for a sense of validation. I know. My parents were like this.

ReturnOfFa posted...

I'm glad I don't post about my personal life here. All you can smear me in is peanut butter.

Smooth or crunchy?
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He always defends the fact that he cheated by saying that his wife at the time knew they were getting married not for love but for some other benefit so he thinks she had no right to be upset.

I and others have asked him several times though if his wife knew he was going to be sleeping with other people though and if she was okay with that, and he has always avoided responding to that question.

Along with that he comes across as having very little if any respect for women in general.

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Jen0125 posted...

I've learned more about parenting from professionals than you have.

The fact you find it "weird" for a toddler girl to tuck in her dolls is beyond bizarre and ignorant. Little girls always have dolls and pretend to be mommy. Mommy tucks in her babies. It's not weird and it's also not fucking rocket science.

he thought it was a good idea to post a picture of his daughter on a fairly anonymous forum filled with strangers, while potentially also questioning her as 'weird'. also, questioning random strangers, instead of someone that could actually give 'professional' advice. fucking irresponsible and infantile, and then to try to deflect onto concerned people....take some responsibility chump

we're dealing with a rocket doctor

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lihlih posted...

Lol, why do you keep bringing up that contract marriage I had?

probably because youve talked about it on this board many times

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JigsawTDC posted...

They don't actually want parenting tips. They just want to hear their own thoughts repeated back to them for a sense of validation. I know. My parents were like this.

I referenced something like this earlier. Parents all think they know best and get so insecure when people disagree with them. You don't need to BE a parent to know basics of child rearing and parenting. That is all things you can learn in theory. If someone thinks it's weird for a toddler to sleep with her dolls, they are a woefully uneducated parent and really should take a parenting class so their kids don't end up fucked up.

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