Poll of the Day > I did not expect getting some self worth would make an impact this quick

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Muscles
03/28/21 5:23:10 PM
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Decided to say fuck it and focus on myself and it feels like everyone likes me more, I expected it to be more gradual instead in instantly

Everyone is way more warm to me instead of just being monotone. A coworker even said she loved me being cocky today, its weird but welcome and reinforces my confidence even more

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HornedLion
03/28/21 6:12:03 PM
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This topic genuinely makes me happy.

Keep focusing on yourself, TC. Strong posture, strong eye contact, big delts, take your multivitamins, fish oil, flirt with every girl you find attractive, and dont ever move your boundaries to make room for someone elses disrespect.


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FatalAccident
03/28/21 6:12:59 PM
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Good work

keep going

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Sarcasthma
03/28/21 6:17:42 PM
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Glad to hear it!

Keep aiming upwards!

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UnknownNobody
03/28/21 7:26:38 PM
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Loving yourself is the greatest thing you can do for others.
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Clench281
03/28/21 7:42:59 PM
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UnknownNobody posted...
Loving yourself is the greatest thing you can do for others.

If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen?

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UnknownNobody
03/28/21 7:57:02 PM
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Clench281 posted...
If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen?
AMEN!
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Muscles
03/28/21 11:21:48 PM
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Thanks for the support guys

Clench281 posted...
If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen?
I thought it was "If you can't love yourself how is anybody else going to?" But either work

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ClarkDuke
03/28/21 11:26:50 PM
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im glad to hear my advice is working out so well for you muscles, keep putting in the work, ok?

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Muscles
03/28/21 11:29:40 PM
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ClarkDuke posted...
im glad to hear my advice is working out so well for you muscles, keep putting in the work, ok?
It has been easy because of the instant results but yeah I'll keep putting in the work

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ClarkDuke
03/28/21 11:32:20 PM
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Muscles posted...
It has been easy because of the instant results but yeah I'll keep putting in the work
putting in that one year of not looking will help you discover, you are the only person who will complete you, ok?

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Jen0125
03/28/21 11:37:00 PM
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It's nice you're feeling good but just keep in mind the euphoric feeling could be a phase because you're having new thoughts. Keep up with it and stay consistent!

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FrndNhbrHdCEman
03/28/21 11:58:28 PM
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I can be hard on ya OP but good hearin ya doing self improvement.

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Muscles
03/29/21 12:54:38 AM
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ClarkDuke posted...
putting in that one year of not looking will help you discover, you are the only person who will complete you, ok?
Ohh yeah, definitely, I am just focusing in myself, any flirting is just for fun at this point because I never really experienced it but I don't want a relationship, I just wanna write and keep writing

Jen0125 posted...
It's nice you're feeling good but just keep in mind the euphoric feeling could be a phase because you're having new thoughts. Keep up with it and stay consistent!
I'm definitely going to do that, I know it will probably be hard at points but I'm so happy just focusing on myself and feeling good that I want to keep doing it

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
I can be hard on ya OP but good hearin ya doing self improvement.
Thanks man

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mooreandrew58
03/29/21 4:16:44 AM
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Muscles posted...
Decided to say fuck it and focus on myself and it feels like everyone likes me more, I expected it to be more gradual instead in instantly

Everyone is way more warm to me instead of just being monotone. A coworker even said she loved me being cocky today, its weird but welcome and reinforces my confidence even more

Depends on how much you seemingly changed I guess. Most people have to work up towards being more open and confident and therefore it would be a more gradual change. It's how it was for me.

The saying fake it till you make it is true. Cause once you do it enough it becomes more natural.

I went from shy and timid to a man working in a prison having no issue telling convicted killers how the cookie fucking crumbles. And in between chatting up a storm with co workers that outside work id likely never get along with.

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Muscles
03/29/21 3:03:38 PM
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mooreandrew58 posted...
Depends on how much you seemingly changed I guess. Most people have to work up towards being more open and confident and therefore it would be a more gradual change. It's how it was for me.

The saying fake it till you make it is true. Cause once you do it enough it becomes more natural.

I went from shy and timid to a man working in a prison having no issue telling convicted killers how the cookie fucking crumbles. And in between chatting up a storm with co workers that outside work id likely never get along with.
I faked confidence for a while so maybe that helped some but people treated me the same with fake confidence as no confidence but immediately turned around after I started focusing on myself

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