Current Events > My mom to me: have I done something wrong? You're snapping at me all day

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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:26:22 PM
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Me externally: no nothing is wrong
Me Internally: Fuck you I hate you. You ruined my fucking life you bitch.

/blogfaqs
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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 3:27:34 PM
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brb, need shaving cream

not letting this edge go to waste
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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:28:35 PM
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LinkDaLunatic posted...
brb, need shaving cream

not letting this edge go to waste

Where can I start?
Denying sexual abuse ever happened to me despite there being a witness.
The regular beatings if I didn't eat 'fast enough'?

Want me to go on?
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LincolnDuncan
04/04/21 3:29:18 PM
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Did she try to pick up your room again? Ugh moms, right?

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LincolnDuncan
04/04/21 3:29:37 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
Want me to go on?

no thanks

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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 3:33:19 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
Want me to go on?
do you still live with this person?
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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:33:51 PM
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LinkDaLunatic posted...

do you still live with this person?

Unfortunately yes because she also relies on me for a lot of stuff
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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 3:34:49 PM
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and you're old enough to move away?

if so... do that
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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:35:17 PM
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She would also probably be dead within a month if I left
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Crescente
04/04/21 3:37:50 PM
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Aren't you like 55 TC?
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DravenRainrix
04/04/21 3:37:56 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
She would also probably be dead within a month if I left

If you hate her as much as you're saying in here, why would you give a shit?

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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 3:38:16 PM
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if you're going to keep living with her then maybe you should speak your truths, don't keep it buried
and then move on. don't forgive her. but move on.
otherwise it's gonna stay super unhealthy for both of you
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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:39:05 PM
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Crescente posted...
Aren't you like 55 TC?

31

DravenRainrix posted...


If you hate her as much as you're saying in here, why would you give a shit?

Because I'm not a sociopath

LinkDaLunatic posted...
if you're going to keep living with her then maybe you should speak your truths, don't keep it buried

Nah. Not a good idea. She threw a plate at me when I brought it up when I was 14
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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 3:39:34 PM
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ok
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Flockaveli
04/04/21 3:42:54 PM
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Shawty want a thug.

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Dark_SilverX
04/04/21 3:48:35 PM
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xD

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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:56:38 PM
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'do you not have money for beer? Is that why you're annoyed? I'll buy it for you if you want'

Thanks mom! Just back from a fucking suicial watch only a few days in the hospital and they agreed I need to cut back on drinking beer like I told you and now you're trying to fucking get me to drink beer.
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GATTJT
04/04/21 3:58:49 PM
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Did she at least let you watch Dragon Ball Z?

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LincolnDuncan
04/04/21 3:58:59 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
Thanks mom! Just back from a f***ing suicial watch only a few days in the hospital and they agreed Ied to cut back on drinking beer like I told you and now you're trying to f***ing get me to drink beer.


She's an enabler. And you seem co-dependent.

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nothanks1
04/04/21 3:59:46 PM
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GATTJT posted...
Did she at least let you watch Dragon Ball Z?

It wasn't on tv in Ireland for free so never could see it

LincolnDuncan posted...
And you seem co-dependent.

How?
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LinkDaLunatic
04/04/21 4:00:52 PM
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the past is the past my dude. even if you feel you can't talk to her about it, you need to find a way to move on. don't let this negativity eat you up like this.
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nothanks1
04/04/21 4:02:00 PM
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Oh no I am gonna move out eventually
Even the fucking principal said I have to accept the fact she's responsible for how her life is and it's not to me to fix it but ehue, time will make it happen
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LincolnDuncan
04/04/21 4:03:23 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
It wasn't on tv in Ireland for free so never could see it

How?

Living with your mother at 31, because you think she'll die if you move out. If she needs that much help it sounds like it might be better if it is handled by someone professional. You need to live your life, not hers.

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nothanks1
04/04/21 4:04:15 PM
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LincolnDuncan posted...

Living with your mother at 31, because you think she'll die if you move out. If she needs that much help it sounds like it might be better if it is handled by someone professional. You need to live your life, not hers.

Ah ok
But yeah she's too young to go into a state nursing home and her mental health is fine so it's not like I can force her in
I need to accept she's responsible for herself which we're working on
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untrustful
04/04/21 4:10:34 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
her mental health is fine
:eyebrowraise:

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nothanks1
04/04/21 4:11:50 PM
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untrustful posted...

:eyebrowraise:

She's not legally mentally unwell so she can say no to a nursing home
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JE19426
04/04/21 4:14:26 PM
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nothanks1 posted...
She's not legally mentally unwell so she can say no to a nursing home

If she chooses to die instead of going into a nursing home, that's her decision not yours. You need to take of your own mental health.
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nothanks1
04/04/21 4:15:48 PM
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JE19426 posted...


If she chooses to die instead of going into a nursing home, that's her decision not yours. You need to take of your own mental health.

I know and they even got two of the teachers who I have a crush on to sit down and explain all this to me which I've accepted.
It's just frustrating with lockdown meaning finding a place is almost impossible
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