Current Events > My fiancee broke things off with me today

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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 8:30:20 PM
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I mean, I think a part of me knew that this was going to happen, but I guess that youre never really prepared for it.

I really dont know what to do or who to turn too right now. I just keep replaying things in my head, wondering if it had to be this way

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berlyman101
04/27/21 8:30:42 PM
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CouldBeAnAlt
04/27/21 8:31:01 PM
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I didn't even know you had a fiancee I'm so sorry

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Pogo_Marimo
04/27/21 8:32:53 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. What was the catalyst for it? Disinterest? Fights? Infidelity?

It's often simply that a couples goals or interests are just not aligned to make it work. In those cases, it's rarely anybody's "fault". It's just a matter of self-discovery and re-evaluation.

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Prismsblade
04/27/21 8:33:40 PM
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Sucks but if theres some deep seated issue shes isn't telling you then maybe it's for the best.

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awesome999
04/27/21 8:37:07 PM
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What happened for her to break off an engagement
You'll be fine. This too shall pass
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Jagr_68
04/27/21 8:37:13 PM
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Goddamn that's hard for anyone to go through. Sorry man.

Broke up for good or just the engagement?

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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 8:41:26 PM
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Pogo_Marimo posted...
I'm sorry to hear that. What was the catalyst for it? Disinterest? Fights? Infidelity?
we didnt discuss important aspects that are integral to long term relationships

Jagr_68 posted...
Goddamn that's hard for anyone to go through. Sorry man.

Broke up for good or just the engagement?
Idk. I dont know

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MrMallard
04/27/21 8:43:53 PM
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Sorry to hear that, Flamey.

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Chadwick69
04/27/21 8:44:48 PM
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TC getting comfort from cemen while his ex-fiance is getting chads semen
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soulunison2
04/27/21 8:45:35 PM
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Chadwick69 posted...
TC getting comfort from cemen while his ex-fiance is getting multiple chads semen

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Medussa
04/27/21 8:45:57 PM
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you should read sigs.

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awesome999
04/27/21 8:51:29 PM
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fiancee
-TC in topic title
Of course everyone assumes TC's a dude
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ElatedVenusaur
04/27/21 8:53:26 PM
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Sorry TC, thats awful. I cant imagine what youre feeling right now, but its natural to feel a lot of things. Take care of yourself.
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spikethedevil
04/27/21 8:53:26 PM
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Lol at both @Chadwick69 and @soulunison2

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H0LD_Austin_Era
04/27/21 8:55:04 PM
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At least she didn't keep stringing you along. Could ended up worse more so financially.

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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 8:55:11 PM
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Future_Trunks posted...
which aspects?
Deep spiritual beliefs and needs that we both thought that we were aligned on.

we were not

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Kakapo
04/27/21 8:57:58 PM
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Chadwick69 posted...
TC getting comfort from cemen while his ex-fiance is getting chads semen
Dont be that guy. Everyone hates that guy.

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awesome999
04/27/21 8:59:30 PM
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So, uh, do you like girls TC or was the topic title a typo? Cause fiancee means women, fiance is men
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Cerealmilk
04/27/21 9:00:01 PM
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That sucks sorry
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gunplagirl
04/27/21 9:00:49 PM
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I'm sure she's heart broken and wishes she could take it all back. She longs for you, like a bird looks to the sky. You're the air to her, all around yet somehow she can only have so much at a time and she is grateful for every breath. And she just wants you to know how much she would give just to see your smile once more. ;-;

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MrMallard
04/27/21 9:01:50 PM
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awesome999 posted...
So, uh, do you like girls TC or was the topic title a typo? Cause fiancee means women, fiance is men
Why does it matter? Her fiancee left her. This topic isn't about her sexuality, it's about her partner leaving her.

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Duncanwii
04/27/21 9:03:34 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
Lol at both @Chadwick69 and @soulunison2

Shit like what they said should be moddable. Its trolling.
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Ruvan22
04/27/21 9:03:42 PM
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I'm sorry Flaming - hope you aren't beating yourself up too much
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awesome999
04/27/21 9:03:58 PM
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Hey there was a misdirection and we got blasted for not paying attention to TC's sig
Damned if you do, damned if you don't
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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 9:06:23 PM
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awesome999 posted...
So, uh, do you like girls TC or was the topic title a typo? Cause fiancee means women, fiance is men
Do I have to explain the concept of lesbians to you? Really?

gunplagirl posted...
I'm sure she's heart broken and wishes she could take it all back. She longs for you, like a bird looks to the sky. You're the air to her, all around yet somehow she can only have so much at a time and she is grateful for every breath. And she just wants you to know how much she would give just to see your smile once more. ;-;
I know how she feels. She was the stars in my sky, the wind in my sails, the music in my ears. But...apparently that wasnt enough...she wanted things that I couldnt give her...

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spikethedevil
04/27/21 9:07:02 PM
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awesome999 posted...
Hey there was a misdirection and we got blasted for not paying attention to TC's sig
Damned if you do, damned if you don't

There was 0 misdirection.

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Kakapo
04/27/21 9:08:38 PM
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awesome999 posted...
Hey there was a misdirection and we got blasted for not paying attention to TC's sig
Damned if you do, damned if you don't
Or you could show a modicum of empathy, rather than rolling into a topic with your Captain Pedantry spandex underpants on

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gunplagirl
04/27/21 9:10:03 PM
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FlameTurtle posted...
Do I have to explain the concept of lesbians to you? Really?

I know how she feels. She was the stars in my sky, the wind in my sails, the music in my ears. But...apparently that wasnt enough...she wanted things that I couldnt give her...
:'( Is there any way she could still get what she wants, and still be with you?

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shironinja
04/27/21 9:11:23 PM
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Did you get the ring back?

When I had this happen I said keep it. She did and haven't heard from her since. Think she had a kid with some other guy.

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awesome999
04/27/21 9:11:45 PM
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Jeez, okay okay
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Jagr_68
04/27/21 9:14:09 PM
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FlameTurtle posted...
Idk. I dont know

Couldn't hurt to talk if there's anything worth salvaging between you two. I won't assume anything but marriage is very intimidating and not for everyone.

(I didn't know your gender so my mistake on the "man" thing regardless).

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Zodd3224
04/27/21 9:22:54 PM
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Damn that sucks. Sorry TC.

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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 9:23:41 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
:'( Is there any way she could still get what she wants, and still be with you?
Its just such a big gap to bridge...

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R1masher
04/27/21 9:27:48 PM
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So, what youre saying is I got a shot?

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Turbam
04/27/21 9:30:00 PM
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I'm real sorry to hear

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Dat_Cracka_Jax
04/27/21 9:35:19 PM
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FlameTurtle posted...
we didnt discuss important aspects that are integral to long term relationships

Idk. I dont know
These two responses work well together

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RedJackson
04/27/21 9:56:26 PM
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Sucks

Sorry to hear that, they say love requires sacrifices but to what extent and degree are things I'm trying to figure out myself.

Was this out of the blue?

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Eevee-Trainer
04/27/21 10:10:41 PM
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Reading through this topic both reminds me of where that "They're gay, Harold" meme comes from and reminds me that most of y'all will remain creeps, permavirgins, and incels. Y'all are fucking ridiculous.

Anyhow I'm sorry you have to go through this TC. I can't relate so I don't have much to offer but metaphorical hugs though :c

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H0LD_Austin_Era
04/27/21 10:11:35 PM
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You didn't discuss important topics prior to popping the question?

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Eevee-Trainer
04/27/21 10:12:38 PM
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FlameTurtle posted...
Its just such a big gap to bridge...
I guess the question is - is she worth it to you? Whatever that gap is, exactly.

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J03can
04/27/21 10:12:54 PM
#51:


Shoot, sorry pal, my wife and I split a little over a year ago now. It was very tough but do your best to grieve and work on yourself in a positive way

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FlameTurtle
04/27/21 10:32:20 PM
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H0LD_Austin_Era posted...
You didn't discuss important topics prior to popping the question?
She asked me...I guess she thought that I was ok with it...

Eevee-Trainer posted...
I guess the question is - is she worth it to you? Whatever that gap is, exactly.
I thought that I would be worth it to her, but I guess that I was wrong

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gunplagirl
04/27/21 10:59:28 PM
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FlameTurtle posted...
She asked me...I guess she thought that I was ok with it...

I thought that I would be worth it to her, but I guess that I was wrong
You're the one who gave her the ring though. :'( You were on one knee and everything. I'd know, seeing as she's me.

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