Current Events > Seeing a long time relationship breakup is one of the saddest things IMO

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Veggeta X 06/10/21 8:34:27 AM #1:	Seeing people who has been together forever falling out of love just does something to me. I mean, I've never experienced it first hand but it's like watching these two people build a castle together only to smash it down. Seen this happen with a lot of my friends. That butterflies in the stomach truly does not last. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>Veggeta X posted [p:954840945] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Seeing people who has been together forever falling out of love just does something to me. I mean, I've never experienced it first hand but it's like watching these two people build a castle together only to smash it down. Seen this happen with a lot of my friends. That butterflies in the stomach truly does not last. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lilORANG 06/10/21 8:35:19 AM #2:	Not if it's toxic lmao --- #FeelTheBern https://imgur.com/q5z4CUu https://imgur.com/6B9oFXh https://imgur.com/sy42Dlf <cite>lilORANG posted [p:954840960] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Not if it's toxic lmao</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGreatEscape 06/10/21 8:40:10 AM #3:	Veggeta X posted... That butterflies in the stomach truly does not last. yeah they usually get digested --- The user formerly known as RogerHuxley <cite>TheGreatEscape posted [p:954841051] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta X posted... </cite> <quote>That butterflies in the stomach truly does not last.</quote> yeah they usually get digested </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/10/21 8:42:56 AM #4:	I just assume it's for the better and the people in the relationship know better than I would. And it doesn't reflect anything to do with relationships Id have. Though if mistakes are visible to me, I will learn through observation and try to avoid them. A smart person learns from their mistakes, a wise person learns from others mistakes. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:954841104] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>I just assume it's for the better and the people in the relationship know better than I would. And it doesn't reflect anything to do with relationships Id have. Though if mistakes are visible to me, I will learn through observation and try to avoid them. A smart person learns from their mistakes, a wise person learns from others mistakes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 06/10/21 8:56:50 AM #5:	I agree TC. It's pretty demoralizing and makes it feel like serious relationships are pointless to actually put anything into. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:954841414] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>I agree TC. It's pretty demoralizing and makes it feel like serious relationships are pointless to actually put anything into. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta X 06/10/21 8:59:53 AM #6:	I'm not one to usually be a Debbie Downer but a serious relationship like that to be gone within an instant is such a wasted of incredibly efforts. So much time and emotional investments and prolly a lot of money put into it. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>Veggeta X posted [p:954841469] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>I'm not one to usually be a Debbie Downer but a serious relationship like that to be gone within an instant is such a wasted of incredibly efforts. So much time and emotional investments and prolly a lot of money put into it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 06/10/21 9:01:07 AM #7:	Never too late to try again At least that way you get closure <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:954841494] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Never too late to try again At least that way you get closure </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 06/10/21 9:02:25 AM #8:	I know what you mean but it;s better to break up the stay together due to sunk costs even though you now hate each other Especially when kids are involved --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:954841515] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>I know what you mean but it;s better to break up the stay together due to sunk costs even though you now hate each other Especially when kids are involved </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 06/10/21 9:02:59 AM #9:	Its all about the kids <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:954841529] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Its all about the kids </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/10/21 9:03:24 AM #10:	Veggeta X posted... I'm not one to usually be a Debbie Downer but a serious relationship like that to be gone within an instant is such a wasted of incredibly efforts. So much time and emotional investments and prolly a lot of money put into it. Not if you're with someone who actually invests in you during the relationship and you spent all the time having personal growth in all areas of your life because that person didn't weigh you down. Then you leave each other at a better state than you met each other at. If the person isn't actively advancing your understanding of life and emotional depth, it's not a good relationship anyway imo. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:954841537] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta X posted... </cite> <quote>I'm not one to usually be a Debbie Downer but a serious relationship like that to be gone within an instant is such a wasted of incredibly efforts. So much time and emotional investments and prolly a lot of money put into it.</quote> Not if you're with someone who actually invests in you during the relationship and you spent all the time having personal growth in all areas of your life because that person didn't weigh you down. Then you leave each other at a better state than you met each other at. If the person isn't actively advancing your understanding of life and emotional depth, it's not a good relationship anyway imo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 06/10/21 9:03:31 AM #11:	Future <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:954841539] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Future </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
J03can 06/10/21 9:08:46 AM #12:	Ended a 12 year relationship last year. Until the last year it was a great relationship, but it was time to end it. No regrets. --- Jerry, it's Frank Costanza!!! Mr Steinbrenner's here George is dead - call me back!!!! <cite>J03can posted [p:954841661] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Ended a 12 year relationship last year. Until the last year it was a great relationship, but it was time to end it. No regrets. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 06/10/21 9:09:48 AM #13:	IMO Everything is temporary. Even if you dont fight it, it happens anyway. Everything else is theatrics. <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:954841686] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>IMO Everything is temporary. Even if you dont fight it, it happens anyway. Everything else is theatrics. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 06/10/21 9:46:58 AM #14:	Xethuminra posted... IMO Everything is temporary. Even if you dont fight it, it happens anyway. Everything else is theatrics. My parents are happily married after thirty years. I don't know if they got lucky or what, they didn't meet til their 30s which probably helped, but yeah I just can't agree with you at all. --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:954842592] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>Xethuminra posted... </cite> <quote>IMO Everything is temporary. Even if you dont fight it, it happens anyway. Everything else is theatrics.</quote> My parents are happily married after thirty years. I don't know if they got lucky or what, they didn't meet til their 30s which probably helped, but yeah I just can't agree with you at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 06/10/21 9:54:05 AM #15:	30 is still temporary even if it is a very long time <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:954842768] in Seeing a l... [t:79504865]...</cite> <quote>30 is still temporary even if it is a very long time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Current Events > Seeing a long time relationship breakup is one of the saddest things IMO