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LostForest 08/26/21 1:00:07 AM #1:	80/80 So like, my wife and I are in our 30s now and hit the point where all our friends are starting to move away, have kids, etc... We barely get to see anyone anymore, and when we finally do, people hang out for like 2 hours and then go home because they're tired. That said, we were at a ramen shop down the block from us recently and struck up conversation with the hostess who seemed really cool. We talked a bunch, she mentioned how her boyfriend is a professional chef, and we love cooking, so we really want to become friends with the two of them now. We ended off at the restaurant by telling the hostess about a place selling fried rainbow cookies, and asked if she wanted us to get her some. We did, and she was really nice/appreciative and told us her name. So like, problem is, we're both super awkward and like, the whole thing honestly reminds of what dating was like, lol. My wife was able to Instagram-stalk her via the ramen shop's Instagram account. And today when I was walking down the street, I went past the ramen place, and that hostess was there, and waved to me. So what do now? Do we just start going to that ramen shop over and over until we work the courage up to ask that chick if she and her boyfriend want to go on a couple date or something? Is that a thing that married couples do? Seriously, like I said. It's really bizarre how this is the exact same way it felt being single, and trying to find a mate, only now with a teammate lol. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957446082] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>80/80 So like, my wife and I are in our 30s now and hit the point where all our friends are starting to move away, have kids, etc... We barely get to see anyone anymore, and when we finally do, people hang out for like 2 hours and then go home because they're tired. That said, we were at a ramen shop down the block from us recently and struck up conversation with the hostess who seemed really cool. We talked a bunch, she mentioned how her boyfriend is a professional chef, and we love cooking, so we really want to become friends with the two of them now. We ended off at the restaurant by telling the hostess about a place selling fried rainbow cookies, and asked if she wanted us to get her some. We did, and she was really nice/appreciative and told us her name. So like, problem is, we're both super awkward and like, the whole thing honestly reminds of what dating was like, lol. My wife was able to Instagram-stalk her via the ramen shop's Instagram account. And today when I was walking down the street, I went past the ramen place, and that hostess was there, and waved to me. So what do now? Do we just start going to that ramen shop over and over until we work the courage up to ask that chick if she and her boyfriend want to go on a couple date or something? Is that a thing that married couples do? Seriously, like I said. It's really bizarre how this is the exact same way it felt being single, and trying to find a mate, only now with a teammate lol. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/26/21 1:02:24 AM #2:	It's easier if you swing. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:957446129] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>It's easier if you swing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ApherosyLove 08/26/21 1:02:43 AM #3:	I have no constructive comment to add other than this is the cutest topic I've ever seen in a very long time. --- I, Apherosy, Goddess of Love. https://imgur.com/YTIL81T <cite>ApherosyLove posted [p:957446135] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>I have no constructive comment to add other than this is the cutest topic I've ever seen in a very long time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 1:03:21 AM #4:	Lost_All_Senses posted... It's easier if you swing. Honestly you're probably right, lol. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957446145] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>It's easier if you swing.</quote> Honestly you're probably right, lol. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 08/26/21 1:10:31 AM #5:	Just ask her if she wanna hang. What have you got to lose? You already cyberstalked her so you've gone way past the creepy limit imo. Best to do it now before you find yourself "accidently" running into this person and you just "coincidentally" have a gift for them. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:957446265] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Just ask her if she wanna hang. What have you got to lose? You already cyberstalked her so you've gone way past the creepy limit imo. Best to do it now before you find yourself "accidently" running into this person and you just "coincidentally" have a gift for them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 1:17:42 AM #6:	BloodMoon7 posted... What have you got to lose? Our favorite ramen shop :< BloodMoon7 posted... Best to do it now before you find yourself "accidently" running into this person and you just "coincidentally" have a gift for them. What does this even mean? --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957446420] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>BloodMoon7 posted... </cite> <quote>What have you got to lose?</quote> Our favorite ramen shop :< BloodMoon7 posted... </cite> <quote>Best to do it now before you find yourself "accidently" running into this person and you just "coincidentally" have a gift for them.</quote> What does this even mean? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 08/26/21 1:21:36 AM #7:	LostForest posted... Our favorite ramen shop :< What does this even mean? No you don't. You're not asking her if she wanna threesome. You're an adult asking another adult if she wanna hang. Worst case scenario, she says no. She's not going to be weird about it later cause the one being weird here is you. Don't ask me what I mean. If you know, you know. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:957446477] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted... </cite> <quote>Our favorite ramen shop :< What does this even mean?</quote>No you don't. You're not asking her if she wanna threesome. You're an adult asking another adult if she wanna hang. Worst case scenario, she says no. She's not going to be weird about it later cause the one being weird here is you. Don't ask me what I mean. If you know, you know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FightingJester 08/26/21 1:21:48 AM #8:	Whats the worst thatll happen? Youll get told no? --- Perhaps the world is not made. Perhaps nothing is made. A clock without a craftsman. It's too late. Always has been. Always will be. Too late <cite>FightingJester posted [p:957446480] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Whats the worst thatll happen? Youll get told no? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 08/26/21 1:22:50 AM #9:	Lol, I mean I guess it is in a way. But you never have to "make a move" and it should be way more casual. Just invite them over for dinner one night if you like them. It's a lot less potentially threatening to ask a couple over to hang out too quickly than it is to ask someone out on a date too quickly. If they shoot you down then it is what it is. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:957446496] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Lol, I mean I guess it is in a way. But you never have to "make a move" and it should be way more casual. Just invite them over for dinner one night if you like them. It's a lot less potentially threatening to ask a couple over to hang out too quickly than it is to ask someone out on a date too quickly. If they shoot you down then it is what it is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988 08/26/21 1:23:34 AM #10:	Dont do it TC, this is how relationships end. --- "Let's be honest...I'm everybody's type. I just gotta highlight the parts that appeal to her the most" - No_U_L7 <cite>David1988 posted [p:957446505] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Dont do it TC, this is how relationships end. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 08/26/21 1:24:05 AM #11:	ApherosyLove posted... I have no constructive comment to add other than this is the cutest topic I've ever seen in a very long time. --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem boy posted [p:957446517] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>ApherosyLove posted...</cite> <quote>I have no constructive comment to add other than this is the cutest topic I've ever seen in a very long time. </quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slaya4 08/26/21 1:38:06 AM #12:	Honestly, it's a lot like dating. Don't ask right away. Just come by as a customer and chat it up a bit just to see how she is and how receptive she is to you guys. I've had a couple of weird encounters with customers who mistake my friendliness at work with something more. I honestly wouldn't do it tbh, but I also think hanging out for 2 hours is more than enough for me. I'm pretty antisocial. --- Am I going too hard? <cite>Slaya4 posted [p:957446727] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Honestly, it's a lot like dating. Don't ask right away. Just come by as a customer and chat it up a bit just to see how she is and how receptive she is to you guys. I've had a couple of weird encounters with customers who mistake my friendliness at work with something more. I honestly wouldn't do it tbh, but I also think hanging out for 2 hours is more than enough for me. I'm pretty antisocial. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocDelicious 08/26/21 2:20:49 AM #13:	What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours? --- o7 Let strength be granted so the world might be mended. <cite>DocDelicious posted [p:957447368] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 08/26/21 2:30:30 AM #14:	DocDelicious posted... What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours? --- https://imgur.com/cEQy3f4 / https://imgur.com/gWKaLHC <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:957447516] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>DocDelicious posted... </cite> <quote>What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours?</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJ2GrimReaper 08/26/21 2:33:49 AM #15:	LF will be your friend only if your pits stank --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. https://imgur.com/YzjFA85 https://imgur.com/CqukfNH <cite>SSJ2GrimReaper posted [p:957447568] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>LF will be your friend only if your pits stank </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 9:08:29 AM #16:	DocDelicious posted... What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours? Have dinner, play video games, go hiking, watch TV, do arts & crafts stuff, etc... I dunno. Fun stuff. Our friends used to get together on weekends and hang out all night. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957452199] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>DocDelicious posted... </cite> <quote>What the hell would you even do with another couple that would take more than two hours?</quote> Have dinner, play video games, go hiking, watch TV, do arts & crafts stuff, etc... I dunno. Fun stuff. Our friends used to get together on weekends and hang out all night. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 08/26/21 9:09:39 AM #17:	LostForest posted... So what do now? Buy some D&D books and put a group together online to meet in person. --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://imgur.com/dQgC4kv <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:957452224] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted... </cite> <quote>So what do now?</quote> Buy some D&D books and put a group together online to meet in person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 08/26/21 9:10:36 AM #18:	Easiest way to make new friends in your 30s is to pick up some kind of group activity hobby. Like climbing, surfing, board game nights, knitting, whatever. When you realise that most people in their 30s feel a bit lonely too its kinda reassuring. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. https://imgur.com/ILz2ZbV <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:957452229] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Easiest way to make new friends in your 30s is to pick up some kind of group activity hobby. Like climbing, surfing, board game nights, knitting, whatever. When you realise that most people in their 30s feel a bit lonely too its kinda reassuring. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 9:10:39 AM #19:	SSJ2GrimReaper posted... LF will be your friend only if your pits stank Nah man you know that's not true. I'm armpit-faithful :P Only pits I care about are my wife's (or cute anime characters lol). --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957452233] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>SSJ2GrimReaper posted... </cite> <quote>LF will be your friend only if your pits stank</quote> Nah man you know that's not true. I'm armpit-faithful :P Only pits I care about are my wife's (or cute anime characters lol). </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Njolk 08/26/21 9:14:26 AM #20:	My wife and I moved to this weird Mormon town in Utah for a while and one day at the dog park another couple came up and said "hey you guys seem to actually be normal... You wanna come over for dinner?" We did and had a nice time but we didn't end up having much in common Now we make friends through clubs. Run club, yoga club --- Suffering is expecting things to last forever <cite>Njolk posted [p:957452313] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>My wife and I moved to this weird Mormon town in Utah for a while and one day at the dog park another couple came up and said "hey you guys seem to actually be normal... You wanna come over for dinner?" We did and had a nice time but we didn't end up having much in common Now we make friends through clubs. Run club, yoga club </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 08/26/21 9:53:27 AM #21:	Did you tell her about you and your wife's food podcast? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:957453067] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Did you tell her about you and your wife's food podcast? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
insomniacRA 08/26/21 9:59:39 AM #22:	Do you like the show Silicon Valley, invest in stocks, and occasionally like to gripe about how awful people in this world are? If yes, I'll be your friend. <cite>insomniacRA posted [p:957453179] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Do you like the show Silicon Valley, invest in stocks, and occasionally like to gripe about how awful people in this world are? If yes, I'll be your friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazinBlue88 08/26/21 10:03:22 AM #23:	It's actually worse than dating because you have to worry about four different people liking one another instead of just 2 people. My wife and I have a friend who we've known for nearly 10 years. Her husband hates us and finds any opportunity to bail on get togethers which makes them argue. --- https://imgur.com/R15aJJ3 https://imgur.com/NJqp6LS <cite>BlazinBlue88 posted [p:957453247] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>It's actually worse than dating because you have to worry about four different people liking one another instead of just 2 people. My wife and I have a friend who we've known for nearly 10 years. Her husband hates us and finds any opportunity to bail on get togethers which makes them argue. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NecroFoul99 08/26/21 10:20:32 AM #24:	Start your potential friendship with some honesty and a bit of vulnerability. My wife and I are trying to find another couple to hang out with and you two seem like a lot of fun. You guys like game nights? My wife and I were thinking of learning pinochle or something like that. Feel like making a night of itwith us? (Big, sweet, grin). If they say no or look uncomfortable, Well, at least we still have your ramen. Okay, if you change your mind, well be around. and just keep being friendly and inviting. --- If you have to lie to make your point, then you're just a liar who has no point. <cite>NecroFoul99 posted [p:957453607] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Start your potential friendship with some honesty and a bit of vulnerability. My wife and I are trying to find another couple to hang out with and you two seem like a lot of fun. You guys like game nights? My wife and I were thinking of learning pinochle or something like that. Feel like making a night of itwith us? (Big, sweet, grin). If they say no or look uncomfortable, Well, at least we still have your ramen. Okay, if you change your mind, well be around. and just keep being friendly and inviting. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pojr 08/26/21 10:22:51 AM #25:	I definitely don't blame you for being nervous about trying to be friends with this woman, in a lot of ways it does seem like dating lol. If you took out the "my wife" and "her husband" lines it would seem like you're asking her out on a date. I am definitely really terrible at making friends, as you might know from my past threads. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't see anything wrong with just asking her "if you're not doing anything next weekend, my wife and I are making X Food, you and your husband should come over" or something like that. I think I heard somewhere that you're really good at cooking or something >_> --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:957453658] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>I definitely don't blame you for being nervous about trying to be friends with this woman, in a lot of ways it does seem like dating lol. If you took out the "my wife" and "her husband" lines it would seem like you're asking her out on a date. I am definitely really terrible at making friends, as you might know from my past threads. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't see anything wrong with just asking her "if you're not doing anything next weekend, my wife and I are making X Food, you and your husband should come over" or something like that. I think I heard somewhere that you're really good at cooking or something >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 10:28:35 AM #26:	pojr posted... If you took out the "my wife" and "her husband" lines it would seem like you're asking her out on a date Yeah that's how I feel. I almost want my wife to do the actual invitation part, when the time comes. But I doubt she would be up to the task, since she's super quiet and shy lol. BlazinBlue88 posted... It's actually worse than dating because you have to worry about four different people liking one another instead of just 2 people Shit I hadn't considered this lol. That's a really good point. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957453770] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>pojr posted... </cite> <quote>If you took out the "my wife" and "her husband" lines it would seem like you're asking her out on a date</quote> Yeah that's how I feel. I almost want my wife to do the actual invitation part, when the time comes. But I doubt she would be up to the task, since she's super quiet and shy lol. BlazinBlue88 posted... </cite> <quote>It's actually worse than dating because you have to worry about four different people liking one another instead of just 2 people</quote> Shit I hadn't considered this lol. That's a really good point. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kelemvor 08/26/21 10:30:04 AM #27:	If you live in a HOA neighborhood, use it to your advantage. We make friends through it all the time. Meet and greets, Cornhole leagues, etc... <cite>kelemvor posted [p:957453807] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>If you live in a HOA neighborhood, use it to your advantage. We make friends through it all the time. Meet and greets, Cornhole leagues, etc... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 08/26/21 10:33:00 AM #28:	Also wouldn't want people to think you're swingers or something....unless you do --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem boy posted [p:957453887] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Also wouldn't want people to think you're swingers or something....unless you do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Legato-and-Vash 08/26/21 10:37:25 AM #29:	Join a local FB group about an interest you're into. I just recently joined a few Memphis gaming groups on FB. They plan events all the time although I haven't gone to one yet. --- *~Sincerely yours, Legato and Vash~* Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/kid_prodigy23 <cite>Legato-and-Vash posted [p:957453984] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Join a local FB group about an interest you're into. I just recently joined a few Memphis gaming groups on FB. They plan events all the time although I haven't gone to one yet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damar 08/26/21 10:38:55 AM #30:	Wait until you hit 40 guy. You have to hang on to every friend you've got as replacing them is damned difficult. That also means you're stuck with some pricks you would have kicked to the curb years ago if you were in your 20s. But such is the life of the middle aged. <cite>Damar posted [p:957454025] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Wait until you hit 40 guy. You have to hang on to every friend you've got as replacing them is damned difficult. That also means you're stuck with some pricks you would have kicked to the curb years ago if you were in your 20s. But such is the life of the middle aged. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazinBlue88 08/26/21 10:51:01 AM #31:	LostForest posted... I almost want my wife to do the actual invitation part, when the time comes. Honestly it would be better if your wife invited the girl or you invited the bf if you ever met him. Would lessen the possibility of awkwardness. LostForest posted... Shit I hadn't considered this lol. That's a really good point. Yeah man that's why it's so hard to make these new couple friend relationships work. Everyone has to get along with everyone. --- https://imgur.com/R15aJJ3 https://imgur.com/NJqp6LS <cite>BlazinBlue88 posted [p:957454278] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted... </cite> <quote>I almost want my wife to do the actual invitation part, when the time comes.</quote>Honestly it would be better if your wife invited the girl or you invited the bf if you ever met him. Would lessen the possibility of awkwardness. LostForest posted... </cite> <quote>Shit I hadn't considered this lol. That's a really good point.</quote>Yeah man that's why it's so hard to make these new couple friend relationships work. Everyone has to get along with everyone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FortuneCookie 08/26/21 11:00:12 AM #32:	Lost_All_Senses posted... It's easier if you swing. hawt <cite>FortuneCookie posted [p:957454489] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>It's easier if you swing.</quote> hawt </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 08/26/21 11:39:32 AM #33:	my wife left me --- https://imgur.com/cEQy3f4 / https://imgur.com/gWKaLHC <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:957455520] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>my wife left me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pojr 08/26/21 11:44:42 AM #34:	PatrickMahomes posted... my wife left me This guy understands --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:957455675] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>PatrickMahomes posted... </cite> <quote>my wife left me</quote>This guy understands </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 1:34:12 PM #35:	NecroFoul99 posted... Start your potential friendship with some honesty and a bit of vulnerability. My wife and I are trying to find another couple to hang out with and you two seem like a lot of fun. You guys like game nights? My wife and I were thinking of learning pinochle or something like that. Feel like making a night of itwith us? (Big, sweet, grin). If they say no or look uncomfortable, Well, at least we still have your ramen. Okay, if you change your mind, well be around. and just keep being friendly and inviting. This is honestly what I was thinking we have to do. Maybe see if they want to go to a dog park. But again, wasn't sure if couples just like, ask each other out to do stuff lol. Thanks for the reenforcing advice, my dude --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957458988] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>NecroFoul99 posted... </cite> <quote>Start your potential friendship with some honesty and a bit of vulnerability. My wife and I are trying to find another couple to hang out with and you two seem like a lot of fun. You guys like game nights? My wife and I were thinking of learning pinochle or something like that. Feel like making a night of itwith us? (Big, sweet, grin). If they say no or look uncomfortable, Well, at least we still have your ramen. Okay, if you change your mind, well be around. and just keep being friendly and inviting.</quote> This is honestly what I was thinking we have to do. Maybe see if they want to go to a dog park. But again, wasn't sure if couples just like, ask each other out to do stuff lol. Thanks for the reenforcing advice, my dude </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NecroFoul99 08/26/21 2:53:37 PM #36:	LostForest posted... This is honestly what I was thinking we have to do. Maybe see if they want to go to a dog park. But again, wasn't sure if couples just like, ask each other out to do stuff lol. Thanks for the reenforcing advice, my dude :). Thank you. The main take away is to learn pinochle. Its one of the better couples games out there. --- If you have to lie to make your point, then you're just a liar who has no point. <cite>NecroFoul99 posted [p:957461579] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted... </cite> <quote>This is honestly what I was thinking we have to do. Maybe see if they want to go to a dog park. But again, wasn't sure if couples just like, ask each other out to do stuff lol. Thanks for the reenforcing advice, my dude </quote>:). Thank you. The main take away is to learn pinochle. Its one of the better couples games out there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WaterLink 08/26/21 2:56:24 PM #37:	What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL. --- https://imgur.com/TFF3Nn8 Joe Burrow, the legend <cite>WaterLink posted [p:957461659] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BeantownHero 08/26/21 3:02:25 PM #38:	TC, I feel your pain Whoever writes the book "How to make friends after 30" is gonna be a gazillionaire --- Black In America https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1527-black-in-america <cite>BeantownHero posted [p:957461817] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>TC, I feel your pain Whoever writes the book "How to make friends after 30" is gonna be a gazillionaire </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 08/26/21 3:06:20 PM #39:	What do you and your wife like to do after work? Any specific activities? --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:957461931] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>What do you and your wife like to do after work? Any specific activities? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazinBlue88 08/26/21 3:14:40 PM #40:	WaterLink posted... What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL. Damn I just watched this episode yesterday. lmao --- https://imgur.com/R15aJJ3 https://imgur.com/NJqp6LS <cite>BlazinBlue88 posted [p:957462177] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>WaterLink posted... </cite> <quote>What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL.</quote>Damn I just watched this episode yesterday. lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 08/26/21 3:28:22 PM #41:	WaterLink posted... What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL. top 5 episode --- https://imgur.com/cEQy3f4 / https://imgur.com/gWKaLHC <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:957462604] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>WaterLink posted... </cite> <quote>What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL.</quote>top 5 episode </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/26/21 3:56:16 PM #42:	WaterLink posted... What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957463495] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>WaterLink posted... </cite> <quote>What up!!! We're three cool guys looking for other cool guys who wanna hang out in our party mansion. Nothing sexual. Dudes in good shape encouraged, if you're fat you should be able to find humor in the little things. Again, NOTHING SEXUAL.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJ2GrimReaper 08/26/21 8:52:31 PM #43:	I'd hang out with LF and play mario party tbh --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. https://imgur.com/YzjFA85 https://imgur.com/CqukfNH <cite>SSJ2GrimReaper posted [p:957472131] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>I'd hang out with LF and play mario party tbh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TreyFlowers 08/26/21 8:59:34 PM #44:	Just don't make a video recapping the night when you do hang out with them --- ...for it is better to be alone than in bad company. <cite>TreyFlowers posted [p:957472309] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Just don't make a video recapping the night when you do hang out with them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 08/26/21 9:06:36 PM #45:	We are in the same boat honestly. A couple years ago my wife had a job where she was social and we were hanging out with folks from her office and it was fun. Then she got canned out of the blue and they all just stopped talking to her. Only one really stuck around but we haven't even heard from her in a while. It's rough. --- FFXIV: Lucius Hexenseele (Brynhildr) \| RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/Fish/Cook/Fletch/Div/Mining/Smithing/Thieving/Crafting/RC https://letterboxd.com/BMovieBro/ <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:957472482] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>We are in the same boat honestly. A couple years ago my wife had a job where she was social and we were hanging out with folks from her office and it was fun. Then she got canned out of the blue and they all just stopped talking to her. Only one really stuck around but we haven't even heard from her in a while. It's rough. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 08/27/21 10:05:19 AM #46:	Ruvan22 posted... Did you tell her about you and your wife's food podcast? Not yet, but we also haven't made a new episode in 6 months :\ SSJ2GrimReaper posted... I'd hang out with LF and play mario party tbh That's sweet of you to say. Thanks --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. <cite>LostForest posted [p:957485506] in My wife an... [t:79631943]...</cite> <quote>Ruvan22 posted... </cite> <quote>Did you tell her about you and your wife's food podcast?</quote> Not yet, but we also haven't made a new episode in 6 months :\ SSJ2GrimReaper posted... </cite> <quote>I'd hang out with LF and play mario party tbh</quote> That's sweet of you to say. Thanks </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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