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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 1:35:59 AM
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Or not! This topic is what it says on the tin. Please be respectful. I dont want to regret this. Oh God Im going to regret this, arent I?

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I4NRulez
10/06/21 1:36:41 AM
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whats your favorite type of bread for toast

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gunplagirl
10/06/21 1:39:19 AM
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Will you reply to all the bad faith posters?

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BloodMoon7
10/06/21 1:41:39 AM
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I'm a bad faith poster. I'm going to ask you an insincere question. Prepare to defend yourself from my unprovoked and aggressive inquisition.

*dances at you menacingly*

Well? How do you respond?

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trappedunderice
10/06/21 1:42:23 AM
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SamsungGearS2
10/06/21 1:44:44 AM
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So why can't you see, it's not the way, when we all fall down, it won't be too late?
Why is there no reason we can't change?
When we all fall down, who will take the blame?
What will it take?

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BlingBling22947
10/06/21 1:45:24 AM
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What's the last thing you ate?

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segasaturn
10/06/21 1:46:51 AM
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Have you almost died eating a taco?

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Arcanine2009
10/06/21 1:49:12 AM
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Are you transitioning or post operation?

What age were you when you realized that you didn't feel compatible with what you were assigned at birth?

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weekoldhotdog
10/06/21 1:49:21 AM
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Did it hurt?

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 1:49:59 AM
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I4NRulez posted... whats your favorite type of bread for toast
Hmm. Probably something wheaty, with seeds. Or potato bread. Never sleep on potato bread, it's good and the color is objectively aesthetically superior

gunplagirl posted...
Will you reply to all the bad faith posters?
Maybe if I can make something positive of it. But probably not. The Queen of Tomorrow demands respect.

BloodMoon7 posted...
I'm a bad faith poster. I'm going to ask you an insincere question. Prepare to defend yourself from my unprovoked and aggressive inquisition.

*dances at you menacingly*

Well? How do you respond?
Menacing dancing? This is what comes to mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rP42C-4zL3w

SamsungGearS2 posted...
So why can't you see, it's not the way, when we all fall down, it won't be too late?
Why is there no reason we can't change?
When we all fall down, who will take the blame?
What will it take?
The end of all things, perhaps.

BlingBling22947 posted...
What's the last thing you ate?
I ate a salted almond dark chocolate bar. I ate too much...

segasaturn posted...
Have you almost died eating a taco?
Is there any other way to eat tacos than to eat until the point of death?

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gunplagirl
10/06/21 1:50:24 AM
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Arcanine2009 posted...
Are you transitioning or post operation?

What age were you when you realized that you didn't feel compatible with what you were assigned at birth?
Transitioning has no end point and not everyone wants or needs gender confirmation surgery. For that matter, it's still a question that boils down to asking someone about their genitals.

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SamsungGearS2
10/06/21 1:52:32 AM
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ElatedVenusaur posted...
The end of all things, perhaps.
That's understandable.

Also, can you drive stick?

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catboy2
10/06/21 1:54:52 AM
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>_>
I can't say it it's too crass

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BryanRust17
10/06/21 1:55:16 AM
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If you feel that the Pittsburgh Penguins don't perform well and are out of playoff contention, what kind of value would Bryan Rust attract on the trade market?
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Arcanine2009
10/06/21 1:58:27 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Transitioning has no end point and not everyone wants or needs gender confirmation surgery. For that matter, it's still a question that boils down to asking someone about their genitals.
Thanks for the clarification. Its understandable that not everyone wants to have surgery as an end goal.

TC I hope my questions weren't too personal or made you felt uncomfortable. I was curious to hear about your experiences and mean no offense. My apologies.

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 2:05:57 AM
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Arcanine2009 posted... Are you transitioning or post operation?


What age were you when you realized that you didn't feel compatible with what you were assigned at birth?
Well, I can answer this somewhat, but gunpla is right: it's impolite to ask about other people's genitals.
And what is transitioning anyway? Was I attempting to transition when I would pester my grandmother to paint my nails because I was jealous she was painting my little sister's as a child still too young to understand why she wouldn't? How about when I discovered Romance of the Three Kingdoms IV had female portraits for created officers and...haha, I just randomly decided I should create a female ruler? Or when I would use the sex change spell in Crystalis and just walk around as a girl for no real reason? Totally cis though lol. How about when I was 18 and my four year old cousin looked me dead in the eyes and blurted out, sight unseen, "You want to be a girl, don't you?" When I would steal my sister's clothes and crossdress? When I started seeing a therapist in January, when I started hormones three months ago? When I came out to a friend in a parking lot back in April, and she said, "Oh, ok" and then turned around, said, "I love you" and hugged me?

What I can tell you is there was no beginning of transition and no end of it. We are all, constantly, in transition, I just happen to be in the process of altering my physical, mental, and social presentation of gender. So are we all: mine is just very noticeable.

SamsungGearS2 posted...
That's understandable.

Also, can you drive stick?
lolno. I don't consider myself good with automatic, but at least I'm honest about it and drive a small car instead of incompetently driving some massive death machine with blind spots the size of elephants.

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Arcanine2009
10/06/21 2:12:11 AM
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Well, I can answer this somewhat, but gunpla is right: it's impolite to ask about other people's genitals

Sorry, this was not my intention to offend or be/look privy. At the time, when I said transitioning, I was not thinking about genitals, but the entire transition process as a whole such as hormone replacement as well. I shouldn't have casually asked.

One's choice to transition is up to them, and a personal matter.

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Smackems
10/06/21 2:13:09 AM
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Why they have to go and do me like that?

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_HayleyWilliams
10/06/21 2:15:33 AM
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Do you know any remedies for boils?

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weekoldhotdog
10/06/21 2:21:20 AM
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weekoldhotdog posted...
Did it hurt?


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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 2:33:19 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

You're asking a fish to describe how having gills is different from having lungs. I lack an essential reference point I need to explain that. All I can tell you is, ever since I started on estrogen, I've felt...right? It's hard to describe, but I certainly feel better.

Arcanine2009 posted...
Well, I can answer this somewhat, but gunpla is right: it's impolite to ask about other people's genitals

Sorry, this was not my intention to offend or be/look privy. At the time, when I said transitioning, I was not thinking about genitals, but the entire transition process as a whole such as hormone replacement as well. I shouldn't have casually asked.

One's choice to transition is up to them, and a personal matter.
The worst way to think of transition is a list of preset check-boxes that you complete one-by-one in order and then you get a little achievement pop-up when you're "done". No two transitions are the same, no one's end goals are the same, no one gets there the same way, and that's only talking about MtF transition, to say nothing of what it means for other types of trans people to transition. There's no wrong way to transition as long as you do it.

_HayleyWilliams posted...
Do you know any remedies for boils?
Dr. Pimple Popper is on TLC, I think.

Anyways, going to try to go to bed again.

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weekoldhotdog
10/06/21 2:35:02 AM
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Fine, ignore my set-up.

I was only concerned about if there was any lasting damage from when you fell from the heavens.

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greyfox747
10/06/21 2:41:45 AM
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What is your favorite kind of bird
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SIayer_22
10/06/21 2:53:40 AM
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Is Venasaur your fav pokemon?
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Pandamonic
10/06/21 2:54:01 AM
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Hi ElatedVenusaur :) I hope you're well.

What's your favorite kind of Doritos?

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 10:31:03 AM
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SIayer_22 posted...
Is Venasaur your fav pokemon?
It's actually Steelix. Venasaur is my second favorite.

Pandamonic posted...
Hi ElatedVenusaur :) I hope you're well.

What's your favorite kind of Doritos?
Spicy sweet chili. I kind of want to die when I eat Doritos, so I don't eat them often.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

How much time is there supposed to be between Metroid and Metroid II, anyway? Because Samus has already had 3 major adventures in that time span.
More important is that we get Prime 4 at all.

Hi day CE.

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Yefoloogi
10/06/21 10:33:11 AM
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Why are you restless?

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the_ruckus
10/06/21 10:34:28 AM
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ElatedVenusaur posted...
Or not! This topic is what it says on the tin. Please be respectful. I dont want to regret this. Oh God Im going to regret this, arent I?
What is this zednark 2.0?
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Zodd3224
10/06/21 10:37:32 AM
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Pics of butt

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dj1200
10/06/21 10:37:40 AM
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Do you like girls or guys?

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the_ruckus
10/06/21 10:39:56 AM
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ElatedVenusaur posted...
but gunpla is right: it's impolite to ask about other people's genitals.
gunpla didn't say it was impolite.
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ApherosyLove
10/06/21 10:41:44 AM
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Have you read The Cask of Amontillado?

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Tenlaar
10/06/21 10:44:01 AM
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Why would you make an AMA topic specifically highlighting being trans if you think its impolite for people to ask about your transition?
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the_ruckus
10/06/21 10:46:20 AM
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Tenlaar posted...
Why would you make an AMA topic specifically highlighting being trans if you think its impolite for people to ask about your transition?
Do you remember when zednark and SPM argued about whether correct spelling was "transwoman" vs "trans woman" for like 300 posts? Im getting that vibe.
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MrMallard
10/06/21 10:48:13 AM
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I think you may have mentioned that you were trans one or twice before, but I don't think it's really sunk in. Like I recognise your username and I like you, but that aspect always slips my mind. When I think of trans users I mostly think of Sayoria and Hair.

What's been going on? I don't see you around CE that often.

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 10:49:47 AM
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Yefoloogi posted... Why are you restless?
I was having trouble sleeping when I made this topic, which may be why I thought it was a good idea in the first place.

dj1200 posted...
Do you like girls or guys?
Girls. Never doubted that. Makes things complicated though: I understand I've always internally seen myself as a girl, even if I tried to deny it, but I have (and still do, for the time being) look like a big ole' dude. So when women would treat me like a man, that would really hurt. My therapist says people who know you can always kind of tell. So women could always kind of tell I was different from (other, from their perspective) dudes, and maybe not in a sexy way!
Plus, you know...it's hard enough to compose yourself around some one attractive. Now imagine you're *also* deeply jealous of how attractive they are and that makes you even more insecure.

When I finally encountered and interacted with lesbians at my current job(I had never really known lesbians prior), I was amazed by how easily I seemed to get along with them. It was like...we were on the same wavelength! Because, as it happens, we totally are!

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indica
10/06/21 10:59:04 AM
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Where's Jimmy Hoffa buried?

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 11:13:20 AM
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MrMallard posted...
I think you may have mentioned that you were trans one or twice before, but I don't think it's really sunk in. Like I recognise your username and I like you, but that aspect always slips my mind. When I think of trans users I mostly think of Sayoria and Hair.

What's been going on? I don't see you around CE that often.
Oh, I'm here, I just don't post a ton. I'm currently really into this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2txYhkmhVts&t=5s
I talked a bit about voice dysphoria in my last session with my therapist, and he suggested voice therapy and was supposed to link me some local therapists(which hasn't happened yet), but I ended up doing some digging of my own Friday night, and found this beautiful soul on YouTube. I get choked up at the possibilities, if I'm being honest. I never dared imagine anyone could change their voice so completely.
But she's also clear on it taking a lot of time and effort and has a really healthy philosophical view of progress.

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Giant_Aspirin
10/06/21 11:17:49 AM
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i don't really have a question, i just wanted to say i appreciate your sincere answers to the questions here. i dont hear any condescending tone in your wording, or annoyance about the ignorance some of us have about this topic. kudos.

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 11:49:19 AM
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I guess I'm not sexy or inflammatory enough.

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Veggeta_MAX
10/06/21 11:50:36 AM
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What's your opinion on Xenogears?

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Pandamonic
10/06/21 11:51:19 AM
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ElatedVenusaur posted...
Spicy sweet chili. I kind of want to die when I eat Doritos, so I don't eat them often.
Yes I totally get that. I feel the same. Still I devour them. It's not something I can control.

Anyway, I hope everything goes well for you :)

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SoggyBottomBoy
10/06/21 11:53:02 AM
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ElatedVenusaur posted...
Oh, I'm here, I just don't post a ton. I'm currently really into this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2txYhkmhVts&t=5s
I talked a bit about voice dysphoria in my last session with my therapist, and he suggested voice therapy and was supposed to link me some local therapists(which hasn't happened yet), but I ended up doing some digging of my own Friday night, and found this beautiful soul on YouTube. I get choked up at the possibilities, if I'm being honest. I never dared imagine anyone could change their voice so completely.
But she's also clear on it taking a lot of time and effort and has a really healthy philosophical view of progress.
Holy shit that video is cool

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 12:08:50 PM
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SoggyBottomBoy posted...
Holy shit that video is cool
I would just like to point out that it may not have been as easy for her to do that video as she makes it look. Especially not with her dead voice. It was really brave of her to make that particular video, is what I'm saying. Her dedication to helping her trans sisters is real.

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Veggeta_MAX
10/06/21 12:12:36 PM
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Hmm seems like TC ignored me or just picking and choosing who to respond to.

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ElatedVenusaur
10/06/21 12:33:40 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Do you prefer pickles or tomatoes?
Pickles. Tomatoes suck unless sundried or made into sauce, IMO.

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