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GS4Life
11/22/21 1:20:24 AM
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I lean toward Atheist actually but a small part of me still holds out hope there is a form of God and afterlife

There's an adorable young Muslim girl I'm falling for more and more but due to religious and cultural differences it just doesn't seem remotely feasible.

Has anyone ever tried to manage such a situation?

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DrizztLink
11/22/21 1:21:01 AM
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Temporal
11/22/21 1:21:19 AM
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Convert.
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teep_
11/22/21 1:21:33 AM
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Bruh, I'm a Muslim and I've never managed to date a Muslim

How religious is she?
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Trumble
11/22/21 1:22:09 AM
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Ask her if you can take your Nintendo 64 over to her house.

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TeaMilk
11/22/21 1:24:09 AM
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My brother was in this situation and he converted to Islam

They broke up cuz she wanted kids and he didn't

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Bio1590
11/22/21 1:25:09 AM
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Temporal posted...
Convert.

Technically you're not supposed to
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Holy_Cloud105
11/22/21 1:26:52 AM
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Convert and declare fatwah on her heart. It'll please her overly strict parents you're willing to go so far for their daughter.


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GS4Life
11/22/21 1:28:43 AM
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teep_ posted...
Bruh, I'm a Muslim and I've never managed to date a Muslim

How religious is she?
I honestly don't know

She's been very sweet and kind to me and that's what's mattered the most

TeaMilk posted...
My brother was in this situation and he converted to Islam

They broke up cuz she wanted kids and he didn't
Well I'm up in the air and don't have a solid stance on kids
I don't want to disrespect Islam but personally I don't think I can ever convert to Islam it would be dishonest in my part.

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Holy_Cloud105
11/22/21 1:34:12 AM
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GS4Life posted...
I honestly don't know

She's been very sweet and kind to me and that's what's mattered the most

Well I'm up in the air and don't have a solid stance on kids
I don't want to disrespect Islam but personally I don't think I can ever convert to Islam it would be dishonest in my part.
If you don't think you can convert then it's not gonna fly if she actually care about her parents and they're all religious. You're gonna have to convert or she's gonna be shunned by her parents or they'll treat you like dirt. Has happened in my family. My aunt does it to her son's wife because the girl wouldn't convert.

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Arcanine2009
11/22/21 1:34:47 AM
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The irony of all this is that muslim men can marry jewish and christian women, but muslim women can't.

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GS4Life
11/22/21 1:38:24 AM
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Holy_Cloud105 posted...
If you don't think you can convert then it's not gonna fly if she actually care about her parents and they're all religious. You're gonna have to convert or she's gonna be shunned by her parents or they'll treat you like dirt. Has happened in my family. My aunt does it to her son's wife because the girl wouldn't convert.
Yeah exactly what I'm afraid even if she was interested in me (which there is no guarantee of to say the least)

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CommonStar
11/22/21 1:42:55 AM
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Depends how religious she is.

Though, most Muslim Americans that I've met have been pretty progressive. Then again, I live in the bay area.
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_Krave_
11/22/21 1:43:37 AM
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Don't let religion get in the way of love.

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teep_
11/22/21 1:43:55 AM
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GS4Life posted...
teep_ posted...
Bruh, I'm a Muslim and I've never managed to date a Muslim

How religious is she?
I honestly don't know

She's been very sweet and kind to me and that's what's mattered the most

TeaMilk posted...
My brother was in this situation and he converted to Islam

They broke up cuz she wanted kids and he didn't
Well I'm up in the air and don't have a solid stance on kids
I don't want to disrespect Islam but personally I don't think I can ever convert to Islam it would be dishonest in my part.

Don't mistake kindness for interest
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GS4Life
11/22/21 1:52:40 AM
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teep_ posted...
Don't mistake kindness for interest
I'm not at that point

First and foremost I know there are wrinkles I have I must iron out before getting into a relationship with her or anyone else.

I'm not trying to be a mind reader but I want to get to know her more. My gut says yes but my mind worries about some of the issues even pursuing her could bring.

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ModLogic
11/22/21 1:54:13 AM
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teep_
11/22/21 1:56:30 AM
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OK, just making sure

Just hang out with her and get to know her, I guess

Best of luck
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1337toothbrush
11/22/21 2:20:35 AM
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KaZooo
11/22/21 2:32:16 AM
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Don't do it. You're just not ready to get into it - a person that can come with things you're wary of.

That's just generally a bad idea regardless of what those things are. Find someone you actually want to see in and out come hell or high water. She doesn't sound like it.


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