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MAR10_KarT
12/07/21 12:20:56 PM
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My father-in-law was a former truck driver and his career got ruined because he violated all the unwritten rules.

He was supposed to spot people for food or lunch at times, expected to share a portion of his tips, and overall was expected to be friends with the guys in the job outside of work

he did none of that and they did their best to ruin his career and not give him routes or much of any work

Is this normal? If so how is that fair that people dont get work in the transportation or driving industry in their own merit?

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AzNDarkSamurai
12/07/21 12:25:55 PM
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Welcome to the world of nepotism

I cant think of any job that you werent required to kiss ass in to get far

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MAR10_KarT
12/07/21 2:30:36 PM
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bump

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s0nicfan
12/07/21 2:31:37 PM
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tips? What exactly was he driving around?

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Unsugarized_Foo
12/07/21 2:33:26 PM
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If it ain't written, it ain't real

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eston
12/07/21 2:33:37 PM
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Because businesses are run by humans and if you don't fit in then they don't want you there

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MAR10_KarT
12/07/21 5:29:56 PM
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eston posted...
Because businesses are run by humans and if you don't fit in then they don't want you there

Man thats beyond depressing. I thought work was all about business and who is the best person for the job? Not making friends

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DeadBankerDream
12/07/21 5:32:14 PM
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Why would a truck driver receive tips?

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nfearurspecimn
12/07/21 5:32:58 PM
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eston posted...
Because businesses are run by humans and if you don't fit in then they don't want you there
wow I'm fucked

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kinetika_
12/07/21 5:35:42 PM
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MAR10_KarT posted...
Man thats beyond depressing. I thought work was all about business and who is the best person for the job? Not making friends

Then fake it, and when you get the job... go back to being the you.

Your dad's situation was weird, and I don't blame him for refusing to do those things, though. I'd do the same in that situation.

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SaltyWet
12/07/21 5:40:55 PM
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A large part of work is about being pleasant to work with.

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Jiek_Fafn
12/07/21 5:41:09 PM
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All of that doesn't even apply now. He can go get hired anywhere. There's a huge demand for truck drivers atm

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008Zulu
12/07/21 5:44:23 PM
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Truck drivers earn tips?

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MAR10_KarT
12/07/21 5:44:37 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
All of that doesn't even apply now. He can go get hired anywhere. There's a huge demand for truck drivers atm

He doesnt need it at this point because he long moved on from the industry. Hes doing something else now.

He just told me a story over breakfast and I was appalled

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MAR10_KarT
12/07/21 5:45:05 PM
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008Zulu posted...
Truck drivers earn tips?

Yes but it depends which kind of truck driver you are. Not all of them do.

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Middle hope
12/07/21 5:47:09 PM
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Pepys Monster
12/07/21 5:51:26 PM
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Jeff Bezos would never care about this BS. He'd want his product delivered, and delivered now.

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Sad_Face
12/07/21 5:58:46 PM
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MAR10_KarT posted...
He was supposed to spot people for food or lunch at times, expected to share a portion of his tips, and overall was expected to be friends with the guys in the job outside of work

Did the others share their tips with him? Sounds like he just wanted to do his job and bounce when it's time to clock out when the group wanted a family member to the Truck driving crew.

For labor intensive jobs and most jobs in general, it's 100x preferable to have someone that has your back and you can grab a drink with after hours.

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NecroFoul99
12/07/21 6:04:46 PM
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MAR10_KarT posted...
Yes but it depends which kind of truck driver you are. Not all of them do.
He drove for the mob, huh?

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