o New York Woman spent 34,000 to have a BABY!! Is She SELFISH???

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Full Throttle 01/24/22 10:35:44 PM #1:	Are they selfish to have a kid at their age? Yes No Are they selfish to have a kid at their age? - Results (30 votes) Yes 36.67% (11 votes) 11 No 63.33% (19 votes) 19 50 y/o Sharon Kollmar from Long Island welcomed a 7lb baby girl after going through IVF when she was DESPERATE to have another child in the family!! She was so desperate to extend her family of rabbits that she asked her 60 y/o fiance, Gus to go through it and he accepted. She already had an 11 y/o Son, Aiden from a previous relationship but wanted more kids and after almost a decade, she was still single and started to look at sperm donors She explained her hen lifelong friend, Gus who is now her fiance about pairing up to strike a relationship to try for a baby He agreed and they paid 34,000 on an egg donor and IVF and welcomed their new daughter, Bayleigh Emerson to the family She said "I so desperately wanted more kids. People thought i was crazy for wanting ot start a family all over again. I've been to see fertility doctors who were dismissive because of my age and told me that although i still had eggs, the chances of me falling pregnant were slim. I was also still single. I was talking to my male friend about everything and out of the blue he said, 'what about me'. I'd never even thought about it before but it seemed like a great idea. He had always been in mine and my son's life. We dated and because i was 46 and he was 56 we tried to conceive right away. We were trying for years and looked into donor embryos but the cut off age was 45. So we turned to donor eggs and found someone who matched my colourings and finally i got pregnant". She couldn't believe it after all these years at 49 she got pregnant and now she can start all over again. People can't understand why they are doing this especially as she is nearing retirement in 15 years and Gus even closer to retirement and how they can afford it. But they swore they will be there for the baby as Gus has a 39 y/o daughter already with 3 grandkids Sharon wants to give hope to older women that the dream of a family doesn't have to end in their 40s and she feels much younger now with a new child in her life Do you think these people are selfish? https://i.imgur.com/jvt2o3Y.jpg https://i.imgur.com/K3eb1ZV.jpg https://i.imgur.com/dDdR41f.jpg https://i.imgur.com/X7S3aSV.jpg https://i.imgur.com/f8eCbBF.jpg https://i.imgur.com/ZI7Qq4g.jpg https://i.imgur.com/B0kDOVf.jpg https://i.imgur.com/ZYSiKfN.jpg --- The News Will Continue...For Now call me mrduckbear, sweater monkeys. I'm an Asian Liberal. RESIST The Alt-Right <cite>Full Throttle posted [p:962051318] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote> Are they selfish to have a kid at their age? Yes No Vote View Results Are they selfish to have a kid at their age? - Results (30 votes) Yes 36.67% (11 votes) 11 No 63.33% (19 votes) 19 Show Voting Form 50 y/o Sharon Kollmar from Long Island welcomed a 7lb baby girl after going through IVF when she was DESPERATE to have another child in the family!! She was so desperate to extend her family of rabbits that she asked her 60 y/o fiance, Gus to go through it and he accepted. She already had an 11 y/o Son, Aiden from a previous relationship but wanted more kids and after almost a decade, she was still single and started to look at sperm donors She explained her hen lifelong friend, Gus who is now her fiance about pairing up to strike a relationship to try for a baby He agreed and they paid 34,000 on an egg donor and IVF and welcomed their new daughter, Bayleigh Emerson to the family She said "I so desperately wanted more kids. People thought i was crazy for wanting ot start a family all over again. I've been to see fertility doctors who were dismissive because of my age and told me that although i still had eggs, the chances of me falling pregnant were slim. I was also still single. I was talking to my male friend about everything and out of the blue he said, 'what about me'. I'd never even thought about it before but it seemed like a great idea. He had always been in mine and my son's life. We dated and because i was 46 and he was 56 we tried to conceive right away. We were trying for years and looked into donor embryos but the cut off age was 45. So we turned to donor eggs and found someone who matched my colourings and finally i got pregnant". She couldn't believe it after all these years at 49 she got pregnant and now she can start all over again. People can't understand why they are doing this especially as she is nearing retirement in 15 years and Gus even closer to retirement and how they can afford it. But they swore they will be there for the baby as Gus has a 39 y/o daughter already with 3 grandkids Sharon wants to give hope to older women that the dream of a family doesn't have to end in their 40s and she feels much younger now with a new child in her life Do you think these people are selfish? https://i.imgur.com/jvt2o3Y.jpg https://i.imgur.com/K3eb1ZV.jpg https://i.imgur.com/dDdR41f.jpg https://i.imgur.com/X7S3aSV.jpg https://i.imgur.com/f8eCbBF.jpg https://i.imgur.com/ZI7Qq4g.jpg https://i.imgur.com/B0kDOVf.jpg https://i.imgur.com/ZYSiKfN.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muscles 01/24/22 10:45:54 PM #2:	At that age you should start adopting older kids, do you really want to be retired before your kid even finishes hs? --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:962051563] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>At that age you should start adopting older kids, do you really want to be retired before your kid even finishes hs? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 01/24/22 11:54:55 PM #3:	Muscles posted... At that age you should start adopting older kids, do you really want to be retired before your kid even finishes hs? you can when it's the man doing it... --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:962052996] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>Muscles posted... </cite> <quote>At that age you should start adopting older kids, do you really want to be retired before your kid even finishes hs?</quote>you can when it's the man doing it... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fishy071 01/25/22 1:31:12 AM #4:	I don't think it's selfish, but I think it's better if they adopted. --- "You don't need a reason to help people." (Zidane Tribal of FFIX) <cite>fishy071 posted [p:962054579] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>I don't think it's selfish, but I think it's better if they adopted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MetalGarurumon 01/25/22 2:19:14 AM #5:	"what'd you do when you turned 18, fuckin bayleigh?" "went and visited my mom and dad in the nursing home" <cite>MetalGarurumon posted [p:962055218] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>"what'd you do when you turned 18, fuckin bayleigh?" "went and visited my mom and dad in the nursing home" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 01/25/22 6:22:05 AM #6:	MetalGarurumon posted... "what'd you do when you turned 18, fuckin bayleigh?" "went and visited my mom and dad in the nursing home" :( --- Tell my tale to those who ask. Tell it truly, the ill deeds, along with the good, and let me be judged accordingly. The rest... is silence. <cite>rexcrk posted [p:962057386] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>MetalGarurumon posted... </cite> <quote>"what'd you do when you turned 18, fuckin bayleigh?" "went and visited my mom and dad in the nursing home"</quote> :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SinisterSlay 01/25/22 8:06:52 AM #7:	Why does having a baby cost money? What a fucked up country --- He who stumbles around in darkness with a stick is blind. But he who... sticks out in darkness... is... fluorescent! - Brother Silence Lose 50 experience <cite>SinisterSlay posted [p:962058430] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>Why does having a baby cost money? What a fucked up country </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dikitain 01/25/22 8:31:11 AM #8:	Honestly, your 50's is probably the best time to have a kid. By that time, you have probably payed off your house and saved enough that you don't have to work while raising them. Now instead of needing a "work-life balance" you can devote all your time to your children in the years they need you to the most. If I ever have kids, it won't be until I am at least in my 50's. --- After 16 years, I have decided my signature will NOT be about my job! But I still don't know what to put here so...yea... <cite>Dikitain posted [p:962058865] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>Honestly, your 50's is probably the best time to have a kid. By that time, you have probably payed off your house and saved enough that you don't have to work while raising them. Now instead of needing a "work-life balance" you can devote all your time to your children in the years they need you to the most. If I ever have kids, it won't be until I am at least in my 50's. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lonestar2000 01/25/22 10:31:00 AM #9:	Having kids is an inherently selfish act. Also, that is one ugly baby. --- Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335 #ImpeachToadDickTrump <cite>Lonestar2000 posted [p:962061015] in 50 y/o New... [t:79868434]...</cite> <quote>Having kids is an inherently selfish act. Also, that is one ugly baby. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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