Poll of the Day > A girl has never found me attractive.

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Incel moment.

I've had girls tell me I'm good looking before but I'm pretty sure it was just to be nice so didn't really think too much into it

Bet you had at least one, if not then man you need a shower or something

Here's a scary thought - which is worse? The idea that no girl has ever found you attractive? Or the idea that there have been girls who found you attractive, but your own neuroses and personality flaws left you incapable of realizing that they were interested?

Is it worse to assume you're inherently unlovable? Or to assume that you've missed multiple opportunities you'll never have again because of your own obliviousness?

ParanoidObsessive posted...

Here's a scary thought - which is worse? The idea that no girl has ever found you attractive? Or the idea that there have been girls who found you attractive, but your own neuroses and personality flaws left you incapable of realizing that they were interested?

Is it worse to assume you're inherently unlovable? Or to assume that you've missed multiple opportunities you'll never have again because of your own obliviousness?

The first option is more horrifying because it is the truth and some times the truth is scary.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

The first option is more horrifying because it is the truth

But how would you know?

If the second option was true, by definition you wouldn't know it, and would still assume the first one was true. Because you'd have missed all the evidence that would have proved you wrong.

I can almost guarantee that girls have found you attractive, even if they didn't act on it.

ParanoidObsessive posted...

But how would you know?

Yeah the OP is an unprovable statement.

Even if it was true he wouldn't know.

how do you know, do you ask every girl you meet?

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Ok lol

So work on yourself. I've seen some fat, ugly motherfuckers with decent looking partners. Identify the problem and work on it. Basic grooming and not being socially inept is like 70% of the battle for most "incels"

I think it's the suit man, chicks don't dig a bat suit. All those points you get for the car go poof and then they think of you hanging above them on the bed at night and just NOPE right out.

I've been told on multiple occasions by multiple people that I'm one of the kindest and most thoughtful persons they've ever met.

I'm completely unable to believe that statement because I have always identified myself as the most self-destructive and the most socially-inept guy in existence.

My ex wife never found me attractive. She was just like meh hes okay dude.

I went on dates with new woman afterwards and i could tell they were more sexually attracted to me cos they couldnt wait to tear me up

ParanoidObsessive posted...

Here's a scary thought - which is worse? The idea that no girl has ever found you attractive? Or the idea that there have been girls who found you attractive, but your own neuroses and personality flaws left you incapable of realizing that they were interested?

Is it worse to assume you're inherently unlovable? Or to assume that you've missed multiple opportunities you'll never have again because of your own obliviousness?

The second.

I've never had a girlfriend past the age of 10 (not sure if that counts), have never had a relationship and certainly haven't had sex but I can't say for sure that nobody has found me attractive. Plenty of people find others attractive but never tell them so. I've got a kiss on the cheek before from drunk girls too and some compliments by some blokes thinking I'm "not bad looking" so I'll take that.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Incel moment.

Women don't find me attractive either but you won't find me here posting about it.

Molitheus posted...

Women don't find me attractive either but you won't find me here posting about it.

But you just did.

Revelation34 posted...

But you just did.

Exactly, it's a waste of time. Point proven.