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Duncanwii
05/02/22 3:49:17 AM
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I haven't seen her in almost 10 years I'm wondering what she's up to these days.

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ZeroV2
05/02/22 3:50:10 AM
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Why would that be stalking

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Alteres
05/02/22 3:50:57 AM
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Google will know, and remember... always.

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TigerTarTheo
05/02/22 3:51:33 AM
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Nah thats alright dunc

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Masao
05/02/22 3:52:16 AM
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Looking someone up out of curiosity isn't a big deal, people do it all the time

But if you're pushing it and try to find out where she lives and where she works, etc., then it's moving into creepy territory IMO

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Duncanwii
05/02/22 4:21:35 AM
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The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!

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Zikten
05/02/22 4:26:11 AM
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I've thought about trying to find my highschool girlfriend but it would probably be a mistake. I don't think I really want to know. So I've never actually tried to look her up
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Naysaspace
05/02/22 4:26:52 AM
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yes.

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jpenny2
05/02/22 4:28:30 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!
So you wanted to pursue this girl romantically but will settle for your current girlfriend instead?

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Duncanwii
05/02/22 4:29:46 AM
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jpenny2 posted...

So you wanted to pursue this girl romantically but will settle for your current girlfriend instead?

Nope. That ship sailed a long time ago.

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LivingLegend-8
05/02/22 4:44:20 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!
Lmao
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haloiscoolisbak
05/02/22 4:46:16 AM
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It's not that weird to look(or if it is, who cares because nobody will know) however reaching out has the potential to be weird

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Alteres
05/02/22 4:51:21 AM
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I made an account on classmates to look up an old year book a couple years ago, and got a bunch of notifications afterwards... fuck that shit.

Also creeped me out, as I realized anyone I randomly clicked on got notified as well lol

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Glob
05/02/22 4:58:15 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!

It wasn't creepy until you said this.
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bknight
05/02/22 5:03:40 AM
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Yup, googled my former work crush and saw her DUIs, party girl confirmed, heck yea.
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ChrisTaka
05/02/22 5:29:38 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!

This implies multiple things and none of them are good lmao

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evilpresident
05/02/22 5:30:34 AM
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Police are on their way.

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dj1200
05/02/22 6:21:14 AM
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XD

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action52
05/02/22 6:57:43 AM
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Just googling someone and getting basic information is normal, and does not make you a stalker unless you reach out to them or try to find more personal information like their address, phine number, etc.

Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!
Okay so you're not quite a stalker but this is creepy.

If you're wondering how you could have said something along these lines without sounding like a creep, one example is,

"The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Good for her!

I hope that she is as happy in her relationship as I am in mine!"

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Ratchetrockon
05/02/22 7:29:50 AM
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ive found like three obituaries that way. looking up people I used to know.

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bsp77
05/02/22 7:40:54 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!
I came in to this thread thinking that it is not stalking in theory, but somehow you would make this creepy. And there you go...

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Akagami_Shanks
05/02/22 7:51:30 AM
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action52 posted...
Just googling someone and getting basic information is normal, and does not make you a stalker unless you reach out to them or try to find more personal information like their address, phine number, etc.

Okay so you're not quite a stalker but this is creepy.

If you're wondering how you could have said something along these lines without sounding like a creep, one example is,

"The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Good for her!

I hope that she is as happy in her relationship as I am in mine!"
I don't think its stalkerish to reach out to someone on social media if you find it on google since thats what its there for, if you google them and send them a letter in the mail though or text their phone number then yeah thats creepy

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NeonOctopus
05/02/22 7:51:39 AM
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Hell no, I checked on some old high school crushes and friends I had, made sure to look at their swimsuit pics from their college days, and then see what they were doing in life. As long and you're not reaching out just to creep on them, it's fine

Fun fact: The hottest chick in my high school with big boobs and that banged a bunch of dudes on the football team, turned out to be a lesbian and married a girl >_> I definitely didn't expect that lol

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SauI_Goodman
05/02/22 7:52:13 AM
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Look up? No.

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FabIe
05/02/22 8:42:49 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!

This is like saying "I would have totally dumped my girlfriend to try to get with this other girl but dang she's marrued. Guess I'll settle."

P. disgusting, Dunc. Better hope your gf never sees this topic.

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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
05/02/22 8:53:10 AM
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*Checks watch*
Ahh yes, it's time for a DuncanDont post.

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bulletproofvita
05/02/22 8:55:43 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
The little blurb next to the link says she got married. Well there goes that.

Thankfully I have a wonderful sexy Gf so it doesn't matter!
That escalated quickly

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Joshua_Graham
05/02/22 9:01:25 AM
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Tag

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AldousIsDead
05/02/22 9:01:58 AM
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I was going to come in here and say it's not stalking if normal people do it, but I'm sure you'll find a way to make it weird, Dunc.

Turns out I'm a bit late to the punch.

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Background_Guy
05/02/22 9:32:56 AM
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Everything is stalking when Duncan does it
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CrashLightning
05/02/22 10:10:11 AM
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I tried adding my ex gf from high school on Facebook but it's been a month and still not accepted so she either hates me or doesn't use Facebook anymore
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E_S_M_Z
05/02/22 10:30:06 AM
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bsp77 posted...
I came in to this thread thinking that it is not stalking in theory, but somehow you would make this creepy. And there you go...

I had the same thought. I think it's one of those cases where the answer may typically be no, but the fact they're asking at all means the answer is probably "yes", lol.

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Sexypwnstar
05/03/22 12:23:50 AM
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No

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dj1200
05/03/22 12:48:41 AM
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NeonOctopus posted...
Hell no, I checked on some old high school crushes and friends I had, made sure to look at their swimsuit pics from their college days, and then see what they were doing in life. As long and you're not reaching out just to creep on them, it's fine

Fun fact: The hottest chick in my high school with big boobs and that banged a bunch of dudes on the football team, turned out to be a lesbian and married a girl >_> I definitely didn't expect that lol
Pics of hottest girl. And maybe she was bi.

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