Current Events > Girl agreed to meet halfway on a date, I canceled but invited her over, said yes

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She lives an hour away, originally I had asked her to go to ramen cause she likes it, she wasn't willing to drive to me but meet halfway. This was like 3 months ago.

Today I told her that I didn't really feel like ramen but asked if she wanted to come over and smoke and play video games or something. She said that sounds chill.

She gets that I only want to smash right? And so does she possibly? Not just Smash like the video game hehe

You set up a date three months ago?

PatrickMahomes posted...

You set up a date three months ago?

I could believe that some girls have enough guys offering to take them on a date that they have a wait list.

PatrickMahomes posted...

You set up a date three months ago?

You have a fridge upstairs?

Why the fuck are you asking us?

Obviously yeah shes probably open to messing around if shes driving an hour to come to your place.

Is this like your first time hooking up with somebody?

PatrickMahomes posted...

You set up a date three months ago?

Nah I mean I asked her out to ramen in March and she said yes if she could meet me halfway, I just kinda ghosted and then hit her up last night saying I didn't feel like ramen and asked if she just wanted to come over

Naw she's driving all that way to watch you play video games. She's not interested in sex with the guy she was trying to go on a date with at all, why would you think that?

Maidenless noob.

Living-Legendx8 posted...

Why the fuck are you asking us?

Obviously yeah shes probably open to messing around if shes driving an hour to come to your place.

Is this like your first time hooking up with somebody?

Because I'm horrible at trusting myself with women and with this kinda thing in general

Sounds weird to me bro. Not sure what you mean by that.

But if youre just anxious, then my advice would be to make your intentions known from the very beginning.

If you see her and she looks hot, tell her that she is sexy.

Hearing you compliment her and tell her how sexy she is will let her know where your mind is going and if she doesnt feel comfortable then she will let you know.

Also remember that if you arent having fun and shes not interested in whatever youre doing, you can always politely ask her to leave your place.

Master Kazuya posted...

Because I'm horrible at trusting myself with women and with this kinda thing in general

Trusting yourself with women? Now I wanna call the cops. That's a super creepy thing to say man. Unless you're like... Saving it for marriage or some bull shit like that.

asagi_mode_gone posted...

I could believe that some girls have enough guys offering to take them on a date that they have a wait list.

Lol no, this is not a thing.

nicklebro posted...

Trusting yourself with women? Now I wanna call the cops. That's a super creepy thing to say man. Unless you're like... Saving it for marriage or some bull shit like that.

Fuck off, you read that wrong. I don't mean I don't trust that I won't violate a woman, I mean I don't believe in myself to where I don't think a girl would want me in that way. So quick to jump to conclusions, hate it.

Didn't even reply to you in the first place

Living-Legendx8 posted...

But if youre just anxious, then my advice would be to make your intentions known from the very beginning.

If you see her and she looks hot, tell her that she is sexy.

Hearing you compliment her and tell her how sexy she is will let her know where your mind is going and if she doesnt feel comfortable then she will let you know.

Yeah I think what I'm anxious about is worrying she just is friendly hanging out, then the vibe is off, then I kick her out. I would feel shitty kicking her out, I almost feel like I'd just endure the hangout and then not hit her up again, even though I should just save my/our time

Master Kazuya posted...

Yeah I think what I'm anxious about is worrying she just is friendly hanging out, then the vibe is off, then I kick her out.

This is why you gotta set the tone immediately Im saying when you FIRST see her, immediately say you look sexy

Like those should be the first words that come out of your mouth.

Thats how you make sure its not awkward. Make it clear that you have her body on your mind.

Master Kazuya posted...

Fuck off, you read that wrong. I don't mean I don't trust that I won't violate a woman, I mean I don't believe in myself to where I don't think a girl would want me in that way. So quick to jump to conclusions, hate it.

Didn't even reply to you in the first place

It was a joke man, chill. Jesus. Tho you did sound creepy, I was sure that's not what you meant lol.

You seem to be pretty stressed about this bro.. relax, the hard part is over.

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She lives like 45 min away roughly. She is a coworker that left in March, they picked me to take her place so I shadowed her for a few days, have randomly had lunch with her + other coworkers a few times prior to that

She used the word "chill"

as in "Netflix and chill"

have some goddamn confidence TC, enjoy the game, and don't pretend like your "time" is all that "precious"

Sounds like she wants to smash, but this milquetoast routine got old just from reading this topic.

nicklebro posted...

You seem to be pretty stressed about this bro.. relax, the hard part is over.

I'm worried about finishing fast and/or not getting hard, I have performance anxiety and haven't gotten laid in almost 2 years