Current Events > Toxic femininity Part 1

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Before I go off. This isn't about current feminism. This isn't the room for that. This was mainly inspired by some of rhe women in my life, by women it could be a partner, platonic friend, coworker, and more. This is about the burden place on men and some of the micro-aggresion we face. So when me and my partner would argue, she would say stuff like your a child, bitch, etc. I asked her if I called her a bitch how would she feel?

The part I hate is that I have to be stoic and navigate what I say, because it is OK for her to goad and attack me(verbally) but I would be a monster if I verbally attack her. Her father sick right now So I am in a caring mood other than that. My emotions towards her is usually neutral.

Also, the reason I brought up this topic is that whenever men get insulted is that either Gay, an incel(when it use it doesn't even make sense.) I have a clip here:

https://www.facebook.com/reel/546182600513704?fs=e&s=cl

Where this guy who brings an excellent point about how men should treat women after sex properly instead of as a meat bag. But the texts is what get me. "Gay vibes" and this is notable in the black community. If a black women insult you, you're gay. I thought gay people were an ally? That shit bothers me.

those ppl are bigots and you shouldn't hang out with them

find a partner that will call you a bitch when you are being one, and let you call them a bitch when they are being one

truly equal feminist relationships do exist. im in one, and i wouldn't be in any relationship that wasn't

Something that you highlighted that many people don't noticed is women calling men gay that they don't like. I wouldn't call it something just in Black Community. However I have noticed this , and it like no one talks about it.

Robot2600 posted...

those ppl are bigots and you shouldn't hang out with them

find a partner that will call you a bitch when you are being one, and let you call them a bitch when they are being one

truly equal feminist relationships do exist. im in one, and i wouldn't be in any relationship that wasn't

Man, and the funny thing is the day after. She says she was 'acting' and testing how I would react. So she is basically saying that she never 'really' attacked me.

cjsdowg posted...

Something that you highlighted that many people don't noticed is women calling men gay that they don't like. I wouldn't call it something just in Black Community. However I have noticed this , and it like no one talks about it.

You're right I do see it sometimes outside of the black community but what makes it so bad is the hypocrisy. Some Black women state they are the most attacked and unprotected group, but throws another group under the bus.

cjsdowg posted...

Something that you highlighted that many people don't noticed is women calling men gay that they don't like. I wouldn't call it something just in Black Community. However I have noticed this , and it like no one talks about it.

Yeah, it's bullshit, but bad people are going to hypocrite and not take accountability or even honestly apologise and admit they are wrong and are only spreading negativity. All we can really do is distance ourselves from and avoid these people because most of them will never learn and are only likely to double down.