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LeoRavus
07/09/22 1:08:10 PM
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So someone who I considered my best friend used to text me all the time. It was a mutual thing. We'd text each other about whatever almost every day. We've been friends for over 20 years and know each other's people and whatnot.

For the past few months when I text him, I may get a one word response. No more communication on anything that's going on. No getting together irl.

Is it time to just let it go?

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bsp77
07/09/22 1:09:43 PM
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It is time to have a conversation about what may be going on in his life. He might need help.

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Nerevar791
07/09/22 1:10:06 PM
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Typically people who have been friends for 20 years talk to each other instead of random video game forums.

Kinda weird to toss aside a friendship over a few months of weirdness without even asking the other person what's up

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A_Good_Boy
07/09/22 1:10:38 PM
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Have you tried asking him what's going on?

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Tote_All_
07/09/22 1:11:15 PM
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Nerevar791 posted...
Typically people who have been friends for 20 years talk to each other instead of random video game forums.

Kinda weird to toss aside a friendship over a few months of weirdness without even asking the other person what's up

I see 0 mistakes in this post.
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MabusIncarnate
07/09/22 1:14:09 PM
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bsp77 posted...
It is time to have a conversation about what may be going on in his life. He might need help.
Yeah, agreed. I'd reach out before just cutting it off.

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a-c-a-b
07/09/22 1:18:28 PM
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I'm surprised you've had a friendship that lasted so long if you're willing to give it up over something like this.

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LeoRavus
07/09/22 1:28:59 PM
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a-c-a-b posted...
I'm surprised you've had a friendship that lasted so long if you're willing to give it up over something like this.

It's not a matter of wanting to give it up. It just feels like he's done with it considering the lack of interaction. It's probably been closer to a year and when I text him I feel like he doesn't want to respond at all

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Nerevar791
07/09/22 1:29:30 PM
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LeoRavus posted...
It's not a matter of wanting to give it up. It just feels like he's done with it considering the lack of interaction. It's probably been closer to a year and when I text him I feel like he doesn't want to respond at all

Nerevar791 posted...
Typically people who have been friends for 20 years talk to each other instead of random video game forums.

Kinda weird to toss aside a friendship over a few months of weirdness without even asking the other person what's up

bsp77 posted...
It is time to have a conversation about what may be going on in his life. He might need help.

MabusIncarnate posted...
Yeah, agreed. I'd reach out before just cutting it off.


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WingsOfGood
07/09/22 1:31:53 PM
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ending a 20 year friendship cause for a short period of time they don't text you all the time?

no, don't do that
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WingsOfGood
07/09/22 1:32:48 PM
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LeoRavus posted...
It's probably been closer to a year and when I text him I feel like he doesn't want to respond at all

This isn't always about growing apart. He could be depressed or going through things.

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IfGodCouldDie
07/09/22 1:34:46 PM
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bsp77 posted...
It is time to have a conversation about what may be going on in his life. He might need help.
This.

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