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ElatedVenusaur posted...

No idea what show that is. I'm currently watching [redacted] it's redacted because I'm paranoid about spoilers.
I should probably go watch some Harley Quinn.

It is a spinoff from Hazbin Hotel, basically it follows the employees of an imp-run assassination company in Hell.
It is all on Youtube, legally, but I cant link it for the same reasons as Harley Quinn gore and swearing.

By the way, Rat isn't a boy.

ElatedVenusaur posted...

By the way, Rat isn't a boy.

My bad. The username is one Id think a guy would pick. But I guess I need to update my open-mindedness on this lol. Women been catching up to us with the self defeating names lol. Seemed like a guy thing for a long time. Not to mention this place os 90% dudes, so you usually just guess right when you assume man even with no insight. Ill be more careful in the future

Apologies for that.

sometimes my non-binary friends say some dumb things. What is the gender neutral for "Bruh"

I might actually change DespondentDeity to something more feminine, but that name is kind of iconic and Im attached to it even tho its not very girly.

Fimbulvetr posted...

I might actually change DespondentDeity to something more feminine, but that name is kind of iconic and Im attached to it even tho its not very girly.

I've thought about changing the name of this account too, honestly. But I also kind of like it's sort of a self-contained legacy thing. And I'm not sure I want to stay here much longer anyhow.

ElatedVenusaur posted...

I've thought about changing the name of this account too, honestly. But I also kind of like it's sort of a self-contained legacy thing. And I'm not sure I want to stay here much longer anyhow.

Funny how we get attached to these little personae weve created, I think especially for people who post as their genuine selves its easy to, since it becomes like another appendage or something lol.

Anyway, question. Have you ever read Mary Shelleys Frankenstein? If yes, how do you feel about the novel? Do you relate more to the doctor, or his creation? Do you believe the doctor is correct in that the victims of his creatures wrath are in truth his own victims?

Are you moved by the following passages?

Everywhere I see bliss, from which I alone am irrevocably excluded. I was benevolent and good; misery made me a fiend. Make me happy, and I shall again be virtuous. [] Believe me, Frankenstein, I was benevolent; my soul glowed with love and humanity; but am I not alone, miserably alone?

Fimbulvetr posted...

Funny how we get attached to these little personae weve created, I think especially for people who post as their genuine selves its easy to, since it becomes like another appendage or something lol.

Anyway, question. Have you ever read Mary Shelleys Frankenstein? If yes, how do you feel about the novel? Do you relate more to the doctor, or his creation? Do you believe the doctor is correct in that the victims of his creatures wrath are in truth his own victims?

Are you moved by the following passages?

Everywhere I see bliss, from which I alone am irrevocably excluded. I was benevolent and good; misery made me a fiend. Make me happy, and I shall again be virtuous. [] Believe me, Frankenstein, I was benevolent; my soul glowed with love and humanity; but am I not alone, miserably alone?

Oooh, meaty! I'll have to break this one out.

Have you ever read Mary Shelleys Frankenstein? If yes, how do you feel about the novel?

Yes, and I loved it. Her writing style is exceptionally beautiful. However, that book is so viciously depressing I doubt I'll ever read it again

Do you relate more to the doctor, or his creation?

I'm not really sure, honestly. I'm highly empathetic, but neither is an especially likeable character. However, the author forces us to see things through the eyes of both characters regardless.

Do you believe the doctor is correct in that the victims of his creatures wrath are in truth his own victims?

To the extent that he created the Creature, was an awful father to it, and deceived it. But the Creature also has agency. He is chiefly responsible for his own actions.

Are you moved by the following passages?

Certainly. It's what being in the closet felt like. Other people got to enjoy life, but for some reason, I couldn't.

Not that I'm exactly brimming with joy at the moment. I'm still emotionally frayed from the woman I'm dating going on and on about this non-binary person she's obsessed with and messages obsessively even though they broke up with her and blocked her. I both find her behavior deeply concerning and also feel a little jealous, that this person has such a hold on her. At the same time, I wouldn't want her to not tell me, and I think the other stuff she's going through is pressing her to the point where she feels the need to talk to me about it I'm essentially the only person aside from her roommate and daughter that she regularly sees.
For the record, she's explicitly poly and I'm kind of starting to think I'm okay with that. There are definitely coworkers I wouldn't mind getting to know very intimately.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a63V_fAPNaA
Listen to Voice Mom's music with me, and just....return to trans.

I gotta do my shot but I ate too much food

Heard you were leaving? Why?

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You didn't ask, but Zheana has pretty severe ADHD and executive dysfunction. I think that's part of why her music is so unique: her brain just doesn't work normally. It works however the fuck it does.
"Heat from fire, fire from heat."
ANameWithSpaces posted...

Heard you were leaving? Why?

I don't know that this place serves any purpose for me anymore. I mean, other than all the rampant transphobia upsetting me.

Z's tribute to SOPHIE isn't something I can link, but it certainly makes me feel a certain kind of type of way.
I love you if you get the reference at the end to a third musical artist of no relation to the first two mentioned.

Why do I keep bumping this? I'm just bored, just rambling and tired and wearily demanding your attention in the twilight of my time here.

ElatedVenusaur posted...

Fuck yeah, let us rule the world with pastel-coloured iron fists!

Yes, we shall bring the sweet release everyone craves. Wait, pastels? You can be pastels, I like monochrome and purples and deep reds.

gunplagirl posted...

Yes, we shall bring the sweet release everyone craves. Wait, pastels? You can be pastels, I like monochrome and purples and deep reds.

Oh, so thats how you roll.

Truthfully, I like deep reds and blues. And pinks. And purples.

i don't see why a girl couldn't have this name. it's supposed to be ironic.

Do you mind if I asked you some gender and transition-related questions? Before I start, may I doublecheck with you if you are good at handling devil's advocate questions and criticisms?

Tenaku posted...

Do you mind if I asked you some gender and transition-related questions? Before I start, may I doublecheck with you if you are good at handling devil's advocate questions and criticisms?

Breh

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I would say it's worse. It used to be more...light hearted, in a way. Maybe that's nostalgia goggles, maybe I was just younger, dumber, and closeted, I don't really know.

Tenaku posted...

Do you mind if I asked you some gender and transition-related questions? Before I start, may I doublecheck with you if you are good at handling devil's advocate questions and criticisms?

Ah yes, the dude who just wants to ask questions while trans people are being turned into internal refugees in this very country. As children are forced to sign sworn affidavits affirming their birth gender and must submit to genital inspections whenever some creeper thinks they're performing a little too well.

Also let slip to my girlfriend she made me feel a bit jealous yesterday. I really shouldn't be texting her this tired, I hope I don't blow myself up. Pray for me.

ElatedVenusaur posted...

Ah yes, the dude who just wants to ask questions while trans people are being turned into internal refugees in this very country. As children are forced to sign sworn affidavits affirming their birth gender and must submit to genital inspections whenever some creeper thinks they're performing a little too well.

Translation? Is this a NO? And is any of what you said a reference to what I've stated or discussed before?

Tenaku posted...

Translation? Is this a NO? And is any of what you said a reference to what I've stated or discussed before?

youre an obvious JAQoff, so you should obviously FUQoff. Plus, youve asked your dumbass questions in pretty much every thread about trans people so you seem to have forgotten any answers youve already gotten, are you having memory problems?

Im always astounded that it doesnt wound these peoples pride to pretend to be so fucking stupid, but if youre trying to force other people to justify their existence, youve gotta be pretty shameless to begin with.

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She just responded with that she figured and that she didn't think less of me for it.

It was 1 AM, that was plenty good enough for 1 AM. She once again demonstrates what an incredibly understanding person she is.

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Yeah. Ive worked very hard to foster a relationship of mutual trust and honesty, and shes a willing partner in my mad project. Its not always easy but its better to be worried about whats real than something youve imagined.

DespondentDeity posted...

youre an obvious JAQoff, so you should obviously FUQoff.

So are you, and why don't you?

Plus, youve asked your dumbass questions in pretty much every thread about trans people so you seem to have forgotten any answers youve already gotten, are you having memory problems?

Questions like what, and answers like what?

Is it not possible that the reason why I ask repeated questions is because I received unusable answers? Is it wrong to hope the next person might be any better? Especially one who has personal experience, and flat out invited trans-related questions in the OP?

Im always astounded that it doesnt wound these peoples pride to pretend to be so fucking stupid, but if youre trying to force other people to justify their existence, youve gotta be pretty shameless to begin with.

Well how about you cite a few of these answers you said I forgot, and then we can talk about whether or not I'd be less fucking stupid if I accepted them.

No need to feed it, ladies.

God, work is kicking my ass.

What you working with?
Best/worst snes games?

I didnt wish to be disruptive, I just want these sealions to know that Im not as forgetful as them.

Bummer about work, are you at least close to being finished? I could commiserate, perhaps later tho. Gonna be doing any gaming this weekend? Did you already sign up for the course youll be taking, or have you decided which it will be?

Your answer on the Frankenstein gave me a lot to think about btw, I want to honor you with a worthy response, so it may be tomorrow.

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What other terms would you use to describe answers that are either not informative enough, or you know is just flat out wrong? How do YOU respond to such answers without belittling the people who gave them to you?

DespondentDeity posted...

a harassment tactic by which a participant in a debate or online discussion pesters the other participant with disingenuous questions under the guise of sincerity, hoping to erode the patience or goodwill of the target to the point where they appear unreasonable.

What disingenuous questions?

Oh good Tena- "WHY WON'T SOMEONE DEFINE WOMAN FOR ME" -ku is here.

Foppe posted...

What you working with?

The public. Go figure.

Best/worst snes games?

I have no idea on worst, but my fave would Chrono Trigger

DespondentDeity posted...

I didnt wish to be disruptive, I just want these sealions to know that Im not as forgetful as them.

Bummer about work, are you at least close to being finished? I could commiserate, perhaps later tho. Gonna be doing any gaming this weekend? Did you already sign up for the course youll be taking, or have you decided which it will be?

Your answer on the Frankenstein gave me a lot to think about btw, I want to honor you with a worthy response, so it may be tomorrow.

I get out at 7:30, so soon.
Ive actually got an EUIV game going, want to play Sonic 2 GEN again, and am playing OG Legend of Zelda, which is honestly surprisingly playable aside from only being able to move in four directions.

And, the class? I wasnt able to register: I think the system still has me flagged as undergrad. If its not resolved soon, Im going to have to complain.

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Deny. Steelix is my king.

What do you think about Easy Cheese?

The way you worded the title implies there are degrees of transmess. I always assumed it was a binary thing, as in you are either trans, or cis.

Bishop_Hastur posted...
What do you think about Easy Cheese?

When the fuck did they stop calling it Cheese Whiz?
I guess it exists and is okay, but actual cheese is already pretty uncomplicated.

mustachedmystic posted...

The way you worded the title implies there are degrees of transmess. I always assumed it was a binary thing, as in you are either trans, or cis.

Ya'll are weirdly literal.

In any case, I'm free from my damned job, and I only got to talk to one enby. Though I did get to hug said enby, which is great, because I missed him. It was nice to hear her voice.

Cheese Whiz is a different product than Easy Cheese. Easy Cheese is the pressurized can made by Nabisco, while Cheese Whiz was always the spreadable cheese that Kraft sold in a jar. I distinctly remember this misnomer due to my uncle always referring to Easy Cheese as Cheese Whiz, and when I asked him why he called it that, he said because the van makes a wizzz sound when you depress the nozzle, but whenever Id ask my mother to get Cheese Whiz wed end up with the jarred abomination.

DespondentDeity posted...

Cheese Whiz is a different product than Easy Cheese. Easy Cheese is the pressurized can made by Nabisco, while Cheese Whiz was always the spreadable cheese that Kraft sold in a jar. I distinctly remember this misnomer due to my uncle always referring to Easy Cheese as Cheese Whiz, and when I asked him why he called it that, he said because the van makes a wizzz sound when you depress the nozzle, but whenever Id ask my mother to get Cheese Whiz wed end up with the jarred abomination.

I'm kind of glad I don't know this much about cheese products of questionable provenance.

My brain is polluted with things that dont matter.

ElatedVenusaur posted...

When the fuck did they stop calling it Cheese Whiz?
I guess it exists and is okay, but actual cheese is already pretty uncomplicated.

It's a brand thing. Near as I can tell Cheese Whiz is still around.

I had my third laser session today, she turned it up since I had been so diligent in my sunscreen application, as a result, the mustache area was extraordinarily painful. She was also really frustrated that I had worn makeup today, I kept telling her I have wipes in my purse and could have it off in a minute, and I think she insisted on removing it with water and paper towels to justify her frustration. Im looking forward to hearing from you once you start the process, especially since I was well prepared with a high pain tolerance and theres still spots where I need to have her pause so I can catch my breath. It makes me feel like a child in a way, how I used to react to my mother performing some type of grooming or something that was uncomfortable or painful.

How prepared do you feel in regard to the pain? Do you generally skew towards higher tolerance? I think meditating on the fact that its 10 minutes, once every four weeks is helpful, and holding an image of the final goal in your mind during also helps.

Milk milk lemonade?

DespondentDeity posted...

How prepared do you feel in regard to the pain? Do you generally skew towards higher tolerance? I think meditating on the fact that its 10 minutes, once every four weeks is helpful, and holding an image of the final goal in your mind during also helps.

I have no idea how to quantify pain tolerance. It doesn't even fucking matter, this isn't a question: I'm getting this hair burned off no matter how bad it hurts.

MrMallard posted...

Milk milk lemonade?

What?

Incredibly grumpy because living with my parents fucking sucks. Too noisy even to watch my show with headphones. They're so inconsiderate, but God forbid I make noise...

That wasnt my intention with the question. Hope your night gets better

Should I party (stay up) tonight?