Poll of the Day > my boyfriend was living at my house this week

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Jen0125 08/02/22 10:37:32 AM #51:	Archgoat posted... Why can't the boyfriend stay with you when the roommate is there? I assume the bf would stay in the same room as you? Just too awkward? He doesn't want to because of the things I've told him about my roommate and my past relationship. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967013452] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Archgoat posted... </cite> <quote>Why can't the boyfriend stay with you when the roommate is there? I assume the bf would stay in the same room as you? Just too awkward?</quote> He doesn't want to because of the things I've told him about my roommate and my past relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 08/02/22 11:35:09 AM #52:	Kinda surprised your current boyfriend is confortable that you live with your ex tbh it's the kind of situation you see in HIMYM or something --- http://i.imgur.com/1XbPahR.png <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:967014613] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Kinda surprised your current boyfriend is confortable that you live with your ex tbh it's the kind of situation you see in HIMYM or something </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 11:37:44 AM #53:	Blightzkrieg posted... Kinda surprised your current boyfriend is confortable that you live with your ex tbh it's the kind of situation you see in HIMYM or something My boyfriend isn't insecure. It's pretty obvious I have no romantic love for this person that lives at my house. We are actively making plans for when he moves in regarding how we want to live here. I'm glad he is supportive instead of jealous. I really need the support because this situation, while seeming funny from the outside, is actually extremely stressful for me. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967014668] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Blightzkrieg posted... </cite> <quote>Kinda surprised your current boyfriend is confortable that you live with your ex tbh it's the kind of situation you see in HIMYM or something</quote> My boyfriend isn't insecure. It's pretty obvious I have no romantic love for this person that lives at my house. We are actively making plans for when he moves in regarding how we want to live here. I'm glad he is supportive instead of jealous. I really need the support because this situation, while seeming funny from the outside, is actually extremely stressful for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDCII 08/02/22 11:43:01 AM #54:	if your tenant doesnt leave early, when is his lease up? <cite>JigsawTDCII posted [p:967014764] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>if your tenant doesnt leave early, when is his lease up? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 11:47:31 AM #55:	JigsawTDCII posted... if your tenant doesnt leave early, when is his lease up? December 31 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967014856] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDCII posted... </cite> <quote>if your tenant doesnt leave early, when is his lease up?</quote> December 31 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DietSchmendrake 08/02/22 12:52:58 PM #56:	Dude strikes me as a bit of a loon, so just take care of yourself jen. Consider not being around on move out day, or have your new guy and maybe some of his buds around to make sure that he doesnt try to do something stupid. And yeah, change the fucking locks the next day. <cite>DietSchmendrake posted [p:967016409] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Dude strikes me as a bit of a loon, so just take care of yourself jen. Consider not being around on move out day, or have your new guy and maybe some of his buds around to make sure that he doesnt try to do something stupid. And yeah, change the fucking locks the next day. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 12:57:23 PM #57:	DietSchmendrake posted... Dude strikes me as a bit of a loon, so just take care of yourself jen. Consider not being around on move out day, or have your new guy and maybe some of his buds around to make sure that he doesnt try to do something stupid. And yeah, change the fucking locks the next day. I'm having the locks changed December 31st. I'm going to make an appointment to have it done that day. I am only living this way because he has sexually assaulted me before and I'm just trying to bide my time until he leaves. I just desperately wanted to keep my house and this was the only way. I've gotten everything I wanted and needed so I'm just waiting for the day I can be free. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967016508] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>DietSchmendrake posted... </cite> <quote>Dude strikes me as a bit of a loon, so just take care of yourself jen. Consider not being around on move out day, or have your new guy and maybe some of his buds around to make sure that he doesnt try to do something stupid. And yeah, change the fucking locks the next day.</quote> I'm having the locks changed December 31st. I'm going to make an appointment to have it done that day. I am only living this way because he has sexually assaulted me before and I'm just trying to bide my time until he leaves. I just desperately wanted to keep my house and this was the only way. I've gotten everything I wanted and needed so I'm just waiting for the day I can be free. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 1:00:10 PM #58:	Like I know a lot of you find this situation comical and I agree at times it is. But I'm actually in a semi dangerous situation for my personal safety. Making jokes about having a poor taste in men are funny sure but I am a victim of familial abuse and I didn't used to pick good partners. (my college boyfriend Chris was a great boyfriend but I was not well) Abuse is a cyclical pattern. So I'm in an abusive relationship right now with my roommate because he refuses to leave the house knowing I can't really evict him. He's ruined so much of my property and I have to replace it when he leaves. He's forcing me to put a pause on my life because he refuses to just move out. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967016575] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Like I know a lot of you find this situation comical and I agree at times it is. But I'm actually in a semi dangerous situation for my personal safety. Making jokes about having a poor taste in men are funny sure but I am a victim of familial abuse and I didn't used to pick good partners. (my college boyfriend Chris was a great boyfriend but I was not well) Abuse is a cyclical pattern. So I'm in an abusive relationship right now with my roommate because he refuses to leave the house knowing I can't really evict him. He's ruined so much of my property and I have to replace it when he leaves. He's forcing me to put a pause on my life because he refuses to just move out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DietSchmendrake 08/02/22 1:27:56 PM #59:	Yo Jen, that's a fucking terrifying living situation <cite>DietSchmendrake posted [p:967017255] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Yo Jen, that's a fucking terrifying living situation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 08/02/22 1:29:13 PM #60:	If you can document any form of abuse at all you could get a restraining order on him which would force him to move out early. No reason to put up with that at all if it goes on still. That really sucks as last I heard (been awhile) he was fairly supportive and just wanted kids, which you didn't, and he knew that, but figured you would change your mind, which is why you guys split up. Dec 31'st is still along time to go, which really sucks hard if your in that situation. Now that he is a tenant, you could possible just rent out the other space in the house until he leaves (make it obvious it's a short term lease/renting opportunity), and either move in with spidey, or rent another place for the short term (if you can't go the restraining order route). Sorry you're in such a crappy situation Jen. At least an end is in sight, but if it's really bad, considering finding a temp solution so you don't spend 5 months super stressed and unhappy. --- Tacobot 3000 "Saving the world from not having tacos." Friends don't make their friends die Hanz. Psychopathic friends do. <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:967017279] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>If you can document any form of abuse at all you could get a restraining order on him which would force him to move out early. No reason to put up with that at all if it goes on still. That really sucks as last I heard (been awhile) he was fairly supportive and just wanted kids, which you didn't, and he knew that, but figured you would change your mind, which is why you guys split up. Dec 31'st is still along time to go, which really sucks hard if your in that situation. Now that he is a tenant, you could possible just rent out the other space in the house until he leaves (make it obvious it's a short term lease/renting opportunity), and either move in with spidey, or rent another place for the short term (if you can't go the restraining order route). Sorry you're in such a crappy situation Jen. At least an end is in sight, but if it's really bad, considering finding a temp solution so you don't spend 5 months super stressed and unhappy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DietSchmendrake 08/02/22 1:33:38 PM #61:	Do you stay in touch with his parents or have any line of contact to them? I've usually found that a good way to get people to stop acting like children is to involve their parents like you would with a children <cite>DietSchmendrake posted [p:967017389] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Do you stay in touch with his parents or have any line of contact to them? I've usually found that a good way to get people to stop acting like children is to involve their parents like you would with a children </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 1:34:33 PM #62:	DietSchmendrake posted... Yo Jen, that's a fucking terrifying living situation Sometimes I worry because I have a handgun in the house. On the plus side since he started dating this woman he has been drinking a lot less. He was drunk almost all the time he wasn't working before and it made me especially scared for my safety because he was drunk when he assaulted me. wolfy42 posted... That really sucks as last I heard (been awhile) he was fairly supportive and just wanted kids, which you didn't, and he knew that, but figured you would change your mind, which is why you guys split up. Despite popular mythos, I do not post every detail of my life here. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967017414] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>DietSchmendrake posted... </cite> <quote>Yo Jen, that's a fucking terrifying living situation</quote> Sometimes I worry because I have a handgun in the house. On the plus side since he started dating this woman he has been drinking a lot less. He was drunk almost all the time he wasn't working before and it made me especially scared for my safety because he was drunk when he assaulted me. wolfy42 posted... </cite> <quote>That really sucks as last I heard (been awhile) he was fairly supportive and just wanted kids, which you didn't, and he knew that, but figured you would change your mind, which is why you guys split up.</quote> Despite popular mythos, I do not post every detail of my life here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 1:35:46 PM #63:	DietSchmendrake posted... Do you stay in touch with his parents or have any line of contact to them? I've usually found that a good way to get people to stop acting like children is to involve their parents like you would with a children His parents are total enablers of any behavior their sons exhibit. My mother also recently sent a text message to my roommate to congratulate him on his engagement and ask him out to dinner even though I haven't talked to my parents since May 2020 and my roommate and I have been broken up since August 2020. My boyfriend and some friends are the only support I actually have. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967017438] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>DietSchmendrake posted... </cite> <quote>Do you stay in touch with his parents or have any line of contact to them? I've usually found that a good way to get people to stop acting like children is to involve their parents like you would with a children</quote> His parents are total enablers of any behavior their sons exhibit. My mother also recently sent a text message to my roommate to congratulate him on his engagement and ask him out to dinner even though I haven't talked to my parents since May 2020 and my roommate and I have been broken up since August 2020. My boyfriend and some friends are the only support I actually have. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDCII 08/02/22 1:38:45 PM #64:	Jen0125 posted... Like I know a lot of you find this situation comical and I agree at times it is. But I'm actually in a semi dangerous situation for my personal safety. Making jokes about having a poor taste in men are funny sure but I am a victim of familial abuse and I didn't used to pick good partners. (my college boyfriend Chris was a great boyfriend but I was not well) Abuse is a cyclical pattern. So I'm in an abusive relationship right now with my roommate because he refuses to leave the house knowing I can't really evict him. He's ruined so much of my property and I have to replace it when he leaves. He's forcing me to put a pause on my life because he refuses to just move out. Apologies for any jokes I made earlier (which werent meant to be at your expense, but more to make light of things), I didnt realize the gravity of the situation. That sounds like a frightening and traumatic situation to be in. Wish I could offer actual help or advice, but all I can offer is my solidarity. I know how much toxic and abusive living situations can take their toll. Hope youre out of it sooner than December. <cite>JigsawTDCII posted [p:967017507] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Like I know a lot of you find this situation comical and I agree at times it is. But I'm actually in a semi dangerous situation for my personal safety. Making jokes about having a poor taste in men are funny sure but I am a victim of familial abuse and I didn't used to pick good partners. (my college boyfriend Chris was a great boyfriend but I was not well) Abuse is a cyclical pattern. So I'm in an abusive relationship right now with my roommate because he refuses to leave the house knowing I can't really evict him. He's ruined so much of my property and I have to replace it when he leaves. He's forcing me to put a pause on my life because he refuses to just move out.</quote> Apologies for any jokes I made earlier (which werent meant to be at your expense, but more to make light of things), I didnt realize the gravity of the situation. That sounds like a frightening and traumatic situation to be in. Wish I could offer actual help or advice, but all I can offer is my solidarity. I know how much toxic and abusive living situations can take their toll. Hope youre out of it sooner than December. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDCII 08/02/22 1:43:29 PM #65:	Is the handgun locked up and secured so that only you have access to it? I dont want to put more worry in your head, and Im sure on some level having access to a weapon offers some feeling of security, but it can be a liability if youre not 100% confident its only you who has access to it. My best friends brother murdered his girlfriend before killing himself with a handgun. There were threats and warning signs before the actual murder/suicide (and before the gun was even available considering he had a literal swastika tattoo on his foot), but its a very real risk when a gun is available. <cite>JigsawTDCII posted [p:967017610] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Is the handgun locked up and secured so that only you have access to it? I dont want to put more worry in your head, and Im sure on some level having access to a weapon offers some feeling of security, but it can be a liability if youre not 100% confident its only you who has access to it. My best friends brother murdered his girlfriend before killing himself with a handgun. There were threats and warning signs before the actual murder/suicide (and before the gun was even available considering he had a literal swastika tattoo on his foot), but its a very real risk when a gun is available. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 1:43:38 PM #66:	JigsawTDCII posted... Apologies for any jokes I made earlier (which werent meant to be at your expense, but more to make light of things), I didnt realize the gravity of the situation. That sounds like a frightening and traumatic situation to be in. Wish I could offer actual help or advice, but all I can offer is my solidarity. I know how much toxic and abusive living situations can take their toll. Hope youre out of it sooner than December. It's okay. Jokes don't upset me lol. That's the nature of this board. I post shit here because it's nice to have a place to vent regardless of what people say to me. I know your personality so your jokes are not malicious or harmful to me. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967017612] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDCII posted... </cite> <quote>Apologies for any jokes I made earlier (which werent meant to be at your expense, but more to make light of things), I didnt realize the gravity of the situation. That sounds like a frightening and traumatic situation to be in. Wish I could offer actual help or advice, but all I can offer is my solidarity. I know how much toxic and abusive living situations can take their toll. Hope youre out of it sooner than December.</quote> It's okay. Jokes don't upset me lol. That's the nature of this board. I post shit here because it's nice to have a place to vent regardless of what people say to me. I know your personality so your jokes are not malicious or harmful to me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/02/22 1:44:17 PM #67:	JigsawTDCII posted... Is the handgun locked up and secured so that only you have access to it? I dont want to put more worry in your head, and Im sure on some level having access to a weapon offers some feeling of security, but it can be a liability if youre not 100% confident its only you who has access to it. My best friends brother murdered his girlfriend before killing himself with a handgun. There were threats and warning signs before the actual murder/suicide (and before the gun was even available considering he had a literal swastika tattoo on his foot), but its a very real risk when a gun is available. Yes. When he's home I have it locked in a safe that can only be opened with a code or my fingerprint. Otherwise it's in my purse. What you stated is a worry for me. I'm hopeful since he has a "fiance" now he won't go that route. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967017628] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDCII posted... </cite> <quote>Is the handgun locked up and secured so that only you have access to it? I dont want to put more worry in your head, and Im sure on some level having access to a weapon offers some feeling of security, but it can be a liability if youre not 100% confident its only you who has access to it. My best friends brother murdered his girlfriend before killing himself with a handgun. There were threats and warning signs before the actual murder/suicide (and before the gun was even available considering he had a literal swastika tattoo on his foot), but its a very real risk when a gun is available.</quote> Yes. When he's home I have it locked in a safe that can only be opened with a code or my fingerprint. Otherwise it's in my purse. What you stated is a worry for me. I'm hopeful since he has a "fiance" now he won't go that route. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/03/22 8:54:58 AM #68:	My roommate stopped in yesterday home from vacation just to tell me his fiance cut her ankle on vacation down to the bone and she's crying in his car. He said he'll keep me updated. I did not ask. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967036895] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>My roommate stopped in yesterday home from vacation just to tell me his fiance cut her ankle on vacation down to the bone and she's crying in his car. He said he'll keep me updated. I did not ask. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDCII 08/03/22 9:01:55 AM #69:	why did he just leave his crying fiance in the car instead of like taking her to a doctor or the ER or at the very least home to rest? what a psycho <cite>JigsawTDCII posted [p:967037005] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>why did he just leave his crying fiance in the car instead of like taking her to a doctor or the ER or at the very least home to rest? what a psycho </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDCII 08/03/22 9:04:11 AM #70:	Jen0125 posted... Yes. When he's home I have it locked in a safe that can only be opened with a code or my fingerprint. Otherwise it's in my purse. What you stated is a worry for me. I'm hopeful since he has a "fiance" now he won't go that route. I think having a fiance definitely mitigates the likelihood of it happening, and having it locked to a code and fingerprint only you have definitely will help prevent that. Hopefully he just moved out asap regardless. Why does he want to keep living there when hes about to get married. He genuinely sounds insane <cite>JigsawTDCII posted [p:967037034] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Yes. When he's home I have it locked in a safe that can only be opened with a code or my fingerprint. Otherwise it's in my purse. What you stated is a worry for me. I'm hopeful since he has a "fiance" now he won't go that route.</quote> I think having a fiance definitely mitigates the likelihood of it happening, and having it locked to a code and fingerprint only you have definitely will help prevent that. Hopefully he just moved out asap regardless. Why does he want to keep living there when hes about to get married. He genuinely sounds insane </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/03/22 9:05:27 AM #71:	JigsawTDCII posted... why did he just leave his crying fiance in the car instead of like taking her to a doctor or the ER or at the very least home to rest? what a psycho To make sure I knew of course. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967037061] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDCII posted... </cite> <quote>why did he just leave his crying fiance in the car instead of like taking her to a doctor or the ER or at the very least home to rest? what a psycho</quote> To make sure I knew of course. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/03/22 9:06:56 AM #72:	JigsawTDCII posted... Why does he want to keep living there when hes about to get married. He genuinely sounds insane When he told me he was engaged the first thing I asked is if he was going to move out soon because I really wanted my boyfriend to move in. He looked me in the eyes and said he wasn't going to inconvenience himself for my boyfriend and he still wasn't moving out. She was within earshot when he said this. So he isn't going to inconvenience himself so I can move on but he can inconvenience me and put my life on hold. It's literally abuse. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967037084] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDCII posted... </cite> <quote>Why does he want to keep living there when hes about to get married. He genuinely sounds insane</quote> When he told me he was engaged the first thing I asked is if he was going to move out soon because I really wanted my boyfriend to move in. He looked me in the eyes and said he wasn't going to inconvenience himself for my boyfriend and he still wasn't moving out. She was within earshot when he said this. So he isn't going to inconvenience himself so I can move on but he can inconvenience me and put my life on hold. It's literally abuse. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 08/03/22 11:23:15 AM #73:	Jen0125 posted... My roommate stopped in yesterday home from vacation just to tell me his fiance cut her ankle on vacation down to the bone and she's crying in his car. He said he'll keep me updated. I did not ask. It sounds like a threat --- http://i.imgur.com/1XbPahR.png <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:967040328] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>My roommate stopped in yesterday home from vacation just to tell me his fiance cut her ankle on vacation down to the bone and she's crying in his car. He said he'll keep me updated. I did not ask.</quote>It sounds like a threat </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 12:36:12 PM #74:	Roommate has been at his girlfriend's since Sunday. Consecutively. So why can't he move out?? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967068515] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Roommate has been at his girlfriend's since Sunday. Consecutively. So why can't he move out?? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 1:31:29 PM #75:	Jen0125 posted... Roommate has been at his girlfriend's since Sunday. Consecutively. So why can't he move out?? wish he'd move out and my cat could take his room <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967069660] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Roommate has been at his girlfriend's since Sunday. Consecutively. So why can't he move out??</quote>wish he'd move out and my cat could take his room </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 1:52:33 PM #76:	grimhilde00 posted... wish he'd move out and my cat could take his room Me too <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967070119] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>grimhilde00 posted... </cite> <quote>wish he'd move out and my cat could take his room</quote> Me too </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 08/04/22 3:11:08 PM #77:	You could fill it with cat litter and it would be the shit room --- http://i.imgur.com/1XbPahR.png <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:967071805] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>You could fill it with cat litter and it would be the shit room </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:36:21 PM #79:	SunWuKung420 posted... Please explain why your exbf/roommate was never arrested for sexual assault. I know you live in Arizona so you being white and him being Mexican should have at the least resulted in his deportation. Him being Mexican? He was born in the United States. You are racist and this post is weird. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081730] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite> <quote>Please explain why your exbf/roommate was never arrested for sexual assault. I know you live in Arizona so you being white and him being Mexican should have at the least resulted in his deportation.</quote> Him being Mexican? He was born in the United States. You are racist and this post is weird. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:39:52 PM #81:	Have you ever lived here? You think an American citizen can get deported to Mexico? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081795] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Have you ever lived here? You think an American citizen can get deported to Mexico? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:41:13 PM #83:	SunWuKung420 posted... Are you defending the person that assaulted you? ??? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081831] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite> <quote>Are you defending the person that assaulted you?</quote> ??? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 10:41:56 PM #86:	the fuck direction did this thread take <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967081848] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>the fuck direction did this thread take </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:43:30 PM #88:	Why are you literally deranged? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081885] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Why are you literally deranged? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:44:36 PM #89:	Did you grow up in a house that had lead paint in or on it? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081908] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Did you grow up in a house that had lead paint in or on it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 10:45:20 PM #90:	SunWuKung420 posted... Why didn't Jen have her assailant arrested? well I have multiple assailants I haven't gone after so you're not really going to get the answer you want here from me why are you grilling a victim in a deranged manner? <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967081921] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite> <quote>Why didn't Jen have her assailant arrested?</quote> well I have multiple assailants I haven't gone after so you're not really going to get the answer you want here from me why are you grilling a victim in a deranged manner? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 10:46:16 PM #92:	SunWuKung420 posted... Why didn't you have mando arrested? Answer the pertinent question. the intensity is what makes this weird. like he believes he actually has a valid point. <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967081940] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite> <quote>Why didn't you have mando arrested? Answer the pertinent question.</quote> the intensity is what makes this weird. like he believes he actually has a valid point. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:46:45 PM #93:	grimhilde00 posted... the intensity is what makes this weird. like he believes he actually has a valid point. Yeah he's really unhinged rn lmao I'm glad I don't have to ever be around him physically <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081952] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>grimhilde00 posted... </cite> <quote>the intensity is what makes this weird. like he believes he actually has a valid point.</quote> Yeah he's really unhinged rn lmao I'm glad I don't have to ever be around him physically </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:48:06 PM #94:	grimhilde00 posted... well I have multiple assailants I haven't gone after so you're not really going to get the answer you want here from me why are you grilling a victim in a deranged manner? Right? Lmao why would we report anything? So the police can shame us and do nothing? No thanks. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967081972] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>grimhilde00 posted... </cite> <quote>well I have multiple assailants I haven't gone after so you're not really going to get the answer you want here from me why are you grilling a victim in a deranged manner?</quote> Right? Lmao why would we report anything? So the police can shame us and do nothing? No thanks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:50:36 PM #97:	Has your wife ever seen what you post on this board? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082021] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Has your wife ever seen what you post on this board? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:50:57 PM #98:	@Cacciato do you think she'd like to? <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082032] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>@Cacciato do you think she'd like to? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:53:18 PM #100:	I'm going to let your wife really understand who you are this time. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082081] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>I'm going to let your wife really understand who you are this time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 08/04/22 10:53:54 PM #101:	<cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:967082090] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 10:54:13 PM #102:	wow man you should go host a talk radio show about having it all figured out <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967082093] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>wow man you should go host a talk radio show about having it all figured out </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:54:31 PM #103:	grimhilde00 posted... wow man you should go host a talk radio show about having it all figured out Lmao definitely a podcast man <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082094] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>grimhilde00 posted... </cite> <quote>wow man you should go host a talk radio show about having it all figured out</quote> Lmao definitely a podcast man </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 08/04/22 10:55:17 PM #104:	Abusers should he reported and arrested. Am I wrong? --- "I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:967082104] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Abusers should he reported and arrested. Am I wrong? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 10:55:44 PM #105:	if you cared to educate yourself I'm sure you could figure out Google ok well maybe I'm not sure about that <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967082110] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>if you cared to educate yourself I'm sure you could figure out Google ok well maybe I'm not sure about that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 10:55:56 PM #106:	Omg is this a LinkedIn post now? "American citizens should be deported to Mexico Do you agree?" Lmfao <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082113] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Omg is this a LinkedIn post now? "American citizens should be deported to Mexico Do you agree?" Lmfao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 11:02:27 PM #108:	You are the one that brought up his heritage and race dude lmao. I have no idea what you're doing here but you look absolutely psychotic and I'm marking all of your posts. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082218] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>You are the one that brought up his heritage and race dude lmao. I have no idea what you're doing here but you look absolutely psychotic and I'm marking all of your posts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vidyagamelover 08/04/22 11:07:42 PM #109:	Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house? --- Pitfall Harry is the GOAT protagonist. The crocodiles are the GOAT antagonist. <cite>Vidyagamelover posted [p:967082308] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
grimhilde00 08/04/22 11:08:31 PM #110:	Vidyagamelover posted... Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house? so they don't escalate and kill you. it's not hard to break into a house <cite>grimhilde00 posted [p:967082323] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Vidyagamelover posted... </cite> <quote>Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house?</quote> so they don't escalate and kill you. it's not hard to break into a house </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 08/04/22 11:09:03 PM #111:	Vidyagamelover posted... Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house? I'm happy for you that you've never been afraid for your life in an abusive dynamic where it's better to placate the abuser. I'm fortunate that I have an end date for my abuse. If you don't understand why abuse victims wouldn't call the police, I don't care. It's not my problem lmao <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:967082331] in my boyfrie... [t:80113224]...</cite> <quote>Vidyagamelover posted... </cite> <quote>Ngl, why would you let your assaulter live in your house?</quote> I'm happy for you that you've never been afraid for your life in an abusive dynamic where it's better to placate the abuser. I'm fortunate that I have an end date for my abuse. If you don't understand why abuse victims wouldn't call the police, I don't care. It's not my problem lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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