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GS4Life 10/21/22 6:05:49 PM #1:	particularly if you are crushing on one I get so much anxiety and don't ever know what to say meds can only do so much --- -Grove Street 4 Life- Get Well Soon Bayley, RIP Ray Liotta voice of Tommy Vercetti, Goodfella <cite>GS4Life posted [p:968877811] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>particularly if you are crushing on oneI get so much anxiety and don't ever know what to say meds can only do so much </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CRON 10/21/22 6:06:58 PM #2:	You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. It's not like they're aliens or something, just because they're attractive. <cite>CRON posted [p:968877851] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. It's not like they're aliens or something, just because they're attractive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 10/21/22 6:07:40 PM #3:	They approach me first and we just go on from there. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:968877868] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>They approach me first and we just go on from there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GS4Life 10/21/22 6:12:39 PM #5:	CRON posted... You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. It's not like they're aliens or something, just because they're attractive. well socializing in general is not my strong suit to begin with [LFAQs-redacted-quote] thanks but yeah my brain is programmed to be negative find extra energy and confidence is taxing --- -Grove Street 4 Life- Get Well Soon Bayley, RIP Ray Liotta voice of Tommy Vercetti, Goodfella <cite>GS4Life posted [p:968877974] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite><quote>You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. It's not like they're aliens or something, just because they're attractive.</quote>well socializing in general is not my strong suit to begin with<cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> thanks but yeah my brain is programmed to be negative find extra energy and confidence is taxing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 10/23/22 1:37:25 PM #7:	Idk. I haven't spoken to another offline person that wasn't my family or job or classmates since Oct. 2 2021 --- Please join the 100 Presidents community board and contribute to the project! Check back for updates! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1568-100-presidents <cite>MedeaLysistrata posted [p:968915517] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Idk. I haven't spoken to another offline person that wasn't my family or job or classmates since Oct. 2 2021</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
specialkid8 10/23/22 1:43:13 PM #8:	Just imagine them in their underwear --- https://i.imgur.com/AUXKMK4.jpg <cite>specialkid8 posted [p:968915610] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Just imagine them in their underwear</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kombucha 10/23/22 1:43:58 PM #9:	CRON posted... You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else --- http://www.last.fm/user/walkingishonest <cite>Kombucha posted [p:968915623] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite><quote>You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
a-c-a-b 10/23/22 1:49:57 PM #10:	specialkid8 posted... Just imagine them in their underwear It's always easier to talk to girls when you have a noticeable boner. --- Save for your doomed future <cite>a-c-a-b posted [p:968915736] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>specialkid8 posted... </cite><quote>Just imagine them in their underwear</quote>It's always easier to talk to girls when you have a noticeable boner.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 10/23/22 1:51:21 PM #11:	Stop putting women on a pedestal and learn to realize that crushes aren't based on anything real. Just talk to women and then talk to more women and then talk to more women. It has to be natural, and for it to be natural you just have to do it a lot. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:968915767] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Stop putting women on a pedestal and learn to realize that crushes aren't based on anything real.Just talk to women and then talk to more women and then talk to more women. It has to be natural, and for it to be natural you just have to do it a lot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shabriri 10/23/22 1:51:29 PM #12:	you're playin games with yerself man. if you find confidence too much to muster, at least start with not psyching yourself out so much. just be light, interactions arent transactional or competitions or anything. talk with no greater goal in mind then to just have a convo :v --- MAY CHAOS TAKE THE WORLD <cite>Shabriri posted [p:968915774] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>you're playin games with yerself man. if you find confidence too much to muster, at least start with not psyching yourself out so much. just be light, interactions arent transactional or competitions or anything. talk with no greater goal in mind then to just have a convo :v </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
faizan_faizan 10/23/22 1:56:43 PM #13:	I know exactly what your problem is. It's that you are mentally weak. You need to mentally become stronger in order to be able to talk to another person without getting anxiety. You have stop thinking of them as an attractive person and start thinking of them as another human made of flesh, skin and bones. A mortal, fragile human that can expire in a million different ways but luck has somehow protected them from the realities of our world. Out of the 8 billion humans alive today, some of them have to face those realities so others can survive. --- Allergic to bull****. <cite>faizan_faizan posted [p:968915893] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>I know exactly what your problem is. It's that you are mentally weak.You need to mentally become stronger in order to be able to talk to another person without getting anxiety. You have stop thinking of them as an attractive person and start thinking of them as another human made of flesh, skin and bones. A mortal, fragile human that can expire in a million different ways but luck has somehow protected them from the realities of our world.Out of the 8 billion humans alive today, some of them have to face those realities so others can survive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrResetti 10/23/22 1:59:30 PM #14:	--- http://i.imgur.com/GRZEGPm.gif http://imgur.com/OeMgQZT.gif <cite>MrResetti posted [p:968915944] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bad_Mojo 10/23/22 2:02:35 PM #16:	What I dont understand is when its appropriate to ask them out. Not while theyre working. Not while Im working. Not a coworker. Not someone on the street. Not someone thats been drinking at the bar. Tried online, but zero luck. I just dont get it --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:968916007] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>What I dont understand is when its appropriate to ask them out. Not while theyre working. Not while Im working. Not a coworker. Not someone on the street. Not someone thats been drinking at the bar. Tried online, but zero luck. I just dont get it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thronedfire2 10/23/22 2:05:29 PM #18:	with your mouth --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:968916078] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>with your mouth</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bad_Mojo 10/23/22 2:10:25 PM #20:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I dont have anyone to text, lol. What I mean is that I all these social situations it seems wrong to ask someone out or flirt with them. I think this cashier is cute. Should I flirt? No, seems bad to put them on the spot like that when they cant just walk away I think coworker is cute. Should I flirt? No, seems like a bad idea to put pressure on a coworker and make things awkward I think the girl at the bar is attractive, but I dont know how much shes had to drink. I dont drink because Im in recovery, so it seems terrible to hit on women thats been drinking Walking down the street listening to music? Why would anyone want a strange man to come up to them? --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:968916182] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I dont have anyone to text, lol. What I mean is that I all these social situations it seems wrong to ask someone out or flirt with them. I think this cashier is cute. Should I flirt? No, seems bad to put them on the spot like that when they cant just walk away I think coworker is cute. Should I flirt? No, seems like a bad idea to put pressure on a coworker and make things awkward I think the girl at the bar is attractive, but I dont know how much shes had to drink. I dont drink because Im in recovery, so it seems terrible to hit on women thats been drinking Walking down the street listening to music? Why would anyone want a strange man to come up to them? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 10/23/22 2:11:01 PM #21:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I think what Bad Mojo was getting at was the difficulty in knowing/reading that you "aren't putting pressure on them" especially given that a lot of places (work, gym, grocery store, etc) seem to have a default "asking here is too much pressure". <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:968916206] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I think what Bad Mojo was getting at was the difficulty in knowing/reading that you "aren't putting pressure on them" especially given that a lot of places (work, gym, grocery store, etc) seem to have a default "asking here is too much pressure".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 10/23/22 2:11:16 PM #22:	Flockaveli posted... They approach me first and we just go on from there. --- Do you wanna question everything? Think of a good question! <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:968916209] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite><quote>They approach me first and we just go on from there.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KhlavicLanguage 10/23/22 2:15:08 PM #24:	CRON posted... You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. this is horrible advice for CE because then they'd just be a sulking contrarian to every little thing she says and come off as super weird and aggressive <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:968916303] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite><quote>You talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else.</quote>this is horrible advice for CE because then they'd just be a sulking contrarian to every little thing she says and come off as super weird and aggressive </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xyz 10/23/22 2:17:20 PM #25:	I've never seen someone act like you can't talk to a woman at a bar. This is just making excuses not to work on your insecurities. You can talk to someone who is really drunk. It's a situation that, believe it or not, you can bail on it. If you think you're going to be creepy or a date rapist that says a lot about you --- Chewy <cite>xyz posted [p:968916355] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>I've never seen someone act like you can't talk to a woman at a bar. This is just making excuses not to work on your insecurities. You can talk to someone who is really drunk. It's a situation that, believe it or not, you can bail on it. If you think you're going to be creepy or a date rapist that says a lot about you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fimbulvetr 10/23/22 2:20:25 PM #26:	Flirting is looking for information that signifies compatibility, and broadcasting signals about your value. If youre attracted to someone you only see while theyre working, what other opportunity are you going to have to flirt? Just dont be inappropriate, know how to gauge interest, and if you cross a boundary apologize before moving on. --- [SHE/HER/DespondentDeity] The thread that binds the laws of causality has been tied. My name is turn your pretty little head and: LOOK AT ME! <cite>Fimbulvetr posted [p:968916448] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Flirting is looking for information that signifies compatibility, and broadcasting signals about your value. If youre attracted to someone you only see while theyre working, what other opportunity are you going to have to flirt? Just dont be inappropriate, know how to gauge interest, and if you cross a boundary apologize before moving on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Irony 10/23/22 2:22:46 PM #28:	Fully erect --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:968916510] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Fully erect</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Killmonger 10/23/22 2:22:54 PM #29:	I dont. --- "I will die of cancer before I let another dude finger my a******." - ZeroX91 <cite>Killmonger posted [p:968916511] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>I dont.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bad_Mojo 10/23/22 2:34:31 PM #30:	xyz posted... I've never seen someone act like you can't talk to a woman at a bar. This is just making excuses not to work on your insecurities. You can talk to someone who is really drunk. It's a situation that, believe it or not, you can bail on it. If you think you're going to be creepy or a date rapist that says a lot about you Because they're drunk, or at least buzzed, and I'm sober. Seems highly inappropriate. But yes, I'm sure it does have a lot to do with insecurities. I'm not insecure with how I look, or being turned down, though. I'm insecure about being viewed as some horny creep. I don't even want to get laid, I want to find someone that I enjoy being around. What I think I need to do is go to game night at a local game store and play some card/board games and get familiar with people. But again, it seems creepy to me to hit on people in your friend circle. So I don't know. I've never been on a date before, and I don't really see myself ever going on one. --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:968916776] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>xyz posted... </cite><quote>I've never seen someone act like you can't talk to a woman at a bar. This is just making excuses not to work on your insecurities. You can talk to someone who is really drunk. It's a situation that, believe it or not, you can bail on it. If you think you're going to be creepy or a date rapist that says a lot about you</quote>Because they're drunk, or at least buzzed, and I'm sober. Seems highly inappropriate. But yes, I'm sure it does have a lot to do with insecurities. I'm not insecure with how I look, or being turned down, though. I'm insecure about being viewed as some horny creep. I don't even want to get laid, I want to find someone that I enjoy being around. What I think I need to do is go to game night at a local game store and play some card/board games and get familiar with people. But again, it seems creepy to me to hit on people in your friend circle. So I don't know. I've never been on a date before, and I don't really see myself ever going on one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
random_man9119 10/23/22 2:35:36 PM #31:	I just don't... Never have and never will either.. --- NNID:MrOddities\|PSN:OddGamer2013 Playing:7th Dragon III Code: VFD\|Soul Hackers 2\|Splatoon 3\|Kirby Super Star Ultra\|Dragon Ball: The Breakers\|Pokemon Sword <cite>random_man9119 posted [p:968916801] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>I just don't... Never have and never will either.. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xyz 10/23/22 2:40:22 PM #32:	People don't think about how you come off nearly as much as we think about it ourselves, and people who are drunk are especially not paying attention. If anything they're good social practice, just don't be manipulative when them --- Chewy <cite>xyz posted [p:968916909] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>People don't think about how you come off nearly as much as we think about it ourselves, and people who are drunk are especially not paying attention. If anything they're good social practice, just don't be manipulative when them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xyz 10/23/22 2:40:43 PM #33:	When talking to* them --- Chewy <cite>xyz posted [p:968916920] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>When talking to* them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 10/23/22 2:41:40 PM #34:	Just talk to dem --- ...to make my way in the world as a music man <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:968916946] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>Just talk to dem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MedeaLysistrata 10/23/22 2:42:26 PM #35:	KhlavicLanguage posted... this is horrible advice for CE because then they'd just be a sulking contrarian to every little thing she says and come off as super weird and aggressive Imagine just shrugging literally everything off and continuing down that path because... I don't know --- Please join the 100 Presidents community board and contribute to the project! Check back for updates! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1568-100-presidents <cite>MedeaLysistrata posted [p:968916964] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>KhlavicLanguage posted... </cite><quote>this is horrible advice for CE because then they'd just be a sulking contrarian to every little thing she says and come off as super weird and aggressive</quote>Imagine just shrugging literally everything off and continuing down that path because... I don't know</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vampire_Chicken 10/23/22 3:21:38 PM #36:	By not trying too hard to get off with them. Once the pressure's off, you act and talk more relaxed. <cite>Vampire_Chicken posted [p:968917890] in how tf do ... [t:80205814]...</cite> <quote>By not trying too hard to get off with them. Once the pressure's off, you act and talk more relaxed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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