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Sunhawk
11/02/22 9:00:59 AM
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She was cute, in that troubled girl way.

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gunplagirl
11/02/22 9:03:05 AM
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Don't fetishize or patronize us.

But yeah, as one I can totally say a lot of us are tired and exhausted and horny.

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Sunhawk
11/02/22 9:04:03 AM
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I didn't even know you were a trans woman.

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CARRRNE_ASADA
11/02/22 9:04:08 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Don't fetishize or patronize us.

But yeah, as one I can totally say a lot of us are tired and exhausted and horny.


Wait...is it wrong to watch trans porn?

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frozenstar
11/02/22 9:04:30 AM
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why the fuck are you like this sunhawk

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rivers
11/02/22 9:05:06 AM
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ground floor

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gunplagirl
11/02/22 9:05:49 AM
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Sunhawk posted...
I didn't even know you were a trans woman.
Bruh

CARRRNE_ASADA posted...
Wait...is it wrong to watch trans porn?
You can watch it but just don't reduce us to our parts. Watching a trans girl have sex with a pumpkin? That's hot. But it would be hot even if it was a cis girl with a strapon.

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Kakapo
11/02/22 9:39:57 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
You can watch it but just don't reduce us to our parts. Watching a trans girl have sex with a pumpkin? That's hot. But it would be hot even if it was a cis girl with a strapon.
You know how sometimes you dont know you need something in your life until you hear about it?

Yeah.

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gunplagirl
11/02/22 9:42:03 AM
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Kakapo posted...
You know how sometimes you dont know you need something in your life until you hear about it?

Yeah.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/5/0/AAc53qAAD13K.jpg
I was one of the people who talked the first girl into doing it.

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CRON
11/02/22 9:42:11 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Don't fetishize or patronize us.
....all TC said was that they sent a message to a trans woman and that they found her cute.

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Shabriri
11/02/22 9:45:05 AM
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i really don't want to appear dramatic, but this is especially disgusting. "in that troubled sort of way"?

like...yeah man, trans people are disproportionately carrying trauma. and queer people in general. it's not exactly a kind life. i know we all go "oh haha sunhawk so creepy" and shake it off, but this one is just so fucking mean.

and we all know he knows what he's doing.

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gunplagirl
11/02/22 9:47:22 AM
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Shabriri posted...
i really don't want to appear dramatic, but this is especially disgusting. "in that troubled sort of way"?

like...yeah man, trans people are disproportionately carrying trauma. and queer people in general. it's not exactly a kind life. i know we all go "oh haha sunhawk so creepy" and shake it off, but this one is just so fucking mean.

and we all know he knows what he's doing.
Yep. Since it's him, it's disgusting. If it came from someone in the community like me, the context would be radically different.

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Shabriri
11/02/22 9:49:03 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Yep. Since it's him, it's disgusting. If it came from someone in the community like me, the context would be radically different.
for sure. it ceases to be ironic, or a reclamation, once those outside that marginalized group start using it. it's indistinguishable from kicking them while they're down (and most likely intentionally is that)

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gunplagirl
11/02/22 9:49:27 AM
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Shabriri posted...
for sure. it ceases to be ironic, or a reclamation, once those outside that marginalized group start using it. it's indistinguishable from kicking them while they're down (and most likely intentionally is that)
Considering what all he's fetishized before, too?

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Solid_Sonic
11/02/22 9:50:13 AM
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CARRRNE_ASADA posted...
Wait...is it wrong to watch trans porn?

See I have this conundrum with lesbian porn when enjoyed by a straight man.

It feels reductive and insulting to women who simply want to be respected for the fact they love other women.

Yet...it's hot. I can't reconcile this.

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Shabriri
11/02/22 9:50:59 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Considering what all he's fetishized before, too?
I am thankfully unaware of his fake sexual history and interests

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NeoShadowhen
11/02/22 9:53:35 AM
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Solid_Sonic posted...
See I have this conundrum with lesbian porn when enjoyed by a straight man.

It feels reductive and insulting to women who simply want to be respected for the fact they love other women.

Yet...it's hot. I can't reconcile this.

Most porn is reductive and insulting.
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Solid_Sonic
11/02/22 9:54:18 AM
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NeoShadowhen posted...
Most porn is reductive and insulting.

Well what's the solution then? What is best for society and bringing up standards of treating each other?

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Solid_Seb
11/02/22 10:03:14 AM
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Solid_Sonic posted...
Well what's the solution then? What is best for society and bringing up standards of treating each other?
The solution is being able to separate porn from real life. If watching lesbian porn suddenly makes you unable to not objectify all lesbians then I think there is a deeper issue, and blaming it on porn is scapegoating.
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