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WingsOfGood
11/22/22 12:32:04 PM
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Are you?




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NoxObscuras
11/22/22 12:34:17 PM
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Definitely not. I'm horny 24/7.

A good friend of mine is asexual though and it sounds rough. She's not even sure if she should date men or women, since she doesn't really find either sexually attractive.

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PMarth2002
11/22/22 12:34:59 PM
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No, I'm aromantic though.

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WingsOfGood
11/22/22 12:35:28 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Definitely not. I'm horny 24/7.

A good friend of mine is asexual though and it sounds rough. She's not even sure if she should date men or women, since she doesn't really find either sexually attractive.

Asexual doean't mean can't get horny
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KogaSteelfang
11/22/22 12:42:24 PM
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I'm not sure. I've never actually been sexually attracted to anyone. I do still have a pretty high sex drive though, and I desire to be with someone that way. Maybe more along the line of being demisexual, that's the one where you're only attracted to people who show interest in you, right?

I've still never even been remotely successful, but the few times I mistook someone's friendliness as interest... My own interest skyrocketed and I became smitten.

So, I think I am a sexual person, but it'll take a particular situation to bring it out. Maybe.
I just know that I crave the emotional bond of of a relationship more than anything else. I do also want sex, but it feels like that would be a matter of course if I could find someone who liked me.

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Philip027
11/22/22 6:01:19 PM
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I am

KogaSteelfang posted...
Maybe more along the line of being demisexual, that's the one where you're only attracted to people who show interest in you, right?

Mmm, not quite... it basically means you need to be close with someone before you can start feeling that way. So a demisexual would be incapable of experiencing that attraction toward random people when they don't know each other at all, for instance.

NoxObscuras posted...
A good friend of mine is asexual though and it sounds rough. She's not even sure if she should date men or women, since she doesn't really find either sexually attractive.

I mean... speaking as a not-aromantic ace, there's other reasons to date someone besides sex. If she experiences none of those reasons to the point she doesn't know who you "should" date, maybe she just shouldn't be dating anyone? It doesn't sound like she seems particularly interested in a relationship anyway.

A lot of people suggest that someone's sex/gender shouldn't even matter to an asexual person, but it still can. I'm definitely heteroromantic, for instance. (Somewhat ironically, I ended up in a long-term relationship with someone who later realized they were trans male. We're still together and it isn't a problem, but I freely admit that had they fully realized and embraced their identity from the start, our relationship likely never would have developed. We consider it a mixed blessing of sorts.)
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Havik
11/22/22 6:21:47 PM
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Ace and sex-repulsed, yeah.

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VampireCoyote
11/22/22 6:23:09 PM
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I am a sexual

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Irony
11/22/22 6:23:26 PM
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Just my career

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Alteres
11/22/22 6:24:41 PM
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Irony posted...
Just my career
ha

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Nosferatu_Zodd
11/22/22 6:26:44 PM
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VampireCoyote posted...
I am a sexual


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Lost_All_Senses
11/22/22 6:36:36 PM
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The average CEmen makes me feel Asexual. Im not nearly as sexually motivated as the world around me either, but Im also far from asexual.

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pegusus123456
11/22/22 6:38:53 PM
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I don't really know tbh. I lean towards yes because I've never been actually attracted to anyone to the point that I want to be with them. I can look at Chris Hemsworth and be aroused, but I don't actually find him hot, if that makes sense.

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NoxObscuras
11/22/22 6:43:39 PM
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Philip027 posted...
I mean... speaking as a not-aromantic ace, there's other reasons to date someone besides sex. If she experiences none of those reasons to the point she doesn't know who you "should" date, maybe she just shouldn't be dating anyone? It doesn't sound like she seems particularly interested in a relationship anyway.
Fair enough. I know asexuality looks different for everyone, so I can only speak on what I've seen through her. I just view some of the things she's said as her still learning about herself and figuring out what she wants.

I would honestly love to be able to help her figure some of that stuff out, but I have no idea how. Best I can do is give her "the tea" about my dating life. But that's more entertaining for her than enlightening lol.

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KogaSteelfang
11/22/22 6:43:44 PM
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Philip027 posted...
Mmm, not quite... it basically means you need to be close with someone before you can start feeling that way. So a demisexual would be incapable of experiencing that attraction toward random people when they don't know each other at all, for instance.
Yeah, that's more along of what I meant. I never feel anything towards anyone unless we grow close. Then it tends to kick into overdrive, just not in a sexual way. More like an intense desire to just be with them.

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