Current Events > No one wants women in their 40s and 50s

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-BrokenSpiral- posted...

Here in Japan, women over 25 have the nickname "Christmas Cake".

Because no one wants a Christmas cake after the 25th.

Also decided to watch the video. Why tf is everyone jumping on this woman? She seemed sensible to me. Hell, that's all common knowledge in this country. Is it not the same in the USA, or is there just a bunch of denial going around?

You're back? Too bad. This place is better without you

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This.

This is why at 31 years old, I'm going to wait 20 or so years before I start dating. That way, the women's kids will be a bit older. They don't have to be out of the house or anything. I just don't want to take care of kids.

Also, the woman may be mature at that point where she doesn't keep saying that her kids are "her world."

Dry_Seesaw2446 posted...

This is why at 31 years old, I'm going to wait 20 or so years before I start dating. That way, the women's kids will be a bit older. They don't have to be out of the house or anything. I just don't want to take care of kids.

Also, the woman may be mature at that point where she doesn't keep saying that her kids are "her world."

Plenty of women never want kids

-BrokenSpiral- posted...

Here in Japan, women over 25 have the nickname "Christmas Cake".

Because no one wants a Christmas cake after the 25th.

LOL

That explains why one of my friends while I was in Japan said, "I don't date Christmas cakes. They're all expired." I always wondered what he meant by that... I thought he was just being odd xD

No wonder so many are desperate to marry :x

lennethsoki posted...

LOL

That explains why one of my friends while I was in Japan said, "I don't date Christmas cakes. They're all expired." I always wondered what he meant by that... I thought he was just being odd xD

No wonder so many are desperate to marry :x

Damn, I need to go to Japan and scoop one up. I'm down to snag a 25yo >_>

cuttin_in_farm posted...

Right. But the responses in this topic seem to imply this is foolish advice?

I understand if a specific doesnt want to settle down. Nor am I saying settle for whomever.

But people in general get less attention the older they get. What is controversial about the clip besides who is saying it?

People here hate the truth, especially when it doesn't fit their preconceived ideas

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Not really, saying those 40-50 y/os want the incels just because they themselves aren't wanted doesn't really follow.

One of my first girlfriends was 36 when I was 19, I was pretty shy and she needed someone in her life after her divorce and I fit the bill for a year or two until we just kinda drifted apart

This shit still going?

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No one else to talk to

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That makes sense if someone were saying that but they aren't.

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No she isn't. She's just saying something (which is widely-accepted) which is that unspoken-for 40-50 y/o women are in a bad boat. It's a pretty common sense thing, there's even a saying about it "the only thing women hate more than being catcalled is the day that it stops"

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You can draw any conclusion based on your characterization of her but that's all it is until I hear her say it. An equally incel-ly follow-up to her (actual) statement is that those women still nevertheless have sky-high standards for men despite being lonely. This ironically adheres to the bitter incel worldview better than your assumption does despite being the opposite one.

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Probably men less-so though because at least a guy at that age is more likely to be financially attractive. Men don't really go for money/security.

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Do you want names or what? It's a saying, you can google it. It's a turn of phrase, you're taking it a bit too literally. It's referring to sexual interest in general.

I really can't believe this is still going on. My ex wife (45) has had zero issues dating and finding men. Same for an ex gf who is now 41. Plus, several friends.

This whole premise is simply dumb. Is it harder than when they were in their 20s? Sure. But still not that difficult.

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You keep using that word but she doesn't, not even once. You're interpreting what she's actually saying in a way that lets you twist it to attack a strawman of incels or something for some reason.

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I didn't say it was. I've heard it several times though. Not really important though, the point is that the sentiment it conveys is widely-accepted and uncontroversial

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Lmao I said that after you came up with your own, simply to rebut it. You're so dishonest it's unreal lol

The rest of your post is just you ranting about incels and this woman who is apparently their queen or something according to you (don't know and don't care if that's true), you seem to have an allergy to actually discussing ideas rather than attacking the people expressing them. Further proven by you cutting the conversation short as soon as it became obvious that's not how I do things.

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You should check out what Ayesha Curry said about male attention. Basically shes upset that men arent so attracted to her anymore, while a lot of women throw themselves at her NBA superstar husband. She received some backlash, but I remember a lot of women also defending her statement.

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Thanks for your insight and the vid. Ill check it out.

I have seen a few videos of JustPearl, so Ill only add that, yes, shes found a profitable niche for herself, but I do think she genuinely believes a lot of what shes supporting. It genuinely seems to annoy her when she mentions statistics on divorce rates, promiscuity and so on to her female guests and almost without fail their reply is basically that the stat is worthless because they know of their one friend who is the exception to the rule or that they themselves are totally not like other girls.

I'm pretty sure there are porn categories specifically for women in those age groups. You might be someone's taboo fetish, but there are people who will still sleep with you.

You just can't get Leo DiCaprio in your 40s and 50s.

Why would I want to be with a woman that views me as beneath her standards anyway? Sounds like a recipe for a bad relationship to me.

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Nah not really, lots of men myself included have no desire to go to college. People act like it's the baseline for being a full person or something, it's just a waste of time for those of us who just want to start working or who'd rather go to a trade school or whatever (or those of us who simply don't care about money very much)

Women can be hypergamous if they like but acting like men are failing because we make different life choices on the whole is just lol. It's very egocentric, actually

uEuphoricXDrekt posted...

Nah not really, lots of men myself included have no desire to go to college. People act like it's the baseline for being a full person or something, it's just a waste of time for those of us who just want to start working or who'd rather go to a trade school or whatever (or those of us who simply don't care about money very much)

Women can be hypergamous if they like but acting like men are failing because we make different life choices on the whole is just lol. It's very egocentric, actually

We really have to stop grouping people that attend trade schools with those that are just foregoing education. It makes sense to differentiate trade schools from college, but a trade school is a school, it is an education and it takes years sometimes to complete especially through apprenticeships that require thousands of hours to get through. It's not the quick and easy entrance into the workforce some people will make it seem like.

I hate this topic staying up because it feels like it's telling women in their 40s and 50s that they are undesirable, even if that's not what is said in the topic itself.

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The path towards happy and fulfilling relationships is crushing capitalism.

A lot of people in here are saying they don't mind older women or they'd "get with" an older woman. Older women can look great. Age doesn't determine beauty yeah yeah yeah. While there's no shortage of dudes who're dtf, I'd imagine the struggle comes when they're looking for a serious lifetime commitment. It's hard committing to somebody that's 10 to 25 years older than you. It limits the lifetime of the relationship. Youth will fade and you'll be at different stages of life in terms of what you can physically and want to do

Gurifisu posted...

A lot of people in here are saying they don't mind older women or they'd "get with" an older woman. Older women can look great. Age doesn't determine beauty yeah yeah yeah. While there's no shortage of dudes who're dtf, I'd imagine the struggle comes when they're looking for a serious lifetime commitment. It's hard committing to somebody that's 10 to 25 years older than you. It limits the lifetime of the relationship. Youth will fade and you'll be at different stages of life in terms of what you can physically and want to do

i dont wanna do anything
my cousin married his 25 yrs senior sugar mama and now hes a night watchman and spends like 80% of his shift playing dragon warrior
they sleep in separate bedrooms and she pays for everything
living the dream

wait nvm she died

Oubliettes posted...

i dont wanna do anything
my cousin married his 25 yrs senior sugar mama and now hes a night watchman and spends like 80% of his shift playing dragon warrior
they sleep in separate bedrooms and she pays for everything
living the dream

I hope the dream is him being committed to the woman he loves rather than being a sugar baby with the ability to defer responsibility onto his partner. I don't know how either feel or what's actually going on but I will say it's a sad scenario when men or women have to essentially buy their love. To each their own though

Gurifisu posted...

I hope the dream is him being committed to the woman he loves rather than being a sugar baby with the ability to defer responsibility onto his partner. I don't know how either feel or what's actually going on but I will say it's a sad scenario when men or women have to essentially buy their love. To each their own though

idk if ppl are happy who cares
a hot older lady that pays for everything that doesnt wanna have sex all the time and doesnt give a shit if i play video games is literally the dream
working sucks balls
older ladies are hot
video games rule

Oubliettes posted...

wait nvm she died

oh

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Not with that attitude.

Although you can also think of it as "shooting for the stars, landing on the moon" scenario.

In debt? Living with parents?

How old are we talking here?