Current Events > "You better not ask for a paternity test!" You make it easy for liars

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I saw a video where it was one of those voiced reddit story where a women left her man because he asked for a paternity so he can take it serious. I looked in the comment section and all I saw was, "oh he is projecting, he is cheating!"

Like, Seriously? It seems like in society you cannot have a healthy conversation about asking to take a paternity test. What they fail to realize is a cheater, a good cheater will use the same rebuttal these individuals would as well. They are pretty much protected by the 'loyal' and 'trustful' partner.

Even the person I am talking to would flip. Because she keeps mentioning that I wouldn't dare ask her about a paternity test..... . I don't know what you do when I am not with you. Also, no, I am not cheating and not projecting.

She understood that people lie, she had it happen to someone close in her family where a partner lied to her family member and said the kid was his. "Don't question it, or you're the bad guy."

TLDR:

Normalize asking your partner for a paternity.

If is normal to ask for an annual a STI test than a PT should be fine as well.