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MistressPaige 02/04/23 4:27:41 AM #1:	Ive been trying to forget about this for years but when I was younger I danced alot in clubs and many times I had guys groping me and trying to finger me on the dance floor. Many did btw. I never did anything because Im a doormat and didnt want to make a scene so I just let it happen (I was fairly drunk most times). I also thought this was normal and as long as hes having a good time thats ok right? The more I think about it the more I feel I was assaulted in a way and while I didnt say no I didnt want it either. Am I in the wrong here. I just dont know how to view these moments in my younger years. --- "Stay true to yourself, love who you are" <cite>MistressPaige posted [p:971316592] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Ive been trying to forget about this for years but when I was younger I danced alot in clubs and many times I had guys groping me and trying to finger me on the dance floor. Many did btw. I never did anything because Im a doormat and didnt want to make a scene so I just let it happen (I was fairly drunk most times). I also thought this was normal and as long as hes having a good time thats ok right? The more I think about it the more I feel I was assaulted in a way and while I didnt say no I didnt want it either. Am I in the wrong here. I just dont know how to view these moments in my younger years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 02/04/23 4:29:25 AM #2:	Uhhhh --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:971316606] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Uhhhh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Snake_Oil 02/04/23 4:34:19 AM #3:	Altman be PRAISED!!! --- GT: Snakey Oily GT: Otomo Tenzi III <cite>Snake_Oil posted [p:971316633] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Altman be PRAISED!!! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 02/04/23 4:37:05 AM #4:	not sure whether to believe --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:971316652] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>not sure whether to believe</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tremain07 02/04/23 4:37:06 AM #5:	Yes you were assaulted No you didn't do anything wrong because no one knows how they'll react in the moment of that especially ones with introverted personalities like yourself --- A worthless existence <cite>tremain07 posted [p:971316653] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Yes you were assaultedNo you didn't do anything wrong because no one knows how they'll react in the moment of that especially ones with introverted personalities like yourself </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 02/04/23 4:37:45 AM #6:	If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:971316658] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gremlynn 02/04/23 4:39:07 AM #7:	I mean yeah...? kinda text-book case right there. --- "Now, was that civilized? No, clearly not. Fun, but in no sense civilized." <cite>Gremlynn posted [p:971316670] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>I mean yeah...?kinda text-book case right there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prestoff 02/04/23 4:39:30 AM #8:	dj1200 posted... If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes. Honesly this --- DI MOLTO! <cite>Prestoff posted [p:971316671] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite><quote>If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes.</quote>Honesly this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 02/04/23 4:39:59 AM #9:	Put it this way, if your little sister/female cousin/whatever was drunk in a club and a guy fingered her and she let it happen bc she was drunk, would that be ok? --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:971316676] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Put it this way, if your little sister/female cousin/whatever was drunk in a club and a guy fingered her and she let it happen bc she was drunk, would that be ok?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MistressPaige 02/04/23 5:26:16 AM #10:	dj1200 posted... If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes. Believe me this was my entire 20s. Lost count of how many guys would do this on the dance floor. --- "Stay true to yourself, love who you are" <cite>MistressPaige posted [p:971316923] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite><quote>If fake, dont joke about sexual assault. if real, yes.</quote>Believe me this was my entire 20s. Lost count of how many guys would do this on the dance floor.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 02/04/23 6:15:11 PM #11:	Well, if you dont object to a guy whos touching your body while dancing with you, hes going to keep doing it most likely. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:971327461] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Well, if you dont object to a guy whos touching your body while dancing with you, hes going to keep doing it most likely. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LukaDoncic77 02/04/23 6:16:52 PM #12:	lmfao at this topic <cite>LukaDoncic77 posted [p:971327488] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>lmfao at this topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VeggetaX 02/04/23 6:18:10 PM #14:	. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>VeggetaX posted [p:971327505] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LukaDoncic77 02/04/23 6:18:15 PM #15:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] im laughing because its blatantly fake <cite>LukaDoncic77 posted [p:971327507] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> im laughing because its blatantly fake</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MistressPaige 02/04/23 7:47:01 PM #17:	LukaDoncic77 posted... im laughing because its blatantly fake So Im a Fking liar is that what youre saying!!?? That Im just making shtt up!? --- "Stay true to yourself, love who you are" <cite>MistressPaige posted [p:971328975] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>LukaDoncic77 posted... </cite><quote>im laughing because its blatantly fake</quote>So Im a Fking liar is that what youre saying!!?? That Im just making shtt up!? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 02/04/23 7:50:34 PM #18:	This is a fucked up gimmick. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:971329034] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>This is a fucked up gimmick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ScazarMeltex 02/04/23 7:51:14 PM #19:	I used to get to dragged out to clubs by female friends to prevent just this sort of shit. The amount of this kind of shit I witnessed is really off the charts. Yes it's assault. --- Furthermore, The GOP is a Fascist Organization and must be destroyed <cite>ScazarMeltex posted [p:971329047] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>I used to get to dragged out to clubs by female friends to prevent just this sort of shit. The amount of this kind of shit I witnessed is really off the charts. Yes it's assault.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 02/04/23 7:52:51 PM #20:	Yes, it's a disturbingly common form of sexual assault --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:971329080] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Yes, it's a disturbingly common form of sexual assault</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShineboxPhil 02/04/23 7:54:02 PM #21:	You are now tracking this topic --- Colorado Avalanche, Golden State Warriors, Houston Astros, Vacant, Real Madrid #1 Fan <cite>ShineboxPhil posted [p:971329101] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>You are now tracking this topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AirFresh 02/04/23 7:55:21 PM #22:	Jesus Christ people she has posted so many selfies and shared a lot of stuff over the years. Stop thinking every fucking person who doesn't have a high active post count is some alt crying for attention. Maybe it's a lurker expressing themselves, fuck. --- Don't Stress, Become #Fresh <cite>AirFresh posted [p:971329123] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Jesus Christ people she has posted so many selfies and shared a lot of stuff over the years. Stop thinking every fucking person who doesn't have a high active post count is some alt crying for attention. Maybe it's a lurker expressing themselves, fuck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kirbyy 02/04/23 7:59:54 PM #24:	Is this actually a common thing? Like people go on the dance floor and other people try to finger them like what? I really really hope this isn't the norm because that doesn't seem right in ANY way especially if drunk underage girls are involved --- Crayons taste like purple. <cite>kirbyy posted [p:971329209] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Is this actually a common thing? Like people go on the dance floor and other people try to finger them like what? I really really hope this isn't the norm because that doesn't seem right in ANY way especially if drunk underage girls are involved</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arcanine2009 02/04/23 8:00:31 PM #25:	I'm sorry this happened to you. Yes this was assault. This wasn't at your consent and you were taken advantage of. --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. <cite>Arcanine2009 posted [p:971329216] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry this happened to you. Yes this was assault. This wasn't at your consent and you were taken advantage of.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 02/04/23 8:01:03 PM #26:	kirbyy posted... Is this actually a common thing? Like people go on the dance floor and other people try to finger them like what? I really really hope this isn't the norm because that doesn't seem right in ANY way especially if drunk underage girls are involved They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on. And yes, it's unfortunately common. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:971329222] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>kirbyy posted... </cite><quote>Is this actually a common thing? Like people go on the dance floor and other people try to finger them like what? I really really hope this isn't the norm because that doesn't seem right in ANY way especially if drunk underage girls are involved</quote>They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on.And yes, it's unfortunately common.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kirbyy 02/04/23 8:02:17 PM #27:	That is terrible if nonconsentual. I'm sorry that happened OP. --- Crayons taste like purple. <cite>kirbyy posted [p:971329249] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>That is terrible if nonconsentual. I'm sorry that happened OP.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MistressPaige 02/04/23 8:05:08 PM #28:	COVxy posted... This is a fucked up gimmick. This is not a Fking gimmick! Im not Fking lying!! --- "Stay true to yourself, love who you are" <cite>MistressPaige posted [p:971329298] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>COVxy posted... </cite><quote>This is a fucked up gimmick.</quote>This is not a Fking gimmick! Im not Fking lying!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MistressPaige 02/04/23 8:06:23 PM #29:	gunplagirl posted... They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on. And yes, it's unfortunately common. Yep this is exactly how things went with me. Except some would reach into my panties and actually finger me.Why do people do this? --- "Stay true to yourself, love who you are" <cite>MistressPaige posted [p:971329328] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite><quote>They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on.And yes, it's unfortunately common.</quote>Yep this is exactly how things went with me. Except some would reach into my panties and actually finger me.Why do people do this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ScazarMeltex 02/04/23 8:06:39 PM #30:	gunplagirl posted... They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on. And yes, it's unfortunately common. This, I was trying to think of a way to word it when this post popped up. I once almost got kicked out of a place after I put a chokehold on a dude for going under the skirt of a friend. Bouncers jumped on me and only lwt me go once my friend explained what had happened. --- Furthermore, The GOP is a Fascist Organization and must be destroyed <cite>ScazarMeltex posted [p:971329334] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite><quote>They'll grind on the girl from behind and grab her hips then move some fingers in towards her genitals and rub against them. There's usually clothes in the way but some will reach under skirts and so on.And yes, it's unfortunately common.</quote>This, I was trying to think of a way to word it when this post popped up. I once almost got kicked out of a place after I put a chokehold on a dude for going under the skirt of a friend. Bouncers jumped on me and only lwt me go once my friend explained what had happened.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 02/04/23 8:09:36 PM #31:	MistressPaige posted... Yep this is exactly how things went with me. Except some would reach into my panties and actually finger me.Why do people do this? It's disgusting for sure :'( I'm sorry you've been through that ScazarMeltex posted... This, I was trying to think of a way to word it when this post popped up. I once almost got kicked out of a place after I put a chokehold on a dude for going under the skirt of a friend. Bouncers jumped on me and only lwt me go once my friend explained what had happened. Yeah... I'm glad you didn't get in trouble but it sucks that besides a warning the guy who did it isn't gonna suffer any consequence and will go on and do it again --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:971329380] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>MistressPaige posted... </cite><quote>Yep this is exactly how things went with me. Except some would reach into my panties and actually finger me.Why do people do this?</quote>It's disgusting for sure :'( I'm sorry you've been through thatScazarMeltex posted... </cite><quote>This, I was trying to think of a way to word it when this post popped up. I once almost got kicked out of a place after I put a chokehold on a dude for going under the skirt of a friend. Bouncers jumped on me and only lwt me go once my friend explained what had happened.</quote>Yeah... I'm glad you didn't get in trouble but it sucks that besides a warning the guy who did it isn't gonna suffer any consequence and will go on and do it again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LukaDoncic77 02/04/23 8:11:59 PM #32:	MistressPaige posted... So Im a Fking liar is that what youre saying!!?? That Im just making shtt up!? the fact you even have to ask if its sexual assault is all while thinking this behaviour is normal while being in your early to mid 20s is alarming whether or not your question was rhetorical maybe phrase it better and you will get more serious responses to a serious subject matter <cite>LukaDoncic77 posted [p:971329438] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>MistressPaige posted... </cite><quote>So Im a Fking liar is that what youre saying!!?? That Im just making shtt up!?</quote>the fact you even have to ask if its sexual assault is all while thinking this behaviour is normal while being in your early to mid 20s is alarming whether or not your question was rhetoricalmaybe phrase it better and you will get more serious responses to a serious subject matter </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 02/04/23 8:18:24 PM #33:	Woman in her 30's, unclear that somebody fingering her without her consent is assault because "he's having a good time", has an account name on a predominately male forum that says "i'm a woman guys", decides to ask about it for the first time on a forum full of men with extremely questionable views on women. All seems just as believable as that account that's supposedly a 14 year old girl that is clearly run by a 30 year old dude trying to stir up drama. I'd be surprised if the same person wasn't behind both accounts. But if I'm wrong I apologize. But if I'm not wrong this is fucking disgusting. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:971329577] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>Woman in her 30's, unclear that somebody fingering her without her consent is assault because "he's having a good time", has an account name on a predominately male forum that says "i'm a woman guys", decides to ask about it for the first time on a forum full of men with extremely questionable views on women.All seems just as believable as that account that's supposedly a 14 year old girl that is clearly run by a 30 year old dude trying to stir up drama. I'd be surprised if the same person wasn't behind both accounts.But if I'm wrong I apologize. But if I'm not wrong this is fucking disgusting.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Baha05 02/04/23 8:19:24 PM #34:	LukaDoncic77 posted... the fact you even have to ask if its sexual assault is all while thinking this behaviour is normal while being in your early to mid 20s is alarming whether or not your question was rhetorical maybe phrase it better and you will get more serious responses to a serious subject matter Sadly this as much as I can believe this sort of shit happening its really comes off as ofd that it has to even be asked. --- "He may be Mr. Clean, but his soul will always be dirty!" <cite>Baha05 posted [p:971329604] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>LukaDoncic77 posted... </cite><quote>the fact you even have to ask if its sexual assault is all while thinking this behaviour is normal while being in your early to mid 20s is alarming whether or not your question was rhetoricalmaybe phrase it better and you will get more serious responses to a serious subject matter</quote>Sadly this as much as I can believe this sort of shit happening its really comes off as ofd that it has to even be asked.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
agoat 02/04/23 8:22:37 PM #35:	tag --- Just Imagine <cite>agoat posted [p:971329667] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>tag</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 02/04/23 8:24:56 PM #36:	AirFresh posted... Jesus Christ people she has posted so many selfies and shared a lot of stuff over the years. Stop thinking every fucking person who doesn't have a high active post count is some alt crying for attention. Maybe it's a lurker expressing themselves, fuck. It's wild how easy it is to fool you guys. I could use a selfie of one of my girl friends and instantly be a celeb here if I wanted to Anyway regardless of whether TC is a girl or not OP comes off weird and makes it sound really fake <cite>Axiom posted [p:971329720] in Was i assa... [t:80335343]...</cite> <quote>AirFresh posted... </cite><quote>Jesus Christ people she has posted so many selfies and shared a lot of stuff over the years. Stop thinking every fucking person who doesn't have a high active post count is some alt crying for attention. Maybe it's a lurker expressing themselves, fuck.</quote>It's wild how easy it is to fool you guys. I could use a selfie of one of my girl friends and instantly be a celeb here if I wanted toAnyway regardless of whether TC is a girl or not OP comes off weird and makes it sound really fake</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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