Poll of the Day > so looks like I'm having a love affair with one of my students

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JigsawTD3 02/07/23 10:54:40 PM #1:	I work as an intimacy coordinator instructor at a prestigious theater school in Russia, so basically train college-aged students on how to be intimacy coaches. As you can imagine things can get pretty steamy in that line of work and things have progressed past the point of no return with one of my students (well call him Kevin but his actual name is Alexei) and Im not sure what to do. In terms of age things are fine. Im actually younger than Kevin because Im what we call a wonderkid but as an intimacy coordinator I know that relationships with my students are a boundary not to be crossed. If I lose my job my visa could also be revoked. What do the relationship experts here advise? <cite>JigsawTD3 posted [p:971402568] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>I work as an intimacy coordinator instructor at a prestigious theater school in Russia, so basically train college-aged students on how to be intimacy coaches. As you can imagine things can get pretty steamy in that line of work and things have progressed past the point of no return with one of my students (well call him Kevin but his actual name is Alexei) and Im not sure what to do. In terms of age things are fine. Im actually younger than Kevin because Im what we call a wonderkid but as an intimacy coordinator I know that relationships with my students are a boundary not to be crossed. If I lose my job my visa could also be revoked. What do the relationship experts here advise? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOExHIGASHI 02/07/23 11:00:50 PM #2:	I advise you to get out of Russia --- In the long run we are all dead <cite>JOExHIGASHI posted [p:971402681] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>I advise you to get out of Russia</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
faramir77 02/08/23 12:09:48 AM #3:	What I feel like you're referencing a movie or something that I'm not getting --- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiCtAUrZbUk -- Defeating the Running Man of Ocarina of Time in a race since 01/17/2009. -- <cite>faramir77 posted [p:971403993] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>WhatI feel like you're referencing a movie or something that I'm not getting </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 02/08/23 12:41:56 AM #4:	thats really hot --- im gay <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:971404551] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>thats really hot</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingDavid 02/08/23 1:06:35 AM #5:	JOExHIGASHI posted... I advise you to get out of Russia This. If you're gonna be with her, I suggest you marry her and try to get out via US Embassy. <cite>KingDavid posted [p:971404918] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>JOExHIGASHI posted... </cite><quote>I advise you to get out of Russia</quote>This.If you're gonna be with her, I suggest you marry her and try to get out via US Embassy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 02/08/23 1:15:56 AM #6:	KingDavid posted... This. If you're gonna be with her, I suggest you marry her and try to get out via US Embassy. I think you mean him --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:971405065] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>KingDavid posted...</cite><quote>This.If you're gonna be with her, I suggest you marry her and try to get out via US Embassy.</quote>I think you mean him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTD3 02/08/23 2:08:35 AM #7:	small update: may have made this thread prematurely because it looks like Keven (not his real name btw just to be clear, just an alias not to dox; his real name is Alexei) may be getting sent to prison or possibly drafted to the front lines of the war because hes been trafficking krokodil to a few of the local high schools and he happened to just get arrested today. Im not saying I exposed him to the authorities to protect myself, that wouldnt be very #rebel of me, but if I did then it was for the best. Im heartbroken and all that jazz, but happy I probably dont need to worry about getting caught and deported now!! faramir77 posted... What I feel like you're referencing a movie or something that I'm not getting this isnt a movie, this is my fucking LIFE! <cite>JigsawTD3 posted [p:971405728] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>small update: may have made this thread prematurely because it looks like Keven (not his real name btw just to be clear, just an alias not to dox; his real name is Alexei) may be getting sent to prison or possibly drafted to the front lines of the war because hes been trafficking krokodil to a few of the local high schools and he happened to just get arrested today. Im not saying I exposed him to the authorities to protect myself, that wouldnt be very #rebel of me, but if I did then it was for the best. Im heartbroken and all that jazz, but happy I probably dont need to worry about getting caught and deported now!! faramir77 posted... </cite><quote>WhatI feel like you're referencing a movie or something that I'm not getting</quote>this isnt a movie, this is my fucking LIFE!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoreChasm 02/08/23 2:43:34 AM #8:	Great topic, possibly even the best. Wishing the best for you and Kev --- Never be afraid to show your emotions, even if they're fake. <cite>SoreChasm posted [p:971405997] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Great topic, possibly even the best.Wishing the best for you and Kev</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler-X 02/08/23 11:19:58 AM #9:	Let me get this correct. You are bragging about using your position of authority to get in a relationship with someone you have said authority over? --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler-X posted [p:971412410] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Let me get this correct. You are bragging about using your position of authority to get in a relationship with someone you have said authority over? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 02/08/23 11:26:41 AM #10:	Nichtcrawler-X posted... Let me get this correct. You are bragging about using your position of authority to get in a relationship with someone you have said authority over? why are you always such a buzzkill love is love --- im gay <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:971412616] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Nichtcrawler-X posted... </cite><quote>Let me get this correct. You are bragging about using your position of authority to get in a relationship with someone you have said authority over?</quote>why are you always such a buzzkilllove is love</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler-X 02/08/23 11:35:37 AM #11:	DirtBasedSoap posted... love is love When one has authority over the other, it is per definition questionable. --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler-X posted [p:971412873] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite><quote>love is love</quote>When one has authority over the other, it is per definition questionable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoreChasm 02/08/23 12:08:03 PM #12:	DirtBasedSoap posted... why are you always such a buzzkill Right? I know English isn't Nicht's first language, but damn. --- Never be afraid to show your emotions, even if they're fake. <cite>SoreChasm posted [p:971413776] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite><quote>why are you always such a buzzkill</quote>Right? I know English isn't Nicht's first language, but damn.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler-X 02/08/23 12:18:13 PM #13:	It is probably less my understanding of the language and more my not inherently understanding unwritten human rules. If me questioning those rules to understand them, makes you uncomfortable, I do not know what to say. --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler-X posted [p:971414042] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>It is probably less my understanding of the language and more my not inherently understanding unwritten human rules. If me questioning those rules to understand them, makes you uncomfortable, I do not know what to say. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sufferedphoneix 02/08/23 12:26:48 PM #14:	Why you keep going with Kevin as a alias if you keep telling us the real name too? --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process <cite>Sufferedphoneix posted [p:971414265] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Why you keep going with Kevin as a alias if you keep telling us the real name too?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoreChasm 02/08/23 12:37:52 PM #15:	Nichtcrawler-X posted... If me questioning those rules to understand them, makes you uncomfortable, I do not know what to say. You not understanding obvious satire makes me uncomfortable. --- Never be afraid to show your emotions, even if they're fake. <cite>SoreChasm posted [p:971414567] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Nichtcrawler-X posted... </cite><quote>If me questioning those rules to understand them, makes you uncomfortable, I do not know what to say.</quote>You not understanding obvious satire makes me uncomfortable.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VampireCoyote 02/08/23 1:01:36 PM #16:	I still think you and Kev can make it, dont give up --- She/her <cite>VampireCoyote posted [p:971415157] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>I still think you and Kev can make it, dont give up</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlackScythe0 02/08/23 1:38:34 PM #17:	DirtBasedSoap posted... why are you always such a buzzkill love is love Why are you being disgusting? Don't use that term to defend predatory behavior (even if said behavior is obviously fictional) <cite>BlackScythe0 posted [p:971416034] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite><quote>why are you always such a buzzkilllove is love</quote>Why are you being disgusting? Don't use that term to defend predatory behavior (even if said behavior is obviously fictional)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
agesboy 02/08/23 1:42:36 PM #18:	BlackScythe0 posted... Why are you being disgusting? Don't use that term to defend predatory behavior (even if said behavior is obviously fictional) idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies --- http://i.imgur.com/LabbRyN.jpg raytan and Kana are on opposite ends of the Awesome Spectrum. <cite>agesboy posted [p:971416130] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>BlackScythe0 posted... </cite><quote>Why are you being disgusting? Don't use that term to defend predatory behavior (even if said behavior is obviously fictional)</quote>idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler-X 02/08/23 1:45:27 PM #19:	agesboy posted... idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies Nobody would accuse those movies of trying to normalize murder. Sin is also a very loaded term. --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler-X posted [p:971416192] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>agesboy posted... </cite><quote>idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies</quote>Nobody would accuse those movies of trying to normalize murder. Sin is also a very loaded term. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlackScythe0 02/08/23 1:49:28 PM #20:	agesboy posted... idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies It's a term typically used in reference to lgbt relationships. To use that term to defend predatory behavior (regardless of where on the scale of "bad" you wish to put such behavior) is just a continuation of bigoted attempts to label lgbt rights as a slippery slope. <cite>BlackScythe0 posted [p:971416303] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>agesboy posted... </cite><quote>idk, this is tame enough for a fictional plot. definitely less of a sin than murder which happens in 99% of movies</quote>It's a term typically used in reference to lgbt relationships. To use that term to defend predatory behavior (regardless of where on the scale of "bad" you wish to put such behavior) is just a continuation of bigoted attempts to label lgbt rights as a slippery slope. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
agesboy 02/08/23 1:53:28 PM #21:	Nichtcrawler-X posted... Nobody would accuse those movies of trying to normalize murder. Sin is also a very loaded term. i get where you're coming from but i disagree with the level of severity also lol USA has already normalized murder. "if anyone crosses me for any reason and i think i can get away with it, ill gun them down" is an extremely common sentiment down in the south. fuckin hate our gun culture --- http://i.imgur.com/LabbRyN.jpg raytan and Kana are on opposite ends of the Awesome Spectrum. <cite>agesboy posted [p:971416410] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Nichtcrawler-X posted... </cite><quote>Nobody would accuse those movies of trying to normalize murder. Sin is also a very loaded term.</quote>i get where you're coming from but i disagree with the level of severityalso lol USA has already normalized murder. "if anyone crosses me for any reason and i think i can get away with it, ill gun them down" is an extremely common sentiment down in the south. fuckin hate our gun culture</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muscles 02/08/23 4:06:26 PM #22:	Nichtcrawler-X posted... When one has authority over the other, it is per definition questionable. I have a boss I would totally get with, why is it different if the boss is a guy? --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:971419786] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Nichtcrawler-X posted... </cite><quote>When one has authority over the other, it is per definition questionable.</quote>I have a boss I would totally get with, why is it different if the boss is a guy? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler-X 02/08/23 4:12:50 PM #23:	Muscles posted... I have a boss I would totally get with, why is it different if the boss is a guy? I explicitly used non-gendered language. So I do not know why you suddenly want to make it about gender. Also, I said questionable, not impossible. Especially in say a company setting, with the aid of a neutral arbiter like HR, it could be made sure it is genuine and no coercion is involved. --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler-X posted [p:971419932] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>Muscles posted... </cite><quote>I have a boss I would totally get with, why is it different if the boss is a guy?</quote>I explicitly used non-gendered language. So I do not know why you suddenly want to make it about gender. Also, I said questionable, not impossible.Especially in say a company setting, with the aid of a neutral arbiter like HR, it could be made sure it is genuine and no coercion is involved. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 02/08/23 4:27:32 PM #24:	A teacher wanting to get with a student then? Not sure the rules in Russia but that's a no go me thinks. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:971420256] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>A teacher wanting to get with a student then? Not sure the rules in Russia but that's a no go me thinks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 02/08/23 5:37:08 PM #25:	JigsawTD3 posted... What do the relationship experts here advise? Quit being their teacher and stop having the relationship. --- "I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:971422841] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTD3 posted... </cite><quote>What do the relationship experts here advise?</quote>Quit being their teacher and stop having the relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nade_Duck 02/08/23 5:38:42 PM #26:	poop sniffer is right, if this is actually true at all you're a very gross person and should get out of it asap. --- http://i.imgur.com/ElACjJD.gifv "Most of the time, I have a whole lot more sperm inside me than most women do." - adjl <cite>Nade_Duck posted [p:971422933] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>poop sniffer is right, if this is actually true at all you're a very gross person and should get out of it asap.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTD3 02/08/23 5:48:15 PM #27:	VampireCoyote posted... I still think you and Kev can make it, dont give up SoreChasm posted... Great topic, possibly even the best. Wishing the best for you and Kev jsyk, Kevin isnt his real name, Im just calling Alexei that to protect his identity from doxxers <cite>JigsawTD3 posted [p:971423533] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>VampireCoyote posted... </cite><quote>I still think you and Kev can make it, dont give up</quote>SoreChasm posted... </cite><quote>Great topic, possibly even the best.Wishing the best for you and Kev</quote>jsyk, Kevin isnt his real name, Im just calling Alexei that to protect his identity from doxxers </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 02/08/23 5:56:40 PM #28:	SunWuKung420 posted... Quit being their teacher and stop having the relationship. Why would he do both? --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:971424024] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite><quote>Quit being their teacher and stop having the relationship.</quote>Why would he do both?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 02/08/23 6:12:50 PM #29:	LinkPizza posted... Why would he do both? He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student. --- "I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:971424843] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite><quote>Why would he do both?</quote>He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 02/08/23 6:14:24 PM #30:	SunWuKung420 posted... He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student. But if he quits, then he wouldnt be in a relationship with his student anymore Problem solved So why would he stop dating them? --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:971424924] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite><quote>He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student.</quote>But if he quits, then he wouldnt be in a relationship with his student anymore Problem solved So why would he stop dating them?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTD3 02/08/23 6:14:42 PM #31:	SunWuKung420 posted... He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student. excuse me, Ill have you know Im super mature or else I couldnt be an intimacy coordinator, let alone an intimacy coordinator instructor!! And at such a young age too. Im literally a wonderkid and deserve all the respect that entails! <cite>JigsawTD3 posted [p:971424936] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite><quote>He's too immature and irresponsible to be a teacher. He should've never started a relationship with a student.</quote>excuse me, Ill have you know Im super mature or else I couldnt be an intimacy coordinator, let alone an intimacy coordinator instructor!! And at such a young age too. Im literally a wonderkid and deserve all the respect that entails!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 02/08/23 6:19:38 PM #32:	JigsawTD3 posted... excuse me, Ill have you know Im super mature or else I couldnt be an intimacy coordinator, let alone an intimacy coordinator instructor!! And at such a young age too. Im literally a wonderkid and deserve all the respect that entails! You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite. --- "I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:971425134] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTD3 posted... </cite><quote>excuse me, Ill have you know Im super mature or else I couldnt be an intimacy coordinator, let alone an intimacy coordinator instructor!! And at such a young age too. Im literally a wonderkid and deserve all the respect that entails!</quote>You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 02/08/23 6:31:39 PM #33:	SunWuKung420 posted... You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite. Why? Mature people can still joke around --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:971425609] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite><quote>You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite.</quote>Why? Mature people can still joke around</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JazzMasterZero 02/08/23 6:39:53 PM #34:	SunWuKung420 posted... You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite. Hey did you ever realize how much you look like Alex Jones? https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/5/3/2/AAdL5LAADzDM.jpg <cite>JazzMasterZero posted [p:971425905] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SunWuKung420 posted... </cite><quote>You making this dumb ass fake topic, proves the opposite.</quote>Hey did you ever realize how much you look like Alex Jones? https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/5/3/2/AAdL5LAADzDM.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoreChasm 02/08/23 6:43:02 PM #35:	JigsawTD3 posted... jsyk, Kevan isnt his real name, Im just calling Alexei that to protect his identity from doxxers yeah i'm doing that too --- Never be afraid to show your emotions, even if they're fake. <cite>SoreChasm posted [p:971426025] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTD3 posted... </cite><quote>jsyk, Kevan isnt his real name, Im just calling Alexei that to protect his identity from doxxers</quote>yeah i'm doing that too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTD3 02/08/23 6:47:51 PM #36:	SoreChasm posted... yeah i'm doing that too okay good thanks Kef (Alexei) and I appreciate it!! <cite>JigsawTD3 posted [p:971426213] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SoreChasm posted... </cite><quote>yeah i'm doing that too</quote>okay good thanks Kef (Alexei) and I appreciate it!! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SilentSeph 02/08/23 7:09:48 PM #37:	I think I saw this on the 'hub before --- Delicious and vicious, while maliciously nutritious. <cite>SilentSeph posted [p:971427021] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>I think I saw this on the 'hub before</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
slacker03150 02/08/23 7:17:32 PM #38:	SilentSeph posted... I think I saw this on the 'hub before Which show? They didn't have many good ones before it rebranded. Mlp, LPS, and Dan vs. Are really the only ones I remember years later. --- I am awesome and so are you. Lenny gone but not forgotten. - 12/10/2015 <cite>slacker03150 posted [p:971427277] in so looks l... [t:80339772]...</cite> <quote>SilentSeph posted... </cite><quote>I think I saw this on the 'hub before</quote>Which show? They didn't have many good ones before it rebranded. Mlp, LPS, and Dan vs. Are really the only ones I remember years later.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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