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WrestlinFan 04/27/23 5:01:26 AM #1:	I work at one of the big box retail stores. There's a mid-20's looking guy who will come in and follow me through the store at a distance, and he'll always be sure to check out where he would get to say something creepy and flirty to me. Have always stayed strictly professional. Annoying, but not exactly uncommon in retail. Last month he stopped me as I was coming back from break and said "You know I have feelings for you, right?". I turned around and said "Dude, you don't even know me." and it's only gotten worse now. Few days ago he came up to me asking if he could give me his phone number. I told him I'm not interested, and that I'm not gay. Day after that, he comes up and asks if we can be friends, I tell him no, I have plenty of friends, and I don't want him to be one of them. He sulks off. Well, yesterday, while I was on break, this guy came in and was stalking around my usual spot where I work, just walking in circles and rubber necking to see if I was there yet. One of my coworkers finally saw him doing the actual stalking and she was extremely unnerved. Apparently he even dipped in and out of the bathrooms real quick near where I usually work, presumably looking for me. I'm glad someone else saw the actual stalking and had seen how creepy this guy was. She wants me to escalate the issue. I've told management about this guy a few times, but since I'm a guy being stalked by another obviously gay guy, and this is the deep south, they've mostly just shrugged off my concern, some even laughing about it when they thought I couldn't hear them. So if I end up being turned into a leather couch by this dude, y'all know what happened at least. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973103837] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>I work at one of the big box retail stores. There's a mid-20's looking guy who will come in and follow me through the store at a distance, and he'll always be sure to check out where he would get to say something creepy and flirty to me. Have always stayed strictly professional. Annoying, but not exactly uncommon in retail. Last month he stopped me as I was coming back from break and said "You know I have feelings for you, right?". I turned around and said "Dude, you don't even know me." and it's only gotten worse now. Few days ago he came up to me asking if he could give me his phone number. I told him I'm not interested, and that I'm not gay. Day after that, he comes up and asks if we can be friends, I tell him no, I have plenty of friends, and I don't want him to be one of them. He sulks off.Well, yesterday, while I was on break, this guy came in and was stalking around my usual spot where I work, just walking in circles and rubber necking to see if I was there yet. One of my coworkers finally saw him doing the actual stalking and she was extremely unnerved. Apparently he even dipped in and out of the bathrooms real quick near where I usually work, presumably looking for me. I'm glad someone else saw the actual stalking and had seen how creepy this guy was. She wants me to escalate the issue. I've told management about this guy a few times, but since I'm a guy being stalked by another obviously gay guy, and this is the deep south, they've mostly just shrugged off my concern, some even laughing about it when they thought I couldn't hear them. So if I end up being turned into a leather couch by this dude, y'all know what happened at least. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trickfinger 04/27/23 5:12:55 AM #3:	WrestlinFan posted... So if I end up being turned into a leather couch by this dude, y'all know what happened at least. ok --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973103929] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>WrestlinFan posted... </cite><quote>So if I end up being turned into a leather couch by this dude, y'all know what happened at least.</quote>ok</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vegy 04/27/23 7:12:55 AM #4:	Just kick his aas --- http://i.imgur.com/gt58G1y.gif http://i.imgur.com/Kdvuckz.png http://i.imgur.com/SYqReLE.gif https://i.imgur.com/MbgGQWx.jpg <cite>Vegy posted [p:973104803] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Just kick his aas</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrKapowski 04/27/23 7:22:14 AM #5:	Talk to the police Call your management's management --- So! You want to hear a story, eh? <cite>MrKapowski posted [p:973104878] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Talk to the policeCall your management's management</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwordMaster13X 04/27/23 7:30:06 AM #6:	Maybe you should record his actions in order to show it to more people --- Ask me about my community board https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1072-the-underground-garden <cite>SwordMaster13X posted [p:973104945] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Maybe you should record his actions in order to show it to more people </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trickfinger 04/27/23 11:44:23 AM #7:	Vegy posted... Just kick his aas This is what I was gonna say at first. Or get someone else to do it. TC must live in a relatively docile region of people. --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973108983] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Vegy posted... </cite><quote>Just kick his aas</quote>This is what I was gonna say at first.Or get someone else to do it.TC must live in a relatively docile region of people.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 04/27/23 11:52:27 AM #8:	MrKapowski posted... Talk to the police Call your management's management both right answers. i seen how things like this play out and it doesn't end well. --- Republicans " hold together like a ball of lusty ticks" - drclaeys <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:973109138] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>MrKapowski posted...</cite><quote>Talk to the policeCall your management's management</quote>both right answers. i seen how things like this play out and it doesn't end well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 04/27/23 11:56:35 AM #9:	The nuance of courting --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:973109223] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>The nuance of courting</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJ2GrimReaper 04/27/23 12:08:10 PM #10:	hire the APA https://youtu.be/px6wKe_aAVU --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. http://i.imgur.com/YzjFA85.jpg http://i.imgur.com/CqukfNH.jpg <cite>SSJ2GrimReaper posted [p:973109477] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>hire the APAhttps://youtu.be/px6wKe_aAVU</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Norman_Smiley 04/27/23 12:09:55 PM #11:	Its time to go to HR. Being the first to report is important to controlling the narrative. --- http://i.imgur.com/BVBQC.jpg The big wiggle equals ratings. <cite>Norman_Smiley posted [p:973109517] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Its time to go to HR. Being the first to report is important to controlling the narrative. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
angeleyes94 04/27/23 12:17:28 PM #12:	You little ***, scared of a real man? I'll you till you love me. --- You aren't even really reading my posts; you're just staring at your e-mail client and fondly reminiscing about that hobo you stabbed to death. :P <cite>angeleyes94 posted [p:973109629] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>You little *, scared of a real man? I'll ** you till you love me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrestlinFan 04/27/23 2:09:55 PM #13:	Trickfinger posted... This is what I was gonna say at first. Or get someone else to do it. TC must live in a relatively docile region of people. Fuck right off, life isn't an action movie. You never know about these people. kingdrake2 posted... both right answers. i seen how things like this play out and it doesn't end well. Done and done. SSJ2GrimReaper posted... hire the APA https://youtu.be/px6wKe_aAVU Got a pop out of me. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973111853] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Trickfinger posted... </cite><quote>This is what I was gonna say at first.Or get someone else to do it.TC must live in a relatively docile region of people.</quote>Fuck right off, life isn't an action movie. You never know about these people. kingdrake2 posted... </cite><quote>both right answers. i seen how things like this play out and it doesn't end well.</quote>Done and done.SSJ2GrimReaper posted... </cite><quote>hire the APAhttps://youtu.be/px6wKe_aAVU</quote>Got a pop out of me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrestlinFan 04/27/23 2:11:03 PM #14:	Norman_Smiley posted... Its time to go to HR. Being the first to report is important to controlling the narrative. Thank you for the advice. I wish Norman Smiley got more credit for how much of a cool guy he is. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973111880] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Norman_Smiley posted... </cite><quote>Its time to go to HR. Being the first to report is important to controlling the narrative.</quote>Thank you for the advice. I wish Norman Smiley got more credit for how much of a cool guy he is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trickfinger 04/27/23 2:11:20 PM #15:	WrestlinFan posted... Fuck right off, life isn't an action movie. You never know about these people. No, we won't fuck right off. You're soft if you think fighting the guy or getting someone else to do it is has anything to do with "the movies". That's exactly what I would do here. --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973111884] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>WrestlinFan posted... </cite><quote>Fuck right off, life isn't an action movie. You never know about these people.</quote>No, we won't fuck right off.You're soft if you think fighting the guy or getting someone else to do it is has anything to do with "the movies".That's exactly what I would do here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trickfinger 04/27/23 2:12:38 PM #17:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Another soft one. No, you don't engage literally while you're there on the clock, Einstein. --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973111907] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Another soft one.No, you don't engage literally while you're there on the clock, Einstein.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KINDERFELD 04/27/23 2:14:04 PM #19:	TC show him your gamefaqs account. That should scare him away for good. --- POLITICS IS MY RELIGION PS5, Switch, RTX 3080 12GB <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:973111932] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>TC show him your gamefaqs account. That should scare him away for good. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trickfinger 04/27/23 2:14:30 PM #20:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Stop talking to me about the law. You sound corny. "But but you might get in trouble" lol --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973111938] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Stop talking to me about the law. You sound corny."But but you might get in trouble" lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrestlinFan 04/27/23 2:15:40 PM #21:	Then you're an idiot or a keyboard warrior or both. I'm pretty sure I could whoop this guy easily but then what? What if his family/friends retaliates with more violence? I love in an extremely small town, it would be absolutely nothing for this guy to follow me on my drive home. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973111959] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Then you're an idiot or a keyboard warrior or both. I'm pretty sure I could whoop this guy easily but then what? What if his family/friends retaliates with more violence? I love in an extremely small town, it would be absolutely nothing for this guy to follow me on my drive home. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trickfinger 04/27/23 2:27:01 PM #23:	ResidentSleeper --- https://i.imgur.com/3AnUKs6.jpg ~ Voted Best Poster On GameFAQs 16 Years Straight ~ <cite>Trickfinger posted [p:973112174] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>ResidentSleeper</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrestlinFan 04/29/23 7:14:25 AM #24:	So I reported everything to our asset protection guy who looked the fella up on camera and knows what he looks like now. Yesterday morning, he (the ap guy) snuck up behind me while I was stocking some candy at the self checks alone and said in a mock gay voice "Hey, uh, I've been following you through the store and I was just wondering if I could have your number." I shot back with what the fuck is wrong with you and I don't find humor in that at all. He got serious after explaining that they'd do their best but what the FUCK! I left early, being so fucking disgusted that I wasn't gonna be able to function in front of customers. I knew they'd do this, just think of it as a joke. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973149922] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>So I reported everything to our asset protection guy who looked the fella up on camera and knows what he looks like now. Yesterday morning, he (the ap guy) snuck up behind me while I was stocking some candy at the self checks alone and said in a mock gay voice "Hey, uh, I've been following you through the store and I was just wondering if I could have your number." I shot back with what the fuck is wrong with you and I don't find humor in that at all. He got serious after explaining that they'd do their best but what the FUCK! I left early, being so fucking disgusted that I wasn't gonna be able to function in front of customers. I knew they'd do this, just think of it as a joke. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ffmasterjose 04/29/23 7:17:54 AM #25:	Sounds like you should report the AP guy to someone. That was extremely unprofessional of him, to say the least. <cite>ffmasterjose posted [p:973149949] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you should report the AP guy to someone. That was extremely unprofessional of him, to say the least.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turtlebread 04/29/23 7:21:24 AM #26:	Tag --- http://i.imgur.com/yCW15Zn.jpg <cite>Turtlebread posted [p:973149972] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Tag </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrKapowski 04/29/23 8:20:35 AM #27:	Super fucked up, that ap dude is an asshole and should probably be fired --- So! You want to hear a story, eh? <cite>MrKapowski posted [p:973150496] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Super fucked up, that ap dude is an asshole and should probably be fired</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chud82 04/29/23 8:29:57 AM #28:	R1masher posted... The nuance of courting Hahahahaha!! --- Chud and proud. Beware the pods. <cite>Chud82 posted [p:973150577] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>R1masher posted... </cite><quote>The nuance of courting</quote>Hahahahaha!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrestlinFan 04/30/23 6:05:38 AM #29:	ffmasterjose posted... Sounds like you should report the AP guy to someone. That was extremely unprofessional of him, to say the least. Right. It's fucked up to joke about, but it's about what I expected here. --- Trying to burn the bridges to a culture that taught us to hate and fear and live like cogs in a machine and not like lovers, friends, and kin. <cite>WrestlinFan posted [p:973169316] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>ffmasterjose posted... </cite><quote>Sounds like you should report the AP guy to someone. That was extremely unprofessional of him, to say the least.</quote>Right. It's fucked up to joke about, but it's about what I expected here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slayer_22 04/30/23 6:17:18 AM #30:	Sorry that you're going through this, TC. Hopefully the problem just goes away with all the measures you've taken! --- "And no I'm not signing your twitter after this type of attitude so don't ask..." - IIINCORRUPTIBLE <cite>Slayer_22 posted [p:973169390] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>Sorry that you're going through this, TC. Hopefully the problem just goes away with all the measures you've taken!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GMAK2442 04/30/23 6:30:31 AM #31:	You will need to take your courage and say him no. <cite>GMAK2442 posted [p:973169480] in There's a ... [t:80425342]...</cite> <quote>You will need to take your courage and say him no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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