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If you can't get girls it's because your personality sucks and you are probably awful at taking care of yourself.

You're not too short
You're not too ugly
You're not too broke

The truth is your personality sucks. You have little to no confidence. You are a poor listener. You lack empathy. You are probably entitled and a little bit delusional. Probably have tons of bad habits like too much drinking and drug use, even weed is bad in too much quantities. Very out of shape. Skinny fat, obese or very skinny, no visible muscle mass. You dress poorly wearing ill fitting clothes

Like come on son.

I keep telling my family that if they let me take care of myself the way I want to, I'd do it (i.e., wearing feminine clothes, putting on make-up, etc.)

The problem is they're transphobic.

And they have the nerve to tell me that I wouldn't get a girl because of it.

pretty sure tc just said the complete opposite

https://youtu.be/3ZbOPWjcbHM

deathproof12 posted...

The truth is your personality sucks. You have little to no confidence. You are a poor listener. You lack empathy. You are probably entitled and a little bit delusional. Probably have tons of bad habits like too much drinking and drug use, even weed is bad in too much quantities. Very out of shape. Skinny fat, obese or very skinny, no visible muscle mass. You dress poorly wearing ill fitting clothes

you can have all this apply and still get girls because you're tall or have green eyes or whatever. i was a fat offensive jerk for most of my twenties but man, whenever a girl ever complimented my voice unprovoked i knew sealing the deal was only right around the corner >_>

i think there's a lot of guys out there who are like i was, where they're more or less the typical undeveloped-personality guy with nothing substantial to offer but they have a standout physical trait that solo-carries them into a decent body-count regardless

This is why I like being single, I can do what I want when I want to do it without giving a damn

Yeah.... I call bullshit on that. I've seen some really shitty people of both genders get partners with ease, meanwhile really good people who not only have their life together but also make a decent amount of money, aren't bad looking, and are sweethearts get turned down because "Your too nice, I'm not looking for that".

Christ, I've seen a woman first hand tell me that she doesn't sleep with anyone on the first date and then proceed the next night to sleep with some random guy she met at a bar and date him afterwards.

The truth is every person is different. What applies to one person, doesn't necessarily apply to someone else.

Isn't everyone here nearing 40 years old? Ain't nobody chasing pussy anymore.

If people would just lower their standards they would find love easier. Problem is everyone thinks they're entitled to a super model

A bunch of dudes with shitty personalities have girlfriends, so this ain't it.

Ivany2008 posted...

Christ, I've seen a woman first hand tell me that she doesn't sleep with anyone on the first date and then proceed the next night to sleep with some random guy she met at a bar and date him afterwards.

Yeah I try not to subscribe to any incel-y shit but man, after 3 or 4 moments like those you kinda learn that people will adamantly say they would/wouldn't do this or that but it goes right out the window if the other person's hot enough or whatever >_>

Hoodroar posted...

A bunch of dudes with shitty personalities have girlfriends, so this ain't it.

True. A lot of broke dudes have girls too.

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KhlavicLanguage posted...

Yeah I try not to subscribe to any incel-y shit but man, after 3 or 4 moments like those you kinda learn that people will adamantly say they would/wouldn't do this or that but it goes right out the window if the other person's hot enough or whatever >_>

Christ... in some scenarios they don't even have to be hot. I worked in retail for 10 years and some of the couples that went through there would make you question your sanity. Like the one chick who is 400 lbs and a double bagger dating a guy who might be 140 soaking wet. And nothing against heavy women, I've went out with a couple 340 lbers but some times you just question what the guy sees in her, as she wasn't well kept to put it mildly. Clothes didn't fit her, and was just fat, no curves.

The other key is actually meeting and getting to know lots of women.

Get yourself into the mix. And no, bar/club women are not it.

Hoodroar posted...

A bunch of dudes with shitty personalities have girlfriends, so this ain't it.

It is a bit though.

Youre right that some people can put little to no effort in and succeed due to natural advantages. Most cant though.

Its a bit like taking academic exams. There are people out there who can consistently get really high marks while barely applying themselves because they have a natural aptitude, but if you arent doing well then you have to accept that you arent one of those people.

If you cant get women to want to be with you then you need to change something about yourself.

deathproof12 posted...

If you can't get girls it's because your personality sucks and you are probably awful at taking care of yourself.

You're not too short
You're not too ugly
You're not too broke

The truth is your personality sucks. You have little to no confidence. You are a poor listener. You lack empathy. You are probably entitled and a little bit delusional. Probably have tons of bad habits like too much drinking and drug use, even weed is bad in too much quantities. Very out of shape. Skinny fat, obese or very skinny, no visible muscle mass. You dress poorly wearing ill fitting clothes

Like come on son.

A lot of people are.

This isnt even dating advice more like self care advice but:
Blow dry your hair
Use some product in your hair
Use skincare products
Dress like you give a shit about yourself
Do light exercise
Stop eating garbage

You'll instantly feel 100x more confident and it doesn't even matter if you get a girlfriend/boyfriend. You'll just be happier with yourself

It is true that some unattractive people with shitty personalities and no money get girlfriends.

But if that strategy is not working for you, then maybe you should change it.

Revelation34 posted...

A lot of people are.

No they arent. Ive been flat broke at times but still got girls.

KhlavicLanguage posted...

you can have all this apply and still get girls because you're tall or have green eyes or whatever.

I'm tall and have green eyes. Never helped me.
>_<

VeggetaX posted...

If people would just lower their standards they would find love easier. Problem is everyone thinks they're entitled to a super model

Not it either, man.

getting girls is all about having charisma or being over 30, whichever happens first

Glob posted...

No they arent. Ive been flat broke at times but still got girls.

If you were broke then you didn't date.

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