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AzNDarkSamurai
06/08/23 8:07:47 PM
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automatic yes for me. It tells me that person is honest and two-faced

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luigi33
06/08/23 8:07:59 PM
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Depends.

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R1masher
06/08/23 8:10:58 PM
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Honest and two faced


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bsp77
06/08/23 8:17:41 PM
#7:


Of course not. It isn't a great thing to do, but there are reasons it happens that has nothing to do with honesty

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Gobstoppers12
06/08/23 8:18:24 PM
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Communicating is important, especially if it's anything beyond a very basic conversation on the internet.

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A_Good_Boy
06/08/23 8:19:09 PM
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Depends on the circumstances, but the fact that it does depends on circumstances means it's by default a bad thing unless there's a reason for it.

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Irony
06/08/23 8:19:42 PM
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I've ghosted people for their political views

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Incredible
06/08/23 8:20:36 PM
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It only makes you human.
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emblem-man
06/08/23 8:20:43 PM
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I think it's usually very rude and just inconsiderate

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HANGtheDJ_86
06/08/23 8:23:22 PM
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Texting sucks

Let that phone ring, baby

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bsp77
06/08/23 8:24:14 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

But why? Us guys don't usually get harassed. I always sent a note if not interested. I absolutely hated doing it, but I wanted to not leave them hanging. I was considerate as I could be.

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Prestoff
06/08/23 8:27:44 PM
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luigi33 posted...
Depends.

This, there are times when ghosting is necessary. But on most cases, communication is always important.

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Akagami_Shanks
06/08/23 8:29:13 PM
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by default it's a bad thing, but if the person is deserving of it(like a creepy stalker) then no

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rexcrk
06/08/23 8:30:41 PM
#18:


Ive only ever been on the receiving end of ghosting and it sucks. It really fucking sucks.

Its definitely messed me up in some ways too. Nothing worse than talking to someone, thinking things are going really well and then all of a sudden, for no reason, shes just not talking to you anymore.


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Kitt
06/08/23 8:32:02 PM
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It's an incredibly lame thing to do, but it doesn't make you a bad person.

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bsp77
06/08/23 8:32:37 PM
#21:


rexcrk posted...
Ive only ever been on the receiving end of ghosting and it sucks. It really fucking sucks.

Its definitely messed me up in some ways too. Nothing worse than talking to someone, thinking things are going really well and then all of a sudden, for no reason, shes just not talking to you anymore.
If someone ghosts after multiple dates, then that is awful and would mess with me too. If after messaging only or just one date, you just gotta brush it off.

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bsp77
06/08/23 8:33:26 PM
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Oh, this is prior to a date? NBD

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Dakimakura
06/08/23 8:34:03 PM
#23:


yes

ghosts are bad

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bsp77
06/08/23 8:36:31 PM
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Of course

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Heartomaton
06/08/23 8:39:10 PM
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Yup.

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bsp77
06/08/23 8:40:12 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
Yup.
Nope.

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Heartomaton
06/08/23 8:59:47 PM
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Yup.

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bsp77
06/08/23 9:02:21 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
Yup.
Dude, be reasonable. Good people do bad things all the time. Deciding someone is a "bad person" for it is remarkably immature. Especially considering that many people ghost because of horrible past experiences. I still don't think it is right, but I have the ability to recognize that people are complex.

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Heartomaton
06/08/23 10:30:55 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Dude, be reasonable.

Bitterness from past experiences dictate that I deny this request.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/08/23 10:33:01 PM
#31:


Depends on if you've met them in person or not IMO. That's the rule I go by with dating anyway


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RetsuZaiZen
06/08/23 10:34:25 PM
#33:


Some people cannot take no for an answer. Those ghosters are doing it to avoid be stalked and harassed.

Unfortunately, normal people get ghosted too.

There is no way for the ghoster to know who is normal and who is not.

It really really really sucks but it is what it is.

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Kombucha
06/08/23 10:39:26 PM
#34:


i will ghost people, i owe them nothing.

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Incredible
06/08/23 10:51:04 PM
#35:


Just stop putting others on pedestals.
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ShineboxPhil
06/08/23 10:54:10 PM
#36:


Tc are you mad that your tinder match didn't reply to you?

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bsp77
06/08/23 10:55:21 PM
#37:


Heartomaton posted...
Bitterness from past experiences dictate that I deny this request.
Yeah, and you liked everything about her until she ghosted you. How can you she is a "bad person"? Grow up

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_____Cait
06/08/23 10:55:56 PM
#38:


Sometimes you have to if the other person is really manipulative or toxic.

Other times, you need to understand that maybe that person who ghosted has reasons beyond yourself.

It sucks being ghosted. It happens. Just think of it as you dodging a bullet though. It wouldnt have worked.

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Heartomaton
06/08/23 10:57:12 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Yeah, and you liked everything about her until she ghosted you. How can you she is a "bad person"? Grow up

No.

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bsp77
06/08/23 11:01:14 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
No.
So you admit you are immature

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Heartomaton
06/08/23 11:04:40 PM
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bsp77 posted...
So you admit you are immature

No.

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DocileOrangeCup
06/08/23 11:06:44 PM
#43:


luigi33 posted...
Depends.


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Kitt
06/08/23 11:33:55 PM
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Great post.
While I don't agree with his view on the subject, I can see why he'd feel the way that he does. I don't see what chastising him and calling him "immature" is supposed to accomplish.

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Yazarogi
06/08/23 11:35:34 PM
#45:


context is key

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RetsuZaiZen
06/08/23 11:44:32 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Yeah, and you liked everything about her until she ghosted you. How can you she is a "bad person"? Grow up

You do realize that's how people work, right?

You can really dig someone then they do that one thing that sours your opinion on them.

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ShineboxPhil
06/08/23 11:46:20 PM
#47:


Welcome to online dating.
Ghosting spontaneously happens. Just pick yourself up and move on.

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nocturnal_traveler
06/08/23 11:48:34 PM
#48:


Unless the person is abusive, it's an act of cowardice.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/08/23 11:52:14 PM
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RetsuZaiZen posted...
You do realize that's how people work, right?

You can really dig someone then they do that one thing that sours your opinion on them.

This lol.

I'm absolutely not gonna have a high opinion of someone anymore if they do me dirty

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AzNDarkSamurai
06/09/23 2:20:38 AM
#51:


Sure no one owes anyone attention but its still common courtesy and polite not to ghost people

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