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Turbam 06/09/23 9:43:49 PM #3: |
She wants a conservative liberal man --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs ... Copied to Clipboard!
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paerarru 06/10/23 4:00:51 PM #4: |
Yeah, can't have your cake and eat it, too. --- Hottest K-Pop Girl Group http://challonge.com/96st4ysk ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:04:15 PM #5: |
Actually it makes perfect sense. Lots of liberal women want this, and tbh, this is why I have done so well with women. I am very liberal but also approach majy aspects dating in a more traditional manner. Most women do want masculinity, just not toxic masculinity. So many guys don't get this. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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superben 06/10/23 4:06:16 PM #7: |
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:08:29 PM #9: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] You can come across as a provider but yet be a partner and equal. I know so many liberal women who want exactly what she is saying, including my fiance. It is not subservience. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 4:10:23 PM #10: |
I bet a man was driving the car. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CoyoteTheGreat 06/10/23 4:11:06 PM #11: |
I mean, the half of the male dating pool she wants to tap into absolutely sucks and is full of toxic assholes. I think that's sympathetic. Men aren't alright nowadays, they are absolute basketcases. You are only attracted to what you are attracted to, but some people have pools of people that they are attracted to that just have absolutely nothing good to offer. The whole "masculine man" one is one of those, where the very, very few who are actually good people are likely already taken and what is left are weird religious assholes or abusive assholes. --- Disobedience is the stamp of the hero. -Ragnar Redbeard Also, this is Kagata.. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Arcanine2009 06/10/23 4:16:15 PM #14: |
Yeah, i feel that usually runs a lot in "independent" american women who are really career driven and older. They tend to want more traditional men, but want all their freedoms with money and career. And they end up wanting kids in the end and having them late. But yeah, liberal traditional women exist. --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anarchy_Juiblex 06/10/23 4:18:58 PM #15: |
There are plenty of liberal men as described. I think she's just talking shit for the sake of views. --- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man#Steelmanning https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principle_of_charity ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hoodroar 06/10/23 4:20:49 PM #16: |
No, men who were raised with liberal values are naturally going to come to the conclusion that men and women are equals, women don't have to obey oppressive gender roles, and men don't have to conform to demanding gender roles either. The last part is where a lot of people slip up. The woman wants the benefits of men dutifully abiding by their own gender roles while not being expected by the man to live up to any of women's gender roles herself. Since the world's not fair and she's attractive I'm sure she can find this type of guy anyway. It'll just take a bit more dating around than finding a strictly liberal or strictly conservative guy. Minor inconvenience. --- sigless user logic ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:22:15 PM #17: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Did she say providing the financial support? I always pay on a first date and try to hold the door when possible, but once in a relationship, split finances. I think she just wants some chivalry. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Raikuro 06/10/23 4:24:25 PM #18: |
Anyone complaining about splitting the bill can't be taken seriously ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 4:27:11 PM #19: |
I too would like someone who is a nice guy to weigh on me hand and foot while I get to stay at home. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:29:41 PM #20: |
SHRlKE posted... I too would like someone who is a nice guy to weigh on me hand and foot while I get to stay at home.She never said that. You guys can't even focus on the actual topic and are making up extreme scenarios. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 4:31:01 PM #22: |
bsp77 posted... She never said that. She said she wants someone who will allow her to stay at home and not get a job or contribute and be a house wife. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jiek_Fafn 06/10/23 4:31:23 PM #23: |
Yeah Like a Ron Swanson type of guy. His character described himself as largely libertarian, but he was clearly a feminist and had no interest in anyone's sex life. In modern politics that inexplicably qualifies him as liberal because that's the world that we live in now. --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:33:13 PM #24: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I did. But her parents are paying for a chunk of the wedding and she is actually paying wherever we go over budget. She has a lot in savings thankfully. It is okay to have some traditional roles if everyone agrees to it. I still consider myself a male feminist, but I am also fairly assertive, which the majority of women, conservative or liberal, appreciate. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:35:33 PM #25: |
SHRlKE posted... She said she wants someone who will allow her to stay at home and not get a job or contribute and be a house wife.No, she fucking didn't. I just listened again to make sure I missed nothing. She said pays "on a first date" (not always), hold the door and have a provider mentality. She only said she didn't want to be stuck into traditional home and child roles. You guys are making things up, so you can be angry about women again. I know that is a favorite activity here. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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berlyman101 06/10/23 4:42:46 PM #27: |
bsp77 posted... No, she fucking didn't. I just listened again to make sure I missed nothing. She said pays "on a first date" (not always), hold the door and have a provider mentality. She only said she didn't want to be stuck into traditional home and child roles. You are correct about what she said but what I think is implied in the vague "provider mentality" role is at least some double standard of the man paying for more than the woman and taking traditional gender roles as a man. Some will naturally take liberties with their interpretations but if I'm gonna take her seriously I gotta at least squint at that part. --- "They think it don't be like it is, but it do." -Oscar Gamble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 4:44:34 PM #28: |
berlyman101 posted... You are correct about what she said but what I think is implied in the vague "provider mentality" role is at least some double standard of the man paying for more than the woman and taking traditional gender roles as a man. Some will naturally take liberties with their interpretations but if I'm gonna take her seriously I gotta at least squint at that part. Yeah thats probably better out than I could. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hoodroar 06/10/23 4:45:45 PM #29: |
SHRlKE posted...
Not quite. She said she wants to be independent and not a homemaker. It makes it more frustrating that she still wants dudes to pay for stuff despite having her own money lol. A lot of the conservative guys willing to be full providers would prefer their wife stay home with the kids in exchange, but she wants to work on top of the guy providing extra for her. --- sigless user logic ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:46:08 PM #30: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I do agree. I know plenty. berlyman101 posted... You are correct about what she said but what I think is implied in the vague "provider mentality" role is at least some double standard of the man paying for more than the woman and taking traditional gender roles as a man. Some will naturally take liberties with their interpretations but if I'm gonna take her seriously I gotta at least squint at that part.I get that assumption. I only state what I did because I have experience with multiple women who want what she is saying, and they do 100% split finances. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prismsblade 06/10/23 4:47:27 PM #31: |
I wish her the best of luck but I'm struggling to think of any good reason a men like that would want or be interested in a woman like her. --- 3DS FC:3368-5403-9633 Name: Kaizer PSN: Blackkaizer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 4:47:45 PM #32: |
Hoodroar posted... It makes it more frustrating that she still wants dudes to pay for stuff despite having her own money lol. A lot of the conservative guys willing to be full providers would prefer their wife stay home with the kids in exchange, but she wants to work on top of the guy providing extra for her.More assumptions. The only money thing she said was "first date". Now you could be right about what she ultimately wants, but you are assuming. My experience knows it doesn't have to mean that. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Raikuro 06/10/23 4:53:42 PM #33: |
I'm sure she conveniently forgets any door holding or whatever actual masculine behavior she's looking for the moment she has to pay for her own stuff. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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berlyman101 06/10/23 4:54:56 PM #34: |
I think she just wants to have fun and date around and enjoy the privileges of being a good looking and youthful woman. But then she's disappointed that the only men who want to show her a good time expect something in return which is more than she wants to give. It seems a little disengenuous caking her situation in politics. But I'm making assumptions. It's all intentionally vague and she seems aware that she's going to have to compromise on one of these aspects. --- "They think it don't be like it is, but it do." -Oscar Gamble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AloneIBreak 06/10/23 4:59:51 PM #35: |
Whats she saying? I dont want to watch a video. --- "Never confuse education with intelligence, you can have a PhD and still be an idiot." -Richard Feynman ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 5:03:14 PM #36: |
Random advice to men about women related to this. On a first date, assuming you asked her out, always reach for the check. More often then not, she will offer to split. When she does I say, "I asked you out, so I am happy to pay". They almost always then say okay (I think only once did someone insist on splitting and there was no chemistry or second date anyway). Oftentimes, they even say "I'll get the next one", which is great. Whether they said that or not, almost every woman I have been a second date with picked up the check. tldr: always try to pay on the first date --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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radical_rhino 06/10/23 5:05:38 PM #37: |
Shes a bad person --- .____ [____]===0 . . . . Ye olde beating stick. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lilORANG 06/10/23 5:06:42 PM #38: |
Eff that dumb lady for having two separate text boxes going at once --- Let's all please just get along. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 5:07:31 PM #39: |
bsp77 posted... Random advice to men about women related to this. On a first date, assuming you asked her out, always reach for the check. More often then not, she will offer to split. When she does I say, "I asked you out, so I am happy to pay". They almost always then say okay (I think only once did someone insist on splitting and there was no chemistry or second date anyway). Oftentimes, they even say "I'll get the next one", which is great. Whether they said that or not, almost every woman I have been a second date with picked up the check. What if they asked you out? --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 5:09:13 PM #40: |
SHRlKE posted... What if they asked you out?Good question. I have never had it happen. I have had a couple women pursue me, but then we hooked up without a proper first date, so idk... Pretty rare though so not worth agonizing over unless it actually happens. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SHRlKE 06/10/23 5:10:24 PM #41: |
It was more I was curious where you stood personally on the issue. And whether you think the guy should offer to pay first time regardless. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hoodroar 06/10/23 5:11:23 PM #42: |
Thing about paying full is that some guys often don't get second dates anyway and end up having these complaints: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kf5yuc/im_sick_of_feeling_used_by_my_dates_as_a_free_meal/ If you make above average money it doesn't matter, but guys of modest means really don't want to end up like that. --- sigless user logic ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Raikuro 06/10/23 5:14:41 PM #43: |
Splitting the bill tends to be a sign of how the date is going. Like if they wanna see that person again they will be happy to pay, if it's not like a super unreasonable price. If she's "always" getting split bills it's more of a sign how bad she comes off on dates lol ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prestoff 06/10/23 5:18:31 PM #44: |
On one hand, yeah it really does sound like a classic case of "having a cake and eating it" which is the sole reason I don't sympathize. But on the other hand, believe it or not, it's something that a lot of left/liberal leaning women want. I talk to plenty of them it was one of the reasons I was able to get dates quite often in my college years because of it. Women, on average, want Masculine traits in men like taking charge, providing and caring for them and their loved ones, etc. Want they don't want are the negatives of Masculinity that normally conform to typical gender roles. We do have a word for it, but many guys dislike it, toxic masculinity. I get shit for this every time I bring it up on a different forum, but there is a lot of truths to it. --- DI MOLTO! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 5:21:51 PM #45: |
SHRlKE posted... It was more I was curious where you stood personally on the issue. And whether you think the guy should offer to pay first time regardless.Honestly, I would pay. But I don't want to make a rule about it. Prestoff posted... On one hand, yeah it really does sound like a classic case of "having a cake and eating it" which is the sole reason I don't sympathize. But on the other hand, believe it or not, it's something that a lot of left/liberal leaning women want. I talk to plenty of them it was one of the reasons I was able to get dates quite often in my college years because of it. Women, on average, want Masculine traits in men like taking charge, providing and caring for them and their loved ones, etc. Want they don't want are the negatives of Masculinity that normally conform to typical gender roles. We do have a word for it, but many guys dislike it, toxic masculinity. I get shit for this every time I bring it up on a different forum, but there is a lot of truths to it.Spot on. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 06/10/23 5:25:01 PM #46: |
She left out the classic only if hes hot though! Tee hee! If a me-lookin dude tried that on her, I can only imagine the look of horror on her face lmao. --- Wax on, wax off Wax on- mouth. off. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 06/10/23 5:26:36 PM #47: |
Hoodroar posted... Thing about paying full is that some guys often don't get second dates anyway and end up having these complaints:Keep it cheap then. Single drink and a walk around a lake. If going well and goes to another location that same day/night, she will hopefully offer to pay there. I have had that happen a couple times. Unplanned, multiple location first dates are the absolute best. --- Currently playing: Diablo IV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sexypwnstar 06/10/23 5:31:59 PM #48: |
Why's she still single? --- http://i.imgur.com/Su4g5.jpg http://i.imgur.com/21DiJ.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prestoff 06/10/23 5:37:08 PM #49: |
rexcrk posted... She left out the classic only if hes hot though! Tee hee! I mean yeah, sometimes you can't help but feel attracted to, both superficially or not. If a person is desperate, they would lower their standards otherwise no you like what you like. --- DI MOLTO! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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streamofthesky 06/10/23 5:38:31 PM #50: |
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Sad_Face 06/10/23 5:44:47 PM #51: |
AloneIBreak posted... Whats she saying? I dont want to watch a video. She wants to be a strong and independent woman but also have a man who is fulfills the provider role as a traditional man, paying for her, holding the door for her, etc etc on top of him respecting her liberal values and have no expectation of her to maintain traditional feminine roles in the relationship. But she laments that her prospects are either too liberal (treat her as an equal and split everything) or too conservative (votes republican and expects her to uphold feminine responsibilities in the relationship in exchange for him being the provider). It's a seller's market so it's still possible for her have her cake and eat it too, but this kind of thought process is leading a lot of our millennial female contemporaries down a path of no family raising or marriage and only loneliness awaiting them in their future. --- https://i.imgur.com/WmIB016.jpg https://i.imgur.com/53FGj6K.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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