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Quick, someone show me the hottest 46 year old in Hollywood.

UPDATE: Shakira is 46. I choose Yes.

Date someone thats 42? Ahhh I guess it depends I guess

Age aint nothin but a number, baby

I had a fling with a 32-year-old when I was 20, and I look back on the experience with nothing but fondness.

Would I date a 52-year-old now that I'm just shy of 40? If we hit it off, I wouldn't hesitate. I'm still clinging to aspirations of starting my own family though, so I doubt it would be a long-lasting relationship.

58? Nope.

That would be 45. Probably, yeah

'No, I would not'

The whole time I would be thinking she is after a payout. I already come with an increased sense of paranoia. Don't need to be checking every drink I leave behind for heavy metals.

When you are in your 20s dating someone even 20 years older is nbd. 40 is still a very attractive age and potentially youthful age. However, when 12-20 years older starts to creep into the 50s that is a hard pass. Things are going downhill real quick around then and they are probably completely out of touch with your modern interests.

Yes I would. Before I met my girlfriend, I went on 4 dates with a woman that was 11 years older than me. We had a lot in common, so I would have continued to see her had she not ended it.

I am dating a 27 year old and other then having to endure zoomer humor, things have been going pretty good.

Now? Heck no, I'm happily married. Back when I was single? Yes. In fact I had a relationship with a woman about that much older than me at one time.

44? Sure, I suppose.

I have a major crush on someone who's 20+ years older than me. 12 is nothing.

No because I am not attracted to a woman who cant give me healthy children.

Dakimakura posted...

When you are in your 20s dating someone even 20 years older is nbd. 40 is still a very attractive age and potentially youthful age. However, when 12-20 years older starts to creep into the 50s that is a hard pass. Things are going downhill real quick around then and they are probably completely out of touch with your modern interests.

That may be true for you, but not for everyone. I'm 34, so 12 years older is 46 and those women are still looking good to me.

A few years ago there was a 50 year old in my building that retired. If she wasn't married, I would have been all over her. She was fire. And that was an 18 year age gap back then.

Would I date a 60 year old?

I would also date someone 12 years younger than me.

no way

Yes ofc

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Twenty eight year olds can kick rocks

NoxObscuras posted...

That may be true for you, but not for everyone. I'm 34, so 12 years older is 46 and those women are still looking good to me.

A few years ago there was a 50 year old in my building that retired. If she wasn't married, I would have been all over her. She was fire. And that was an 18 year age gap back then.

It still is an 18 year age gap.

ai123 posted...

It still is an 18 year age gap.

Lol you're right, the age gap doesn't change. I think I just had a brain fart because that whole paragraph was past tense

Euripides posted...

Would I date a 60 year old?

Yes

12 years older? No

12 years younger? Yes

Nope, I won't want to date old grannies ,but I would do it only if I was at 20's at this time.

Been there done that

AloofHermit posted...

12 years older? No

12 years younger? Yes

Same, and I would not find a 48 year old woman attractive.

Maybe. There are still some attractive women at that age. They are a lot rarer though and certainly aren't as attractive as their younger peers. She would need to be rather charming too and generous.

Some people in this topic are really outing themselves as creeps.

I'm married but if I wasn't, that person would be almost 50 so no. If you asked me in my 20s, I'd say yes.

Older yes,younger no.

If she looks like Salma Hayek.... yes.

I'm not interested in dating a woman in her 50s.

My first girlfriend was 36 when I was 19, aint no shame in that game.

I would. Age doesn't bother me as long as they are 21+. I've been with a guy who was old enough to be my dad. Didn't bother me as much as it did my parents but that's in the past lol

_Rinku_ posted...

Some people in this topic are really outing themselves as creeps.

Why? Because willing to go that much younger but not that much older?

I don't think my girlfriend would like it if I did that

My wife is 10 years older than me. 2 more years makes no difference to me.

46? Very possible. If she's still hot, she's still hot.

Sure.

I dated someone 14 years older than me a few years ago.

If this hypothetical 50 year old and I clicked well, I don't see why I wouldn't be willing to give it a try.

Lol, my husband is 13 years older than me. Married almost 15 years.

lol what does she like about me

MedeaLysistrata posted...

lol what does she like about me

Your personality and smile.

They'd be in their 30's so pretty much the ideal situation. But I wouldn't because it's a scam, no one would date me.