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UnfairRepresent
07/07/23 6:47:25 PM
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Would you consider that cheating?


No sex obviously. But it turns out she's been irregularly booking sessions with a professional dominatrix.

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Inverse to boyfriend if that way inclined.

Would you consider that to be cheating?

Settle a debate I'm having with a friend.

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Southernfatman
07/07/23 6:49:31 PM
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And she didn't invite me!? I'd be very upset.

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DuuuDe14
07/07/23 6:51:11 PM
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If you're monogamous then yes.

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itachi15243
07/07/23 6:51:52 PM
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Kinda

Like, why was I not consulted here?

I guess it's better than most forms of cheating though.

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bsp77
07/07/23 6:52:03 PM
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Southernfatman posted...
And she didn't invite me!? I'd be very upset.
Seriously

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Giacomo_Hawkins
07/07/23 6:53:32 PM
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It would almost certainly be financial infidelity. We discuss before major expenditures, and professionals cost money. It's not like either of us watches every penny of the budget, but expenses of that level would almost certainly warrant explanation so either he'd have to go through significant effort to hide the expense or lie about what it was for.

It would not be infidelity (financial or otherwise) if we discussed it beforehand and mutually agreed to the arrangement.

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Illuminoius
07/07/23 6:55:01 PM
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no, but i would be concerned if my significant other felt a need to hide a harmless fact from me
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UnfairRepresent
07/07/23 8:07:23 PM
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Giacomo_Hawkins posted...
financial infidelity.
Never heard that before

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pfh1001
07/07/23 8:22:14 PM
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That cheater is dead to me.
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fire_bolt
07/07/23 8:40:50 PM
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Cheating comes in many different forms. Physical, emotional, spiritual... I'd absolutely consider this cheating if we didn't talk about it before hand, especially since I'm a dom.

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EthanSilver
07/07/23 8:42:58 PM
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If you're a 1 on 1, sort of couple... then yes.

I mean, is there any "dominatrix"ing without it being sexual?

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EthanSilver
07/07/23 8:45:24 PM
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I mean, if one just wanted to learn, they don't really need a "professional...," and you would kind of be doing it with your partner anyways right? If you're in a monogamous relationship.
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UnfairRepresent
07/07/23 9:54:34 PM
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EthanSilver posted...
If you're a 1 on 1, sort of couple... then yes.

I mean, is there any "dominatrix"ing without it being sexual?
I think most professional dominatrix sessions are non sexual

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Giacomo_Hawkins
07/07/23 9:55:05 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Never heard that before

I certainly consider it to be an important category of cheating.

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EthanSilver
07/07/23 9:56:52 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
I think most professional dominatrix sessions are non sexual
Explain that to me. Is it just a "talk."

I mean, I'm no expert, as I'm not into that stuff... but you gotta give me something more than just "it isn't sexual!" Also, why not tell the partner then?

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UnfairRepresent
07/07/23 10:42:04 PM
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It's like being tied up or whipped or bossed around and stuff.

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andel
07/07/23 10:42:39 PM
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what about an unprofessional dominatrix?

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Cemith
07/07/23 10:44:26 PM
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DuuuDe14 posted...
If you're monogamous then yes.


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bsp77
07/07/23 10:45:16 PM
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I've watched a professional dominatrix at a local club that has BDSM night on Saturdays. It is interesting. People choose to be dominated in front of a live audience. The "volunteers" wear the bare minimum to be legal, get tied up, and whipped and beat and such. They clearly get off on it.

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EthanSilver
07/07/23 10:57:22 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
It's like being tied up or whipped or bossed around and stuff.
So... "dominatrix" ing

Sounds sexual to me, well by the standards of dominatrixing.

If it's a monogamous relationship. Still say it's cheating.
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