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EmilyTheCEman
07/09/23 11:29:17 AM
#1:


What lead to you doing it?
Who was the person?
Did they know you were in a relationship?
How long did it go on for?
How were you able to get away with it?
Did you confess or how did you get caught?
How did they take it?
Are you still together?
Did you learn from the experience?

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Turbam
07/09/23 11:37:58 AM
#2:


Nah, I wouldn't

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ArtiRock
07/09/23 12:12:53 PM
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No.

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Valjackal
07/09/23 12:18:33 PM
#5:


No, I can forgive a lot of shit but I have zero tolerance for cheaters.

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PokemonExpert44
07/09/23 12:19:12 PM
#6:


Nope.

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LordMarshal
07/09/23 12:20:18 PM
#7:


Are you expecting cheaters to show up and admit it here?

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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:21:01 PM
#8:


Worst part of cheating is breaking your SO's trust. So it's only bad if you get caught
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ArtiRock
07/09/23 12:22:31 PM
#9:


Dragon56 posted...
Worst part of cheating is breaking your SO's trust. So it's only bad if you get caught
No. It's bad even if you didn't or don't.

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bsp77
07/09/23 12:23:48 PM
#11:


No, but I helped someone else do so. It was a fucked up situation

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Timmyjinkle
07/09/23 12:28:25 PM
#12:


What lead to you doing it?
My wife's sister wanted a baby with their female partner, and I said they shouldn't pay for the procedure when I can do it for free, and my joke... was taken deadly seriously, and I felt I couldn't back out.

Who was the person?
My wife's sister (Ellen).

Did they know you were in a relationship?
They were at the wedding, and visited us weeklyso, I hope so.

How long did it go on for?
About 10-12 months.

How were you able to get away with it?
Well, my wife knew before it even occurred. So, there was no 'getting away' with anything.

Did you confess or how did you get caught?
Neither my wife was aware throughout.

How did they take it?
My wife's sister was ecstatic when she was pregnant, and... so was I, my wife didn't want children (and couldn't have her own due to complications) which I respect, but... I, I guess, I always considered it...

Are you still together?
They moved closer, so I could see my daughter more often than weekly, and I see her mostly every day of the week. She's often surprised she has three mommies and one daddy, but most in her school think it was from 'a marriage break-up', from what the teachers tell Ellen.

Did you learn from the experience?
'Many a true word spoken in jest.'

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DKBananaSlamma
07/09/23 12:32:40 PM
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Timmyjinkle posted...
My wife's sister wanted a baby with their female partner, and I said they shouldn't pay for the procedure when I can do it for free, and my joke... was taken deadly seriously, and I felt I couldn't back out.
Was she hot? >_>

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AP3Brain
07/09/23 12:32:54 PM
#14:


Hell no. There is really never an excuse. Just leave the person if it's not working.

I will say my first time was with someone cheating on their husband. At the time, I just wanted sex and I was in no way trying to be with her.
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GS4Life
07/09/23 12:33:40 PM
#15:


What's a significant other?

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MrToothHasYou
07/09/23 12:36:47 PM
#16:


Ive cheated twice, both times on the same person.

The first time was very very complicated. I feel like if I shared the details (at least from my perspective) a lot of people might argue that it technically wasnt cheating, for one reason or another, but I know what it was and what I felt, and how I feel about it now, and it was absolutely a betrayal in my mind.

The second time was less soI found out she was cheating on me and I returned the favor out of spite.

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:39:30 PM
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No. I mean, if I get to the point where I feel a need to cheat... obviously our relationship is not working out. And I'd let them know it's over.

Kind of fucked otherwise.

Not that I don't find other peeps attractive, but that's a different discussion.
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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:40:14 PM
#18:


everyone cheats, either emotionally or physically. you might as well do the same. just don't get caught
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bsp77
07/09/23 12:41:17 PM
#19:


Dragon56 posted...
everyone cheats, either emotionally or physically. you might as well do the same. just don't get caught
No they fucking don't. You just sound like an awful person.

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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:42:58 PM
#21:


bsp77 posted...
No they fucking don't. You just sound like an awful person.
8/10 people cheat emotionally or physically
Just statistics, don't hate the messenger
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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:43:25 PM
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Dragon56 posted...
everyone cheats, either emotionally or physically. you might as well do the same. just don't get caught
No they don't.

Are trying to cope with you being particularly shit?
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YugiNoob
07/09/23 12:43:47 PM
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GS4Life posted...
What's a significant other?
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/4/7/AAPV5JAAEpIX.jpg

Also no, to answer the topic

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:44:14 PM
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Dragon56 posted...
8/10 people cheat emotionally or physically
Just statistics, don't hate the messenger
Even if that were true, which I doubt, you said "everyone."

No, no they don't.
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bluezero
07/09/23 12:44:48 PM
#25:


What lead to you doing it?
Just being young and dumb

Who was the person?
Co-worker

Did they know you were in a relationship?
Yes

How long did it go on for?
It wasn't a relationship, just kissed her.

How were you able to get away with it?
Didn't say anything.

Did you confess or how did you get caught?
Didn't confess or get caught.

How did they take it?
N/A

Are you still together?
No, divorced for other reasons.

Did you learn from the experience?
Yes.

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bsp77
07/09/23 12:45:41 PM
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Dragon56 posted...
8/10 people cheat emotionally or physically
Just statistics, don't hate the messenger
I would need to see a source on that. Even if there is a 8/10 stat...

  1. Does that mean within a particular relationship or at some point in their lifetime, including like high school? Huge difference
  2. That is not "everyone"

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ai123
07/09/23 12:46:00 PM
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If you haven't cheated, you just haven't met the wrong person yet.

The world is full of people who swore blind they'd never do anything as despicable as cheating, only to find themselves cheating.

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bsp77
07/09/23 12:47:31 PM
#29:


ai123 posted...
If you haven't cheated, you just haven't met the wrong person yet.
I have to admit that I laughed. t's kinda funny and it might have some truth for a lot of people

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:47:46 PM
#30:


bsp77 posted...
I would need to see a source on that. Even if there is a 8/10 stat...

1. Does that mean within a particular relationship or at some point in their lifetime, including like high school? Huge difference
2. That is not "everyone"
Ignoring how such things can be such shit in terms of actuality. Virtue of methodology... there are even still things like "cheating" in terms of being in a broken, so to speak, relationship. Which in all intents and purposes would be different if it were not the case.

Honestly. Take their post as trying to justify being a shit person.
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bfslick50
07/09/23 12:47:49 PM
#31:


Dragon56 posted...
8/10 people cheat emotionally or physically
Just statistics, don't hate the messenger

Messenger? Statistics from where? Sounds made up.

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:48:48 PM
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ai123 posted...
If you haven't cheated, you just haven't met the wrong person yet.

The world is full of people who swore blind they'd never do anything as despicable as cheating, only to find themselves cheating.
Not true for everybody. Even if a "right" person comes along you can have a relationship with. It's fucked up.

Not like you can't break it off with your partner if it isn't working out or some such.

I'm not one of those peeps that finds "divorce" to be a sin or some such.
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Revelation34
07/09/23 12:48:48 PM
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Dragon56 posted...
everyone cheats, either emotionally or physically. you might as well do the same. just don't get caught


That's not a real thing.

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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:49:45 PM
#35:


bsp77 posted...
That is not "everyone"
The small percentage of people who haven't cheated emotionally or physically just haven't do it yet or are under some strange circumstances in their life.
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BunkerBoy
07/09/23 12:49:54 PM
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Dragon56 posted...
everyone cheats, either emotionally or physically. you might as well do the same. just don't get caught
This sounds like incel talk from someone whose "experience" in relationships is solely from movies and TV shows
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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:50:03 PM
#37:


Revelation34 posted...
That's not a real thing.
Yes it is. 100%
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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:50:31 PM
#38:


Dragon56 posted...
Yes it is. 100%
Explain it then.

Make us laugh.
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ArtiRock
07/09/23 12:50:41 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Same. Cheating is an auto breakup.

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Anteaterking
07/09/23 12:50:59 PM
#40:


Timmyjinkle posted...
What lead to you doing it?
My wife's sister wanted a baby with their female partner, and I said they shouldn't pay for the procedure when I can do it for free, and my joke... was taken deadly seriously, and I felt I couldn't back out.

Who was the person?
My wife's sister (Ellen).

Did they know you were in a relationship?
They were at the wedding, and visited us weeklyso, I hope so.

How long did it go on for?
About 10-12 months.

How were you able to get away with it?
Well, my wife knew before it even occurred. So, there was no 'getting away' with anything.

Did you confess or how did you get caught?
Neither my wife was aware throughout.

How did they take it?
My wife's sister was ecstatic when she was pregnant, and... so was I, my wife didn't want children (and couldn't have her own due to complications) which I respect, but... I, I guess, I always considered it...

Are you still together?
They moved closer, so I could see my daughter more often than weekly, and I see her mostly every day of the week. She's often surprised she has three mommies and one daddy, but most in her school think it was from 'a marriage break-up', from what the teachers tell Ellen.

Did you learn from the experience?
'Many a true word spoken in jest.'

As described this doesn't sound like cheating.

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NoxObscuras
07/09/23 12:53:42 PM
#41:


No never. When I was younger, I saw how devastated older girls around me were when they got cheated on. So I made a promise to myself that I would never be the kind of guy that did that. Then I got cheated on myself, so that just solidified my promise to never do that.

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:54:54 PM
#42:


NoxObscuras posted...
No never. When I was younger, I saw how devastated older girls around me were when they got cheated on. So I made a promise to myself that I would never be the kind of guy that did that. Then I got cheated on myself, so that just solidified my promise to never do that.
I mean, it's not like it just affects girls. Not that you're saying this or anything.

Just saying.
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Dragon56
07/09/23 12:55:16 PM
#43:


NoxObscuras posted...
No never. When I was younger, I saw how devastated older girls around me were when they got cheated on. So I made a promise to myself that I would never be the kind of guy that did that. Then I got cheated on myself, so that just solidified my promise to never do that.
Well, all your partners are going to cheat on you because that's life. But props to you for your strong commitment to them!
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YugiNoob
07/09/23 12:55:22 PM
#44:


Dragon56 posted...
8/10 people cheat emotionally or physically
Just statistics, don't hate the messenger
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/1/2/AAJ4cCAABUKI.png

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 12:56:12 PM
#45:


Dragon56 posted...
all your partners are going to cheat on you because that's life
Makes sense now, your low "iq" takes...

Have a chip on your shoulder.
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BeantownHero
07/09/23 12:56:38 PM
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who knew CE had so many moralists

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Glob
07/09/23 12:56:47 PM
#47:


Turbam posted...
Nah, I wouldn't

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LinkPizza
07/09/23 1:00:29 PM
#48:


I havent, nor would I To me, cheaters are absolute scum And Id immediately break up with one

ai123 posted...
If you haven't cheated, you just haven't met the wrong person yet.

It might be true for some But wouldnt be me as there is no point in cheating Id just break up with them

EthanSilver posted...
Not true for everybody. Even if a "right" person comes along you can have a relationship with. It's fucked up.

Not like you can't break it off with your partner if it isn't working out or some such.

I'm not one of those peeps that finds "divorce" to be a sin or some such.

Its funny that people would rather cheat than divorce because divorce is a sin But cheating it pretty fucking awful, too

Dragon56 posted...
The small percentage of people who haven't cheated emotionally or physically just haven't do it yet or are under some strange circumstances in their life.

Or they arent cheaters Just because you have no self-control doesnt mean others dont

Anteaterking posted...
As described this doesn't sound like cheating.

Tbf, he did say spoken in jest at the end

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EthanSilver
07/09/23 1:01:02 PM
#49:


YugiNoob posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/1/2/AAJ4cCAABUKI.png
Probably. Wouldn't be surprised.

Now we're at "everybody" is going to cheat on you! Derp.

What went wrong with some of these people. Cheese crackers.
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Anteaterking
07/09/23 1:02:57 PM
#50:


LinkPizza posted...
Tbf, he did say spoken in jest at the end


Oh I read that as "my joke to [wife's sister] in jest contained truth".

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