Current Events > My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me via text message.

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bsp77 07/24/23 8:19:17 AM #102:	SF_Okami posted... Oh my b. We were actually kinda set up since our families knew each other for years. She never introduced me to any of her friends tho. I did but over FaceTime because my friends live in different states. You never met her friends? Somehow it seems you had a 3 year thing with her but it was never actually a relationship. Why did you never try to make this into something more? Did you know it wasn't right or she wasn't your future? Are you just focusing on other things? I just hope you realize that this isn't how relationships work and you handle things differently in the future. Don't focus on things like paying or driving. --- Currently playing: taking a gaming break after Final Fantasy XVI sucked the life out of me <cite>bsp77 posted [p:975031978] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>SF_Okami posted... </cite><quote>Oh my b.We were actually kinda set up since our families knew each other for years. She never introduced me to any of her friends tho. I did but over FaceTime because my friends live in different states.</quote>You never met her friends? Somehow it seems you had a 3 year thing with her but it was never actually a relationship. Why did you never try to make this into something more? Did you know it wasn't right or she wasn't your future? Are you just focusing on other things?I just hope you realize that this isn't how relationships work and you handle things differently in the future. Don't focus on things like paying or driving. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Poorly 07/24/23 8:20:30 AM #103:	Turbam posted... Sorry to hear, man Apologies to listen, dude --- <cite>Poorly posted [p:975031999] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>Turbam posted... </cite><quote>Sorry to hear, man</quote>Apologies to listen, dude</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SF_Okami 07/24/23 8:26:36 AM #104:	Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho --- ~Bird Pokemon Master~ Latest Pickup: adidas x Jeremy Scott Wings 4.0 <cite>SF_Okami posted [p:975032048] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/24/23 8:30:04 AM #105:	SF_Okami posted... Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho That's when you end the relationship IMO. Unless you are fine with it just being casual. --- Currently playing: taking a gaming break after Final Fantasy XVI sucked the life out of me <cite>bsp77 posted [p:975032084] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>SF_Okami posted... </cite><quote>Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho</quote>That's when you end the relationship IMO. Unless you are fine with it just being casual.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KitKats 07/24/23 10:36:47 AM #106:	SF_Okami posted... Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho So would it be accurate to say she wasnt in love with you, and this was in some part performative for the rents since the relationship was arranged by family? Did you ever sleep together in three years or ever given the opportunity to build an intimate connection with both families around like that? --- her/she <cite>KitKats posted [p:975033731] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>SF_Okami posted... </cite><quote>Earlier in the relationship I tried to make it something more but she kinda kept stonewalling me. Maybe I got lazy after that since I realized that those efforts were getting nowhere. I wasnt focused on other things tho</quote>So would it be accurate to say she wasnt in love with you, and this was in some part performative for the rents since the relationship was arranged by family? Did you ever sleep together in three years or ever given the opportunity to build an intimate connection with both families around like that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LukaDoncic77 07/24/23 11:49:00 AM #107:	thats awful that you didnt get to meet any of her close friends. i was in a relationship similar to that with a girl i was dating (not nearly as long as your relationship) and i just found it strange. i brought it up to her after a couple months and she really had no response as to why she never introduced me or as far as i knew even mentioned me <cite>LukaDoncic77 posted [p:975034845] in My girlfri... [t:80516477]...</cite> <quote>thats awful that you didnt get to meet any of her close friends. i was in a relationship similar to that with a girl i was dating (not nearly as long as your relationship) and i just found it strange. i brought it up to her after a couple months and she really had no response as to why she never introduced me or as far as i knew even mentioned me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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