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crayola555 02/12/24 8:02:02 PM #1:	The one good thing for this topic, at least I could dispell the myth that "everybody has their soul mate", living proof right here that's false --- 3DS FC: 0619-4850-3479 IGN: AlmaDelita <cite>crayola555 posted [p:978810858] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>The one good thing for this topic, at least I could dispell the myth that "everybody has their soul mate", living proof right here that's false </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
archizzy 02/12/24 8:02:44 PM #2:	Good to know. --- PSN ID: sled_dogs76 60" Pioneer Kuro Elite PRO151FD, Yamaha RX-V3900 A/V Receiver, Oppo DV983-H player. Coming soon: 2 Seaton Submersives from Mark Seaton <cite>archizzy posted [p:978810868] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Good to know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkDaLunatic 02/12/24 8:03:25 PM #3:	was there a specific event that lead to this thread's creation? --- There's a time and place for everything... but not now. <cite>LinkDaLunatic posted [p:978810877] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>was there a specific event that lead to this thread's creation? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dungeater 02/12/24 8:03:59 PM #4:	its tough out there tc, sorry --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him <cite>Dungeater posted [p:978810888] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>its tough out there tc, sorry </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
crayola555 02/12/24 8:26:19 PM #5:	This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo. --- 3DS FC: 0619-4850-3479 IGN: AlmaDelita <cite>crayola555 posted [p:978811258] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MarbyIsBack 02/12/24 8:28:24 PM #6:	crayola555 posted... The one good thing for this topic, at least I could dispell the myth that "everybody has their soul mate", living proof right here that's false I mean, I proved that theory false a loooooong time ago, buddy. --- The Bagel made me do it. I am the master of dead memes <cite>MarbyIsBack posted [p:978811300] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>The one good thing for this topic, at least I could dispell the myth that "everybody has their soul mate", living proof right here that's false</quote>I mean, I proved that theory false a loooooong time ago, buddy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crayon_Lover 02/12/24 8:28:42 PM #7:	How long were you dating? Nice username btw --- Cleveland sports fan <cite>Crayon_Lover posted [p:978811309] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>How long were you dating? Nice username btw </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere_Man 02/12/24 8:29:47 PM #8:	Welcome to the club, I'd offer you a gift basket, but as you know life is full of disappointment. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere_Man posted [p:978811329] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Welcome to the club, I'd offer you a gift basket, but as you know life is full of disappointment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SweetNut_Farm 02/12/24 8:30:08 PM #9:	Never say never. And going solo is okay, until someone else comes along. --- If it's out of your hands, get it out of your head. <cite>SweetNut_Farm posted [p:978811338] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Never say never. And going solo is okay, until someone else comes along. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tripleh213 02/12/24 9:11:44 PM #10:	SweetNut_Farm posted... Never say never. And going solo is okay, until someone else comes along. --- Bucks World Champions 2021 PS4 looks great <cite>tripleh213 posted [p:978812001] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>SweetNut_Farm posted... </cite><quote>Never say never. And going solo is okay, until someone else comes along.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VideoboysaysCube 02/12/24 9:16:07 PM #11:	I've given up too and struggling with the acceptance phase. I know that not everyone can be a winner, and that there must be losers. I just keep asking why I had to be one of the losers. --- This sentence has five words. This sentence has eight words. Only one sentence in this signature is true. <cite>VideoboysaysCube posted [p:978812088] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>I've given up too and struggling with the acceptance phase. I know that not everyone can be a winner, and that there must be losers. I just keep asking why I had to be one of the losers. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 02/12/24 9:17:18 PM #12:	Yeah I gave up about 4 years ago --- Asus ROG Strix Z790-E \| Core i9-13900k \| 64GB DDR5-6000 \| RTX 4090 24GB Dell AW3423DW QD-OLED - 1440p Ultrawide, 175hz, GSync <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:978812111] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Yeah I gave up about 4 years ago </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C_Pain 02/12/24 9:18:57 PM #13:	Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior. It's all about the game, and how you play it. Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that? --- How quaint. <cite>C_Pain posted [p:978812162] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior. It's all about the game, and how you play it. Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeoRavus 02/12/24 9:19:48 PM #14:	crayola555 posted... This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo. Sadly some people use others without ever really caring about them. If you don't want to be forever alone then don't give up because of one person. --- This is where cool people write stuff. <cite>LeoRavus posted [p:978812181] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo.</quote>Sadly some people use others without ever really caring about them. If you don't want to be forever alone then don't give up because of one person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 02/12/24 9:27:08 PM #15:	Maybe there are an odd number of people on earth and u are the odd one out --- Not to say that I'm in love with you but who's to say that I'm not? <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:978812308] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Maybe there are an odd number of people on earth and u are the odd one out </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 02/12/24 9:28:49 PM #16:	crayola555 posted... This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo. I would say it is better to be solo than to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone which is what this sounded like with "last ditch effort" release yourself from the idea that you NEED it or whatever and then you might actually find someone you aren't with out of ceremony and conformity but you also might not and that is ok <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:978812345] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo.</quote>I would say it is better to be solo than to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone which is what this sounded like with "last ditch effort"release yourself from the idea that you NEED it or whatever and then you might actually find someone you aren't with out of ceremony and conformity but you also might not and that is ok</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 02/12/24 9:33:15 PM #17:	You did have a soulmate TC. But I ate her. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:978812415] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>You did have a soulmate TC. But I ate her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MartavisBryant 02/12/24 9:37:07 PM #19:	C_Pain posted... Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior. This. TC, you don't want to be in the actual forever alone club. --- I know it might be wrong, but I'm in love with Stacy's dong <cite>MartavisBryant posted [p:978812486] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>C_Pain posted... </cite><quote>Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior.</quote>This. TC, you don't want to be in the actual forever alone club. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 02/12/24 9:39:11 PM #20:	C_Pain posted... Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that? This. Just gotta keep trying TC --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:978812512] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>C_Pain posted... </cite><quote>Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that?</quote>This. Just gotta keep trying TC </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 02/12/24 9:48:45 PM #22:	At least you're capable of finding a partner at all. I'm 40 and never managed to get a date. v_v I'm all the proof anyone would need. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:978812660] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>At least you're capable of finding a partner at all. I'm 40 and never managed to get a date. v_vI'm all the proof anyone would need.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 02/12/24 9:50:15 PM #23:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] ??? what is toxic about self-worth and not looking for a relationship just to "not be alone"? <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:978812677] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> ???what is toxic about self-worth and not looking for a relationship just to "not be alone"?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 02/12/24 9:52:33 PM #24:	fyi this is described like a chore like "I did things I didn't want to do because I wanted to not be alone" I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. and then describing last resort you want to find someone you don't think of as "your last resort" but rather she\he is the one you always wanted similar they are someone doing things with is excitement and something you look forward to doing <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:978812714] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>fyi this is described like a chore like "I did things I didn't want to do because I wanted to not be alone"<quote>I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything.</quote>and then describing last resortyou want to find someone you don't think of as "your last resort" but rather she\he is the one you always wantedsimilar they are someone doing things with is excitement and something you look forward to doing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 02/12/24 9:52:43 PM #25:	I gave up years ago. Some people just aren't meant to be with anyone. I'm 42 and I only ever had 1 girlfriend, in 19 fucking 97. Lasted about a year. We broke up in 98. And that was that for my dating life <cite>Zikten posted [p:978812718] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>I gave up years ago. Some people just aren't meant to be with anyone. I'm 42 and I only ever had 1 girlfriend, in 19 fucking 97. Lasted about a year. We broke up in 98. And that was that for my dating life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
crayola555 02/12/24 9:58:47 PM #26:	C_Pain posted... Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior. It's all about the game, and how you play it. Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that? Well like I said, I just turned 40. Kinda pointless for me to keep trying. This is just me, I've never had luck in relationships, dating or whatever. On side note, didn't mean to bring this negative vibes onto topic. I pretty much just wanted to vent. --- 3DS FC: 0619-4850-3479 IGN: AlmaDelita <cite>crayola555 posted [p:978812818] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>C_Pain posted... </cite><quote>Clearly you weren't forever alone if you were with someone prior. It's all about the game, and how you play it. Just because one relation ended poorly doesn't mean they all will, what kind of pessimistic extrapolation is that?</quote>Well like I said, I just turned 40. Kinda pointless for me to keep trying. This is just me, I've never had luck in relationships, dating or whatever. On side note, didn't mean to bring this negative vibes onto topic. I pretty much just wanted to vent. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 02/12/24 10:01:03 PM #27:	You don't want that grussy ar 60? --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:978812849] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>You don't want that grussy ar 60? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NO2_Fiend 02/12/24 10:03:56 PM #28:	Nothing is permanent. Even the greatest relationships in the world generally end in lonliness for the person who outlives their partner. Cherish what you have when you have it and don't let negative experiences sour you on dating. --- I'm an artist at what I do. I fuel the fire, watch it burn, and laugh all the while. <cite>NO2_Fiend posted [p:978812894] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Nothing is permanent. Even the greatest relationships in the world generally end in lonliness for the person who outlives their partner. Cherish what you have when you have it and don't let negative experiences sour you on dating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 02/12/24 10:15:32 PM #29:	crayola555 posted... Well like I said, I just turned 40. Kinda pointless for me to keep trying. This is just me, I've never had luck in relationships, dating or whatever. On side note, didn't mean to bring this negative vibes onto topic. I pretty much just wanted to vent. understandable, sorry it didn't work out <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:978813099] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>Well like I said, I just turned 40. Kinda pointless for me to keep trying. This is just me, I've never had luck in relationships, dating or whatever. On side note, didn't mean to bring this negative vibes onto topic. I pretty much just wanted to vent.</quote>understandable, sorry it didn't work out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 02/12/24 10:19:32 PM #30:	Create a girlfriend Weird Science style. She'll let you shower with her with your jeans on --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:978813162] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Create a girlfriend Weird Science style. She'll let you shower with her with your jeans on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LightningThief 02/12/24 10:20:28 PM #31:	crayola555 posted... This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo. If this is a serious topic, keep trying. Try dating apps like Hinge or Bumble, and just take things casually. If a conversation sparks flow with it, if it doesn't, no skin off your back. Onto the next girl. Don't even get disheartened if no conversations spark for a minute. Experiment on pick up lines, and slowly learn from your mistakes what conversations work and what conversations don't. I'd also suggest not leaving the conversations on the app for too long. Side note, I'd suggest not paying for all a girls meals you aren't even exclusive with. There should be a give and take going on. Don't be a complete simp to whoever you are dating. <cite>LightningThief posted [p:978813181] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>This girl I was seeing just broke off and ghosted me for no reason at all. I've done everything I can; went places with her, answered all her calls and helped whatever she needs, paid for meals...everything. That was just my last ditch attempt to finally get something going, I'm turning 40 now so I really won't do this anymore. This is just destined for me, it's time I just go solo.</quote>If this is a serious topic, keep trying. Try dating apps like Hinge or Bumble, and just take things casually. If a conversation sparks flow with it, if it doesn't, no skin off your back. Onto the next girl. Don't even get disheartened if no conversations spark for a minute. Experiment on pick up lines, and slowly learn from your mistakes what conversations work and what conversations don't. I'd also suggest not leaving the conversations on the app for too long.Side note, I'd suggest not paying for all a girls meals you aren't even exclusive with. There should be a give and take going on. Don't be a complete simp to whoever you are dating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
burns112233 02/12/24 10:22:16 PM #32:	Jiek_Fafn posted... Create a girlfriend Weird Science style. She'll let you shower with her with your jeans on <cite>burns112233 posted [p:978813233] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Jiek_Fafn posted... </cite><quote>Create a girlfriend Weird Science style. She'll let you shower with her with your jeans on</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
burns112233 02/12/24 10:24:13 PM #33:	Try Facebook dating TC. Rules for dating 1. Don't be a creeper 2. Don't give the person all your time and attention 3. Volunteer somewhere 4. Save up money for a nice haircut and makeover <cite>burns112233 posted [p:978813267] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Try Facebook dating TC. Rules for dating 1. Don't be a creeper2. Don't give the person all your time and attention 3. Volunteer somewhere4. Save up money for a nice haircut and makeover</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Will_VIIII 02/12/24 10:25:37 PM #34:	Don't swipe indiscriminately either. Apps hate that --- Advice from a dryer: Open the door to amazement. Don't shrink from your true calling. Accept life's wrinkles. Avoid overload. Reach into mystery! <cite>Will_VIIII posted [p:978813284] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>Don't swipe indiscriminately either. Apps hate that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
crayola555 02/12/24 10:34:56 PM #35:	LightningThief posted... If this is a serious topic, keep trying. Try dating apps like Hinge or Bumble, and just take things casually. If a conversation sparks flow with it, if it doesn't, no skin off your back. Onto the next girl. Don't even get disheartened if no conversations spark for a minute. Experiment on pick up lines, and slowly learn from your mistakes what conversations work and what conversations don't. I'd also suggest not leaving the conversations on the app for too long. Side note, I'd suggest not paying for all a girls meals you aren't even exclusive with. There should be a give and take going on. Don't be a complete simp to whoever you are dating. I wasn't simping, just thought it's the right thing to do treating dinners for dates. I tried to do everything right. Also online and app dating is pretty much a no go for me, I'm an ugly looking guy with none of the online dating "standards", the only thing I'll get from those apps will be nope swipes --- 3DS FC: 0619-4850-3479 IGN: AlmaDelita <cite>crayola555 posted [p:978813459] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>LightningThief posted... </cite><quote>If this is a serious topic, keep trying. Try dating apps like Hinge or Bumble, and just take things casually. If a conversation sparks flow with it, if it doesn't, no skin off your back. Onto the next girl. Don't even get disheartened if no conversations spark for a minute. Experiment on pick up lines, and slowly learn from your mistakes what conversations work and what conversations don't. I'd also suggest not leaving the conversations on the app for too long.Side note, I'd suggest not paying for all a girls meals you aren't even exclusive with. There should be a give and take going on. Don't be a complete simp to whoever you are dating.</quote>I wasn't simping, just thought it's the right thing to do treating dinners for dates. I tried to do everything right.Also online and app dating is pretty much a no go for me, I'm an ugly looking guy with none of the online dating "standards", the only thing I'll get from those apps will be nope swipes </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LightningThief 02/12/24 10:41:53 PM #36:	crayola555 posted... I wasn't simping, just thought it's the right thing to do treating dinners for dates. I tried to do everything right. Also online and app dating is pretty much a no go for me, I'm an ugly looking guy with none of the online dating "standards", the only thing I'll get from those apps will be nope swipes Don't want my post to come off the wrong way. Wasn't calling you a simp. Just saying dont be that guy who over compensates by paying for everything all the time for a woman. Pay sometimes, but not literally all the time. As for thinking you're ugly, plenty of average guys get dates. To he fair, those apps can be harsh on below average guys, but you can try to make up for it in your bio and conversation game. Make take some strikes before you hit a home run, but you can continuously tweak your game slowly based on somewhat successful conversations/dates. Use some of that game you used to get the last woman on the dating app (minus the I'll pay for everything all the time part.) <cite>LightningThief posted [p:978813582] in I am just ... [t:80695242]...</cite> <quote>crayola555 posted... </cite><quote>I wasn't simping, just thought it's the right thing to do treating dinners for dates. I tried to do everything right.Also online and app dating is pretty much a no go for me, I'm an ugly looking guy with none of the online dating "standards", the only thing I'll get from those apps will be nope swipes</quote>Don't want my post to come off the wrong way.Wasn't calling you a simp. Just saying dont be that guy who over compensates by paying for everything all the time for a woman. Pay sometimes, but not literally all the time.As for thinking you're ugly, plenty of average guys get dates. To he fair, those apps can be harsh on below average guys, but you can try to make up for it in your bio and conversation game. Make take some strikes before you hit a home run, but you can continuously tweak your game slowly based on somewhat successful conversations/dates. Use some of that game you used to get the last woman on the dating app (minus the I'll pay for everything all the time part.)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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