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ArsGoetia
02/14/24 11:50:10 AM
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thought id be happy about it but ive done nothing but cry since i sat down in the courtroom
been about 3 hours since
feels bad man
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tripleh213
02/14/24 11:51:08 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/0606d87b.jpg

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BuzzKilljoy
02/14/24 11:57:47 AM
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Sucks man, hang in there

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Will_VIIII
02/14/24 11:57:57 AM
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Sorry

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Cocytus
02/14/24 11:58:31 AM
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Sorry man

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Drunk_Cobra
02/14/24 12:02:05 PM
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If there was a day for drinking it is today.

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ArsGoetia
02/14/24 1:01:20 PM
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lol fb w/ the "hey remember this valentines day memory w/ ur wife?"
fml
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deoxxys
02/14/24 1:03:43 PM
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Sorry dawg

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BadKarma_JT
02/14/24 1:04:38 PM
#11:


ArsGoetia posted...
thought id be happy about it but ive done nothing but cry since i sat down in the courtroom
been about 3 hours since
feels bad man

How is your wallet doing? Did you have a prenup?

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Naysaspace
02/14/24 1:05:07 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
lol fb w/ the "hey remember this valentines day memory w/ ur wife?"
fml
You can turn those off

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NeonTentacles
02/14/24 1:05:54 PM
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Yeesh, sorry to hear about that man >_> Hang in there. Life will go on and better women will present themselves to you in time

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MFBKBass5
02/14/24 1:07:16 PM
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Divorce is a good thing because it means youre not longer with a woman who doesnt want you.

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ArsGoetia
02/14/24 1:15:19 PM
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BadKarma_JT posted...
How is your wallet doing? Did you have a prenup?

bro i was 24
and it sucks
my ex didnt work and my lawyer said if i was divorcing her that the court would order me to maintain her standard of living which was basically open as many credit cards as i want and let my spouse figure out how to pay for them. so shes pretty much had unfettered access to my bank account to pay her dozen credit cards, car payment, etc. more than half of my income goes to her.

let me put it this way lol
when i pulled out of the court house parking garage, it was cash only
i had to walk 5 blocks to an ATM to get cash, only to find out she's overdrafted my account
so i had to call my mom to wire me money while i cried on the street corner
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ArsGoetia
02/14/24 1:16:28 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Divorce is a good thing because it means youre not longer with a woman who doesnt want you.

wym
she does
i left her
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AngelsNAirwav3s
02/14/24 1:16:43 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, why did you divorce her?

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MFBKBass5
02/14/24 1:19:10 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
wym
she does
i left her
Then whats the issue here

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Jiek_Fafn
02/14/24 1:19:14 PM
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From all of your stories, she sounded like she sucks. Hopefully, she'll be someone else's problem now

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ArsGoetia
02/14/24 1:20:13 PM
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AngelsNAirwav3s posted...
If you don't mind me asking, why did you divorce her?

lotta reasons that i dont wanna get into anymore b/c theyre either extremely personal or just irrelevant now
and tbh i still love her and prolly always will
i trauma dumped here about it when i filed
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Mistere_Man
02/14/24 1:30:56 PM
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Go home and pet your kitty.

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NoxObscuras
02/14/24 1:33:26 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
lol fb w/ the "hey remember this valentines day memory w/ ur wife?"
fml
Oof. Yeah I hate that it does that. Read the room Facebook

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Guide
02/14/24 1:35:06 PM
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Oh dang, no wonder seem to dislike everything all the time. Sorry for your situation. At least it will get better, maybe?

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Dungeater
02/14/24 1:35:06 PM
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jesus. it sounds like a long road and now you got another one to schlep through. that fucking sucks, im sorry. i really hope this is the start of getting some peace for u soon :(

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boxoto
02/14/24 1:55:05 PM
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yea, sorry you have to go through all of that, TC.

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Baha05
02/14/24 1:56:08 PM
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Your ex kinda sounds like a dick/bitch for this one if they did it today of all days.

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BadKarma_JT
02/14/24 6:07:20 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
bro i was 24
and it sucks
my ex didnt work and my lawyer said if i was divorcing her that the court would order me to maintain her standard of living which was basically open as many credit cards as i want and let my spouse figure out how to pay for them. so shes pretty much had unfettered access to my bank account to pay her dozen credit cards, car payment, etc. more than half of my income goes to her.

let me put it this way lol
when i pulled out of the court house parking garage, it was cash only
i had to walk 5 blocks to an ATM to get cash, only to find out she's overdrafted my account
so i had to call my mom to wire me money while i cried on the street corner

Oof that's brutal... she wiped you clean and will take you to the cleaners again during settlement. On the bright side hopefully you didn't have kids.

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NoxObscuras
02/14/24 7:50:07 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
bro i was 24
and it sucks
my ex didnt work and my lawyer said if i was divorcing her that the court would order me to maintain her standard of living which was basically open as many credit cards as i want and let my spouse figure out how to pay for them. so shes pretty much had unfettered access to my bank account to pay her dozen credit cards, car payment, etc. more than half of my income goes to her.

let me put it this way lol
when i pulled out of the court house parking garage, it was cash only
i had to walk 5 blocks to an ATM to get cash, only to find out she's overdrafted my account
so i had to call my mom to wire me money while i cried on the street corner
Dude that's so fucked. I hope you're able to do something about that eventually. Having to help maintain her horrible spending habits is such a stupid system

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Gritty
02/14/24 7:51:29 PM
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Did yall choose to get divorced on Valentines Day for the humor or was that just random fortunate coincidence?

ill also reference you to the Louis CK bit on divorce. its always a good thing
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hereforemnant
02/14/24 7:55:02 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
lol fb w/ the "hey remember this valentines day memory w/ ur wife?"
fml
Facebook fucks you up mentally, my mental health was always worse while on there

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Alucard188
02/14/24 7:57:10 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
bro i was 24
and it sucks
my ex didnt work and my lawyer said if i was divorcing her that the court would order me to maintain her standard of living which was basically open as many credit cards as i want and let my spouse figure out how to pay for them. so shes pretty much had unfettered access to my bank account to pay her dozen credit cards, car payment, etc. more than half of my income goes to her.

let me put it this way lol
when i pulled out of the court house parking garage, it was cash only
i had to walk 5 blocks to an ATM to get cash, only to find out she's overdrafted my account
so i had to call my mom to wire me money while i cried on the street corner

Ooof. This sucks ass, dude.

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kingdrake2
02/14/24 7:59:58 PM
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hereforemnant posted...
Facebook fucks you up mentally


we're all fucked up :(.

to add... it was her fault. not yours in why she divorced.

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Will_VIIII
02/14/24 8:06:26 PM
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hereforemnant posted...
Facebook fucks you up mentally, my mental health was always worse while on there
I used the scrub feature immediately when my first engagement ended

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hereforemnant
02/14/24 8:16:53 PM
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Will_VIIII posted...
I used the scrub feature immediately when my first engagement ended
Yeah when I was done with it, I dismantled everything I could

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Quatrerwin
02/14/24 8:47:14 PM
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hereforemnant posted...
Facebook fucks you up mentally, my mental health was always worse while on there

Surprisingly coming back to this place helped break the mental drain that was Facebook for me during the height of the pandemic
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TheMikh
02/14/24 8:52:26 PM
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this is absolutely not the time for tc to be drinking unless it's with a good friend

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FolkenRawr
02/14/24 8:56:52 PM
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TheMikh posted...
this is absolutely not the time for tc to be drinking unless it's with a good friend

Hard disagree, but different strokes.

I'm sorry you're going through this. In case it hasn't been made ultra clear - it's okay to be happy, sad, confused, fucked up with this.

You've always seemed like a decent person. Sucks this happened. Shitty day.

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ArsGoetia
02/15/24 4:47:19 PM
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lol put my paycheck in the bank today to pay my mortgage
already overdrafted again
fuck everything
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Will_VIIII
02/15/24 4:58:00 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
lol put my paycheck in the bank today to pay my mortgage
already overdrafted again
fuck everything
While I understand not wanting to share or put certain information out there, if you want or need an outsider perspective for your current financial situation to see where to find margin I'm sure there are people here willing to help

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boxoto
02/15/24 5:32:31 PM
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I understand, and support, alimony (in theory), but stuff like this feels like abuse.

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pretzelcoatl
02/15/24 5:48:49 PM
#42:


Alimony really, REALLY needs to get looked at. Needs duration limits for sure.
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ArsGoetia
02/15/24 5:49:19 PM
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i dont have alimony
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SpiritSephiroth
02/15/24 5:49:55 PM
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Sorry to hear this man, heartbreak sucks :/

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boxoto
02/15/24 5:50:19 PM
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sorry, I mean whatever gives your ex access to your accounts like that.

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 1:48:57 PM
#46:


in a mood to make bad decisions
gonna go to event tonite at place i met ex over a decade ago
wasnt something i really considered when i was like "hey i wanna go to that"
but idk
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C_Pain
02/17/24 1:50:24 PM
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Sorry to hear that bro. Was it mutual or your decision? Since you said you thought you would happy. No need to answer if I'm prying too much. Feeling sad is expected even if it made sense to end the relationship because you're mourning the loss of what could have been.

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 1:53:14 PM
#48:


C_Pain posted...
Sorry to hear that bro. Was it mutual or your decision? Since you said you thought you would happy. No need to answer if I'm prying too much.

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C_Pain
02/17/24 1:56:36 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/c/c275e6b6.png
Jfc, that is fucked. Did you know that person? Regardless, I totally get the betrayal and hurt you must be feeling. Just try to take it one day at a time and prioritize your own well being.

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 1:58:04 PM
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C_Pain posted...
Jfc, that is fucked. Did you know that person? Regardless, I totally get the betrayal and hurt you must be feeling. Just try to take it one day at a time and prioritize your own well being.

no he sent me that after she broke up with him
never talked to him in my life
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