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VeggetaX 03/11/24 10:51:52 AM #1: |
And if so, in what context?
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Dungeater 03/11/24 10:53:18 AM #2: |
legit works with confidence and social capability
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LoveLikeJazz 03/11/24 10:53:29 AM #3: |
"How do you know when you've made it?"
I've used that logic at times when I was uncomfortable in a social situation and had to push through it for work or to make a good impression, etc. --- PSN: LoveLikeJazz https://soundcloud.com/pacuta ... Copied to Clipboard!
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boomgetchopped3 03/11/24 10:54:19 AM #4: |
Some people are very sensitive to the outward projection of confidence, or lack of. If they think you appear to lack confidence then they instantly and permanently lose confidence in you. Because of that I would fake confidence to appease those surface level thinkers until I became truly confident in my abilities
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deathproof12 03/11/24 10:54:36 AM #5: |
No. True confidence comes from overcoming difficult things. If you fake confidence you will be exposed as a fraud as soon as you are forced to back it up. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ai123 03/11/24 11:07:39 AM #6: |
Depends.
I wouldn't recommend it as a way to start your career in brain surgery. But for a lot of things it works as long as you don't forget that you are eventually supposed to 'make it'. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bfslick50 03/11/24 11:14:47 AM #7: |
deathproof12 posted...
No. True confidence comes from overcoming difficult things. If you fake confidence you will be exposed as a fraud as soon as you are forced to back it up. Depends. Overcoming social anxiety is often a difficult thing. There's many people who actually have the chops to back "it" up but don't assert themselves. --- "Something's wrong! Murder isn't working and that's all we're good at." ~Futurama ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 03/11/24 11:21:52 AM #8: |
Dungeater posted...
legit works with confidence and social capabilityAgree. I did this and it worked out very well for me --- Currently playing: Sea of Stars ... Copied to Clipboard!
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jediknight0056 03/11/24 11:33:45 AM #10: |
It shouldn't be 'fake it to you make it' but 'act real until you remember'. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Raikuro 03/11/24 11:40:36 AM #11: |
Mental gymnastics to make yourself feel better about lying your ass off ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SoIidLegacy 03/11/24 11:46:44 AM #12: |
It definitely did for me. I used to be a very awkward introvert, but I always wanted to become sociable and be able to go out and just interact with people and getting along with them.
So I tried things out in terms of social behaviour, and while initially not everything may have been sincere, it did help me discover what does and doesn't feel good, and I've made the behaviour that does feel good my own, until it gradually felt more natural to do throughout the years to the point where I honestly feel that the way I socially express myself does feel sincere. --- Choco: why are americans so weird omniryu: To make a long story short, self esteem issue. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prestoff 03/11/24 12:57:59 PM #13: |
The "fake it" part, I feel, shouldn't be to "lie" but rather just stretch the truth to a certain capacity where it's believable.
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