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gamepimp12
04/22/24 9:16:10 PM
#301:


Also its worth reminding everyone while shes the one who brought up marriage and kids and the one who brought up dating almost 80% of the time.

shes also the one who felt we where moving too fast.

CSCA33 posted...
What kind of questions did you want to ask her younger(?) sister?

her older sister.

IDK exactly didnt think the thought out that far. Probably just her general opinion on everything

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ssb_yunglink2
04/22/24 9:18:29 PM
#302:


here you are. Post 300. Still talking about a girl and her family when you are supposedly done with her.

Wonderful.

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projectpat72988
04/22/24 9:46:50 PM
#304:


gamepimp12 posted...
1. She likely was going to have to move with in the year so wed going from a mid distance situation to a slightly longer or full blown long distance.
2. I was concerned that if we dated at that moment I would be influencing her decisions about the next step in her life.
3. while I didnt know this at the time, only untill we had been seeing each other awhile. She has a very sheltered view of the world.
4. I didnt feel financially comfortable to do such at the moment.

2 That is what relationships do. There is a chance I end up in another country because of a relationship.

3 so what?

4 if she has a career or is working on one, and you know that you would make more money eventually. Again, I don't see why that matters.
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Ragtag28
04/22/24 9:50:14 PM
#305:


Goderator posted...
I barely read any of these countless topics but you sound like you have 0 self respect. What's going to end up happening eventually is not you leaving her, but her leaving you and you will be even worse off as a result because you couldn't make that decision for yourself.
This already happened

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gamepimp12
04/22/24 10:45:05 PM
#306:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
here you are. Post 300. Still talking about a girl and her family when you are supposedly done with her.

Wonderful.

im again literally just answering questions.

granted I posed had a fleeting thought about what her sister thought of the situation. But it was fleeting.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


Because people are asking questions ?

it was relevant because people seem to believe I behave in a contradictory Manner about her, and are attaching things she did, to me.

if anything we both act like that.

projectpat72988 posted...
2 That is what relationships do. There is a chance I end up in another country because of a relationship.

3 so what?

4 if she has a career or is working on one, and you know that you would make more money eventually. Again, I don't see why that matters.


when the next decisions in her life are if she moves and goes to medical school and where she goes if she does. I wanted no say in those, especially since those lead into 1. I felt like it would be selfish of me to try to influence her to stay close by.

it was honestly pretty unattractive, not deal breaking but it was the perspective of someone who clearly needed to live more.

due to things in my life financial stability is extremely important to me at this phase in my life. Especially then I wasnt.

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gamepimp12
04/22/24 11:55:55 PM
#308:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]



again I blamed my own lack of clarity ???

like I said everyones making false assumption and wrong leaps in logic, probably because of my poor communication

and if Im understanding correctly youre saying if everyones making those leaps of logics it must be true ???

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PurpleTurtle
04/23/24 10:04:07 PM
#309:


Bump

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BearlyWilling
04/23/24 10:59:41 PM
#311:


PurpleTurtle posted...
Bump

No need to break out an alt to bump this insufferable shit

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BearlyWilling
04/23/24 11:05:14 PM
#312:


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And this is so spot on

I love how he tried to deflect with her friends know me and they just think the whole thing has gotten too toxic too

Yeahbecause they know youre the toxic stalker at this point


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gamepimp12
04/23/24 11:34:15 PM
#313:


BearlyWilling posted...
No need to break out an alt to bump this insufferable shit


Lets think logically for a second.

why would I with a damn near 20 year old account. Have an alt that is barely a year old.

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I wont admit to being wrong

BearlyWilling posted...
And this is so spot on

I love how he tried to deflect with her friends know me and they just think the whole thing has gotten too toxic too

Yeahbecause they know youre the toxic stalker at this point

So, Im still confused as to how.

I watch her stories on Instagram became I stalk her social media.

some of the leaps in logic yall make are crazy.


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gamepimp12
04/23/24 11:44:31 PM
#315:


idk why (well I know why for jokes) yall choose to make these outlandish assumptions to be critical of me with instead of the things Ive actually done that are worth being critical over, cause its plenty.

Ive over complicated a situation, for no real reason. Ive feared commitment, Ive been petty as hell, Ive preemptively reacted emotionally in situations. I wasnt transparent with her about my intentions with out relationship until it was honestly too late.. Ive been a bit of a hypocrite. I didnt provide clarity in situations because I thought i didnt need to

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MaxEffingBemis
04/23/24 11:44:44 PM
#316:


Who got the cliff notes for me for this topic

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gamepimp12
04/23/24 11:55:33 PM
#317:


MaxEffingBemis posted...
Who got the cliff notes for me for this topic

  • Long term situationship starting going out again recently
  • after hanging out there was a either a miscommunication or a flat out lie about her relationship status
  • Huge fight that ended with us barely speaking, and her admitting and apologizing for lying to cover herself after the initial, lie/miscommunication
  • we where originally supposed to hang to celebrate a big accomplishment of mine coming soon, and at first I wanted to despite our issues.
  • Realize Im not over the lies probably never will and decide I dont wanna see her, if ever again.
  • CE confuses itself and attributes all our issues and erratic behavior to me when its very two sided
  • CE decides to joke and call me creepy

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BearlyWilling
04/24/24 12:15:37 AM
#319:


MaxEffingBemis posted...
Who got the cliff notes for me for this topic

OP continues to stalk and obsess over a lady he never actually dated

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gamepimp12
04/24/24 12:59:38 AM
#320:


BearlyWilling posted...
OP continues to stalk and obsess over a lady he never actually dated
2 +2 = 10

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BearlyWilling
04/24/24 1:02:20 AM
#321:


gamepimp12 posted...
2 +2 = 10

Yes, this is the logic youve routinely displayed in these topics

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gamepimp12
04/24/24 1:04:19 AM
#322:


BearlyWilling posted...
Yes, this is the logic youve routinely displayed in these topics

yall are literally in here saying because we still follow each other on IG, and I watch her story I stalk her.

youre also the one randomly accusing me of alts that I dont have

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projectpat72988
04/24/24 1:15:50 AM
#323:


gamepimp12 posted...
yall are literally in here saying because we still follow each other on IG, and I watch her story I stalk her.

youre also the one randomly accusing me of alts that I dont have

I mean you did say you researched and studied her socials to be able to tell if a Pic was on a date or not.....

I do like these topics though.
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FinalBraveNUT
04/24/24 1:26:46 AM
#324:


This again? Swear another guy diff account posted same topics

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gamepimp12
04/24/24 1:36:56 AM
#325:


projectpat72988 posted...
I mean you did say you researched and studied her socials to be able to tell if a Pic was on a date or not.....

I do like these topics though.

not stalking when we follow each other and she post it all
I pay a lot of attention, but Ive always paid attention to her, I know what her apartment looks like as Ive been to it.

I also admittedly did research once it started to look like she lied to me.

I only actually went and looked for confirmation that she lied.(not even the initial potential misunderstanding I only did this after she actually lied after that )

Everything was just the results of knowing her for 5 years. She would very frequently drop hints on her IG in the past so I always paid attention to it.

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lucariopikmin
04/24/24 8:27:47 AM
#326:


gamepimp12 posted...
and I watch her story I stalk her.
That is stalking, yes. You're supposed to be done with this woman yet you go out of your way to keep following her social media so you to know what's going on in her life and you went so far that you wanted to contact a family member you haven't seen in years to get their opinion on it. You're the issue and she is better off without someone as crazy and obsessed as you are, end of story.

gamepimp12 posted...
I also admittedly did research once it started to look like she lied to me.

I only actually went and looked for confirmation that she lied

gamepimp12 posted...
not stalking
No on believes this obvious bullshit but at least be mature enough to stop lying to yourself.

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rynobot
04/24/24 8:54:58 AM
#327:


Why would a stalker admit he was a stalker? You are delusional. Listen to your brothers.

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bsp77
04/24/24 8:57:01 AM
#328:


I don't think that seeing her public social media is stalking. If so, I am stalking all my exes.

However, the difference is that I am over them, and I like seeing them happy with other people. One got engaged a few months ago and that actually made my day.

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lucariopikmin
04/24/24 10:24:26 AM
#330:


bsp77 posted...
I don't think that seeing her public social media is stalking. If so, I am stalking all my exes.

However, the difference is that I am over them
That's the important thing on top of it sounding like you're on friendly terms with them. Tc is supposed to be "officially done" with his "ex" that he never has been in a relationship with about something that started early March because she lied about something minor to someone she's not serious because he straight up said it's fine to date other people. Then tc gets to the point where he wanted to sue her about gifts, pays attention to what happens in her apartment and when she's in town and thinks about harassing a family member that he hasn't spoken to in 4 years about the situation and downplays anything shitty he says to make himself look better.

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SilvosForever
04/24/24 10:25:31 AM
#331:


Narrator: The TC was, in fact, not yet done with her.

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Cemith
04/24/24 12:25:05 PM
#333:


Did we ever get pics of the girl who couldn't be quit

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CSCA33
04/24/24 3:22:32 PM
#334:


lucariopikmin posted...
That's the important thing on top of it sounding like you're on friendly terms with them. Tc is supposed to be "officially done" with his "ex" that he never has been in a relationship with about something that started early March because she lied about something minor to someone she's not serious because he straight up said it's fine to date other people. Then tc gets to the point where he wanted to sue her about gifts, pays attention to what happens in her apartment and when she's in town and thinks about harassing a family member that he hasn't spoken to in 4 years about the situation and downplays anything shitty he says to make himself look better.
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BearlyWilling
04/25/24 11:15:18 AM
#335:


Dude literally said hes actually been to her apartment and still fails to understand why everyone is clowning on him.

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Whiterun_Guard_
04/25/24 11:16:06 AM
#336:


Dude stop arguing and just be done with her for good.

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gamepimp12
04/26/24 1:23:03 AM
#337:


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Honestly ?

Basically. Its some complexities around that situation like the fact I didnt have any expectations about her and her being the person between us who both talks about a relationship together the most and being the person more actively afraid of one.

but had she liked me more, or liked me less we wouldnt of been here.

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dhampire1
04/26/24 1:33:03 AM
#338:


gamepimp12 posted...
Honestly ?

Basically. Its some complexities around that situation like the fact I didnt have any expectations about her and her being the person between us who both talks about a relationship together the most and being the person more actively afraid of one.

but had she liked me more, or liked me less we wouldnt of been here.
Except you know she likes you less, shes let you know many times. Yet here you are making excuse after excuse.

if you were done with her you wouldnt be spending hours a week talking about her nonstop to strangers. Or stalking her online
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gamepimp12
04/26/24 2:02:56 AM
#339:


dhampire1 posted...
Except you know she likes you less, shes let you know many times. Yet here you are making excuse after excuse.

if you were done with her you wouldnt be spending hours a week talking about her nonstop to strangers. Or stalking her online


Thats not what I said though, thank you stranger.

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Wrath_Of_Spiral
04/26/24 3:35:33 AM
#340:


I'm gonna be honest and hopefully a little wholesome in saying this, this topic is a great example of do's & don't's if you want to improve your dating life.
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BearlyWilling
04/26/24 3:48:11 AM
#341:


gamepimp12 posted...
relationship together

But you didnt have a relationship together.

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gamepimp12
04/26/24 1:00:09 PM
#342:


BearlyWilling posted...
But you didnt have a relationship together.

and that doesnt change the fact we talked about one ?!? Frequently ?

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gamepimp12
04/26/24 2:53:36 PM
#344:


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oh yall are talking about two different things.

what youre saying is 100% the truth and I never disagreed with that. Just because weve talked about marriage doesnt mean shes isnt allowed to move on or to see other people. I dont know where I gave that off ?

I bring up her being the person talking about us dating, cause she was bringing it up even a week prior to our fight.

I

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gamepimp12
04/26/24 3:18:54 PM
#346:


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I was mainly referring to the many times wed supposed to be just friends or just casually dating. And she brings up us dating.

But your right, prior to our last fight I held on to guilt that I was the one fucking things up.

but now its just way more clear, that regardless of how much she cares or doesnt care, shes gonna self sabotage anything good here for the foreseeable future.

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CSCA33
04/26/24 7:39:47 PM
#347:


Im sure her older sister will really appreciate that new perspective when you bring it up in your conversation with her.

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gamepimp12
04/26/24 7:54:37 PM
#348:


CSCA33 posted...
Im sure her older sister will really appreciate that new perspective when you bring it up in your conversation with her.

  1. thats not really new perspective, thats always how Ive felt about our situation. It just wasnt relevant to this situation to be brought up.
  2. you guys are still doing that thing where you misrepresent something, then get mad I dont take your advice.

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CSCA33
04/26/24 7:55:23 PM
#349:


Im not mad at you =)

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