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Ragtag28
04/29/24 1:37:40 PM
#50:


Hold on, I just re read the topic title. How are you calling another guy being obsessed with your friend creepy, but you also obsess over another woman? Which you have admitted to? Like what the hell.

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Makeveli_lives
04/29/24 1:40:42 PM
#51:


gamepimp12 posted...
You could not post in them.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/8/8db01c7a.jpg
Assuming youre the blue, shes not very interested in talking to you about it is she? She put three words up to your several dozen lol, conversation seems one sided is all.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 1:42:15 PM
#52:


lucariopikmin posted...
You said you probably, which doesn't mean much with how unreliable you are, wouldn't and then you started justifying it to downplay it for several posts after people kept saying how creepy it was. You also completely ignored how even thinking about it is something a stalker would do.

You haven't talked to her for a year prior to this year, keep your shit straight.

So being obsessed with someone when you don't matter to her to the point that you go out of your way to know more about her.

It's also very interesting how you suddenly admit to having done all those "assumptions" about a woman you're "completely done" with.


so you made the assumption I was going to do it

us not talking for a year of my own choice doesnt mean I didnt know her for almost 6 months

again an assumption about her feelings


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gamepimp12
04/29/24 1:45:09 PM
#53:


Makeveli_lives posted...
Assuming youre the blue, shes not very interested in talking to you about it is she? She put three words up to your several dozen lol, conversation seems one sided is all.

I couldnt post more without incriminating

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DrizztLink
04/29/24 1:46:42 PM
#54:


gamepimp12 posted...
I couldnt post more without incriminating
It's already pretty fuckin' incriminating.

How much worse does it get for you?

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SauI_Goodman
04/29/24 1:46:48 PM
#55:


Makeveli_lives posted...
Assuming youre the blue, shes not very interested in talking to you about it is she? She put three words up to your several dozen lol, conversation seems one sided is all.
She doesn't know the difference between your and you're. I'm out.

Also to the op. Tell her to change her number and hopefully she wasn't stupid enough to hook up at her place.

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ItsNotA2Mer
04/29/24 1:48:04 PM
#56:


gamepimp12 posted...
one thing I dont lack is self awareness.

OK, I'm going to say this to you in the most compassionate way I can, because I don't want to hurt your feelings.
You should really just stop with any topics that relate to relationships, (whether yours, or your friend's). They don't do you any favors, and are generally not well-received.
By all means, enjoy engaging with this community, but the relationship topics just need to not be a thing any more. If you were truly self-aware, you would realize that you're just making yourself look bad.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 1:49:21 PM
#57:


DrizztLink posted...
It's already pretty fuckin' incriminating.

How much worse does it get for you?
Uhhh we mention dude by name and his screenshots texts ?

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 1:51:31 PM
#58:


ItsNotA2Mer posted...
OK, I'm going to say this to you in the most compassionate way I can, because I don't want to hurt your feelings.
You should really just stop with any topics that relate to relationships, (whether yours, or your friend's). They don't do you any favors, and are generally not well-received.
By all means, enjoy engaging with this community, but the relationship topics just need to not be a thing any more. If you were truly self-aware, you would realize that you're just making yourself look bad.

I mean yeah Im aware but nobody has to post in them and I dont care about what you guys think about the situation


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Cocytus
04/29/24 1:52:30 PM
#59:


Marry her.

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DrizztLink
04/29/24 1:52:51 PM
#60:


gamepimp12 posted...
I mean yeah Im aware but nobody has to post in them and I dont care about what you guys think about the situation
Then either quit telling us every single update or get used to CE calling you out.

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ItsNotA2Mer
04/29/24 2:00:45 PM
#61:


gamepimp12 posted...
I dont care about what you guys think about the situation

If true, then there's no reason to even take the time to post this stuff. But hey, I tried.

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CSCA33
04/29/24 2:01:03 PM
#62:


How many times per day on average do you trawl her social media profiles? Just once per day?

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 2:06:54 PM
#63:


gamepimp12 posted...
so you made the assumption I was going to do it
Want to is not the same as will. And then you downplayed it hard to say you wouldn't to save face while still not addressing how creepy it is to think about wanting to harass someone you haven't talked to in 4 years for info about a relationship you don't need to know anything about.

gamepimp12 posted...
us not talking for a year of my own choice doesnt mean I didnt know her for almost 6 months
That year matters a lot because a lot can change in a year, especially when you don't talk at all, have a bad track record and you're completely fine with her dating others.

gamepimp12 posted...
again an assumption about her feelings
She lied about her relationship status to you for a reason after having shown no interest in you for a year and backtracking on wanting to return gifts, it's not an assumption at all. She has someone else she cares about who wants an actual relation with her while you're crying about her for months straight.
It's also ironic you say that when this topic is you making assumptions yourself.

gamepimp12 posted...
I dont care about what you guys think about the situation
Yet you keep responding to everyone and making everything worse for yourself instead of ignoring everyone and just sticking to your perfect imagination land.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 2:09:18 PM
#64:


DrizztLink posted...
Then either quit telling us every single update or get used to CE calling you out.

I actually dont post ever update.

i dont actually mind when ce calls me out when its about legit shit.

ive 100 % been selfish, and a little controlling and insecure in my situation and please rip me to shreds over that

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 2:14:20 PM
#65:


lucariopikmin posted...
Want to is not the same as will. And then you downplayed it hard to say you wouldn't to save face while still not addressing how creepy it is to think about wanting to harass someone you haven't talked to in 4 years for info about a relationship you don't need to know anything about.

That year matters a lot because a lot can change in a year, especially when you don't talk at all, have a bad track record and you're completely fine with her dating others.

She lied about her relationship status to you for a reason after having shown no interest in you for a year and backtracking on wanting to return gifts, it's not an assumption at all. She has someone else she cares about who wants an actual relation with her while you're crying about her for months straight.
It's also ironic you say that when this topic is you making assumptions yourself.

Yet you keep responding to everyone and making everything worse for yourself instead of ignoring everyone and just sticking to your perfect imagination land.


WAIT you think I was going to ask her sister about the dude shes seeing now ?? I never said that, crazy assumption.

i dont even get what your point is

you spoke to her about why she lied ? Cause I never even actually said why she lied in the topic.


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CSCA33
04/29/24 2:15:37 PM
#66:


Why would you ask her sister about anything if you're not obsessively stalking this girl you never date

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 2:21:57 PM
#68:


CSCA33 posted...
Why would you ask her sister about anything if you're not obsessively stalking this girl you never date

I wasnt. I expressed in her sisters opinions on everything because she idolized her sister, in the same post said I wasnt and then in the same page of the topic acknowledged It wouldnt do me any good in the long term.

When I say she idolizes her sister she idolizes her sister, shes all the time well my sister thinks ______ so thats what ima do. Not realizing her sister is just older her with money. They have the exact same issues at their core.

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 2:22:50 PM
#69:


gamepimp12 posted...
WAIT you think I was going to ask her sister about the dude shes seeing now ?? I never said that, crazy assumption.
I never said that either, weird assumption to make if you don't think about her relationship status. I meant the one between the two of you or did you not get that?

gamepimp12 posted...
i dont even get what your point is
You're acting like not talking for a year/a year and a half to be exact doesn't matter when a person, especially someone in their mid 20's, can change a lot during that time.

gamepimp12 posted...
you spoke to her about why she lied ? Cause I never even actually said why she lied in the topic.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/e/ef8799c3.png
You very much did. Anything else you want to lie about?

Also she would have been 19 if you actually have known her for 6 years but keep downplaying how you're not creepy.

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CSCA33
04/29/24 2:24:53 PM
#70:


Her older sister did express grave concern about the age gap

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 2:27:46 PM
#71:


then why would you say its a relationship I dont need to know anything about.

Thats what she lied about not why she lied.

and I met her at 20 didnt date her till 22.

wait are you the person who accused me of being 40 and her being 22?

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 2:42:06 PM
#72:


CSCA33 posted...
Her older sister did express grave concern about the age gap


I wouldnt say grave

she felt like things where too serious for the age gap and her age.

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CSCA33
04/29/24 2:53:40 PM
#73:


gamepimp12 posted...
I wouldnt say grave

she felt like things where too serious for the age gap and her age.
Seems like a fair concern for an older sister, when a middle aged man wants to marry her college age little sister

Not sure how a non-existent relationship can be too serious though, if yall were never actually together

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 2:53:43 PM
#74:


gamepimp12 posted...
then why would you say its a relationship I dont need to know anything about.
Because there is absolutely nothing to know about a relationship that never existed and you already knew her sisters opinion on it even before you started "dating".

gamepimp12 posted...
Thats what she lied about not why she lied.
Just a hint before you start lying again, you explained that too.

gamepimp12 posted...
and I met her at 20 didnt date her till 22.
So only 5 years, not 6. 2 years, 1.5 years in different topics where it's only a thing for months, with a bad record and fought a lot with 1 topic saying it ended after 6 months and 1.5 years where you didn't talk while saying to you haven't been actual friends in years. Good to know that you're making shit up as you go.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/9/97f95cc8.png

gamepimp12 posted...
wait are you the person who accused me of being 40 and her being 22?
No.


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CSCA33
04/29/24 2:56:44 PM
#75:


Looks like we are starting to get closer to the truth finally

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DrizztLink
04/29/24 2:57:36 PM
#76:


CSCA33 posted...
Looks like we are starting to get closer to the truth finally
He keeps telling us we don't have all the context, then whenever context is added it just makes it way worse for the dude.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:05:32 PM
#78:


CSCA33 posted...
Seems like a fair concern for an older sister, when a middle aged man wants to marry her college age little sister

Not sure how a non-existent relationship can be too serious though, if yall were never actually together

i wouldnt consider myself middle aged. But either way its 100% reasonable Ive been open about being concerned about it myself.

But they think Im more serious than I am about everything because I failed to set expectations about what I actually wanted.

I used to tell her all the time I treated her like my GF, and she loved the way I treated her, but she felt like because I treated her like that she thought I had the expectations of her being my gf in the near future. ( for example when we where seriously dating she didnt think I was actually dating around even though I told her I was because I treated her a certain way)


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thronedfire2
04/29/24 3:06:24 PM
#79:




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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:07:20 PM
#80:


Also why is trying to pin me for lying about our ages. When Ive admitted to lying about our ages but not the age gap ?

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CSCA33
04/29/24 3:09:13 PM
#81:


Have you considered dating women older than yourself? Maybe you can setup a double date with this other guy and you both move on

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 3:11:59 PM
#82:


gamepimp12 posted...
Also why is trying to pin me for lying about our ages.
Oh yeah, I do wonder why people call out liars when they're so trustworthy. By the way, it's not just ages but also how long you've known her or how long you've "dated" that you can't keep straight and moving goalposts is not a defense to getting called out on your bullshit.

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DrizztLink
04/29/24 3:15:22 PM
#83:


gamepimp12 posted...
Also why is trying to pin me for lying

gamepimp12 posted...
When Ive admitted to lying
It's a real puzzler.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:18:04 PM
#84:


CSCA33 posted...
Have you considered dating women older than yourself? Maybe you can setup a double date with this other guy and you both move on

yall cant tell me I need to move on and then bring her up in unrelated topics Lmaoo.

but yes my ex before her was older and the last girl I slept with was only 2 years younger

lucariopikmin posted...
Oh yeah, I do wonder why people call out liars when they're so trustworthy. By the way, it's not just ages but also how long you've known her or how long you've "dated" that you can't keep straight and moving goalposts is not a defense to getting called out on your bullshit.

is it lying when Ive been open about fudging ages and times by a year or two ?

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:21:29 PM
#85:


DrizztLink posted...
It's a real puzzler.
Its just the whole gotcha behavior about it.

especially when Ive been open about the fact Im not being honest about certain things, and Im not really adding the appropriate info that would give worth while advice.

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DrizztLink
04/29/24 3:22:18 PM
#86:


gamepimp12 posted...
especially when Ive been open about the fact Im not being honest
Gee.

Such a puzzler why people don't believe you.

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 3:24:23 PM
#87:


gamepimp12 posted...
is it lying when Ive been open about fudging ages and times by a year or two ?
Yes because it shows you can't be honest about it and make shit up. You've also admitted to making troll topics it about and yes I will post a screenshot of you admitting that in case you're gonna lie about not doing that.

DrizztLink posted...
Gee.

Such a puzzler why people don't believe you.
It legit would be better if he just came out and said it's dedication to a 4 year long troll, that would actually be funny compared to what it is now.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:27:59 PM
#88:


DrizztLink posted...
Gee.

Such a puzzler why people don't believe you.

I mean I dont blame em for not believing, its more the assumptions made straight up

Ill say X and instead of just not believing X

theyll say instead X is Y

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DUKLegend
04/29/24 3:29:24 PM
#89:


God damn. I hate to say it, but I feel a little invested. I might need the lore to TC's story. Any links?
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DrizztLink
04/29/24 3:41:22 PM
#92:


gamepimp12 posted...
I mean I dont blame em for not believing, its more the assumptions made straight up
You've already established that you'll lie about this to try to make yourself look better.

The people making assumptions are actually more trustworthy, as it turns out.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:44:21 PM
#94:


DUKLegend posted...
God damn. I hate to say it, but I feel a little invested. I might need the lore to TC's story. Any links?
Quick cliff notes
Dating a woman eight years younger on and off for four years.

Neither of us want a relationship in the immediate future, but both expressed interest in one in the future.

she thinks Im lying about not wanting something now so has very erratic behavior.

I am admittedly very emotional about her and tend to react, negatively about her erratic behavior. Which only makes things worse.


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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:47:06 PM
#95:


DrizztLink posted...
You've already established that you'll lie about this to try to make yourself look better.

The people making assumptions are actually more trustworthy, as it turns out.

I never said I lied about the situation to make myself look better. Ive said I lie about our ages to keep some anonymity.

If anything not being 100% honest about the situation makes me look worse because I rarely talks about the things shes done.

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lucariopikmin
04/29/24 3:52:43 PM
#96:


gamepimp12 posted...
for four years.
It's impressive that you managed to go from 2 years to 4 years in a single page after getting called out that it's only 6 months.

gamepimp12 posted...
Ive said I lie about our ages
And how long you've "dated", how long you've know each other, about what you actually post like "I never said the reason" and you've admitted to making troll topics about it.

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gamepimp12
04/29/24 3:55:17 PM
#97:


lucariopikmin posted...
It's impressive that you managed to go from 2 years to 4 years in a single page after getting called out that it's only 6 months.

And how long you've "dated", how long you've know each other, about what you actually post like "I never said the reason" and you've admitted to making troll topics about it.


what are you talking about ?

when did I say 2 years and where did 6 months come from ?


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gamepimp12
04/29/24 4:01:36 PM
#99:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I keep l admitting to being dishonest about the same 2-3 things and now people think Im lying about other things for some reason

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