Current Events > Problems that rich people face, according to therapists

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absolutebuffoon 05/14/24 3:43:43 PM #51:	In that case, yeah, I agree. Although i will say that if they are someone who uses their money as a cudgel against others it makes me less sympathetic for their issues. Perhaps we could try and help them realize that doing good can feel good. --- Gamefolks.proboards.com. The newest and greatest spinoff site <cite>absolutebuffoon posted [p:980393046] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>In that case, yeah, I agree. Although i will say that if they are someone who uses their money as a cudgel against others it makes me less sympathetic for their issues. Perhaps we could try and help them realize that doing good can feel good. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 3:44:08 PM #52:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... imagine going to bat for rich people Going to bat for rich people is acknowledging that they are human and will have human struggles? Guys come on now --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393049] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>imagine going to bat for rich people</quote>Going to bat for rich people is acknowledging that they are human and will have human struggles? Guys come on now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 05/14/24 3:46:05 PM #53:	Asherlee10 posted... What is considered "rich" in today's economy in the US? Per article, the top 1%. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:980393075] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Asherlee10 posted...</cite><quote>What is considered "rich" in today's economy in the US?</quote>Per article, the top 1%. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 3:46:39 PM #55:	absolutebuffoon posted... In that case, yeah, I agree. Although i will say that if they are someone who uses their money as a cudgel against others it makes me less sympathetic for their issues. Perhaps we could try and help them realize that doing good can feel good. Yeah, I dont disagree. People using their influence and money to hurt others are awful, and there are too many people who do that. --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393084] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>absolutebuffoon posted... </cite><quote>In that case, yeah, I agree. Although i will say that if they are someone who uses their money as a cudgel against others it makes me less sympathetic for their issues. Perhaps we could try and help them realize that doing good can feel good.</quote>Yeah, I dont disagree. People using their influence and money to hurt others are awful, and there are too many people who do that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 05/14/24 3:47:01 PM #56:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... imagine going to bat for rich people Typical Internet bullshit argument. All people with mental health issues deserve understanding and help. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. <cite>ai123 posted [p:980393088] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>imagine going to bat for rich people</quote>Typical Internet bullshit argument.All people with mental health issues deserve understanding and help. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BowserWowser 05/14/24 3:48:51 PM #57:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] It's giving me the "why are people depressed? just stop feeling sad" type of vibes --- its da bowser wowser bomb yall http://img16.imageshack.us/img16/3376/bwbomb.jpg <cite>BowserWowser posted [p:980393118] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> It's giving me the "why are people depressed? just stop feeling sad" type of vibes </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 3:49:57 PM #58:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Yes this is exactly my point. Many rich and famous people have changed lives and done genuine good for the world, while still struggling with themselves as a person. Its ridiculous to me to try and claim anyone who has over a million dollars is automatically a terrible person --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393134] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Yes this is exactly my point. Many rich and famous people have changed lives and done genuine good for the world, while still struggling with themselves as a person. Its ridiculous to me to try and claim anyone who has over a million dollars is automatically a terrible person </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ai123 05/14/24 4:00:39 PM #60:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... Its ridiculous to me to try and claim anyone who has over a million dollars is automatically a terrible person And of course, once we have designated them a terrible person based on their wealth, it then becomes OK to mock and belittle their mental health struggles. Except it isn't. All that happens is that there are some questions over who is the terrible person in this instance. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. <cite>ai123 posted [p:980393269] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>Its ridiculous to me to try and claim anyone who has over a million dollars is automatically a terrible person</quote>And of course, once we have designated them a terrible person based on their wealth, it then becomes OK to mock and belittle their mental health struggles.Except it isn't. All that happens is that there are some questions over who is the terrible person in this instance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GrandConjuraton 05/14/24 4:09:42 PM #63:	ITT: Simping for the rich --- I think you're hurting yourself, 'cause you hurt me https://imgur.com/o21DN7r <cite>GrandConjuraton posted [p:980393425] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ITT: Simping for the rich </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inTaCtfuL 05/14/24 4:13:15 PM #64:	GrandConjuraton posted... ITT: Simping for the rich It's not simping for the rich but acknowledging that anyone can have mental issues and that acknowledging their troubles doesn't invalidate the struggles that poor people go through. You can be sympathetic for every party involved --- i7-3970X Extreme ~ Asus Rampage IV Extreme ~ 32 GB DDR3-2133 ~ 10 TB 7200RPM ~ 500 GB SSD ~ 690 x2 ~ 1200 W PSU Gold ~ <cite>inTaCtfuL posted [p:980393485] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>GrandConjuraton posted... </cite><quote>ITT: Simping for the rich</quote>It's not simping for the rich but acknowledging that anyone can have mental issues and that acknowledging their troubles doesn't invalidate the struggles that poor people go through. You can be sympathetic for every party involved </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 4:14:25 PM #65:	GrandConjuraton posted... ITT: Simping for the rich You literally dont see people with more money than you as human if this is genuinely what you got from this topic Everyone wants those around them to succeed, as seen with the widespread support of things like the writers strike, but when people do succeed and get money they stop being people apparently --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393501] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>GrandConjuraton posted... </cite><quote>ITT: Simping for the rich</quote>You literally dont see people with more money than you as human if this is genuinely what you got from this topic Everyone wants those around them to succeed, as seen with the widespread support of things like the writers strike, but when people do succeed and get money they stop being people apparently </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GrandConjuraton 05/14/24 4:21:03 PM #67:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... You literally dont see people with more money than you as human if this is genuinely what you got from this topic Everyone wants those around them to succeed, as seen with the widespread support of things like the writers strike, but when people do succeed and get money they stop being people apparently No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them. --- I think you're hurting yourself, 'cause you hurt me https://imgur.com/o21DN7r <cite>GrandConjuraton posted [p:980393601] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>You literally dont see people with more money than you as human if this is genuinely what you got from this topic Everyone wants those around them to succeed, as seen with the widespread support of things like the writers strike, but when people do succeed and get money they stop being people apparently</quote>No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
superbot400 05/14/24 4:21:43 PM #68:	People who say this stuff dont know what its like to fight homeless or basic live. --- http://spinsulin.freeforums.org/the-fantastic-four-respect-thread-t4436.html, my huge ass respect thread. You won't see it. <cite>superbot400 posted [p:980393610] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>People who say this stuff dont know what its like to fight homeless or basic live. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tryin2GetDaPipe 05/14/24 4:24:43 PM #69:	I wonder how people would handle something like this, imagine you have two kids going to school and they're both struggling at school. One is struggling way more than the other. Obviously the one who struggling more needs more of your help/resources but are you going to not help the kid who needs less help they ask you for help? This is kinda what's happening now, bringing light to the child that needs just a little bit of help. Nothing wrong with that tbh Just based on the article, these rich people just want/need real friends that won't look at them like they're just free money to them lol --- You Trying to Get The Pipe? ~ Earl Joseph Smith III http://i.imgur.com/eXRBTWI.png http://i.imgur.com/ErALyOy.png <cite>Tryin2GetDaPipe posted [p:980393654] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>I wonder how people would handle something like this, imagine you have two kids going to school and they're both struggling at school. One is struggling way more than the other. Obviously the one who struggling more needs more of your help/resources but are you going to not help the kid who needs less help they ask you for help? This is kinda what's happening now, bringing light to the child that needs just a little bit of help. Nothing wrong with that tbhJust based on the article, these rich people just want/need real friends that won't look at them like they're just free money to them lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 05/14/24 4:25:28 PM #70:	These people have every resource possible and then some Their problems are not equal and they shouldn't be seen as such --- Asus ROG Strix Z790-E \| Core i9-13900k \| 64GB DDR5-6000 \| RTX 4090 24GB Dell AW3423DW QD-OLED - 1440p Ultrawide, 175hz, GSync <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:980393665] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>These people have every resource possible and then someTheir problems are not equal and they shouldn't be seen as such </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 4:27:03 PM #71:	GrandConjuraton posted... No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them. Who here is even remotely saying that rich people struggle more than poor people? Like legit where are you getting that from? and yes, a rich person with mental illness should be viewed exactly as a poor person with a mental illness in terms of feeling for them, and hoping they overcome their struggles with that illness. Im not going to feel less sorry for someone with severe depression just because they have more money, thats ridiculous and kind of fucked up --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393679] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>GrandConjuraton posted... </cite><quote>No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them.</quote>Who here is even remotely saying that rich people struggle more than poor people? Like legit where are you getting that from? and yes, a rich person with mental illness should be viewed exactly as a poor person with a mental illness in terms of feeling for them, and hoping they overcome their struggles with that illness. Im not going to feel less sorry for someone with severe depression just because they have more money, thats ridiculous and kind of fucked up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 4:27:39 PM #72:	DarthAragorn posted... These people have every resource possible and then some Their problems are not equal and they shouldn't be seen as such like this is full mask off dehumanization dude What the fuck --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393687] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite><quote>These people have every resource possible and then someTheir problems are not equal and they shouldn't be seen as such</quote>like this is full mask off dehumanization dudeWhat the fuck </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 05/14/24 4:28:57 PM #73:	GrandConjuraton posted... No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them. Who said those things? People are just objecting to those suggesting that having sympathy for wealthy people with mental health struggles us 'simping'. Which is just low quality internet edgy bullshit. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. <cite>ai123 posted [p:980393715] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>GrandConjuraton posted... </cite><quote>No, what I got from this topic is people seemingly trying to say that rich people suffer MORE in some ways, or that they should be seen just as sympathetically as a poor person. No one should have to struggle with mental health issues (as someone who has been dominated with them for almost all of their whole life, I know that well), but there is literally nothing that would make me feel more sorry for a rich person with mental health struggles than a poor person with them.</quote>Who said those things?People are just objecting to those suggesting that having sympathy for wealthy people with mental health struggles us 'simping'. Which is just low quality internet edgy bullshit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 4:31:10 PM #74:	some of yall legitimately do not view people with money as people and its kind of disgusting --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393751] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>some of yall legitimately do not view people with money as people and its kind of disgusting </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jerry_Hellyeah 05/14/24 4:36:11 PM #76:	I mean, no real reason to look at this sideways. I know I was a lot happier when I was worried about paying bills and getting girlfriends as opposed to now just dwelling on the meaninglessness of everything, yeah. --- This is a cool sig <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted [p:980393818] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>I mean, no real reason to look at this sideways. I know I was a lot happier when I was worried about paying bills and getting girlfriends as opposed to now just dwelling on the meaninglessness of everything, yeah. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaiser-Mazoku 05/14/24 4:36:59 PM #77:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... some of yall legitimately do not view people with money as people and its kind of disgusting they don't view us as people why should we <cite>Kaiser-Mazoku posted [p:980393825] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>some of yall legitimately do not view people with money as people and its kind of disgusting</quote>they don't view us as people why should we</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 4:38:12 PM #78:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... they don't view us as people why should we So not even gonna try to say youre not dehumanizing people This is fucked --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980393840] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>they don't view us as people why should we</quote>So not even gonna try to say youre not dehumanizing people This is fucked </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R_Jackal 05/14/24 4:40:52 PM #79:	They've got every opportunity to deal with those problems, and more money to afford proper care. Can't say I give a shit. Not like most of those folks had a drop of real hardship in their life. <cite>R_Jackal posted [p:980393887] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>They've got every opportunity to deal with those problems, and more money to afford proper care. Can't say I give a shit. Not like most of those folks had a drop of real hardship in their life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prestoff 05/14/24 4:44:22 PM #80:	Having more easy does make one's life A LOT easier anything monetary related, but what it won't solve is underlying mental health issues. Even hiring the best therapists won't help, I mean look at Kanye West. He does see therapists and doctors regarding his bipolar disorder and he still goes ape shit crazy (though it's very convenient this only happens every time he's about to release a new album). With that said, the three things listed are still things people suffer even if they're not rich or not. I know I do and I lived in both worlds before. Granted I think I'm more middle class than rich, but it's not a problem exclusively to rich people...except for maybe point 3. --- DI MOLTO! <cite>Prestoff posted [p:980393929] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Having more easy does make one's life A LOT easier anything monetary related, but what it won't solve is underlying mental health issues. Even hiring the best therapists won't help, I mean look at Kanye West. He does see therapists and doctors regarding his bipolar disorder and he still goes ape shit crazy (though it's very convenient this only happens every time he's about to release a new album). With that said, the three things listed are still things people suffer even if they're not rich or not. I know I do and I lived in both worlds before. Granted I think I'm more middle class than rich, but it's not a problem exclusively to rich people...except for maybe point 3. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kaiser-Mazoku 05/14/24 4:59:43 PM #83:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... So not even gonna try to say youre not dehumanizing people This is fucked sad violin <cite>Kaiser-Mazoku posted [p:980394153] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>So not even gonna try to say youre not dehumanizing people This is fucked</quote>sad violin</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 5:01:27 PM #85:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Yeah some of my darkest and most crippling bouts of depression came during times of my life where everything was going right on paper. Mental illness doesnt discriminate, and having the resources isnt always enough to make yourself whole. --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980394176] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Yeah some of my darkest and most crippling bouts of depression came during times of my life where everything was going right on paper. Mental illness doesnt discriminate, and having the resources isnt always enough to make yourself whole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaiser-Mazoku 05/14/24 5:02:41 PM #86:	who posted <cite>Kaiser-Mazoku posted [p:980394199] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>who posted</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 5:03:28 PM #88:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... who posted This is absolutely disgusting behavior dude --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980394212] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>who posted</quote>This is absolutely disgusting behavior dude </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 5:03:58 PM #89:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I can still see and reply to him so i dont think so --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980394220] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I can still see and reply to him so i dont think so </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HylianFox 05/14/24 5:05:03 PM #92:	Rich people don't live in the same reality as everyone else ESPECIALLY those born into it --- THIS SPACE INTENTIONALLY LEFT BLANK Do not write in this space. <cite>HylianFox posted [p:980394239] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Rich people don't live in the same reality as everyone elseESPECIALLY those born into it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaiser-Mazoku 05/14/24 5:05:34 PM #93:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... This is absolutely disgusting behavior dude Sorry. Lecture me more on how I should feel bad for rich people who can afford to take care of their problems, meanwhile it is literally the end of the world for me if I get a flat tire. <cite>Kaiser-Mazoku posted [p:980394246] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>This is absolutely disgusting behavior dude</quote>Sorry. Lecture me more on how I should feel bad for rich people who can afford to take care of their problems, meanwhile it is literally the end of the world for me if I get a flat tire.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RetuenOfDevsman 05/14/24 5:06:17 PM #95:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... they don't view us as people why should we An ex-CEO I met literally once gave up six consecutive Saturday mornings to help me transform my dining room into an office, including teaching me about framing, drywall and electrical. And wouldn't accept a penny. --- There's a difference between canon and not-stupid. <cite>RetuenOfDevsman posted [p:980394257] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>they don't view us as people why should we</quote>An ex-CEO I met literally once gave up six consecutive Saturday mornings to help me transform my dining room into an office, including teaching me about framing, drywall and electrical. And wouldn't accept a penny. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssb_yunglink2 05/14/24 5:08:22 PM #97:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... Sorry. Lecture me more on how I should feel bad for rich people who can afford to take care of their problems, meanwhile it is literally the end of the world for me if I get a flat tire. You cant fix mental illness with money. I am sympathetic to anybody who has to deal with mental illness no matter their circumstances. NOBODY should have to go through that and its horrible to dehumanize them the way you do. Are you seriously trying to do the whole suffering is relative thing? Because someone always has it worse. That doesnt make your problems not matter. --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:980394275] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>Sorry. Lecture me more on how I should feel bad for rich people who can afford to take care of their problems, meanwhile it is literally the end of the world for me if I get a flat tire.</quote>You cant fix mental illness with money. I am sympathetic to anybody who has to deal with mental illness no matter their circumstances. NOBODY should have to go through that and its horrible to dehumanize them the way you do. Are you seriously trying to do the whole suffering is relative thing? Because someone always has it worse. That doesnt make your problems not matter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 05/14/24 5:08:43 PM #98:	Kaiser-Mazoku posted... they don't view us as people why should we So you have some kind of claim to be better than them, and not just poorer? --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. <cite>ai123 posted [p:980394280] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>Kaiser-Mazoku posted... </cite><quote>they don't view us as people why should we</quote>So you have some kind of claim to be better than them, and not just poorer? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kaiser-Mazoku 05/14/24 5:10:26 PM #100:	ssb_yunglink2 posted... You cant fix mental illness with money. You can treat it. <cite>Kaiser-Mazoku posted [p:980394314] in Problems t... [t:80769029]...</cite> <quote>ssb_yunglink2 posted... </cite><quote>You cant fix mental illness with money. </quote>You can treat it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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