Current Events > Have you been betrayed by anyone in your past?

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iLikeMtnDew
09/28/24 11:23:42 AM
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Hmm?

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Baron_Ox
09/28/24 11:28:41 AM
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I'm, unfortunately, the betrayer

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Vyrulisse
09/28/24 11:29:02 AM
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Yes.

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Dungeater
09/28/24 11:29:41 AM
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yep, best friend and my ex (unrelated)

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TyVulpine
09/28/24 11:34:04 AM
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Yes, a few people I met on Second Life. It was to the point I nearly quit the MMO.

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HANGtheDJ_86
09/28/24 11:40:01 AM
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Nah, way too strong of a word

It just doesn't seem beneficial to take things that seriously. Reminds me of the people who post lame statuses on Facebook

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Dungeater
09/28/24 11:41:32 AM
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HANGtheDJ_86 posted...
Nah, way too strong of a word

It just doesn't seem beneficial to take things that seriously. Reminds me of the people who post lame statuses on Facebook
is being cheated on, sexually assaulted, and beaten by a partner not worthy of being taken seriously

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Mistere_Man
09/28/24 11:41:42 AM
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Yes several times at least.

I am guilty of it too though, and regret it.

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HighSeraph
09/28/24 11:42:37 AM
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Absolutely

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JaiCSC
09/28/24 11:45:00 AM
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I've had a couple of moments where I felt like I was thrown to the wolves.

A few more times though where I did the throwing. Justified as I was with one of those times it still sucks.

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specialkid8
09/28/24 11:48:45 AM
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Not in so harsh a term but my old best friend had a lifelong habit of deciding his friends had randomly betrayed or offended him and completely excommunicating them. My ticket was finally called last year just because he was ousting another friend that I was very close with. But I'd been ready for it for years so, eh.

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Mad-Dogg
09/28/24 11:50:21 AM
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Damn CE, the amount of yes votes here is wild.

Thankfully no, I never been through anything really drastic. I can think of crazy minor things like this kid I used to chill with at 6th grade in elementary school started hanging around with a new group of kids when we moved on to 7th grade in middle school possibly because he thought his new friend group was too cool to hang with nerds like me n' the people I regularly hung around, but that is about it.

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iLikeMtnDew
09/28/24 12:02:17 PM
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Dungeater posted...
is being cheated on, sexually assaulted, and beaten by a partner not worthy of being taken seriously
I'm sorry that happened and you definitely have every right to feel that way.

Anyway I made this topic because I found this video to be very helpful and it talks about betrayal and ultimately forgiveness.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FfeVafZ880c


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iLikeMtnDew
09/28/24 4:41:44 PM
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93% say yes so far.

I voted no.

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PMarth2002
09/28/24 4:50:59 PM
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Not in anything more serious than a game. I voted no.

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ai123
09/28/24 4:56:16 PM
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No, nothing has happened to me that I would use a word a serious as that to describe.

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C-zom
09/28/24 5:22:16 PM
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Yes, countless minor times but a few huge, milestone betrayals too. Is what it is, life moves on.

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lilORANG
09/28/24 5:23:52 PM
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Actually yes. It involves meal worms and a 7th grade science project

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HighSeraph
09/28/24 6:15:47 PM
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iLikeMtnDew posted...
forgiveness
Fuck that

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Dungeater
09/28/24 6:45:51 PM
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iLikeMtnDew posted...
Anyway I made this topic because I found this video to be very helpful and it talks about betrayal and ultimately forgiveness.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FfeVafZ880c
you dont have to forgive shit to be able to let it go

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divot1338
09/28/24 6:47:17 PM
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lilORANG posted...
Actually yes. It involves meal worms and a 7th grade science project
Who did you trick into eating meal worms?

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Storm_Shadow
09/28/24 6:49:37 PM
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No.

Because I am the treacherous snake.

In all seriousness, I've never been betrayed by someone, and I don't think I've betrayed anyone (not that I'm in contact with anyone I used to know, anyway). I imagine it's disturbingly common, though.

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brestugo
09/28/24 6:49:43 PM
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Very. First. Girlfriend.

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ZevLoveDOOM
09/28/24 6:51:25 PM
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yep.
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loafy013
09/28/24 6:52:48 PM
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Yeah. A roommate after I dropped out of college. Came home from work one day to a note on the door from the landlord that he would begin eviction proceedings if our rent wasn't brought current. Turns out he pocketed the money instead of paying the rent and took off, along with my Magic cards.

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Irony
09/28/24 6:57:39 PM
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Perfidy!

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Robot2600
09/28/24 7:53:45 PM
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by friends, family, and mentors

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bsp77
09/28/24 8:37:14 PM
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I wouldn't say anything went to the level of "betrayal". Most things were simply someone not doing what I wanted.

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Glob
09/28/24 8:41:46 PM
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Mad-Dogg posted...
Damn CE, the amount of yes votes here is wild.

Its really not. The question is so vague that most people will have experienced it on some level.

Even if it was just asking people if theyd ever been cheated on by a partner, the numbers are normally high (maybe they wouldnt be here, but thats because half of the people here have never had one).

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iLikeMtnDew
09/28/24 8:48:25 PM
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Dungeater posted...
you dont have to forgive shit to be able to let it go
It doesn't mean you have to say that it's right but if you don't forgive them then it runs you and becomes a part of your identity.

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haloiscoolisbak
09/28/24 8:51:57 PM
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My best friend slept with my high school girlfriend

At the time i felt suicidal than a few years later I'd forgiven them both so I dunno

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Kaiser1one
09/28/24 8:53:40 PM
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Friend I was helping out with a place to stay while he was going through a divorce and had nowhere to go. Proceeded to slowly be stealing from me, which I discovered a couple days before he moved out. I stole it back.

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Kanaya413
09/28/24 8:55:56 PM
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Yes, starting at when I was six years old
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Dungeater
09/28/24 9:01:27 PM
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iLikeMtnDew posted...
It doesn't mean you have to say that it's right but if you don't forgive them then it runs you and becomes a part of your identity.
respectfully, speak for yourself

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thronedfire2
09/28/24 9:03:10 PM
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Baron_Ox posted...
I'm, unfortunately, the betrayer


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DrizztLink
09/28/24 9:04:12 PM
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iLikeMtnDew posted...
It doesn't mean you have to say that it's right but if you don't forgive them then it runs you and becomes a part of your identity.
There's a difference between letting go of resentment and actually granting forgiveness.

The former is healthy, but the latter needs to be earned by the person seeking it, and that is not always possible.

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FuriousFox
09/28/24 9:41:59 PM
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iLikeMtnDew posted...
I'm sorry that happened and you definitely have every right to feel that way.

Anyway I made this topic because I found this video to be very helpful and it talks about betrayal and ultimately forgiveness.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FfeVafZ880c
So, after watching this video, I really don't get whatever point he's trying to make. It sounds like he's saying that you shouldn't believe the stories that your mind is making up, yet they aren't really made up because they're actual things that happened. Also you have to forgive people even if they are likely to screw up again, because... why exactly? If someone intentionally stabs you in the back, are you just supposed to say "Hey man, don't worry about it. We're cool."?

I feel like people who say stuff like this have a very different idea of forgiveness than I do. Like others in this thread have said, I can understand letting go of it and moving on, but forgiveness usually requires at least some level of remorse. Otherwise they're probably just going to end up hurting you again.

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ThePieReborn
09/28/24 10:08:39 PM
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I have been thrown under the bus by people that were important to me.

Emphasis on the past tense there.

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Blue_Thunder
09/28/24 10:16:15 PM
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My mom had an episode and trashed my room while I was at community college once.

Edit: Also, a former coworker repurposed one of my FB pics for shock humor once.

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lcampoy
09/28/24 10:16:40 PM
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Gamefaqs betrayed me

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KogaSteelfang
09/28/24 10:17:03 PM
#43:


Yes.

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Ivany2008
09/28/24 10:19:12 PM
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Yeah, couple times. Always people I barely knew. Instead of speaking to me like an adult they would go behind my back to organize group hangouts without me. I wasn't a child, and I much preferred to be alone, but still, its the premise.
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NoxObscuras
09/28/24 10:25:59 PM
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Yes, unfortunately. My friend that I had known for 7 years tried to slide into my girlfriend's dm's after I introduced her to my friend group. And my ex cheated on me (not with that friend).

And as far as "forgiveness" goes, I guess it depends on how you define that. I forgave them in the sense that I'm not bitter about it and rarely even think of it unless I'm asked about it. But that friend will never be my friend again and that ex will never be my girlfriend again, because I don't trust them not to betray my trust again.

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Nirvanas_Nox
09/28/24 10:52:18 PM
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Yeah. Back in middle school my best friend Tiffany hurt me to the core. It wasn't long after I came out to her and a couple other friends. She had this guy I had a crush on send me notes and we'd pass em back and forth. I was extremely shy back then so it was a huge thing for me to ask someone and I asked him out and instead of just telling me no in private he did it in front of everyone at lunch. Tiffany was behind him laughing her ass off. I was devastated.

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Lonestar2000
09/28/24 11:01:38 PM
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My mom only married my dad to have kids, abandoned the family and screwed him over in the divorce.

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haloiscoolisbak
09/29/24 1:27:27 AM
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Nirvanas_Nox posted...
Yeah. Back in middle school my best friend Tiffany hurt me to the core. It wasn't long after I came out to her and a couple other friends. She had this guy I had a crush on send me notes and we'd pass em back and forth. I was extremely shy back then so it was a huge thing for me to ask someone and I asked him out and instead of just telling me no in private he did it in front of everyone at lunch. Tiffany was behind him laughing her ass off. I was devastated.

That's so many layers of fucked up. Sorry you went through that

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SamsungGearS2
09/29/24 2:53:12 AM
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i have no one left in my life to 'betray' me

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BDSMKane
09/29/24 2:54:58 AM
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Yes, a few times.

But whos alt?

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