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Dungeater 11/06/24 11:44:06 AM #52: |
ReturnOfDevsman posted... Weren't we talking about the privilege thing?why dont you outline for me specifically what it is youre asking so i can answer --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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012yArthur0 11/06/24 11:44:08 AM #53: |
Kolibri_X posted... All they had to do was show a modicum of compassion towards the struggles of young men.I remember how some time back then when men did point out the issues, they were labeled as incels or MRA. I honestly can only believe that the left created this very monster. --- Some things are beautiful because they cannot be obtained. ~~ Gilgamesh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfDevsman 11/06/24 11:44:49 AM #54: |
Dungeater posted... why dont you outline for me specifically what it is youre asking so i can answerHow is "white/male/etc privilege" not an attack on white/male/etc? --- Arguing on CE be all like: https://youtu.be/JpRKrs67lOs?si=kPGA2RCKVHTdbVrJ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kirbymuncher 11/06/24 11:45:40 AM #55: |
Dungeater posted... if someone says "white men should stop doing X" and i already dont do X, thats how i know it doesnt apply to medepending on how is worded/conveyed I think it can easily come across as insulting or offensive because it feels like the default stance is to assume you are doing X even when you know you aren't and you don't like X either. --- THIS IS WHAT I HATE A BOUT EVREY WEBSITE!! THERES SO MUCH PEOPLE READING AND POSTING STUIPED STUFF ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 11:46:16 AM #56: |
ReturnOfDevsman posted... How is "white/male/etc privilege" not an attack on white/male/etc?ok this i dont even know how to answer, because i dont know how to interpret it as an attack how is saying "certain demographics are more likely to receive XY or Z systemic benefits" an attack --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 11:46:40 AM #57: |
DarkAssassin89 posted... Its true that some of the discourse aims more to bring young men down rather than raising women up. Trying to equalize things that way is never going to work out for anyone. However, this is just a small part of the movement that should be ignored.How do we recover from this though --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 11:48:59 AM #58: |
Dungeater posted... ok this i dont even know how to answer, because i dont know how to interpret it as an attack I don't think they should take it as an attack, but it's easy to see how people can take it as an attack. It makes them feel as if they shouldn't feel pride when they accomplish something, or that their failure is only their fault. --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/06/24 11:52:04 AM #59: |
I saw something like "when was the last time you saw anything positive said about young white men that didn't come from the right" and it's stuck with me. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 11:52:05 AM #60: |
emblem-man posted... I don't think they should take it as an attack, but it's easy to see how people can take it as an attack. It makes them feel as if they shouldn't feel pride when they accomplish something, or that their failure is only their fault.maybe its an autism thing, but i straight up cant get to there. it's clearly not an attack. i dont feel attacked when something doesnt apply to me --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfDevsman 11/06/24 11:57:33 AM #61: |
emblem-man posted... I don't think they should take it as an attack, but it's easy to see how people can take it as an attack. It makes them feel as if they shouldn't feel pride when they accomplish something, or that their failure is only their fault.So what is it supposed to mean? --- Arguing on CE be all like: https://youtu.be/JpRKrs67lOs?si=kPGA2RCKVHTdbVrJ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 11:58:23 AM #62: |
ReturnOfDevsman posted... So what is it supposed to mean?"certain demographics are more likely to receive XY or Z systemic benefits" --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfDevsman 11/06/24 11:59:43 AM #63: |
Dungeater posted... "certain demographics are more likely to receive XY or Z systemic benefits"Literally just a fun fact? Well, ok I guess. --- Arguing on CE be all like: https://youtu.be/JpRKrs67lOs?si=kPGA2RCKVHTdbVrJ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 12:00:13 PM #64: |
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RustyFerret 11/06/24 12:06:25 PM #65: |
Guide posted... I saw something like "when was the last time you saw anything positive said about young white men that didn't come from the right" and it's stuck with me.Even Vaush realized this like a year ago. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:07:27 PM #66: |
Guide posted... I saw something like "when was the last time you saw anything positive said about young white men that didn't come from the right" and it's stuck with me.What's an example of what something positive would be ? --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 12:09:27 PM #67: |
i see positive things about young men (gen alpha & Z) fairly often. i never see people mention race in it, but why would they --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:10:10 PM #68: |
ReturnOfDevsman posted... Literally just a fun fact? Well, ok I guess.I mean, I guess. But that's kind of what I'm saying. It's really a very minimal phrase that ends up getting a lot of negativity. Like, I think we should change the discourse to be less negative, but at the root, it shouldn't bother people. But since it does, people should stop talking about it --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/06/24 12:11:08 PM #69: |
emblem-man posted... What's an example of what something positive would be ?I think literally just "We need white men too" is both all that can be said and all that needs to be said. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:12:10 PM #70: |
Guide posted... I think literally just "We need white men too" is both all that can be said and all that needs to be said.Harris and others very explicitly said that she needed the votes of everyone. This campaign was a very non identity politics campaign. --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sandalorn 11/06/24 12:12:34 PM #71: |
emblem-man posted... It's not a zero sum world It is for him. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Antiyonder 11/06/24 12:13:40 PM #72: |
Dungeater posted... if someone says "white men should stop doing X" and i already dont do X, thats how i know it doesnt apply to me I think the problem is also that people who feel they are being attacked well might easily be guilty of say apathy and not getting that such is just as bad if not worse. --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dungeater 11/06/24 12:14:12 PM #73: |
Antiyonder posted... I think the problem is also that people who feel they are being attacked well might easily be guilty of say apathy and not getting that such is just as bad if not worse.i cant parse this, can u rephrase? --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Antiyonder 11/06/24 12:15:50 PM #74: |
Dungeater posted... i cant parse this, can u rephrase? Some people while not doing anything directly bigoted will show lack of concern to victims of discrimination which arguably is just as bad as discrimination itself. --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 11/06/24 12:19:15 PM #75: |
012yArthur0 posted... I remember how some time back then when men did point out the issues, they were labeled as incels or MRA. This and anti-woke stuff is very popular among them as well. Someone might try to argue it is not but the answer is very simple, why do those youtube channels get so many views? It is called a grift. A grift means it is making money cause it is popular. Then we see certains things are very unpopular among this demographic as the game or show comes out and metacritic shows they absolutely hate it. But then what do online spaces like CE say? Those aren't real votes? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bigjclassic 11/06/24 12:20:22 PM #76: |
LightSnake posted... Pretty sure identity politics is dead for the foreseeable future right now --- PM me for psn, gamertag, steam, epic and NNID info! Block Status = Respect me! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Alucard188 11/06/24 12:21:24 PM #77: |
Young men think society left them behind and are struggling to find something to latch onto to validate their existence. --- Face it Cloud is a gaming icon and has appered in lots of games while mario has only appeared in 2 games sunshine and 64~xSlashbomBx ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/06/24 12:24:28 PM #78: |
emblem-man posted... Harris and others very explicitly said that she needed the votes of everyone. This campaign was a very non identity politics campaign. I'm not talking about Harris. I think they actually did a remarkable job of not doing the Clinton glass ceiling thing. Look at general lefty discourse. When you see white men brought up on the lefty internet space, would you bet on more positive or negative comments coming up? And you know the average person just kinda skims social media comments and headlines and goes reactionary to that instead of reading any deeper. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:25:35 PM #79: |
Guide posted... I'm not talking about Harris. I think they actually did a remarkable job of not doing the Clinton glass ceiling thing.How do do we get people to not associate random online discourse with the presidential candidate? --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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012yArthur0 11/06/24 12:26:39 PM #80: |
WingsOfGood posted... This and anti-woke stuff is very popular among them as well. Someone might try to argue it is not but the answer is very simple, why do those youtube channels get so many views? It is called a grift. A grift means it is making money cause it is popular.The grift happens because it is a someone at least sharing a voice with them. These people actually wanted to feel some validation and the internet is all to keen at punching down. Andrew Tates and the likes aren't the cause, they are the symptom. Ironically many videos talked about this and nobody cared, until votes starts being affected. The internet got too comfortable at blaming and laughing at them for everything and now acts surprised they are not taking their side. Now the backlash will be really severe. --- Some things are beautiful because they cannot be obtained. ~~ Gilgamesh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:28:13 PM #81: |
012yArthur0 posted... The grift happens because it is a someone at least sharing a voice with them. These people actually wanted to feel some validation and the internet is all to keen at punching down. If there was another group of voters who felt that they got all the blame and people laughed at them, what would you advice that group to do? --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Antiyonder 11/06/24 12:29:45 PM #82: |
@Guide Look at general lefty discourse. When you see white men brought up on the lefty internet space, would you bet more positive or negative comments coming up? Yeah, I mean it's hard to feel for people who are going "Well I'll show them" when disproving their claim is a better middle finger. Also as I've been trying to get out, how many people feeling attacked (Young white men or not) can honestly say they are empathetic to bigotry victims? Cause part of the problem to me is people thinking apathy is somehow better even though such a thing enables bigots and the like. Especially when a person claims apathy but pulls the claim "Racism is just an opinion yo". --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/06/24 12:29:54 PM #83: |
emblem-man posted... How do do we get people to not associate random online discourse with the presidential candidate? There is no such thing as dissociating the cultural bases of a party from their highest representative, but there is propaganda that can come from well-platformed sources to adjust what people say. Though I'm not sure how effective that is on the left. Works like a charm on the right, but that's usually a flavor of the month conspiracy thing. Pizzagate, Haitian Ohio Cats(seriously what the fuck), that sort of thing. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 11/06/24 12:43:05 PM #84: |
012yArthur0 posted... The grift happens because it is a someone at least sharing a voice with them. These people actually wanted to feel some validation and the internet is all to keen at punching down. Yeah. Truthfully someone like Asmongold for instance who is seen as such a grifter voice, he actually said himself if he were to identify politically he would be more or a liberal\progressive. But the thing is he won't ally with liberal\progressives because if he plays a game and dislikes things in it and talks about it he gets called alt right and a chud. But here is the thing, his stream last night had concurrent 150k views for 12 hours straight. Imagine if audiences like this could be captured rather than ostracized. On the other side Trump literally went on Adin Ross and Dana White called Adin out in the acceptance speech. Had Kai done the same to Kamala I wonder how different this might have been. Kai also had like 110k concurrent viewers last night but he wasn't providing commentary. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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012yArthur0 11/06/24 12:43:13 PM #85: |
emblem-man posted... What's an example of what something positive would be ?I'm pretty sure that if someone try to come up with something it will be disregarded as being the results of privilege. emblem-man posted... If there was another group of voters who felt that they got all the blame and people laughed at them,Shouldn't be the voting party ask what they want instead of telling them what to do? --- Some things are beautiful because they cannot be obtained. ~~ Gilgamesh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 12:44:48 PM #86: |
012yArthur0 posted... I'm pretty sure that if someone try to come up with something it will be disregarded as being the results of privilege.I will not. What are positive things that men want said about them? --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX2010 11/06/24 12:50:50 PM #87: |
LeoRavus posted... Never underestimate the influence of MAGA parents on their kids. They've had over 8 years now to brainwash them good, starting at an impressionable age. This might be it. Look at people who grew up in the 80s. All of my 43 year old brothers friends are MAGA. Their parents were Reagan Republicans. Hell, just look at someone like Duncan. He parrots his parents bullshit. --- NNID: ZeroXJerry ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rowdy54 11/06/24 12:53:01 PM #88: |
Young men are misguided on what being a man means. They have largely been conditioned to mistreat others, especially women. They feel that if they show any emotion or empathy that they are weak and not truly men. It's sickening and a problem that's only getting worse. --- This is my signature. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Metal_Gear_Raxis 11/06/24 12:54:13 PM #89: |
Not saying those young men were right to vote Trump, but there is a certain degree of just not caring about men's issues from the online left. The male loneliness epidemic is a genuine problem but it gets met with a lot of sneering, which is really bad on us. The real problem will be when they have to reckon with their situations not improving a jot from Trump's presidency. --- Time is a funny thing, you know? I guess in the big picture of my life, you were only a blip. But oftentimes, those "blips" make the biggest impacts. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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012yArthur0 11/06/24 1:01:42 PM #90: |
WingsOfGood posted... Yeah. Truthfully someone like Asmongold for instance who is seen as such a grifter voice, he actually said himself if he were to identify politically he would be more or a liberal\progressive. But the thing is he won't ally with liberal\progressives because if he plays a game and dislikes things in it and talks about it he gets called alt right and a chud.I saw Asmongold videos out of curiosity since he got blasted here on these boards and the guy has pretty tame takes. He did say stupid shit but he at least apologized. Funnily enough his ban actually helped him get a bit of his life together and other streamers that antagonized him turned out to be doing worse shit than him, so there is some irony on all of it. Calling everyone a chud hurts much more than it helps, but punching down your political "enemies" is too much of a dopamine hit, and now they're surprised people don't like them very much. And guess what happens when you hostilize a group that turns out to be much bigger than it seemed? Metal_Gear_Raxis posted... Not saying those young men were right to vote Trump, but there is a certain degree of just not caring about men's issues from the online left. The male loneliness epidemic is a genuine problem but it gets met with a lot of sneering, which is really bad on us. The very deceased politics board had, any discussion of men rights got shut down fast. emblem-man posted... I will not. What are positive things that men want said about them?white men or men in general? --- Some things are beautiful because they cannot be obtained. ~~ Gilgamesh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Board_hunter567 11/06/24 1:02:29 PM #91: |
In addition to not feeling welcome in the party, young people, not just men, are dumb as hell when it comes to money. It's not entirely their fault, it's been systematically designed they grow up lacking basic financial and economic literacy. They spend frivolously and go into crippling debt, then wonder how come they have to pay taxes. When they hear it's the current president that is making prices go up they'll believe it. Fact is Democrats took Gen Z for granted when it was always going to be evenly split, like every generation before it. --- http://i.imgur.com/szMsu.png Validate your purchases and discredit the purchases of others whenever possible. Numbers objectively define quality and enjoyment. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Antiyonder 11/06/24 1:05:45 PM #92: |
Metal_Gear_Raxis posted... Not saying those young men were right to vote Trump, but there is a certain degree of just not caring about men's issues from the online left. The male loneliness epidemic is a genuine problem but it gets met with a lot of sneering, which is really bad on us. Just that besides the whole apathy case where a person will still say go to bat for someone sexist for example, there is the matter of not merely just bringing up male issues, but using it to suggest women are no longer needing of such empathy. Not to mention merely doing right merely just to avoid criticism or to receiving favor can hurt any sympathy one might have for said fellow guy. If you're not doing it out of compassion, that's only barely better, but not good. --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ulfar 11/06/24 1:08:52 PM #93: |
Young men born after 2001 never experienced Dubya's bullshit. They have grown up hearing their dads hating and blaming Obama for everything, and they have had Rogan and all the other assholes screaming into their ears about how they are not 'respected' anymore, etc. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sufferedphoenix 11/06/24 1:10:42 PM #94: |
LightSnake posted... Equality feels like oppression when you've been on top. And honestly, social media has a LOT to do with it. It's not just Andrew Tate and shit, this's just normalized by people telling them they'rre victimized and everyone's out after them. I understand it. I've been passed up for a promotion for black people less qualified and worthwhile workers than me. Difference is I'm smart enough to realize while perhaps race did play a part they never promoted the most qualified. They didn't wanna lose their best staff from those spots It was sad all the black officers who truly deserved the promotion simply didn't want it. Only the sorry ones did. And that much was true for white officers too generally speaking only the sorry ones wanted to promote. Actually for longest time that job had a blatant cycle. Promote a white male. Then next time a black male then after that a female didn't matter race. Rinse and repeat. But 99% of the time it was the lousiest of officers. I've only seen one promote I felt earned it. --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process ... Copied to Clipboard!
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012yArthur0 11/06/24 1:11:49 PM #95: |
Board_hunter567 posted... Fact is Democrats took Gen Z for granted when it was always going to be evenly split, like every generation before it.There is some weird notion that the "newer generation is always more progressive than the last" when it seems to turn out to not be true. Hell, even in Germany the young are going into the center-right. It isn't a democrats issue, it is a left-wing issue at this point. --- Some things are beautiful because they cannot be obtained. ~~ Gilgamesh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HairyQueen 11/06/24 1:12:15 PM #96: |
The radicalization of young me is an enormous problem that is going to have to be addressed politically by the left at some point. This isnt going away on its own --- "Every last inch of me's covered in hair!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/06/24 1:24:30 PM #97: |
I do agree with this, and I'd extend it for white women as well. Extend the same politically correct taboos on talking shit about white men than are extended to every other subgroup --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sandalorn 11/06/24 1:27:01 PM #98: |
"I need to left to stop me from logging onto alt-right websites and believing everything typed" is certainly a take. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 11/06/24 1:27:57 PM #99: |
012yArthur0 posted... I saw Asmongold videos out of curiosity since he got blasted here on these boards and the guy has pretty tame takes. He did say stupid s*** but he at least apologized. Funnily enough his ban actually helped him get a bit of his life together and other streamers that antagonized him turned out to be doing worse s*** than him, so there is some irony on all of it. Yep as I posted in another thread asking how the dems should change their social media game, think about what influencer the dems could partner with that wouldn't be called a chud or a grifter? I can't think of one. Even Hasan and Destiny get called such. Meanwhile the right can literally pick any one of them thanks to this. It is like when a game comes out I can post a video reviewing it and like clockwork someone has some issues with the influencer. I have even seen people say before there is literally NO good influencer on youtube...... so... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheLiarParadox 11/06/24 1:48:48 PM #100: |
Guide posted... Look at general lefty discourse. When you see white men brought up on the lefty internet space, would you bet on more positive or negative comments coming up? And you know the average person just kinda skims social media comments and headlines and goes reactionary to that instead of reading any deeper.This is the catch-22 though. White supremacy is a major undercurrent of many of our problems and can't be ignored when looking for/implementing solutions but it also can't be directly addressed because that triggers the persecution/victim complex and paranoia built into white supremacy. Fascism will always have that advantage and I'm not sure what the counter to that is at this point. --- Spongebob is not a contraceptive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfDevsman 11/06/24 2:00:11 PM #101: |
Literally "those people said mean things about me on the Internet," huh? --- Arguing on CE be all like: https://youtu.be/JpRKrs67lOs?si=kPGA2RCKVHTdbVrJ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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