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bloodyarts 02/03/25 8:31:29 AM #1:	Some truth in this post. What do you agree/disagree with? https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/034841ab.jpg <cite>bloodyarts posted [p:983912027] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Some truth in this post. What do you agree/disagree with?https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/034841ab.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VeggetaX 02/03/25 8:36:08 AM #2:	LinkedInLunatics --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>VeggetaX posted [p:983912048] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>LinkedInLunatics</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrResetti 02/03/25 8:36:41 AM #3:	I hate LinkedIn <cite>MrResetti posted [p:983912052] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>I hate LinkedIn </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Toonstrack 02/03/25 8:41:30 AM #5:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] to be fair that's most things that improve your life. And the easy ones, many people still don't do. --- The succotash is suffering. Comic Artist <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:983912079] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> to be fair that's most things that improve your life. And the easy ones, many people still don't do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_____Cait 02/03/25 8:44:02 AM #6:	It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money --- ORAS secret base: http://imgur.com/V9nAVrd 3DS friend code: 0173-1465-1236 <cite>_____Cait posted [p:983912094] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonPhoenix 02/03/25 8:44:08 AM #7:	A lot of that is definitely She'sOutOfLineButShe'sRight.jpg, but some more than others. Definitely don't agree with 1 though >_> --- https://imgur.com/u2HR4nG <cite>NeonPhoenix posted [p:983912096] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>A lot of that is definitely She'sOutOfLineButShe'sRight.jpg, but some more than others.Definitely don't agree with 1 though >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 02/03/25 8:54:03 AM #8:	Marrying well is a life hack, but she probably meant it in a more self serving way than I do --- Currently playing - Stellar Blade <cite>bsp77 posted [p:983912151] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Marrying well is a life hack, but she probably meant it in a more self serving way than I do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tripleh213 02/03/25 9:08:03 AM #9:	_____Cait posted... It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money --- Bucks World Champions 2021 PS4 looks great <cite>tripleh213 posted [p:983912248] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>_____Cait posted... </cite><quote>It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 02/03/25 9:16:47 AM #10:	_____Cait posted... It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money Marrying well might not just mean marrying somebody richer than you though. <cite>Glob posted [p:983912317] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>_____Cait posted... </cite><quote>It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money</quote>Marrying well might not just mean marrying somebody richer than you though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nintendo-34 02/03/25 9:17:17 AM #11:	Recall saying 2 and 3 here. While i'm not shitting on marriage much anymore, doesn't sound like she did it for the "right" reason either. "Marrying well" is up for some interpretation i suppose. Marriage isn't the problem, but marrying the wrong person is. Obtaining that "life hack" is the biggest risk you can take. --- N.P.C.C. (Nintendo Porn Company Conspiracy) If it exist...There isn't enough of it! The truth is out there! <cite>Nintendo-34 posted [p:983912320] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Recall saying 2 and 3 here.While i'm not shitting on marriage much anymore, doesn't sound like she did it for the "right" reason either. "Marrying well" is up for some interpretation i suppose.Marriage isn't the problem, but marrying the wrong person is. Obtaining that "life hack" is the biggest risk you can take. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 02/03/25 9:20:32 AM #12:	Nintendo-34 posted... Marriage isn't the problem, but marrying the wrong person is. Obtaining that "life hack" is the biggest risk you can take. Yeah, my first marriage wasn't good, but I cant regret my kids. But because of that failure, I was certain going into my second marriage that this one would be great. One important thing to keep in mind though, is that part of me knew that first marriage wasn't right. I was questioning it before I even got married. --- Currently playing - Stellar Blade <cite>bsp77 posted [p:983912341] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Nintendo-34 posted... </cite><quote>Marriage isn't the problem, but marrying the wrong person is. Obtaining that "life hack" is the biggest risk you can take.</quote>Yeah, my first marriage wasn't good, but I cant regret my kids.But because of that failure, I was certain going into my second marriage that this one would be great. One important thing to keep in mind though, is that part of me knew that first marriage wasn't right. I was questioning it before I even got married.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 02/03/25 9:20:53 AM #13:	Marrying well is the biggest life hack lol --- I don't even have a pla- <cite>rexcrk posted [p:983912345] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote><quote>Marrying well is the biggest life hack</quote>lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OldNastyBastard 02/03/25 9:20:54 AM #14:	tldr: be toxic as fuck. No thanks. I'd rather be a decent person struggling than a rich asshole. <cite>OldNastyBastard posted [p:983912346] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>tldr: be toxic as fuck. No thanks. I'd rather be a decent person struggling than a rich asshole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bigblu89 02/03/25 9:55:53 AM #16:	Some of those are dumb, but 3 and 5 are pretty spot on. --- You gotta laugh. That is the one thing at the end of your life you will not wish you did less of. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:983912602] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Some of those are dumb, but 3 and 5 are pretty spot on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Toonstrack 02/03/25 11:30:39 AM #17:	OldNastyBastard posted... tldr: be toxic as fuck. No thanks. I'd rather be a decent person struggling than a rich asshole. Decent person and not struggling aren't mutually exclusive lol --- The succotash is suffering. Comic Artist <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:983913617] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>OldNastyBastard posted... </cite><quote>tldr: be toxic as fuck. No thanks. I'd rather be a decent person struggling than a rich asshole.</quote>Decent person and not struggling aren't mutually exclusive lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HudGard 02/03/25 11:34:00 AM #18:	LinkedIn is great for endless useless platitudes and bulletpoints. --- You haven't set a signature for the message boards yet <cite>HudGard posted [p:983913663] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>LinkedIn is great for endless useless platitudes and bulletpoints.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
texanfan27 02/03/25 11:35:15 AM #19:	Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does --- When you find my sanity, please ask it to put pants on and return home, in that order please. <cite>texanfan27 posted [p:983913673] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 02/03/25 11:40:38 AM #20:	texanfan27 posted... Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does Not to be contrary, but I always hear that marriage is a lot of work. However, my second marriage doesn't really require any work. We are just happy to spend time together but we let each other do their own thing as well. My first one the other hand... --- Currently playing - Stellar Blade <cite>bsp77 posted [p:983913723] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>texanfan27 posted... </cite><quote>Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does</quote>Not to be contrary, but I always hear that marriage is a lot of work. However, my second marriage doesn't really require any work. We are just happy to spend time together but we let each other do their own thing as well.My first one the other hand...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OldNastyBastard 02/03/25 11:50:23 AM #21:	Toonstrack posted... Decent person and not struggling aren't mutually exclusive lol It is according to LinkedIn apparently. But yeah, you're right, there are more than those options, for now anyway. <cite>OldNastyBastard posted [p:983913851] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Toonstrack posted... </cite><quote>Decent person and not struggling aren't mutually exclusive lol</quote>It is according to LinkedIn apparently. But yeah, you're right, there are more than those options, for now anyway. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 02/03/25 11:51:07 AM #22:	Just another list of generic tech-bro adjacent aphorisms that we could all do without. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. Let in the refugees, deport the racists. <cite>ai123 posted [p:983913861] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Just another list of generic tech-bro adjacent aphorisms that we could all do without.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cuticrusader09 02/03/25 11:52:46 AM #23:	texanfan27 posted... Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does Been married 16 years. It is no work. And we have 2 teens. Best tip is to not marry in your 20s. <cite>Cuticrusader09 posted [p:983913875] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>texanfan27 posted... </cite><quote>Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does</quote>Been married 16 years. It is no work. And we have 2 teens. Best tip is to not marry in your 20s.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bloodyarts 02/03/25 12:50:50 PM #24:	texanfan27 posted... Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough. <cite>bloodyarts posted [p:983914537] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>texanfan27 posted... </cite><quote>Being married this last 5 years has improved my life, but its not a hack. It requires more work than people think it does</quote>I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JustaSandwich 02/03/25 12:53:15 PM #25:	Isn't that the plot of Cinderella, one of the most famous stories of all time? How is that a life hack? <cite>JustaSandwich posted [p:983914568] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Isn't that the plot of Cinderella, one of the most famous stories of all time? How is that a life hack?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaikyoStyle 02/03/25 12:59:07 PM #26:	I thought the biggest life hack was being born into a wealthy family. --- Taxes, death, and trouble. Vetinari 2028. Make Ankh-Morpork Great Again! <cite>SaikyoStyle posted [p:983914632] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>I thought the biggest life hack was being born into a wealthy family.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OldNastyBastard 02/03/25 1:00:16 PM #27:	SaikyoStyle posted... I thought the biggest life hack was being born into a wealthy family. You have no control over the family you're born into though. If you're a straight, white, cis, Christian, MAGA republican, you have absolute control over who you marry. <cite>OldNastyBastard posted [p:983914649] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>SaikyoStyle posted... </cite><quote>I thought the biggest life hack was being born into a wealthy family.</quote>You have no control over the family you're born into though. If you're a straight, white, cis, Christian, MAGA republican, you have absolute control over who you marry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheSuperSilver 02/03/25 1:01:32 PM #28:	bloodyarts posted... I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough. The "work" has a lot to do with compromise, understanding and realizing you're not going to always get what you want in a marriage. I've always told my wife that my big thing for getting married is that she makes me a better man for exposing me and teaching me things I never knew. I'm a better person because of her. May be easy to do for some, hard to do for others, but some effort might be required. --- When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. - Confucius <cite>TheSuperSilver posted [p:983914659] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>bloodyarts posted... </cite><quote>I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough.</quote>The "work" has a lot to do with compromise, understanding and realizing you're not going to always get what you want in a marriage. I've always told my wife that my big thing for getting married is that she makes me a better man for exposing me and teaching me things I never knew. I'm a better person because of her. May be easy to do for some, hard to do for others, but some effort might be required.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 02/03/25 1:29:03 PM #29:	TheSuperSilver posted... The "work" has a lot to do with compromise, understanding and realizing you're not going to always get what you want in a marriage. I've always told my wife that my big thing for getting married is that she makes me a better man for exposing me and teaching me things I never knew. I'm a better person because of her. May be easy to do for some, hard to do for others, but some effort might be required. I get that. For me the distinction is the following: With my ex wife, if a disagreement arose, there was NO compromise or admitting that she could have contributed. She would just berate me for hours until I agree it was 100% my fault and I detailed all the ways I would never do so again. I have since realized it was emotional abuse. With my current wife, if either of us has an issue it goes like this: "I was sad/upset/whatever when you..." "Oh, I am very sorry, I had no idea that... Next time I will try..." That's it. And this happens maybe 3 or 4 times a year. We rarely have issues. And if both of us want to do something different, we just do. If I want to go out with friends, it's fine. If I want to play Stellar Blade for 5 hours straight on a Sunday afternoon, it's fine. And vice versa. Of course, if we already had plans together, I honor it unless something truly unexpected and worthwhile comes up. Simple understanding and assuming positive intent goes a long way. And that doesn't seem like work to me, or at least not hard work. And yes, my wife makes me a better person too. --- Currently playing - Stellar Blade <cite>bsp77 posted [p:983914936] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>TheSuperSilver posted... </cite><quote>The "work" has a lot to do with compromise, understanding and realizing you're not going to always get what you want in a marriage. I've always told my wife that my big thing for getting married is that she makes me a better man for exposing me and teaching me things I never knew. I'm a better person because of her. May be easy to do for some, hard to do for others, but some effort might be required.</quote>I get that. For me the distinction is the following:With my ex wife, if a disagreement arose, there was NO compromise or admitting that she could have contributed. She would just berate me for hours until I agree it was 100% my fault and I detailed all the ways I would never do so again. I have since realized it was emotional abuse.With my current wife, if either of us has an issue it goes like this:"I was sad/upset/whatever when you...""Oh, I am very sorry, I had no idea that... Next time I will try..."That's it. And this happens maybe 3 or 4 times a year. We rarely have issues. And if both of us want to do something different, we just do. If I want to go out with friends, it's fine. If I want to play Stellar Blade for 5 hours straight on a Sunday afternoon, it's fine. And vice versa. Of course, if we already had plans together, I honor it unless something truly unexpected and worthwhile comes up. Simple understanding and assuming positive intent goes a long way. And that doesn't seem like work to me, or at least not hard work.And yes, my wife makes me a better person too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheSuperSilver 02/03/25 2:06:12 PM #30:	With my ex wife, if a disagreement arose, there was NO compromise or admitting that she could have contributed. Wow a person like that has no business getting married. My wife and I have our regular share of disagreements but we handle them in the exact way that you described in your post. If my wife inadvertently says something to me that I find offensive and maybe she didn't think was a big deal, my being offended has to MEAN something to her. A natural reaction would be "oh crap, I had no idea you'd be offended - sorry about that, etc." A spouse who does not care about your feelings or refuses to understand your viewpoint on things has no business getting married. Another thing I'll say is that I care so much about my wife that I want to resolve any dispute we have. No matter what obstacle we run into as a couple, "giving up" has never crossed my mind. If at some point in a marriage you stop caring like that, then that's a problem. --- When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. - Confucius <cite>TheSuperSilver posted [p:983915331] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote><quote>With my ex wife, if a disagreement arose, there was NO compromise or admitting that she could have contributed.</quote>Wow a person like that has no business getting married.My wife and I have our regular share of disagreements but we handle them in the exact way that you described in your post. If my wife inadvertently says something to me that I find offensive and maybe she didn't think was a big deal, my being offended has to MEAN something to her. A natural reaction would be "oh crap, I had no idea you'd be offended - sorry about that, etc." A spouse who does not care about your feelings or refuses to understand your viewpoint on things has no business getting married.Another thing I'll say is that I care so much about my wife that I want to resolve any dispute we have. No matter what obstacle we run into as a couple, "giving up" has never crossed my mind. If at some point in a marriage you stop caring like that, then that's a problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vigorm0rtis 02/03/25 2:09:01 PM #31:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/9/9b235bc3.jpg <cite>vigorm0rtis posted [p:983915365] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/9/9b235bc3.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dakimakura 02/03/25 2:24:44 PM #32:	Wait, you aren't supposed to marry poorly? This changes everything. --- Gamefaqs Community Organizer <cite>Dakimakura posted [p:983915520] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>Wait, you aren't supposed to marry poorly? This changes everything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Philip027 02/03/25 2:33:39 PM #33:	"Life hack" always seemed to me like silly TikToky buzzwords, and after reading this, they still do. <cite>Philip027 posted [p:983915609] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>"Life hack" always seemed to me like silly TikToky buzzwords, and after reading this, they still do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
texanfan27 02/03/25 3:26:45 PM #34:	bloodyarts posted... I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough. i argue learning how to deal with stresses together is the work. Me and my wife spend every moment together, and rarely is there conflict. its stress management and keeping her in good spirits (she hurt her back recently) that takes the toll. But every marriage is different, but I will never give her up for anything. --- When you find my sanity, please ask it to put pants on and return home, in that order please. <cite>texanfan27 posted [p:983916168] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>bloodyarts posted... </cite><quote>I mean honestly, I'm not even sure what "work" is in a marriage. Like, helping out around the house? Helping out with the kids? I don't consider that work. I'm happy to do those things. Be emotionally intelligent? I think this just happens organically as you spend more time together. Breakups/divorces don't happen because either party didn't "work" hard enough.</quote>i argue learning how to deal with stresses together is the work. Me and my wife spend every moment together, and rarely is there conflict. its stress management and keeping her in good spirits (she hurt her back recently) that takes the toll. But every marriage is different, but I will never give her up for anything. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 02/03/25 3:29:40 PM #35:	_____Cait posted... It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money Didnt really read it that way. Can definitely see how it makes sense. Who you spend a lot of your day with, at the very least every night and morning with, can be a huge burden or an incredible thing. --- https://imgur.com/ZFt3WwT http://error1355.com/ce/gatorsPENSbucs.html <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:983916190] in Marrying w... [t:80929066]...</cite> <quote>_____Cait posted... </cite><quote>It could also ruin your life once he finds out you married him for his money</quote>Didnt really read it that way. Can definitely see how it makes sense. Who you spend a lot of your day with, at the very least every night and morning with, can be a huge burden or an incredible thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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