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AceMos
08/01/25 7:38:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE8vE7pBB9w

pointing out how arrogant male characters are beloved while female ones get mocked

showing examples of how ironman was still arrogant even after his development

showing how the female characters do have to overcome their arrogance yet people ignore this fact

covers how people hate skyler white despite her not doing anything


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BlueBoy675
08/01/25 7:41:17 PM
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monkmith
08/01/25 7:45:54 PM
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ironman is an ass, not sure anyone really defends that. that was half the point of civil war.

people hate asuka? i mean, more then any other character in NGE?

as for korra, i didn't hate her, i hated the god awful love triangle.

i dont know who any of those other people are.

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refmon
08/01/25 7:46:06 PM
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AceMos posted...
covers how people hate skyler white despite her not doing anything

She was literally nagging Walt in the very first scene of the show

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AceMos
08/01/25 7:47:11 PM
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monkmith posted...
people hate asuka? i mean, more then any other character in NGE?

no he is using her as a example of a character thats not hated

despite having many of the flaws they hate in other characters

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mistymermaid
08/01/25 7:49:11 PM
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monkmith posted...
ironman is an ass, not sure anyone really defends that. that was half the point of civil war.

people hate asuka? i mean, more then any other character in NGE?

as for korra, i didn't hate her, i hated the god awful love triangle.

i dont know who any of those other people are.

The "controversy" over "girlboss" characters is right wing dog whistling.

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NoxObscuras
08/01/25 7:55:18 PM
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Korra was fine, but that show absolutely got shafted by Nickelodeon

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name_unknown
08/01/25 7:55:32 PM
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A_Good_Boy
08/01/25 7:58:38 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Then through various moments throughout the series you learn Walt has been an egotistical asshole his whole entire life and your views adjust with the story.

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monkmith
08/01/25 8:02:12 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
Then through various moments throughout the series you learn Walt has been an egotistical asshole his whole entire life and your views adjust with the story.
i've never watched breaking bad, cant get past like the second episode where they try to melt a body in a bathtub, but if its anything like better call saul then i imagine you spend most of the series trying to like the MC and ignoring all his faults until you reach a point that you cant keep rationalizing away how much of an asshole they are.

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BlueBoy675
08/01/25 8:03:58 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
Then through various moments throughout the series you learn Walt has been an egotistical asshole his whole entire life and your views adjust with the story.
People really dont understand that Walter isnt supposed to be likable. Hes a toxic prick and an egomaniac, and thats before the meth

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SDBZ
08/01/25 8:19:49 PM
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AceMos posted...
no he is using her as a example of a character thats not hated

despite having many of the flaws they hate in other characters

Personally I don't like Asuka. Rei is best girl.

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A_Good_Boy
08/01/25 8:29:30 PM
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monkmith posted...
i've never watched breaking bad, cant get past like the second episode where they try to melt a body in a bathtub, but if its anything like better call saul then i imagine you spend most of the series trying to like the MC and ignoring all his faults until you reach a point that you cant keep rationalizing away how much of an asshole they are.
Yeah exactly like that, but instead of a guy that you can give plausible deniability to cause he initially presents as a down on his luck guy trying to practice the law it's a guy that almost immediately starts selling meth, refuses any sort of help that are clear off-ramps of the stories apparent trajectory, and even kills a guy; and that's 3 episodes into a 7 episode first season. So its weird how people even to this day just completely miss the point despite Walter himself telling you directly that he's a monster at multiple points in the story just to hate on Skyler.

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lilORANG
08/01/25 8:33:56 PM
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If I like girlboss characters, can I disregard this video?

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:36:08 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
Yeah exactly like that, but instead of a guy that you can give plausible deniability to cause he initially presents as a down on his luck guy trying to practice the law it's a guy that almost immediately starts selling meth, refuses any sort of help that are clear off-ramps of the stories apparent trajectory, and even kills a guy; and that's 3 episodes into a 7 episode first season. So its weird how people even to this day just completely miss the point despite Walter himself telling you directly that he's a monster at multiple points in the story just to hate on Skyler.

SO in conclusion, Breaking Bad could never happen in Canada

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AceMos
08/01/25 8:36:30 PM
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lilORANG posted...
If I like girlboss characters, can I disregard this video?

i guess but i still think its worth watching

analyzing media is a good thing and grifters have destroyed this aspect of engaging with media

so its good to see videos actually engaging with media

and if these videos would go viral it would start to undercut the grifters

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monkmith
08/01/25 8:37:04 PM
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LightSnake posted...
SO in conclusion, Breaking Bad could never happen in Canada
is meth legal in canada?

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:38:21 PM
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monkmith posted...
is meth legal in canada?

No, no, they have universal healthcare and toxic egos are banned

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A_Good_Boy
08/01/25 8:38:49 PM
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LightSnake posted...
SO in conclusion, Breaking Bad could never happen in Canada
Canada has Trailer Park Boys. It's almost the same thing.

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rick_alverado
08/01/25 8:38:50 PM
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monkmith posted...
is meth legal in canada?

No.
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Vokrent
08/01/25 8:39:00 PM
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monkmith posted...
is meth legal in canada?
no but we have an actual healthcare system here. even though the Conservatives are trying their best to ruin it

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:39:24 PM
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rick_alverado posted...
No.

More importantly, neither are fried chicken restaurants.

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Vokrent
08/01/25 8:40:46 PM
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LightSnake posted...
No, no, they have universal healthcare and toxic egos are banned
i fucking wish toxic egos were banned.

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:42:17 PM
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A Canadian remake of Breaking Bad where the Mexican Cartel are just like.

Michigan white trash hillbilly gangsters


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rick_alverado
08/01/25 8:43:14 PM
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LightSnake posted...
No, no, they have universal healthcare and toxic egos are banned

Can I live in your version of Canada instead of the real one?

LightSnake posted...
More importantly, neither are fried chicken restaurants.

Wait, maybe not.
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ChocoboMogALT
08/01/25 8:45:32 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
Yeah exactly like that, but instead of a guy that you can give plausible deniability to cause he initially presents as a down on his luck guy trying to practice the law it's a guy that almost immediately starts selling meth, refuses any sort of help that are clear off-ramps of the stories apparent trajectory, and even kills a guy; and that's 3 episodes into a 7 episode first season. So its weird how people even to this day just completely miss the point despite Walter himself telling you directly that he's a monster at multiple points in the story just to hate on Skyler.
Because many people enjoy watching entertaining characters, rather than good ones. Scarface is beloved, but he's not a good dude. Breaking Bad is a story about a villain, it doesn't hide that fact.

Skyler isn't just boring, she's an impediment to anything interesting, at least in the first season. Once she starts existing as her own character, rather than just a road block to Walt, she stops sucking away all the energy when she's on screen.

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:46:20 PM
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All joking aside, SKyler is a great character and Anna Gunn does amazing

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lilORANG
08/01/25 8:48:13 PM
#30:


Skyler is also not a girlboss

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LightSnake
08/01/25 8:48:34 PM
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Not even close

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Kim_Seong-a
08/01/25 8:54:45 PM
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Just looking at the thumbnail, I like and dislike the characters for various reasons, none of them have anything to do with being a "girl boss". >_>

Also re: Iron Man and Vegeta, they frequently eat shit and get humbled, which I think is the key to arrogant characters. Anyone can be as haughty as they want, so long as they don't feel "invincible". Even Sherlock Holmes was made a fool in his first short story. >_>

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Kaitouace
08/01/25 8:55:40 PM
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No one should "look up to" any character in NGE. They're all multiple levels of fucked up. Definitely wouldn't consider Asuka a "girlboss". People who think so clearly misunderstand the character.

Note that I'm not trashing the video by any means but watching NGE as an adult really makes you see things differently. And this is coming from the guy who actually has several Asuka wallscrolls lol.

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monkmith
08/01/25 8:58:27 PM
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Kaitouace posted...
No one should "look up to" any character in NGE. They're all multiple levels of fucked up. Definitely wouldn't consider Asuka a "girlboss". People who think so clearly misunderstand the character.

Note that I'm not trashing the video by any means but watching NGE as an adult really makes you see things differently. And this is coming from the guy who actually has several Asuka wallscrolls lol.
oh no they're all fucking broken and honestly NGE is a god damn depressing mess.

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AceMos
08/01/25 9:01:17 PM
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Kim_Seong-a posted...
Also re: Iron Man and Vegeta, they frequently eat shit and get humbled, which I think is the key to arrogant characters. Anyone can be as haughty as they want, so long as they don't feel "invincible". Even Sherlock Holmes was made a fool in his first short story. >_>

and these female characters get humbled to thats the point


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Cynrascal
08/01/25 9:02:01 PM
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Asuka? Girlboss? No. She's an emotionally broken character who lashes out to hide her own mental and emotional weaknesses in the 90s anime.

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A_Good_Boy
08/01/25 9:02:27 PM
#37:


lilORANG posted...
Skyler is also not a girlboss
She took that car wash and ordered a hit like a girlboss.

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Letsago
08/01/25 9:07:22 PM
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TIL people think Skyler White is a girlboss.

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NoxObscuras
08/01/25 9:12:46 PM
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BlueBoy675 posted...
People really dont understand that Walter isnt supposed to be likable. Hes a toxic prick and an egomaniac, and thats before the meth
People absolutely understand that. But people like villains all the time. "A hero is a hero, but everybody loves a great villain."

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Letsago
08/01/25 9:18:09 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
People absolutely understand that. But people like villains all the time. "A hero is a hero, but everybody loves a great villain."
There's a Trope on TVTropes called "Jerks Are Worse than Villains" or something to the effect. Basically how truly evil people are easier to distance from as fictional characters, where unlikable/bully characters feel more down-to-earth and therefore less likable because they remind you of people you know.

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BlueBoy675
08/01/25 9:25:22 PM
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Kim_Seong-a posted...
Just looking at the thumbnail, I like and dislike the characters for various reasons, none of them have anything to do with being a "girl boss". >_>

Also re: Iron Man and Vegeta, they frequently eat shit and get humbled, which I think is the key to arrogant characters. Anyone can be as haughty as they want, so long as they don't feel "invincible". Even Sherlock Holmes was made a fool in his first short story. >_>
Yeah. Arrogant characters need a good humbling every now and then to keep them likable. A great example would be when Batman knocked out Guy Gardner in a single punch when Guy being a jackass as usual lol

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monkmith
08/01/25 9:58:19 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
People absolutely understand that. But people like villains all the time. "A hero is a hero, but everybody loves a great villain."
he's also the main character. and you're supposed to root for the main character.

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WingsOfGood
08/01/25 10:01:10 PM
#43:


Emma Frost is an arrogant snarky girlboss no one complains about

well Kitty might
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AceMos
08/01/25 10:02:04 PM
#44:


WingsOfGood posted...
Emma Frost is an arrogant snarky girlboss no one complains about

the grifters very much would if she had a major role in a MCU film or something


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Zakawer3
08/01/25 10:02:35 PM
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This video is completely valid and highly useful information.

It's weird that people online hate on characters for being arrogant and cocky (even when their arrogance is a clearly defined flaw that has genuine consequences in the story not played for cheap laughs), purely because those characters happen to be female (and particularly if they're tomboyish-looking or especially if they're visibly non-White), while such characters wouldn't get nearly as much hatred if they were White, more feminine-looking or if they were just male characters instead.

Also, most tsundere characters in anime/manga (and anime-style video games) somehow escape criticism, even when they're far more noxious and commit far more reprehensible acts than most "girlboss" characters in Western fictional media without facing any real repercussions for their actions, purely because they're cute-/attractive-looking, because they have that softer side to them, because people are weebs, because minority characters in anime/manga often don't visibly look like minority groups to Westerners the same way such characters do in Western works, and because tsundere characters' actions are often played for cheap laughs.

And yeah, the infamous anti-woke grifters online only help accentuate this problem with online society even further.

lilORANG posted...
If I like girlboss characters, can I disregard this video?
Nah, you should still watch it anyway.

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WingsOfGood
08/01/25 10:03:09 PM
#46:


AceMos posted...
the grifters very much would if she had a major role in a MCU film or something

so this is only about movies?
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A_Good_Boy
08/01/25 10:03:21 PM
#47:


monkmith posted...
he's also the main character. and you're supposed to root for the main character.
He's the main character so you're supposed to follow the story from his perspective, not throw away your ability to comprehend context and subtext.

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Voidgolem
08/01/25 10:06:35 PM
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I think the fundamental problem is that most modern writers don't actually know how to make a strong female character without overshooting somehow

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BlueBoy675
08/01/25 10:09:32 PM
#49:


monkmith posted...
he's also the main character. and you're supposed to root for the main character.
Eren is the main character of AoT. Are you supposed to root for him as he commits genocide on a global scale?

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AceMos
08/01/25 10:13:25 PM
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Voidgolem posted...
I think the fundamental problem is that most modern writers don't actually know how to make a strong female character without overshooting somehow

factually false

riri from iron heart is a great female character she has tons of flaws

the video proves this with direct comparison to other characters who DONT get mocked for those exact same flaws

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