YES.
It's not pretty. It's not flattering.
It's stressful and toxic. I wouldn't wish it on anyone...
Alexandra_Trent posted...
YES.
It's not pretty. It's not flattering.
It's stressful and toxic. I wouldn't wish it on anyone...
I know, just wanted to include the full spectrum
ivegotthebends posted...
Alexandra_Trent posted...
YES.
It's not pretty. It's not flattering.
It's stressful and toxic. I wouldn't wish it on anyone...
I know, just wanted to include the full spectrum
Have you experienced this before? :(((
Alexandra_Trent posted...
ivegotthebends posted...
Alexandra_Trent posted...
YES.
It's not pretty. It's not flattering.
It's stressful and toxic. I wouldn't wish it on anyone...
I know, just wanted to include the full spectrum
Have you experienced this before? :(((
Yeah, I have
ivegotthebends posted...
Alexandra_Trent posted...
ivegotthebends posted...
Alexandra_Trent posted...
YES.
It's not pretty. It's not flattering.
It's stressful and toxic. I wouldn't wish it on anyone...
I know, just wanted to include the full spectrum
Have you experienced this before? :(((
Yeah, I have
If I may ask, how did you deal with it?
My choice isn't up there. My answer is "Yes, and it made me uncomfortable."
I think I'm officially done, even though it still hurts to think I'll never be with anyone. It's probably for the best.
I want to say I've never even had wanted affections, but there was that woman last year who really wanted us to have a baby together. It was uncomfortable and stressful, but even then I nearly went for it.
I haven't even bothered to try since then. I think I'm officially done, even though it still hurts to think I'll never be with anyone. It's probably for the best.
KogaSteelfang posted...
I want to say I've never even had wanted affections, but there was that woman last year who really wanted us to have a baby together. It was uncomfortable and stressful, but even then I nearly went for it.
I haven't even bothered to try since then. I think I'm officially done, even though it still hurts to think I'll never be with anyone. It's probably for the best.
I hear you dude
Won't give you any of that there is somebody for everybody crap but I feel the same way right now
Former girl really broke me aswell
I had a girl I worked with flirt with me. She knew I was in a relationship and she herself was in one as well. She sent me nasty texts, took a nude selfie at work, and left me a voicemail of herself masturbating and moaning. She was batshit insane and I wasn't the least bit interested as I'm with someone.
Jiggy101011 posted...
I had a girl I worked with flirt with me. She knew I was in a relationship and she herself was in one as well. She sent me nasty texts, took a nude selfie at work, and left me a voicemail of herself masturbating and moaning. She was batshit insane and I wasn't the least bit interested as I'm with someone.
Bro that goes beyond flirting, that's like full on sexual harassment.
And if you (general you) think a significant other will solve all your problems for you, you definitely shouldn't be looking for a relationship. If you can't handle your own problems by yourself, you sure as hell won't be able to handle someone else's problems on top of yours.
Lirishae posted...
And if you (general you) think a significant other will solve all your problems for you, you definitely shouldn't be looking for a relationship. If you can't handle your own problems by yourself, you sure as hell won't be able to handle someone else's problems on top of yours.
This is it here, one of the bigger reasons I need to give up. I can't handle my own problems, why should I stack them on someone else? I don't have anything to offer anyone.
Besides, it's not even an issue because no one will ever be interested in a piece of garbage like me.
Luck plays a huge part in being successful at the dating game :/ It's not that people aren't attractive or don't have great things to offer someone, it's just being lucky enough to meet someone who has what you want and wants what you have. There are things you can do to help your chances, like improving yourself and knowing your dealbreakers, but that's still not a guarantee. Plenty of awesome people are single and many of them are even happier that way. Mass media has trained people to think that you need a relationship to be happy, but you don't. It should be icing on the cake of your life, rather. And if you (general you) think a significant other will solve all your problems for you, you definitely shouldn't be looking for a relationship. If you can't handle your own problems by yourself, you sure as hell won't be able to handle someone else's problems on top of yours.