Lurker > TheLiarParadox

LurkerFAQs, Active Database ( 12.01.2023-present ), DB1, DB2, DB3, DB4, DB5, DB6, DB7, DB8, DB9, DB10, DB11, DB12, Clear
Board List
Page List: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9
TopicBooks general
TheLiarParadox
04/18/24 4:46:04 PM
#2
I read too many books in January and can't seem to get the attention span back to read anything else, which sucks because there's now a lot of stuff I need to read for work and can't groan emoji.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicPost ITT if you dislike Fandom
TheLiarParadox
04/16/24 9:12:33 PM
#24
The wikis are always garbage. It feels worse than getting RoseArt crayons every time I get tricked into clicking on one.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicGordon Ramsay's pub taken over by squatters
TheLiarParadox
04/16/24 5:43:56 PM
#12
lmao, what scamps

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHave you tried to assimilate to society yet now dat CE is going away?
TheLiarParadox
04/16/24 2:46:44 PM
#4
No. I don't think I'll ever be normal.

Like, last night I went on a date and she could tell something was bothering me. I tried to explain to her that fandom is killing this place without coming off like a major dweeb but when I got to the part when SBAllen came back to mock us, I just lost my shit and she asked the waiter for the check.

I don't know how to deal with this.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSome people dislike very hot weather. Do you dislike it?
TheLiarParadox
04/16/24 2:38:42 PM
#13
I'm pretty heat tolerant and can do manual labor in 100F with no issues, provided I have enough water and can take breaks.

What is really my limiting factor is that the air quality here usually plummets when it's that hot. I have allergies and respiratory problems, so that takes me out long before the heat will.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicAre people *currently* in purgatory already locked out forever?
TheLiarParadox
04/16/24 11:55:10 AM
#26
*nelson laugh*

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicWould you eat a bug
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 6:35:16 PM
#12
I have before. I have no reason to ever again.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 6:34:07 PM
#22
SiO4 posted...
Oh I do love New England. Don't get me wrong, but you have to be rather hardy to make it though the tougher months....or just a crazy skier.
I think that's what's so interesting for me about relocating somewhere with real winter. We've definitely had bad winters but most of that is because we don't have the infrastructure for it. A week or two of cold weather with maybe some snow (or ice, more likely) and everything goes to hell. We may get that two or three times a winter, broken up by boring cold weather or decent days.

I don't even have a proper winter jacket because a hoodie with a long sleeved shirt underneath will work just fine most of the time, even with my distaste for the cold. If it's colder than that, I just don't go out because there's nothing to do anyway. I want to go somewhere that requires the art of layering. I want to go somewhere that doesn't freak out because there is a possibility of snow. I know blizzards and all that can be brutal and I'm not trying to romanticize it but it is part of the appeal. I want that experience, you know?

I've spent many of days in Vermont and it is as charming as it is made out to be. Not without issues, but the ideal isn't a fake vibe.
I am in New York, but I only live like an hour from Arlington, where Norman Rockwell did some of his work.
Vermont looks incredible. I might spend a couple of weeks in New England because it seems difficult to pick one place to go.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone here made a topic back in maybe Dec or Jan about a keyboard instrument.
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 6:20:47 PM
#3
Nah. I think it was like professional level equipment.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicIts not my FAULT
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 5:52:06 PM
#13
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/e/e5dee9cc.jpg

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicNo matter how much extra weight you have. YOU ARE NOT FAT.
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 5:05:04 PM
#147
cjsdowg posted...
For me it seems like when people see themselves as just the fat guy it makes he harder to lose weight. It makes it harder to do so many things because they connect with that idea of being the fat guy. ( I got have lost some pounds) not on your level so I am also speaking for my journey and not trying to take thing away from yours . It is odd that we see the same thing and come out with different points of view. (not suggesting you are wrong in any way).
I didn't see myself as just that prior to weight loss though. I had very little self-awareness or emotional maturity and was a very impulsive, reactionary creature, for the lack of a better term.

Becoming the "funny fat guy" was not a conscious choice but a defense mechanism based on how I was treated. I was around 10 when I learned I could ingratiate myself to people that way and quickly centered my entire personality around it with all the maturity and foresight someone of that age can possess.

I lost weight because my health plummeted and I didn't really have a choice. I was going to die because of my weight. Once I proved capable of controlling it and losing a lot of fat, all of this started to become apparent. If I never lost weight, I don't think I ever would have realized any of it. It's hard to explain because it is a little counterintuitive, I guess.

But yeah, there's a lot of variation in how all of this is experienced, as with anything in life.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 4:00:53 PM
#20
SiO4 posted...
That's possible. But think of nearly or more then 6 months of 17 to 35 degree weather, with some ligit -degree Temps scattered in and effectively no sun. And then turning around from that to all sorts of high temps and cracy humidity, and a shit ton of bugs.

You really do have to be ready for everything.
I've been looking through temperatures for the last few summers in various places in New England and I haven't seen anything close to what we get down here, not in severity or duration. I've actually gotten pretty heat tolerant in recent years and I have little issue spending time outside up to 100F, even when it's humid, so those summer highs in the 90s still look great to me. I had mosquitos in my house in January, so bugs aren't much of a deterrent either <_<

The cooler months there are infinitely less appealing but that tradeoff is still an interesting prospect that I want to experience for myself. I know I could be absolutely wrong and hate it but I hate it here too so

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI'm gonna miss CE when it's dead. No place quite like it.
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 3:39:06 PM
#6
Cemith posted...
Man Fan. That shit doesn't happen on other sites.
I dunno. I've seen Reddit, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram run several jokes into the ground.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone here made a topic back in maybe Dec or Jan about a keyboard instrument.
TheLiarParadox
04/15/24 3:37:38 PM
#1
It was some kind of keyboard synthesizer thing (I think) on sale for some ridiculous price and they wanted to share with everyone.

The topic only got like 6 responses and one of them was mine saying it looked cool but I have no musical talent.

The TC, I believe, responded and said something about it taking time and practice to get good.

I don't think there were many responses after that.

Anyway, I want to get one now (even though the sale is likely long over) but I do not know what the thing was exactly.

If you were that TC or someone in that topic, please help me find the instrument. I feel like wasting money.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI thought Civil War was great
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 1:48:57 PM
#34
Just finished it. It's a visually well-executed film and the acting was great. That's about all I'm going to say about it.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 1:22:56 PM
#18
SiO4 posted...
The North East is fucking brutal at times.
Yes, it has it's good moments, but you do pay for them.
You will see every extreme.
That's how it is here too though. I don't think it's comparatively a paradise or anything but I'm up for anywhere that doesn't have like three straight months around 100F. Like I said, they just seem like different kinds of hell.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 1:00:00 PM
#14
Okay, so the plan is Boston in September or October.

And Dallas weather is meh. The only guarantees are a scorching summer and every other season being erratic. I honestly hate the cold but these summers are getting to be too much and we have just enough winter for me to still be miserable anyway. Several months of actual winter and much milder summers just seems like a different kind of hell, not a worse one.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicIsn't it crazy we're at the point where people are actively cheering on Iran
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 11:37:01 AM
#23
No, not really.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicNo matter how much extra weight you have. YOU ARE NOT FAT.
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 12:46:31 AM
#22
cjsdowg posted...
Fat does not define you; it is not your personality, nor is it an intrinsic part of who you are.

You can shed fat, but you cant lose what truly makes you, you.

I don't necessarily agree with this.

I got fat as a child because I used binge eating to cope with a series of traumatic experiences. This poisoned me on a foundational level and kept me from every developing a personality outside of being the funny, self-deprecating fat guy, or someone with poor impulse control and zero discipline.

I lost 150+ lbs and once it started becoming a regular occurrence for me not to be the heaviest person in every room I walked into, I had an identity crisis of sorts. I started losing weight and realized that there was nothing else about me, nothing serious at my core.

All of my interests, friends, and perception of myself were heavily entangled with me being fat or with the C-PTSD that made and kept me fat. I've changed nearly everything about me, diet, hobbies, mindset, and seriously everything. I'm a completely different person because of the physical and mental process of losing weight in a healthy, sustainable way.

The more I become my own person on my own terms and get to actually grow in healthy and positive ways, the more obvious it is that I was, in every sense, a big fat guy and very little else.

I can only speak of my own experience though, and I know that it is not universal. Everyone should be able to define themselves how they want.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicUFC 300 is this weekend, why nobody care?
TheLiarParadox
04/14/24 12:07:26 AM
#24
fake

so fake

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicThe fact that pets are not allowed within national parks is absurd
TheLiarParadox
04/13/24 6:00:36 PM
#10
I work at a wildlife sanctuary that sees about a dozen killed, maimed, and orphaned animals weekly because of dogs and cats. You're the exact kind of entitled pet owner who would bring their pampered little shit to these places and cause a problem. Please fuck off.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI think I have Havana Syndrome
TheLiarParadox
04/13/24 5:49:35 PM
#4
damn crickets

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicAmerican Psycho: written by a gay man, directed by a feminist to mock toxic masc
TheLiarParadox
04/13/24 5:28:06 PM
#14
You would be surprised how many people walked away from American History X more racist. Or maybe you wouldn't these days.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicTIL pojr is now a popular Youtuber
TheLiarParadox
04/13/24 12:10:11 PM
#2
p

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicY/N: Complaints about Biden should be saved until after the election
TheLiarParadox
04/13/24 12:02:50 PM
#46
Gwynevere posted...
How far are you willing to go?
#fedposting

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicReminder: Hyenas are more closely related to cats than dogs
TheLiarParadox
04/12/24 8:59:12 PM
#4
MangaBroski posted...
Remember the time archosaurs evolved phytosaurs in the Triassic and then repeated with crocodilia in the Cretaceous?
Yes. That shit was wild.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicY/N: Complaints about Biden should be saved until after the election
TheLiarParadox
04/12/24 8:56:15 PM
#11
No. Criticism is an important part of the harm reduction vote.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/12/24 5:26:06 PM
#8
Thanks everyone.

Could I have a good Boston and Providence trip in a weekend? Or should I plan for a few more days?

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicWoman leaves "Yu-Gi-Oh" event because it smelled horrible
TheLiarParadox
04/12/24 5:17:49 PM
#25
I've gone to a lot of these nerd events in the past 10 years and honestly, they've gotten a lot better about this. Most of them have pretty blatant hygiene reminders that seem to be working.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/11/24 9:07:31 PM
#2
bump

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicUFC 300 is this weekend, why nobody care?
TheLiarParadox
04/11/24 1:54:01 PM
#10
C_Pain posted...
Because it's fake


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI bought a fucking instrument
TheLiarParadox
04/11/24 1:15:05 AM
#38
Nice. I have no musical talent but am always tempted to buy an instrument. I'd shit myself to be able to play the banjo tbh.

Someone here posted some little keyboard synthesizer thing that looked really cool but I was being responsible with money at the time and didn't get it. I feel like wasting money and would buy it now but I have no idea what it was and can't find it.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHave you ever actually encountered a militant vegetarian/vegan in real life?
TheLiarParadox
04/10/24 1:59:20 PM
#13
I wish = (

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicThis cactus eats lava for breakfast
TheLiarParadox
04/10/24 12:49:07 PM
#2
Sounds like part of a pokedex description.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHow's New England?
TheLiarParadox
04/10/24 11:09:03 AM
#1
Thinking of visiting while I explore potential places to relocate to but I only know what I've seen on Family Guy.

Which state should I visit first? Are there any I should avoid? I'm from Texas and would rather not go somewhere else awful.

I would also prefer to visit somewhere walkable and with decent public transportation. Natural beauty is also important. I love to hike and spend time outdoors.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicDoes it cost a lot of money when people lose a bunch of weight and have to get
TheLiarParadox
04/10/24 10:31:59 AM
#4
It depends on how long a person has been overweight, their current age, overall health, and genetics. Some people can lose the weight and not have it that bad but most people are going to have it to some extent.

I went from 380 to 230 @ 5'10" and have it pretty bad. I've gotten a few estimates and to take care of everything without traveling is going to be between 25 and 40k USD out of pocket. It will be cheaper if I group surgeries together, like doing arms and chest at once, but that can yield subpar results, not to mention requiring a longer, more painful recovery. Doing it piecemeal is less risky with better results but more expensive.

I don't have insurance but insurance, as usual, is very dodgy about when they'll cover it. It is more likely to be approved if the loose skin leads to infections or otherwise causes severe physical problems but that's not a guarantee either.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone I watched the eclipse with ruined it for everyone.
TheLiarParadox
04/09/24 4:57:58 PM
#22
You were clear.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone I watched the eclipse with ruined it for everyone.
TheLiarParadox
04/09/24 4:44:02 PM
#20
AceAttorneyist posted...
Better not to even post it tbh
Yeah. And to be clear, I want to laugh about missing the eclipse, not necessarily the reason why. It's all been a very weird experience.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone I watched the eclipse with ruined it for everyone.
TheLiarParadox
04/09/24 4:40:01 PM
#17
Zombified_Toast posted...
Can you elaborate on the how?
He had some kind of mental episode and had to be physically removed from the event. I don't know if it was because of the eclipse, the crowd, or something else but there was a lot of chaos.

MC_BatCommander posted...
How can you not say how they ruined it wtf
I wrote all that out and it seemed insensitive

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicSomeone I watched the eclipse with ruined it for everyone.
TheLiarParadox
04/09/24 4:17:47 PM
#1
It wasn't really his fault, so I'm not upset with him or even mad in general but I think about what happened and am just kinda like

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/6/6d08b7fe.jpg

because around three dozen people had a once-in-a-lifetime experience sullied at the last minute. I think we got to see like the last 30 seconds of totality uninterrupted.

I don't know. I kinda want to laugh about it because it's so ridiculous but it's almost unbelievable. I have this kind of like, "did that really happen?" feeling about it every time I think about it.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicDog culture MUST END!
TheLiarParadox
04/07/24 8:30:02 PM
#27
I work at an animal sanctuary that takes in sick and injured animals, including some that were brought to us because they were attacked by dogs.

At least once a week, we have someone try to bring a dog into the facility. They're promptly booted the fuck out and they always act like we're being mean or irrational.

Dog brain is a sickness tbh.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI'm getting into hoarding physical media.
TheLiarParadox
04/07/24 8:05:37 PM
#3
I live in a very noisy neighborhood and prefer to use headphones for all my media needs. I'm not an audiophile by any means but using headphones made me realize how lackluster a lot of streaming service audio is. HBO Max is the only one I would consider truly bad though.

Anyway, I went to Movie Trading Company and browsed for a few hours. I only got a couple of seasons of The Simpsons because I was honestly overwhelmed and had to fight the compulsion to buy stuff I didn't really want.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicTown in Alabama hasn't held an election since 1965
TheLiarParadox
04/06/24 12:25:45 PM
#28
The townspeople would be justified in killing all of them. Of course, that would get the attention of state or federal authority and likely result in razing the town.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicHave you ever attended a performance by a stand up comic?
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 10:32:59 PM
#5
Nope. Was always too scared because I was fat and goofy looking, very easy target.

Now I don't want to go because I think stand up comedy is meh.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
Topic$50k, but you can never access or use a bidet ever again.
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 10:31:39 PM
#7
bidet

being a big guy in a swamp, i hate that I was 35 when i first tried a bidet

Homeless_Waifu posted...
i never owned a bidet nor used one in my entire life. Im too poor to afford one
30$ attachment changed my life


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicLeaked Texas Republican video suggested violence against abortions and IVF
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 10:06:24 PM
#28
I'm not telling anyone not to vote or to vote against harm reduction. Do what you think is best at the polling place. Just don't rest everything on a vote and crossing your fingers every couple of years. Think beyond electoral politics and be prepared to take care of yourself and your community.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicI'm getting into hoarding physical media.
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 10:02:18 PM
#1
I'm tired of streaming versions only having the shitty versions or bad remasters or just not having stuff.


---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicIf Biden loses the election, he has nobody to blame but himself
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 3:41:16 PM
#421
Will_VIIII posted...
This is hyperbole. Do I think Biden could do better here? Absolutely. But he's not actively committing genocide.

And for like the nth time, what are we supposed to do then, let Trump win? The guy and party that would indiscriminately carpet bomb the area?
You don't have to deny genocide or Biden's role in facilitating/prolonging it to push the harm reduction vote.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
TopicIf Biden loses the election, he has nobody to blame but himself
TheLiarParadox
04/04/24 3:10:55 PM
#316
Will_VIIII posted...
You really have to look at the big picture here.

Like how that woman who miscarried in Ohio had her bathroom ripped apart and she got charged for improper disposal of a corpse.

Same situation played out for me and my partner earlier this year and fortunately, we don't have laws like that here.

Project 2025 is a real threat to us as we're still trying to conceive.
I'm talking about your "actually it's only diet genocide" bullshit.

---
Spongebob is not a contraceptive.
Board List
Page List: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9