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| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:18:46 AM #20 | Pepys Monster posted... No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...So basically, TC gets rejected and tells himself "it's the process that matters." Meanwhile, Chad is getting laid. what you're doing is blaming your failures on something you don't have any control over, so that you have an excuse for your failure. if you actually tried and still failed, you would have to actually cope with the fact that you may be undesirable. but nothing is stopping you from trying and succeeding. obviously being born with chad looks gives you a major advantage, but there are lots of average guys that have lots of success with women, just because they were willing to put in the work and improve. i'm 5-6, skinny and asian and i sleep with more and hotter girls than a lot of my chad friends, simply because they never actually learned how to seduce a woman and simply only rely on their looks to get laid. Although that still works an annoying amount of the time for them. --- |
| Topic | I'm gonna do it, I'm going to ask a girl to hang out with me. |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:14:30 AM #41 | PiOverlord posted... No_U_L7 posted...PiOverlord posted... crush=/=feelings --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:13:21 AM #18 | Pepys Monster posted... No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...So basically, TC gets rejected and tells himself "it's the process that matters." Meanwhile, Chad is getting laid. then don't be a guy that gets discouraged. just because it's 0.1% one night, doesn't mean it can't be 75% at some point in the future, as long as the process is correct. --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:10:02 AM #16 | Pepys Monster posted... No_U_L7 posted...Pepys Monster posted...So basically, TC gets rejected and tells himself "it's the process that matters." Meanwhile, Chad is getting laid. so what you're saying is "rejection" doesn't matter and i was right. thanks --- |
| Topic | I'm gonna do it, I'm going to ask a girl to hang out with me. |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:09:13 AM #39 | PiOverlord posted...
you don't have feelings for her. i can tell. you're just projecting your need for love and intimacy onto her. you like the concept of love and want it, and because she's one of the few girls in your life you're attracted to, you're projecting that onto her. how long have you known her? --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:06:58 AM #14 | Two_Dee posted... How do i get a gf i view and treat all girls i sleep with the same. the only difference with trying to get a girlfriend is you'd call/text them the next day, whereas in a one night stand you would not. --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:03:49 AM #12 | WizardPowers posted... Rejection is fine. I just don't want to waste my time or money on someone unless im like 95 percent it will go somewhere. Which is hard because women are super privileged in the dating world and they can just make the guy do all the leg work in the initial phases. There's a massive difference between doing work and spending money. I will and am willing to do all the work in the world. I realize that generally most girls love being led and told what to do, so if I can do that sufficiently it will usually end well in my favor. Spending money, I have no problem doing as long as I'm ok spending that money and not having sex with the girl. So pretty much if I think it will be a good experience, even without sex I will still do it. But honestly, most of my dates still trend pretty cheap. We share food, drinks, go cheap places, just get a smoothie, etc. My one rule is to only spend the money once the girl actually likes me and I'm still ok with having spent the money if the girl were to walk away at any moment. Luckily, that level of non-neediness usually makes girls even more attracted to me. --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 1:00:17 AM #11 | Pepys Monster posted... So basically, TC gets rejected and tells himself "it's the process that matters." Meanwhile, Chad is getting laid. Believe it or not, even Chads get rejected. I see it happen all the time. The difference is they don't let it get them down and still leave with a hottie at the end of the night...just like I do. --- |
| Topic | a pick up artist (me) gives advice on the "friend zone" |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 12:58:08 AM #1 | Girls (and most people) will not hold it against you if you are being yourself, even if you're a bit of a dick. As long as you're being congruent (the alignment of thoughts, words and actions), if you are just being yourself no one will hate you for it (but not everyone will love you, and that is okay too). But if you violate their perceived perception of you, they will hold it against you and dislike you for it. How does this play into the friendzone? Because most guys that get friendzoned simply are not properly displaying their intentions towards a girl from the start. So once they violate the girl's perceived idea of them, they will get turned down. The good news, is that the way you are perceived by others is absolutely within your control up to like 99%. If you think a girl is cute, and you talk to her, make sure she knows you're attracted to her. Doesn't even have to be anything over the top, even a simple "you have the cutest smile" and occasional flirty comment works. Don't know how to flirt? Learn. But that is a topic for another time. A lot of guys just talk to girls and think the girl should "know", but girls are not psychic, the same way you do not simply just "know" what a girl is thinking (well maybe you don't, I do because I've been doing this so long). Another mistake guys make is failure to escalate. And I'm not just talking physically (yes, that too). If you like a girl, ask her out. A lot of guys expect girls to make a move, but they simply will not for various reasons (also another topic). Unfortunately, as a man you are expected to make the move. If you talk to a girl for a long time and never ask her out....what is she supposed to think other than you don't like her? And if you go out with a girl a few times, how is she supposed to know you like her if you never even try to kiss her? She may very well think you friendzoned her! Attraction does have an expiration date! So in short, if you like a girl, don't be afraid to let her know and make a move! --- |
| Topic | I'm gonna do it, I'm going to ask a girl to hang out with me. |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 12:39:12 AM #35 | PiOverlord posted... Sami1000 posted...PiOverlord posted...I just offered to watch a movie with her and others, but once she said no, it was like, why bother. She later said she stopped by, but no one was there, so I just lied and said it was getting a little late, so I decided not to watch a movie after all. K, go ahead and ignore my offer to help you properly analyze your situation as a pick up artist (like ryan gosling in crazy stupid love). I'll go ahead and offer you unsolicited feedback. What you are doing is displaying victim mentality, where you don't actually believe in yourself and you don't expect things to work out, so you lead it in a way where it isn't going to work out and when it doesn't work out, you can blame it on your "sad conditions", such as being a "filler guy". It's a perpetually self fueled circled of hate where you just project your fears and insecurities onto others. Based off what you said you didn't even really ask her out, but instead pretended it was some sort of group thing (terrible idea). So not only was it not a date, you are projecting your views of yourself onto her. If I were her, I definitely would not be attracted to you. You could body swap with a guy that's 10/10 and you still wouldn't get laid if you acted like this. You also display a lot of the "results orient" behavior I discuss in this topic: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/76224856 --- |
| Topic | I'm gonna do it, I'm going to ask a girl to hang out with me. |
| No_U_L7 01/22/18 12:27:14 AM #32 | PiOverlord posted... no, it was like, why bother. She later said she stopped by, but no one was there, so I just lied and said it was getting a little late, so I decided not to watch a movie after all. no, tell me exactly how the conversation went word for word (you can censor names/locations) and I will give you my expert advice. --- |
| Topic | Remember when Nightwing and Harley Quinn fucked |
| No_U_L7 01/21/18 9:14:14 PM #12 | uhhh i'm pretty sure that's rape....he's tied up and says he doesn't want to, she covers up his mouth and says "yes you do" and then jumps him.... --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:49:52 PM #4 | Kaname_Madoka posted... hmm I'm not sure if this is good advice but it did inspire me. trust me, it is. youre welcome --- |
| Topic | i've asked out all of the following girls |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:49:17 PM #11 | masticatingman posted... Riskiest one to me would be the dentist in case she had some bad reaction, but it would depend on how you asked I guess. All the others are just kinda funny. Im sure nurses and flight attendants get asked out on the job all the time. that's why risky is in quotation marks --- |
| Topic | the problem a lot of guys have with girls is they are too results oriented |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:09:23 PM #1 | instead of process oriented the fear of "rejection" makes it so that they would rather not even try and therefore not take the "rejection" than try and get "rejected". now every time i tell a story about a girl and i don't sleep with her most guys think it's "pointless". as long as my process is always right or headed in the right direction i would always rather at least try and have a chance than to have 0 chance but not get "rejected". I put "rejection" in quotations because i don't believe that it is an actual thing, most girls that "reject" you don't actually know you, so they aren't actually "rejecting" you for you. If a girl spends time talking to me, the vast majority of the time she will like me and i know this, whether the girl "rejects" me or not. and even if she does "reject you", not everyone is meant to get along, if you are yourself you'll be happier in the long term surrounded by people that you actually do get along with. --- |
| Topic | i've asked out all of the following girls |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:04:20 PM #7 | UncleBourbon33 posted... Were they hot? in "riskier" situations like this, the girls would have to be at least, let's say an 8 for me to open in order for the payoff to be worth the risk --- |
| Topic | i've asked out all of the following girls |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:01:21 PM #3 | LordFarquad1312 posted... Any positives? who can remember, i've been doing this for 7+ years. probably half numbers, maybe a few dates maybe slept with a couple of them idk --- |
| Topic | i've asked out all of the following girls |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 9:59:00 PM #1 | an on duty police officer a dental receptionist while i was in the waiting room the dentist while she was doing my teeth (yes, same office as above) a nurse while she was cleaning out my ears a high school girl at the restaurant across from her school (didn't realize she was in hs and she was 18) a flight attendant while she was serving me a job recruiter who was trying to get me to apply to her office a cashier while i was checking out a bartender while she was serving me a girl at the gym while she was on the treadmill --- |
| Topic | i buy $400 blazers, $500 shoes and $1000 watches |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:11:08 AM #7 | The Trent posted... i value my shit considerably less than you do, apparently meh i've got the money to spend, and it's a hobby...might as well Anony1125 posted... Do you ever actually post normally? Just seems like it would be exhausting to be like this all the time. what do you mean post normally...i'm just posting about my life. i obviously just live a much different (imo better) lifestyle than the rest of you guys. --- |
| Topic | i buy $400 blazers, $500 shoes and $1000 watches |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 10:07:17 AM #1 | imo it's ok to buy expensive things as long as you know what you're paying for and why it costs that much --- |
| Topic | Just found out I broke my golden rule and sent a drunk text. |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 3:25:28 AM #12 | Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted... DocileOrangeCup posted...wow @Cornmuffins the prophecy has come true i live in the same area too! --- |
| Topic | me: are you clairvoyant? girl: no, my name is jennifer lucas |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 1:09:22 AM #4 | C_Pain posted... MMMMMMMMMMM funny joke she wasn't joking... --- |
| Topic | me: are you clairvoyant? girl: no, my name is jennifer lucas |
| No_U_L7 01/20/18 1:04:13 AM #1 | ughhhh girls are so stupid --- |
| Topic | idgi, why do people unfriend me on facebook? |
| No_U_L7 01/19/18 7:44:29 AM #3 | armandro posted... Do you even care? no, i'm just puzzled why people do it --- |
| Topic | idgi, why do people unfriend me on facebook? |
| No_U_L7 01/19/18 7:42:23 AM #1 | like people i was good friends with in college but then grew apart and i haven't talked to them in years and i don't post anything on there... --- |
| Topic | things i have in common with trump |
| No_U_L7 01/18/18 11:29:30 PM #1 | had sex with a porn star --- |
| Topic | 919 girl: would you like to donate to charity? me: sorry i don't have cash |
| No_U_L7 01/18/18 8:08:19 PM #1 | 919 girl: it's ok, we accept credit card! *whips out ipad with card reader* Me: *fuck i should have just been honest, but there's no turning back now* Me: *swipes card and donates 50 cents Me: tries to flirt with 919 919 girl: *looks at my donation and then looks at me trying to flirt with her 919 girl: massive eyeroll --- |
| Topic | i spend $50.55 on haircuts a month, or $607 a year |
| No_U_L7 01/15/18 5:33:15 AM #7 | pegusus123456 posted... No_U_L7 posted...pegusus123456 posted...Let's hope your stylist puts that money towards rehab. basing this off yourself i see... --- |
| Topic | i spend $50.55 on haircuts a month, or $607 a year |
| No_U_L7 01/15/18 5:29:54 AM #5 | pegusus123456 posted... Let's hope your stylist puts that money towards rehab. why would my stylist be in rehab... --- |
| Topic | i spend $50.55 on haircuts a month, or $607 a year |
| No_U_L7 01/15/18 5:20:35 AM #2 | |
| Topic | i spend $50.55 on haircuts a month, or $607 a year |
| No_U_L7 01/15/18 4:44:18 AM #1 | My hairstylist (not barber, not great clips, hair stylist....there is a distinct difference). Just raised her prices to $30 a haircut, factor in tip and that's $35 every 3 weeks. After my haircut, I look male model good for a week (girls actually stop me in the streets to talk to me, it's surprising), ok for a week and then bad for a week. Wish I could cut it down to every 2 weeks but I can't afford that. --- |
| Topic | Are there any shows that deal with an upcoming end of the world? |
| No_U_L7 01/14/18 4:12:22 PM #3 | seeking a friend for the end of the world? haven't actually seen it --- |
| Topic | nocturnal animals has the most horrifying opening sequence ive ever seen in a |
| No_U_L7 01/13/18 10:59:05 PM #1 | movie --- |
| Topic | ugh was watching a movie with a sex scene and then the mailman came |
| No_U_L7 01/11/18 8:24:12 PM #1 | i paused it to sign for the package without realizing i had paused it on a pretty compromising frame. that explains the dirty look she gave me..she probably thought i was watching porn --- |
| Topic | as a prank, this girl i had a crush on in middle school would talk dirty to me |
| No_U_L7 01/11/18 5:54:19 PM #9 | i was too young to know any better but to sit and take it =( --- |
| Topic | as a prank, this girl i had a crush on in middle school would talk dirty to me |
| No_U_L7 01/11/18 5:00:10 AM #1 | she would just randomly come by, lean in and whisper naughty things in my ear about how badly she wanted me inside her, etc. the worst was when i was sat next to her in english class and she would just talk dirty to me the whole class i didn't even learn anything. kids can be so cruel =( --- |
| Topic | this girl just flaked on me because her early date is running long |
| No_U_L7 01/10/18 8:13:12 PM #1 | |
| Topic | Sticking your dick in a new V for the first time |
| No_U_L7 01/09/18 4:12:43 PM #6 | most guys don't feel like they can get new V so they go with the safe option --- |
| Topic | is it true that if you call the cops and you say there's an officer down they'll |
| No_U_L7 01/07/18 6:46:57 PM #1 | come faster? Even though you're lying. i saw it in a veronica mars movie --- |
| Topic | my friend says it's weird i go to college campuses to pick up girls |
| No_U_L7 01/06/18 7:07:51 PM #3 | |
| Topic | my friend says it's weird i go to college campuses to pick up girls |
| No_U_L7 01/06/18 9:52:40 AM #1 | when i don't attend these colleges. what can i say, i love 18-22 year olds --- |
| Topic | this girl got mad that i wouldn't do her in the butt and now wouldn't talk to me |
| No_U_L7 01/05/18 7:51:19 PM #1 | what should i do? it's just kinda gross to me and doesn't feel very good --- |
| Topic | saw this girl i've been trying to get out on a date out on a date while |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 10:05:12 PM #11 | TheDarkCircle posted... What did you order from the thai restaurant? idgaf about your love life, I'm interested in the food No_U_L7 posted... LittleRoyal posted...No_U_L7 posted...TheVipaGTS posted...what did you pick up? --- |
| Topic | saw this girl i've been trying to get out on a date out on a date while |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 10:04:48 PM #10 | SageHarpuia posted... 0AbsoluteZero0 posted...TheVipaGTS posted...what did you pick up? =( i have a tough time with half asian/half white girls...they tend to not be that into asian guys --- |
| Topic | saw this girl i've been trying to get out on a date out on a date while |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 9:59:39 PM #7 | LittleRoyal posted... No_U_L7 posted...TheVipaGTS posted...what did you pick up? yeah pouring rain tmrw so i picked up some pad see ew with seafood for tonight and some curry yellow chicken for tmrw --- |
| Topic | saw this girl i've been trying to get out on a date out on a date while |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 9:48:04 PM #5 | TheVipaGTS posted... what did you pick up? thai food --- |
| Topic | saw this girl i've been trying to get out on a date out on a date while |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 9:43:24 PM #1 | going to pick up 2 days worth of take out so i wouldn't have to go outside tomorrow. at least i showered and shaved today... --- |
| Topic | my aunt keeps giving me starbucks gift cards...but i don't drink coffee |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 8:05:05 PM #1 | and don't ever visit coffee shops, preferring to make my own tea from home. she's been doing this for about 10 years now...is it too late to politely tell her that i hate starbucks? --- |
| Topic | why is it allowed for men to be buck naked in the men's locker room? |
| No_U_L7 01/04/18 11:02:37 AM #1 | i don't want to be subjected to other men's wangs and bare butts --- |
| Topic | this girl kissed me right after i finished in her mouth |
| No_U_L7 01/02/18 2:20:23 AM #1 | ugh, that's where i draw the line...anytime before finishing p to m is ok, but after...ugh --- |
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