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Topic | my oldest brother said i should apply for his job. so i guess i'm going to. |
_AdjI_ 12/25/18 12:19:28 AM #6 | Kyuubi4269 posted... Jen0125 posted...i guess he makes sure companies that buy licenses from his company are compliant with the EULA so they don't get in any legal issues. Even if they aren't, it's a whole lot cheaper to hire somebody to double-check that they're compliant before they sign it than to pay a lawyer to prove that they aren't in court after it's been signed. As much as possible, companies prefer to avoid legal trouble, even if they're likely to win. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/25/18 12:11:10 AM #32 | RoboXgp89 posted... everyone who got invaded by russia is?was a nazi You can indeed make an argument against demonizing the Nazi soldiers in WWII. They were just fighting in a war they played no part in starting, and which they had to fight in in order to survive. The ones that actually carried out the genocide, not so much. They were unambiguously doing something terrible, and can only possibly defend their actions by claiming duress (where applicable). It's that latter group that's typically associated with the Nazis when people refer to them retrospectively, hence the unilateral disdain from all the non-awful people. In the modern day, however, there are no Nazi soldiers caught up in their country's warmongering. Neo-Nazis are people who look back on everything we now know about the big picture of WWII and feel that Hitler was the good guy there. There's no confusion involved in designating those Nazis as bad people. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/25/18 12:00:43 AM #31 | Kyuubi4269 posted... If only Nazis are nazis, then the average nazi is pretty bad. If you include everything down to a fat scot doing dog tricks as a nazi, the average nazi is an eyerolling nuisance. But why would you include non-Nazis in your assessment of the term "Nazi"? That means you're just doing exactly the same thing you're criticizing them of. The intelligent, non-Nazi-accepting response would be "yes, Nazis do suck. Good thing the guy you're complaining about isn't Nazi-like at all." Saying "nah, Nazis are okay" is just saying that Nazis are okay. Kyuubi4269 posted... It does though, what with it identifying beliefs. If the motivation is explicitly stated beforehand, maybe, but otherwise painting swastikas very clearly associates you with Nazis and their hatred. That's one of the strongest symbolic associations in today's world. Kyuubi4269 posted... This also applies to transgenders, double standard much? In that somebody who doesn't wanted to be identified as a male shouldn't actively present themselves in masculine ways? Duh. That's not much of a double standard. Kyuubi4269 posted... Your bile is what makes it funny, stop being unpleasant and it won't be funny to wind you up. Anyone who finds it funny to terrorize people with hate crimes is a piece of shit and should be treated accordingly until such a time as they clue in to what they've done and stop doing it forever. There are no exceptions to this. |
Topic | Did you do any last minute christmas shopping? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 11:50:21 PM #8 | I did some yesterday, as well as baking presents for two people. I meant to do it the day before, but much of that day was spent cleaning up a basement flood caused by a sewer backup. It was a good day. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 11:30:10 PM #26 | Kyuubi4269 posted... _AdjI_ posted...DrCidd posted...Just replace the word Nazis with something like jews, black people or sjws and the sign its self would cause outrage. That's idiotic. Nazis are still bad, and the label being misused doesn't change that. Zeus posted... lolwut? No. A troll vandalizing a poster has no comparable value with actual Nazis. And no, not even the neo portion here is necessarily applicable because you don't know if it was being done on the basis of racial hatred or just to provoke a negative reaction. Painting a swastika on a hannukah poster identifies you with Nazis. Your motivations don't change that identification. Anyone who doesn't want to be associated with Nazis shouldn't paint swastikas on hannukah posters, and anyone who thinks they're being funny by doing so deserves every bit of hate they get for being so clueless. |
Topic | A new gimmick account is making the rounds. |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:54:36 PM #12 | SunWuKung420 posted... _AdjI_ posted...A warning or heads up serves literally no purpose. What a weird topic. ... Really? Really? ... Really? |
Topic | Lol, "Baby It's Cold Outside" is all throughout Elf. |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:53:39 PM #13 | Radio stations removing it is definitely excessive (if nothing else, far, far worse stuff gets through unquestioned), but the whole controversy surrounding it is completely understandable. Taken with anything less than the complete context (including the time period and the predefined relationship of the song's characters), the song does not depict a healthy, consensual relationship, and it's worth taking a step back to recognize the full context that's needed for it to become just flirtatious fun. In a world where inappropriately-presumed consent is a major social issue, it's only natural that such a song would breed controversy. |
Topic | A new gimmick account is making the rounds. |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:45:14 PM #9 | Mead posted... Why did this need to be a topic I'm wondering the same thing. Those who care will notice. Those who don't notice don't care. Those who see the account without being warned will be - at the very worst - unamused by it. A warning or heads up serves literally no purpose. What a weird topic. |
Topic | lol, CBC news caught lying |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:40:20 PM #6 | I'd guess they had the stats for all of North America (or possibly even the world) and just misquoted them, but that's still a pretty significant screw-up. Silly CBC. The overall sentiment is pretty reasonable, but providing such ridiculously wrong numbers is just going to keep people from taking it seriously. SunWuKung420 posted... Do they think all the unused wrapping paper is thrown away? The assumption may be that a year's purchasing is equal to a year's consumption if averaged out over a long enough period and enough different people, which isn't a bad idea, but in practice people hoard enough unused paper for many years that the time frame for that data may be too short. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:29:25 PM #22 | DrCidd posted... Just replace the word Nazis with something like jews, black people or sjws and the sign its self would cause outrage. That's pretty reasonable. Being jewish, black, or an SJW isn't inherently a bad thing. Being a Nazi is. When did we start forgetting that Nazis are bad people? |
Topic | rate my son's christmas haul 2018 edition |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 10:23:38 PM #29 | That amiibo is too big. |
Topic | Why does every food place want you to use the app? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 3:43:18 PM #20 | dragon504 posted... Data collection most likely. That and advertising. Seeing the icon for that establishment every time you open your phone makes it more likely you'll think of them when you're considering ordering food. LinkPizza posted... That would make sense. I could see that. But then why not have all options? With any UI, there's a tradeoff between usability and versatility. Put too many options on there, and it takes people too long to find/reach what they want and they stop using it. Put too few, and it fails to meet the needs of many customers, so they stop using it. Presumably, they considered that balance in deciding just how much to put on. There is also the issue of regional variation in what's available (which may or may not be relevant to your experience), which is harder to code into what tends to be a pretty barebones app. LinkPizza posted... Couldnt they still get that from sales at the store. Like most food places I worked, or know of, seem to use computer touch screen for ordering. It could easily send the daily sales to someone. The apps offer them more than just sales data. Detecting your location when you place the order, for example, can be valuable for determining where to open a new location. Internet search histories can be used for advertising purposes (both to personally target ads and to collect demographic data for broader ad campaigns). If the app has a search function, people searching for discontinued or not-yet-offered items can be a way of gauging demand for them that you won't otherwise get without actually talking to front-line workers (and no executive wants to do that). In the absence of a search function, you can still get data on demand for discontinued items by seeing if there's an uptick in people opening the app but not placing an order after discontinuing them (presumably, because they were looking for the discontinued item and gave up on going there when they couldn't find it). Even without immediate, obvious uses for the data, though, the whole philosophy behind the Big Data craze is "collect it now, figure out how to use it later." Corporations are willing to invest quite heavily in data collection for the chance they could find something lucrative, and that investment often pays off. In this case, the apps are pretty easy to develop and also offer enticing convenience for customers, so the investment isn't much of a gamble (plus their competitors are probably also offering that convenience and they don't want to get left behind). |
Topic | A game isn't an RPG unless it has party management. |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 3:11:59 PM #23 | mooreandrew58 posted... I've always hated using it that loosely. If you use it that loosely it serves no purpose existing as a term outside table top games. Because in video games that covers the vast majority. That's why I generally don't care for calling RPG a genre of its own. Instead, describing games as being another genre with varying degrees of RPG elements (such as leveling up, character customization, stat management, party management, the ability to influence the story and the world...) seems to make a lot more sense, especially where those RPG elements have bled into so many different genres. |
Topic | "loli hentai" is always joked about, but isn't just drawn child porn? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 2:25:34 PM #30 | Kyuubi4269 posted... Think of it this way: That's actually a pretty good analogy. I like it. Oops_All_Berrys posted... I mean you have to spend years studying anatomy and understanding the human body, how do you get good at drawing children without references? For more lifelike drawings, maybe, but hentai (and the manga/anime style in general) tends to be pretty heavily stylized, such that you can get away with anything that isn't obviously impossible (and quite a lot that is, if we're being honest). Provided you've got the basic proportions right (which are easy enough to figure out without needing naked kids), that should be enough. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 1:46:23 AM #13 | SKARDAVNELNATE posted... Are F*** Nazis anything like Grammar Nazis? Roaming the dorms, pedantically criticizing any suboptimal sex habits they find. |
Topic | SJW Girl is OUTRAGED she has to REMOVE her F*** NAZI'S Sign!! Is She Hot??? |
_AdjI_ 12/24/18 1:17:56 AM #10 | Zeus posted... That said, "Nazis" doesn't mean Nazis anyway, it's just an insult used against anybody they disagree with so f*** her. I'm pretty sure "Nazi" is an appropriate and accurate label for somebody who spray-paints a swastika over a "Happy Hannukah" sign, and not just being used as a blanket term for people she disagrees with. Well, unless you're just being really anal about people treating the "neo-" as being implicit when the context strongly supports that assumption, which wouldn't surprise me because you seem to have trouble with that concept. |
Topic | Why do consumers accept influencer marketing? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 5:44:34 PM #12 | ParanoidObsessive posted... StoneRevolver posted...The insult that people are sheep is cliche for a reason. Because it's true. https://xkcd.com/610/ |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 12:15:19 PM #78 | Kyuubi4269 posted... It's not to do with feeling good, you do the correct thing because it's correct, it's an intellectual decision sacrificing your current interest to serve the intellectual priority. And where do you think the personal assessment of the value of that "correct thing" comes from? Kyuubi4269 posted... Let me know when you prove that cocaine directly triggers motor nerves and intelligently directs you to more drugs outside of your control. You've never done anything with your motor neurons that didn't yield a dopamine release at some point down the line. The reward circuit is where all motivation comes from. Depressing it such that higher doses of drugs are the only thing that can trigger it means that drugs are the only thing there's going to be any motivation for. Kyuubi4269 posted... Nah, from the morphine doing nothing and the hospital not upping the dosage further as they determined I was resistant. That's an opiate resistance, not a resistance to addiction. Those are two very different things, even if it does make it significantly more likely that you won't abuse and become addicted to opiates (since they don't do anything for you). Kyuubi4269 posted... To be fair, these are the same people that changed a mental illness in to a physical one to appease public opinion Because it's generally treated physically instead of mentally, perhaps? That just plain makes sense. DrCidd posted... Says the guy who wants to shut me down because he doesn't like my opinion. If you actually read what he's saying, it's less because he doesn't like your opinion, and more because you're being very stubbornly ignorant and refusing to accept that you're wrong in the face of ample solid counterarguments. Most people with self-awareness accept that that's a good reason to stop talking. |
Topic | I don't think I've had a soda since November |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 9:49:04 AM #8 | Mead posted... Your body needs soda to carbonate the blood The blood carbonates itself, actually. Carbonic acid/bicarbonate is one of the blood's pH buffering systems, as well as being the means by which carbon dioxide is transported. |
Topic | help me with a metaphor, what's sharper than samurai sword? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 9:38:48 AM #40 | rogerskg1979 posted... Impavid54 posted...A sword is still far more useful than something like a pocket knife Probably serious, but also 17. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 9:05:45 AM #60 | Kyuubi4269 posted... By having a f***ing life. Having a life re-sensitizes your dopamine receptors? Have you suggested this theory to the medical community? Because they kind of struggle with curing addictions, and if it's actually that simple, you could save them a whole lot of hard work. Well, that or you'd be laughed out of the room for saying something that so completely misunderstands the situation, but hey, it's worth a shot, right? Kyuubi4269 posted... Develop shame, motivation outside of self-satisfaction. Make your life harder for yourself than withdrawal from addiction does. You really aren't understanding this. The drive for literally everything you do and any sense of satisfaction you receive from doing it come from the reward circuits in your brain. Literally everything. That "willpower" you're so proud of? Reward circuits, making you feel good for overcoming something unpleasant. Developing shame? Consciously acknowledging that your reward circuits are lying to you about one thing being good, and your reward circuits making you feel good about accomplishing that. Drugs (at least the harder ones) interact with reward circuits. That's how they provide their enjoyable effects. When that use progresses to addiction, it's because that interaction has damaged those circuits' ability to respond to normal stimuli. The neurological process of motivation (which doesn't exist outside of that neurological process) stops working right when that happens. It's not simply a matter of overcoming unpleasant withdrawal symptoms, like you seem to think it is. It's developing motivation using a brain that's lost the ability to develop motivation, which anyone who understands neurochemistry recognizes is extremely difficult Note: Nicotine (the example upon which you seem to be basing your entire view on the matter) is not a harder drug, and it's not as addictive as something like cocaine (which literally takes the place of dopamine in the brain). Quitting smoking is largely a matter of breaking a habit and having the willpower to overcome withdrawal symptoms that largely amount to a couple of stressful weeks. Quitting smoking should not be considered representative of overcoming addiction to other drugs. Kyuubi4269 posted... There's no study that proves that addiction makes you lose physical control of your body and forcibly re-use. What do you think controls your body? Kyuubi4269 posted... I use my own experience as I don't feel the need to cite studies proving common knowledge. Your experience has an N of 1 and several confounding factors that you've openly admitted to, meaning it's completely meaningless and cannot be generalized. Kyuubi4269 posted... A drug baby can stop whenever its parents stop supplying, their personal addiction isn't even relevant. You heard it here, folks: You can just force a crack baby to quit cold turkey, because who doesn't like neonatal seizures MIRITE? |
Topic | is it true married guys are more desirable than single guys? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 12:31:10 AM #15 | Kyuubi4269 posted... Violet_Blooded posted...True.. Provided the guy in question isn't morbidly obese and about to drop dead from a heart attack, that doesn't really dictate much about success in today's world. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 12:26:43 AM #52 | DrCidd posted... There's a thing called free speech and I'll continue to exercise it. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. |
Topic | Unpopular opinion: the world would be a more professional and better place if... |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 12:25:20 AM #86 | Zeus posted... Meaning it's harder to get fired than flunk out? Vice versa. That was an awkward sentence to word; I'm not surprised it didn't come out right. Zeus posted... ...lolwut? A lot of employers DO ask for and look at GPAs for recent grads. It's only when somebody has been in the workforce for years that it stops being a thing or, at least, becomes a less frequent occurrence although it *still* happens. Hell, when my brother was looking for another job in sales, one of the listings wanted 5+ years of sales experience AND asked for both a high school and college GPA. It's not something I've seen much of. Citing Dean's List or similar accomplishments on your resume can be a boon, if you've got it, but specific GPA? Not so much. The fact that the listing your brother was looking at wanted his high school GPA is pretty ridiculous, given that after four years of college and 5+ years of experience, that was a decade ago and therefore far too old to be reflective of anything. Zeus posted... That's more freshman s*** with word counts. Most of undergrad, really. Even without explicit word counts, academic writing in general puts more emphasis on elaboration than is appropriate in other modes of communication. That's all well and good for academic writing, since that's its purpose, but calling that practice for communicating professionally (where brevity is much more valued) is a bit of a stretch. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/23/18 12:13:47 AM #48 | DrCidd posted... Do you even know why they started calling it a disease in the first place? Because it's consistent with the commonly-accepted definition for the term? That definition hasn't been spun at all to make it better encompass addiction; that's simply the definition for "disease." DrCidd posted... It's because they realized that making people feel guilty contributed to addiction. Not making people feel guilty for their problems is a nice bonus of acknowledging that the definition fits, yes. It's always fun when things work out like that. DrCidd posted... So when you put them in the mindset of "It's not my fault, I have a disease" instead of "I'm a piece of s***" it removes the responsibility from the person. It's not because it's actually a disease. Why should the definition of "disease" care about responsibility? Diseases are problems, and the victim and those around them benefit if those problems can be fixed. I'd much rather focus on solving problems than assigning blame. That seems more productive to me. DrCidd posted... Looking for sources right now, but there was a study done in vermont where they paid people who had a long history of chronic addiction $500 a week if they could pass a drug test every day. I'm pretty sure this study lasted for a year. And they had a near 100% success rate. That goes back to what I was saying earlier about motivation. A strong, concrete motivator can end up providing enough dopamine to overcome the tolerance the addict has built up, offering them satisfaction without needing the drugs. That can be money, that can be an ultimatum from loved ones, that can be any number of things, it just has to offer a dopamine hit that's comparable in strength and predictability to the drug of choice. That's just simple neurochemistry. That's also true of more than just addicts. You could improve prognoses for a number of serious conditions by offering definite financial rewards for meeting certain progress milestones. It won't necessarily be as reliable, given that there'll be more than just neurochemistry involved in the disorder, but extra motivation to recover helps more than you might think, especially for any sort of physical rehab. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 11:48:24 PM #44 | OhhhJa posted... People like you wanna write two paragraphs about this song that's not about rape and then ignore all the rap that's rapey because it's okay because a white guy didn't write it _AdjI_ posted... Does that mean the song should be banned? No. If nothing else, there are far worse songs out there that nobody thinks twice about. I'm not about to repeat myself if I have no reason to. Metalsonic66 posted... I thought the controversial line was "Say, what's in this drink?" In the modern world, that immediately conjures up the image of roofies, but that one is more easily explained away as an old colloquialism (used to suggest that their current behaviour should be blamed on the alcohol rather than seen as reflective of them). The various forms of "no," not so much. The "no means yes here" explanation, while not necessarily inaccurate, is still concerning because that exact attitude is frequently employed in pushing people into sex. I've joked for a few years now that revising the song to reflect a modern understanding of consent would go roughly as follows: -"I really can't stay" -"Oh, that's too bad. Would you like to do this again some time?" END OF SONG That's more than a bit facetious, obviously, but it's not entirely wrong, either. Does that make the real thing a bad song? Not at all. It's still good fun. It's just important to recognize that it's not a good idea to romanticize that relationship because that's no longer considered respectful, consensual behaviour. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 11:45:22 PM #39 | Kyuubi4269 posted... Addiction doesn't remove responsibility, you can stop at any time and failure to do so means you are a failure. And how do you propose stopping when the only thing that provides any sense of fulfillment is another hit? It's easy to talk about willpower if you ignore that willpower is just a matter of neurochemistry, neurochemistry which is very seriously thrown out of whack by addiction. If you don't respond to natural dopamine, you don't have the ability to be motivated. Kyuubi4269 posted... My only experience is my dad on a 60 a day habit who quit cold turkey the day he couldn't smoke inside. Literally quit out of convenience, so I have a hard time taking addicts seriously. Remember that other topic where you were trying to assert that the sample size for pro-trans bathroom policies was too small to conclude that they didn't increase sexual assault rates? And then you waltz into this topic and base your entire suite of beliefs on the matter off of n=1? Something which you admit immediately after saying that you yourself are particularly resistant to addictions, thereby acknowledging that there is some degree of variance which likely played a role in that single subject who just so happens to share half of your genome? I'm amazed you don't feel more cognitive dissonance than you do. You're so terribly inconsistent. DrCidd posted... _AdjI_ posted...And those who were prescribed a reasonable dose of opioids because they were the best option for them and subsequently developed an addiction to them? Do you not believe that people can develop opioid addictions without exceeding a reasonable dose (prior to the onset of the addiction)? Or do you believe that people should refuse any sort of medication or treatment that carries any possibility of addiction, regardless of whether or not it's the only possible treatment for what's ailing them? DrCidd posted... That doesn't mean my addiction is a disease. _AdjI_ posted... 1. a disordered or incorrectly functioning organ, part, structure, or system of the body resulting from the effect of genetic or developmental errors, infection, poisons, nutritional deficiency or imbalance, toxicity, or unfavorable environmental factors; illness; sickness; ailment. Dictionary.com disagrees. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 10:41:33 PM #23 | DrCidd posted... You can't become a drug addict unless you choose abuse drugs. Nobody ever became a drug addict because their genetics decided so, or because an opioid molecule was floating through the air. And those who were prescribed a reasonable dose of opioids because they were the best option for them and subsequently developed an addiction to them? |
Topic | help me with a metaphor, what's sharper than samurai sword? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 8:45:32 PM #38 | Impavid54 posted... it's not supposed to be literal No, but it does have to bear some similarity to be a plausible analogy. |
Topic | is it true married guys are more desirable than single guys? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 8:32:57 PM #8 | Joelypoely posted... Yes, preselection. Pretty much. Somebody else has already deemed them worthwhile, which takes some of the gamble out of being interested. |
Topic | help me with a metaphor, what's sharper than samurai sword? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 8:28:33 PM #36 | Impavid54 posted... what do you mean? I mean exactly what I said. What's confusing you, the part where I explained how the sharpening process works, or the part where I suggested that personal growth and sharpening really aren't analogous in any way? I didn't even go into the fact that a pocket knife doesn't grow into a katana, meaning your "beautiful metaphor" was actually just a series of disjointed similes. I figured that'd confuse you. Impavid54 posted... A sword is still far more useful than something like a pocket knife Not for the vast majority of people it isn't. In today's world, swords are predominantly decorative, whereas pocket knives are pretty handy for actual functional tasks. |
Topic | Is addiction a disease? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 5:35:38 PM #4 | 1. a disordered or incorrectly functioning organ, part, structure, or system of the body resulting from the effect of genetic or developmental errors, infection, poisons, nutritional deficiency or imbalance, toxicity, or unfavorable environmental factors; illness; sickness; ailment. 1 and 3 both fit pretty well, so yes. |
Topic | help me with a metaphor, what's sharper than samurai sword? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 4:21:38 PM #31 | Can't tell if sarcasm... |
Topic | help me with a metaphor, what's sharper than samurai sword? |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 3:21:54 PM #25 | Impavid54 posted... shadowsword87 posted...What the hell sort of paper are you writing. That's not really a good metaphor. Blades are made sharper by taking material away, and the only way to preserve that sharpness is to never use it. Neither trait is particularly applicable to personal growth, which is generally additive and develops into further growth when it's applied. |
Topic | California will consider breaking up or taking over PG&E. |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 3:13:35 PM #6 | WastelandCowboy posted... minervo posted...I hope by this time next year those execs will be begging for change on San Francisco's busiest street corner. If they end up on the receiving end of lawsuits for the Camp Fire's damages, even that severance pay might not be enough. |
Topic | 26 y/o Blonde gets 6 YEARS Prison for having SEX with a 17 y/o Boy she ADOPTED! |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 10:43:40 AM #16 | Keebs05 posted... What exactly was the point of legally adopting him? If somebody else adopted him, he'd go live with them and it'd be less convenient to bang. |
Topic | Unpopular opinion: the world would be a more professional and better place if... |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 1:47:11 AM #82 | Zeus posted... Both have an effort requirement and a payoff. Just like nobody wants to get fired, nobody wants to get kicked out of school. And the threshold of work for getting fired tends to be higher than the threshold for flunking out. Again, there's also a considerable difference between deciding to work on your own time and deciding to work on somebody else's time. As has been said multiple times in this thread: If GPA had any predictive value for job performance, employers would ask for it. They don't, so it doesn't. You can try to make a logical connection between the two all you want, but at the end of the day, the results tell you what the reality of the matter is, and no amount of attempted reasoning is going to change that. Zeus posted... Now you're just pigeonholing. Not really. Academic writing is very different from other forms of communication. If nothing else, you don't have word counts to meet in other media. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/22/18 1:37:38 AM #32 | TentacleDemon posted... Not really. The intent of the person who wrote it is what matters. It was their song, their vision, their story. They decide what it actually means. Any other modern interpretation or twisting of it's meaning is irrelevant. And that's why this dialog is important: Because it needs to be contextualized and not just taken at face value in a very different world. It's no longer okay to hear "no" and mentally append "change my mind" to it, so the way the song romanticizes that approach to consent is very much worth criticizing and analyzing through a modern lens. It's important to make the distinction between its original context and the modern world. Also, the whole "author's opinion is the only thing that matters" attitude toward works of art is pretty questionable. There's often plenty of room for analysis and interpretation beyond what the author explicitly intended, especially with the benefit of hindsight into the historical context. That's a broader discussion than this topic, though, so I'll leave it at that. |
Topic | Did anyone end up playing Yooka-Laylee? |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 11:37:21 PM #9 | I picked it up in a humble bundle a few months back, but I haven't gotten around to playing it yet. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 9:18:24 PM #25 | Mead posted... Listen to the song the and you can tell the girl likes the guy and actually wants to stay That depends entirely on the performance. As the lyrics are written, it's completely possible to play it as her resistance being beaten down. It's also completely possible to play it as her being coy and playful. What you end up with is entirely a matter of how the performers choose to portray it. Generally, people performing it go for the fun, playful end of things, because that's a whole lot more enjoyable to listen to, but that doesn't mean it can't go the other way. Mead posted... People are really reaching by trying to turn it into something gross It's mostly that "'No' doesn't mean 'convince me'" is a pretty significant element of the push for a better understanding of consent, and one of the more nuanced ones that people struggle with. The song very much depicts her saying "no" as actually being "convince me," so it's pretty reasonable that people would take issue with it being unquestioningly included in popular culture, even if more nuanced analysis reveals that this specific case isn't necessarily an example of undue pressure. Again, I think deciding to never broadcast it again is a bit much, but having this dialog is only a good thing. |
Topic | if kanye west was an NPC in a video game |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 8:37:09 PM #2 | If Kanye West tried really hard, he'd be doing his Kanye Best. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 8:25:19 PM #21 | kangolcone posted... _AdjI_ posted...kangolcone posted...They are written as wolf and mouse because as everybody knows predators and prey is a consensual arrangement. Without exception, everything is somebody's fetish. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 8:16:19 PM #19 | kangolcone posted... They are written as wolf and mouse because as everybody knows predators and prey is a consensual arrangement. It can be, but that's an arrangement that requires previously-granted consent and a great deal of mutual trust, including a guaranteed way out if the need arises. |
Topic | If you don't think baby it's Cold outside is rapey then listen to it with the |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 8:05:14 PM #17 | Mead posted... Nothing about the song implies any sort of rape or non consensual vibes Eh, the song definitely has an overall theme of pressuring her into staying. Looking at it through a contemporary lens, one can describe it as the girl saying no because she isn't allowed to say yes even though she wants to, but regardless of that, the whole song is a matter of the guy not taking no for an answer. Does that mean the song should be banned? No. If nothing else, there are far worse songs out there that nobody thinks twice about. But in an era where sexual consent is a prominent social issue, it's absolutely worth having this discussion, and recognizing that "the answer is no" should be met with "okay have a good night," not "but baby it's cold outside." It's a fun, flirtatious song, but people need to be aware of the fact that it doesn't represent a healthy, consensual relationship in today's world. |
Topic | I eat fermented garlic & honey on a daily basis. |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 7:17:44 PM #12 | What are you doing that you need a non-topical antiseptic? |
Topic | The halo infinite board has one active poster and he's nuts |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 7:16:40 PM #5 | Smiffwilm posted... Surprised it wasn't pandamaster actually. Same. |
Topic | I eat fermented garlic & honey on a daily basis. |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 7:06:36 PM #10 | SunWuKung420 posted... Rum doesn't have the antiseptic and antimicrobial properties of hops Anything that's 40% ethanol has pretty significant antiseptic/antimicrobial properties. |
Topic | It took me only 11 days to run out of space on my WiiU |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 1:36:23 PM #6 | Ah, yep, that's the limitation. |
Topic | Trump signs bill where Americans MUST get JOBS to get FOOD STAMPS!!! |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 1:35:55 PM #41 | Oops_All_Berrys posted... _AdjI_ posted...papercup posted...In principle it's not a terrible idea. But in practice, it's going to be a disaster. You're not wrong, which is kind of sad. |
Topic | It took me only 11 days to run out of space on my WiiU |
_AdjI_ 12/21/18 1:26:31 PM #4 | As far as I know, the WiiU works with pretty much any external drive, but you may have to format it to be used exclusively with the WiiU. |
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